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Quote from: Fantastic33 on April 18, 2018, 08:19:57 AM

Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!

First of all is not just between a man and a woman.

People these days marry robots, men marry men, women marry women etc.

Marriage is about trust, friendship and of course love.

When the trust is gone, the marriage is over, IMHO.

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Marriage is legal binding between a man and woman who decided and committed to love each other for the rest of their life...it's a decision one does in spite the changing of season or feelings. Love is not just a feeling to love a person for as long as he/she like but leave when he/she no longer wants but rather it is a commitment, dedication and mutual decision between two person.

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Some said that through the course of your marriage, the sparks may go out,the sweet moments may wear out, all that will remain is friendship. Marriage is never a guarantee of a storm free life with our spouse, but rather a storm proof life. Storms and difficulties are constant in a relationship and should never be an excuse to leave each other. All the more we should love each other. Divorce should never be an option but rather rekindling feelings is.

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Marriage is something a holy thing that God has left for the human. There is a saying that marriages were made in heaven, when God has a plan for us we should not try to get out of the bonding. There can be obligations, misunderstanding, infidelity, lack of responsibility, etc. But, the core thing is to lead a life together which is a possible thing from my personal thoughts about marriage.

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Marriage is a union of two persons who loved each other and promise of lifetime. If a married couple came to a point where they aren't happy anymore and a divorce is the only way, I never believed in that. Love cannot be just diminished by time. It is lost somewhere but it will never be gone. If two people really love each other, they will always find a way to restore it. I think that talking with each other would be a great start for it. That's why Divorce is not an option take for two lovers who really love each other. Love is somewhere there, they should have to find it.

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These times when people were in marriage "just for marriage" have already passed. And nowadays there is no shame to get divorced or even being alone. And that's good, as if society pressure people they will just get problems as decision is made under pressure of norms, standarts. People, don't live according to standarts, do what you think with your own mind is needed to do.
And if to talk about fake marriage - that's not our business, people obviously have reasons

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Marriage has bindings with the law and religion. Now, it is important that if you proceed with getting married you will be liable to your bindings. Problem nowadays, everything is fast paced. For instance, you can shop without going to the mall and instantly get it at your doorstep. The current trend of easily getting what we want seems to reflect that whenever people in a relationship face even the smallest obstacles, they ought to not fix it and let the relationship break down. If we look back to our parents or grandparents time, they would really work hard to even just be in a relationship. Courtship was way harder, communication, buying gifts, etc.

Then again one of my closest friends asked me this.
"What if you are both not happy anymore. Should the Marriage continue?".
I said "Make it work".
He asks "What if someone is violent and ends up physically hurting the other?".

Then divorce might be the best solution for it. Nonetheless, one must choose carefully when getting married and not rush things.

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I think marriage is the constant understanding of each other in life and love, which requires mutual tolerance and spiritual communication. If it is because of the fissures caused by infidelity or irresponsibility, it is difficult to repair perhaps divorce is a good choice, but many of these are due to the lack of mutual concern and communication between the two sides, and I think marriage is like a business that needs to be managed well.

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Quote from: pawel7777 on April 18, 2018, 11:38:35 AM

Quote from: Kogs on April 18, 2018, 08:51:20 AM

If there is no more love in the relationship it's just stupid to stay together.

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That's a fair point, but with that mindset - marriage is not for you. Why would you get married and pledge your life-long commitment ("for good and bad... until death do us part") if all you really mean is "until I'm 100% satisfied".

The idea behind marriage is (was?) to start a family. The person you married becomes your closest family, and you don't abandon/replace your family even when things get rough, you work it through. Can you imagine anyone abandoning their child or mother because 'things weren't very great between us lately'?

But sadly, that only worked when divorces were rare and socially unacceptable. You simply had no other way but to make things work and fix your relationship. Currently, when things go bad, the first thought is "am I better off alone?" or "would I be happier with someone else?".

Relationship dynamics are a motherfucker. With loose social/religious norms it's hard to pull off a lifelong relationships, unless both parties got it figured out and know exactly what they want. That's why marriage rates are higher (and divorce rates lower) in the upper class, when people tend to be more intelligent.

In short: Don't get married if you're not ready to commit 100%.

you wrote everything right.I want to add.before you get married you need to evaluate objectively your second half. as she behaves in difficult situations as she prepares and most importantly, is there really LOVE?Love that you can't fake.which is in the heart.

