Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!
If the marriage is not working for both parties, I think it is a wise decision to file for a divorce. There are times that it will not just work for us no matter how hard we try. I still believe that if love is there, it can overcome any problem in a relationship. If a relationship is not working, maybe both parties lack effort. Just loving your partner is not enough in a relationship. It requires passion, commitment and a huge amount of effort to make your lives better. 
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Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!
For my opinion i rather stay though , its not just by commitment , its a promises you both made in the front of God , for sickness and health , and etc... its like a fire though , days by days and years by years the fire will decrease or should i say it can gone , but its a choice , both of you have a choice , do anything to spark it up.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Sometimes loving your partner is not enough to pull the marriage through till the end, try talking to your partner, look at how you got to that low point and try to fix things back, but if everything fails then find peace elsewhere. Marriage vows says "until death" but you're not gonna want to just sit there and wish to die quicker so you can get out of the marriage.
Obviously marriage is a lifetime commitment. But at the same time, there is no point in staying together if the couple feel that they are not compatible to each other. Going through a lengthy legal battle will only deepen the wounds and worsen the financial situation for both the parties.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Sometimes loving your partner is not enough to pull the marriage through till the end, try talking to your partner, look at how you got to that low point and try to fix things back, but if everything fails then find peace elsewhere. Marriage vows says "until death" but you're not gonna want to just sit there and wish to die quicker so you can get out of the marriage.
There are many incidents involving the separation of marriage, which is nothing new to say, marriage is a combination of men and women, giving some people the validity of having two men together. Marriage is a marriage, a marital life, a way of life, many people think that they have no marriage, they do not want to live with each other, they want to be separated, the separation is the separation of marriage.
Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!
First of all, marriage is not like a food that you will eat and if it is too hot that you can just spit right away. But if your marriage comes to a point that your partner is no longer happy with your marriage and started doing things like infidelity, or you're starting to hit each other or starting to neglect all the responsibilities that are assigned to him/her, in my opinion, that's the time to call it quits and file a divorce, not to mention if you already have kids, and they are seeing all the things that are happening around them, it is not good for them. This is my opinion and I am also looking forward to knowing what you think.
Marriage and divorce. Both will seem like good ideas at the time. Both will end up disappointing you.
Being married is the hardest thing that needs to be done in our life.
You might be the richest individual on the planet but despite that, you can't ensure yourself a good relationship. Money can't buy happiness but it can buy something that will make you happy. If the fire in our relationship do not work, what will I do next is based on what we have.
If we are only two, maybe married for two years and it is now not working I will really consider to plan a divorce but if we have kids, maybe two or three of them I think I will not plan to file a divorce since I will not be staying in that relationship because I love her but because I love my family, I love my children and I doing it just for them. I don't want my children to be affected by our divorce.
You might be the richest individual on the planet but despite that, you can't ensure yourself a good relationship. Money can't buy happiness but it can buy something that will make you happy. If the fire in our relationship do not work, what will I do next is based on what we have.
If we are only two, maybe married for two years and it is now not working I will really consider to plan a divorce but if we have kids, maybe two or three of them I think I will not plan to file a divorce since I will not be staying in that relationship because I love her but because I love my family, I love my children and I doing it just for them. I don't want my children to be affected by our divorce.
The main reason why marriage exist is because of great love of two people for each other. But I think that marriage is way beyond enjoying yourselves and "loving" all the time. Marriage is a responsibility especially if you have kids to take care of. But what if that love that is the foundation of all of these vanished? Or starting to fade away? Is it enough reason for you to get divorced? Personally, I don't think so. Because im the first place, I think that love don't just vanished. It won't be lost, it is just it is covered by another greater love. The key here is communication. Both parties must talk about their problems and how they feel. They must know what are their duties and responsibilities are as the parent in the household. If that doesn't work, try until it will. But not to the point yhat you physically hurt each other. Always go back to the reason why you married each other.
