We're in trouble if bitcointalk gets to the point where we have to start self-censoring our posts to avoid offending people. Grow a spine, snowflakes.
If you think that telling a girl that she is ugly is a joke, than walk into any public place, bar, restaurant, cafe, e.t.c. and tell any girl that she is an ugly granny (especially than she is sitting with a guy) and watch what will happen.
It would depend completely on the location of the bar or public place and type of female that was approached.
In some countries where men are chivalrous it might start a fight. In some places you might get a friendly tap on the shoulder from security and asked to leave.
In some countries where women are emancipated you will probably get laughed at, ridiculed and ignored.
Such comment is likely to be met by a look of surprise and:" Were you talking to me ? Or your reflection in the door ?"
Your fantasies are a bit weird but I'm not judging. So what does this have to do with trust ratings?
Which is exactly what happened here.