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Quote from: Croco1234 on April 30, 2018, 09:25:35 AM

I believe that there is no perfect marriage, no perfect couple. which marriage has a sacred promise of both couple that for better or for worse for richer and for poorer til death they were part. both of them should adjust and accept their weaknesses. after all, before they get married, first the boy courted the girl without knowing all of that person. so if you accept all the changes of your married life, one should adjust and give their best to make that marriage life works.

Your statement doesn't make any sense. If a couple is not capable of living in peace, then they should separate. Else, it will only give rise to more and more troubles. But the most important thing to remember here is that they should think about it a hundred times before taking the decision to break-off.

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Quote from: Fantastic33 on April 18, 2018, 08:19:57 AM

Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!

I believe that there is no perfect marriage, no perfect couple. which marriage has a sacred promise of both couple that for better or for worse for richer and for poorer til death they were part. both of them should adjust and accept their weaknesses. after all, before they get married, first the boy courted the girl without knowing all of that person. so if you accept all the changes of your married life, one should adjust and give their best to make that marriage life works.

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Maybe it's cause my parents are divorced and both seem really happy, but I don't think you should stay married to someone who makes you miserable. There are marriages that suck just as a result of bad fit, nothing more, and those are the ones that should probably not continue anymore.

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In my opinion, Marriage for me is sacred a union between a man and a woman. According to the Bible," what God has put together , No man can put them apart" So my stand will be Pro marriage. I think before a person gets married he or she should think seventy seven times because I believe that "marriage is not a play thing or it is a serious matter that you can't back out easily. So if you truly love someone and if you get married see to it that you prove your love till the end. Be serious about it. If can't last your marriage a lifetime don't commit your self , don't get into a situation that you can't make it till the end. Your Yes should be Yes and promises should not be made to be broken. So before getting married think more than twice and be firm to your decision no matter what.

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Marriage truly is a sacred union. The two families get married through discussions. Who does not want happy bridal life? But that happiness does not match everyone's life. The life of many couples became poisoned on minor issues. Very unexpectedly, there were many different events happening one after another. The result of which is the divorce separation. The usual type of evidence that occurs before the wedding break is:
The quarrel between husband and wife lies in the quarrel.
Because of understanding is not right of between.
Love and tolerance are not right between husband and wife.

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Quote from: Fantastic33 on April 18, 2018, 08:19:57 AM

Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!

If I will be on that situation , I will still love her no matter what happen , I will never file a divorce , like you said on the first paragraph a man and woman who are deeply in love with each other , even the time come will there is no fire anymore.

The memories will serve as a fuel and little by little it will burn and suddenly the fire will become big again.

On the other hand , although we have the same perspective still we have a choice , but remember that you comit it , its your responisiblity.

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I think that in this case it is necessary to address to the family psychologist. I like the opinion of a friend of mine who thinks marriage is unnecessary. A man starts a family only for the continuation of the genus. You only need a wife to have a baby with you. But otherwise the man doesn't have to deny yourself the pleasure to have sex with others. This is a departure to the primitive system, if it were now, the problems would be less.

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Marriage truly is a sacred union. It is known in catholic church as a sacrament of holy matrimony. It is expected that before a man and a woman should come together as husband and wife, love, understanding, interest, tolerance, endurance and every other features that unites relationship and marriage are in existence between both of them. However, if along the line, these features that brings happiness and joy in marriage are lost, the marriage remains boring to both parties. As for me, when it matters on infidelity, my confidence and trust on my partner is no longer assured, then it becomes dangerous to cohabit. At this point if steps are not retraced back, divorce become the next option.

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Quote from: Fantastic33 on April 18, 2018, 08:19:57 AM

Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!

I know to some people happiness is what matters the most when it comes to marriage. However, if I were in such position, I would definitely consider fixing it or even consult a marriage counselor to save our marriage. Most of the times, a rocky marriage is due to a misunderstanding. We think that it's just our partners choice to cheat on us and be irresponsible, but we missed and forgot that we could also be the reason for their infidelity. It could definitely go back to the way it was if we learn how to open up to one another.

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First I would snap get a divorce because what is the point of being unhappy that is the dumbest thing anybody could do. Second I hope you had a pre-nup because if you didn't your ass is getting taken most likely in court. I also hope you didn't have a kid with this women because more likely than not, you will lose access to them to (for no good reason). If I were ever to get a marriage it would involve a pre-nup and I would maybe get a post-nup.

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I wonder why people do great marriage parties instead of doing fabulous divorce parties. Marriage is never as necessary as Divorce is, when divorce is necessary.

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