Oh! I am also married and I feel that i am not inlove my partner anymore but I'm still show to my partner that I am still care and love because we have a child and yes because of the commitment. Sometimes I want to quit especially the times that we're not in good terms . I feel pity to my self cause I feel I'm not free for what I want to do and I'm only fooling my self for doing a things that suppose to be don't. I think if I can afford a divorce I will file. So for me you need a divorce married without love is like a big shit! and if your partner did not do the responsibility it means there is no love anymore. So divorce is the solution for you to be both happy.
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Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other.
I believe the sacredness of marriage, but today it is just one of the most valuable treasure in the history forgotten by this new age. The traditional definition of marriage is something like chocking in a throat because of different reasons of each individual in this liberal world.
I really love the former way and if there is an ultimate way to restore it I will devote myself to participate.
i have seen many superstars being ruined by divorce and I have seen a lot of people that were made by marriages. All I will say is marriage is good but divorce is devastating. If you intend getting married make up your mind to make it work at all cost. Most divorce is caused by one neglect or the other. Consider every event between you and your spouse seriously. Make your marriage your priority. When it is working it is sweet. Sweeter than anything else you might want to pursue so make it work for if it ever crashes every party must bleed. As for those that are already in a bad marriage never give up hope. One thing I will tell you is forget your ego if you must restore it.
I think marriage is great. It's challenging at times, comes with a ton of added responsibilities and sacrifices, but I believe the end result is incredible if it is done properly and with selflessness. I've seen a lot of marriages fail, but the ones that succeed enrich the lives of many and serve as a model for providing a legacy of children and love that lasts long beyond the lives of the couple. The quality of a marriage is only great if both parties are willing to put aside their own desires at times for the betterment of their relationship and family, but once again, it's well worth it. For about divorce, it's something that people do to get out of a bad situation. I also think that it is something that is best done very carefully or the people involved may find themselves going from a bad situation to a worse one.
I would prefer to divorce in case my wife became irresponsible of her obligations. I want to live in comfortable conditions, I want to trust my family and build our happiness together.
Infidelity does not touch me much, I can not imagine how people may sleep together all life long, it seems to be boredom. I would rather prefer to establish some rules for our entertainments outsibe of the family; come back home at night, dont spend familys budget for lovers etc.
Infidelity does not touch me much, I can not imagine how people may sleep together all life long, it seems to be boredom. I would rather prefer to establish some rules for our entertainments outsibe of the family; come back home at night, dont spend familys budget for lovers etc.
Marriage is about also making a contract with your partner! To his half, your partner maybe lacking with something else but that's your role as the partner to fill what's missing. And when a time you feel something wrong ask your partner, if you need anything else ask your partner, don't make decision on your own! Consult your partner because it will make your bond, trust, love with each other become strong!!
Some divorce are cause by pride, jealousy and being greedy.... you want something from your partner but sometimes they can't give it to you and they try to look it into another person... they don't value the respect and capabilities of each other... sometime they compete with each other who achieved more but that is not marriage all about...
So before entering vows make sure you are ready to accept your partner's ugly side, the stupid , their incompetence, and what they are.
Malachi 2:16
Some divorce are cause by pride, jealousy and being greedy.... you want something from your partner but sometimes they can't give it to you and they try to look it into another person... they don't value the respect and capabilities of each other... sometime they compete with each other who achieved more but that is not marriage all about...
So before entering vows make sure you are ready to accept your partner's ugly side, the stupid , their incompetence, and what they are.
Malachi 2:16
Marriage is a sacred Union between couples where love and commitment is the number foundation for it to work. their is a fine thin line that separates loving from loathing also in marriage and divorce. Divorce in some country is not legal. Some divorce are caused of misunderstanding and mistrust through this it can create havoc in your marriage. You must listen to each other side so that you can clear what ever what ifs you have in your mind. So before we decide to marry we should accept what ever flaws our partners have.
Some monthes ago I found a good book "The 5 Love Languages" describing the essence of all problems in relationships.... Prime cause. Each of us knows it.. but so often forget 
... It's the small 2-4-hours-reading book will help to remind it, to understand WHAT ARE YOU DOING WRONG... and WHAT YOU SHOULD DO to be loved and give love on the right way.
When I read I found the real reason of my parents' divorce...OMG
It was so obvious. I shouted WHY?
Why didn't they do it??? Why didn't they know it??? Why do people continue make the same mistakes??
It reminded me my bad bahavior in relationship not only with man, but with each person in my life...How many things I made wrong
Now I exactly know what I should do to avoid it in future.
I recommend it everyone. Especially if you are in relationship and face problems of misunderstanding and love dissapearance.
http://youth-portal.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/the-5-love-languages-the-secret-to-love-that-lasts.pdf
Enjoy the reading. Good luck in your relationship work
... It's the small 2-4-hours-reading book will help to remind it, to understand WHAT ARE YOU DOING WRONG... and WHAT YOU SHOULD DO to be loved and give love on the right way.When I read I found the real reason of my parents' divorce...OMG
It was so obvious. I shouted WHY? Why didn't they do it??? Why didn't they know it??? Why do people continue make the same mistakes??It reminded me my bad bahavior in relationship not only with man, but with each person in my life...How many things I made wrong
Now I exactly know what I should do to avoid it in future.
I recommend it everyone. Especially if you are in relationship and face problems of misunderstanding and love dissapearance.
http://youth-portal.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/the-5-love-languages-the-secret-to-love-that-lasts.pdf
Enjoy the reading. Good luck in your relationship work
Love is not just a feeling, and it is a commitment. In the first place, why would you marry someone whom you're not sure of? Loving that person means you accept him/her for whoever he/she is, you've seen them through their most desperate times and of course, the best yet you still choose and want to be with them, come what may. If there comes a time that the spark is slowly fading, run back to your fondest memories, relive the moments, talk about it like you're best friends, it's worth a shot. If you really want to save your marriage because you LOVE him/her. But if you don't want it to work, then there's always another way out before you file your divorce. Give it a long thought. Feelings fade, problems come & go, and separation is a one-time signing. Stay for the right reasons, and if there are none, then why are you reading this thread?
Marriage is about also making a contract with your partner! To his half, your partner maybe lacking with something else but that's your role as the partner to fill what's missing. And when a time you feel something wrong ask your partner, if you need anything else ask your partner, don't make decision on your own! Consult your partner because it will make your bond, trust, love with each other become strong!!
Some divorce are cause by pride, jealousy and being greedy.... you want something from your partner but sometimes they can't give it to you and they try to look it into another person... they don't value the respect and capabilities of each other... sometime they compete with each other who achieved more but that is not marriage all about...
So before entering vows make sure you are ready to accept your partner's ugly side, the stupid , their incompetence, and what they are.
Malachi 2:16
Some divorce are cause by pride, jealousy and being greedy.... you want something from your partner but sometimes they can't give it to you and they try to look it into another person... they don't value the respect and capabilities of each other... sometime they compete with each other who achieved more but that is not marriage all about...
So before entering vows make sure you are ready to accept your partner's ugly side, the stupid , their incompetence, and what they are.
Malachi 2:16
Marriage is a sacred union between man and woman who are deeply in love with each other. But what if you come to a point that you are no longer happy with your marriage, or you feel that your love gets weaker after several years due to infidelity of your partner, or being irresponsible of his/her obligations? Would you file for a divorce or will you hold on to your marriage not because you love your partner but because it's your commitment? Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you!
We vowed to stick with the person we love through thick and thin and as we have promised, we make this happen since it is a part of our commitment. I believe that it isn't hard to face the trials of a married life but I believe that nothing is impossible if we do it with love. Trials would make a relationship stronger. We must also consider our kids who will suffer if we quit or surrender, they would be the ones who would get affected.
I will surely try to hold on to my marriage. I will try everything to make our relationship works, for the fire of love between us ignite again. I will hold on to our vow during our marriage that we will be together in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer til death do us part. And i am sure my husband will do the same as we were both raise with value in family togetherness. So help us God.
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