Topic: Never borrow money to be able to gamble - page 7. (Read 2701 times)

Of course in as much as gambling bet is concerned I didn't see the reason why one will go to the extend of borrowing money to play gambling, is not really good at all, we should always try as much as possible to control our self from getting addicted to gambling just gamble as you can afford to lose don't put your trust into gambling bet because is always a game of luck.

I agree with your opinion that someone who wants to gamble should prepare their own money without borrowing from other people because it will burden us and also harm us if we end up losing and having difficulty paying, never assume that gambling can give us twice the profit. double the money we lend because gambling is a game that is uncertain whether we win or lose so it is better to use our own money and if we lose the money we don't need to think about interest and don't need to worry we will return it at any time because the money is our own.

But if it's money from borrowing from a loan shark and you end up losing from gambling, you will only lose and end up chasing your losses, which can then cause you to become addicted because you chase your previous losses too much and in the end the losses you experience become increasingly unstoppable, so you start borrowing from any direction to gamble and hope to get a big jackpot and pay back all your loans but what happens is the opposite, you lose even more and debts pile up everywhere, making you mentally disturbed and in the end making you regret it.

Once a person has reached that stage it is very difficult for them to recover completely, this is because once a person asks for loans, they may find themselves in a situation they may be unable to get out for decades, as not only they need to overcome their addiction, but now they have to pay for those loans.

So it is not surprising that once a person realizes the enormous hole they dig for themselves, they know that even if they stopped gambling for the rest of their lives, things will never be the way they were.

We must try to limits ourselves when playing gambling to prevents from borrowing money from other people because that can makes us in trouble. We can learn about discipline to limits our money to prevents more losses so we can still have money if we wants to playing gambling in the next days. If we have discipline, we can holds ourselves from greedy and always knows how to limits our money to playing gambling because gambling is just part of enjoy our life.

If we knows about limiting our money in gambling, we will not try to borrows money from other people. We will always remember that never borrow money to playing gambling to avoids the problems that can occurs to us. It's enough to use some limits money to playing gambling as we don't use gambling to makes money.

Borrowing money to gamble is a bigger problem in the sense that it doesn't affect only the player, his family gets to partake in resolving the loan disputes when time is due. Such gamblers mainly are not interested in becoming good players. All they wanted is making out a means of regularly staying in the game. Addiction is weird, but not compared to taking loans. Imaging treating an addicted player and at same time handling his loans. That's really a big trouble on the side of the gambler's family.

Gradually, the debt accumulates to a bigger amount that the gambler may not handle alone. Some players don't actually take this loan once. After losing out the first one, they'll rush to take another loan, until they are not eligible to collect loans again. The trouble comes from multiple loan sharks, thereby instigating suffering on the player's family members.

You're right, in a few words borrowing money is lending yourself to problems, I do not understand how a player gets so carried away by coins and allows himself to be lent money when he knows that it is money that he can lose very easily and quickly, then the best thing is to tighten your pants and have enough discipline to say no and that's it, that's what you have to do, otherwise if we get soft, things will get out of control and we will lose all our money and be left with nothing, these are the types of things that we should always see, the more things are kept right with money the better, if there is no control of money, everything goes down.

I totally agree with you because gamblers think they can win just by betting and all gamblers lose at some point due to this invisible greed. When a gambler borrows money from multiple sources and bets on gambling with that borrowed money and loses the bet unexpectedly, then the situation of that gambler will be clear if you think about it. When the gambler comes back to the family with mental stress, he will start misbehaving with the family members especially the image of wife abuse has become a daily known phenomenon in our society. Gamblers are often seen torturing and forcing wives to manage gambling money by losing money. Moreover, especially gamblers are getting involved in heinous crimes like social crimes, theft, robbery, and now murder. Nowadays, child kidnapping has become a common phenomenon in our country, especially gamblers and drug addicts are more likely to commit these crimes.

Yes and make sure it is money that they can really afford to be responsible for whatever results will occur at the end of the session, especially defeat. This means that what must be paid more attention and priority is self-readiness to face situations of defeat, because after all, defeat will always be a definite possibility in gambling regardless of the chance of winning. And one of the reasons why I say this is because most problems occur because a gambler is unable to accept the fact about the defeat they experienced which in the end makes them emotional and makes various decisions that tend to be excessive and lead them to possible worse impacts such as chasing losses that allows them to lose more significant amounts of money.

Of course it is true that there is nothing better than gambling using personal money, because after all gambling using borrowed money is an idea that can never be justified, because there is the possibility of more significant negative impacts, especially experiencing the problem of being in debt when the idea of ​​a loan it has become a habit. And the point is that if for example you don't have the money to gamble then it's clearly better to postpone your desire, don't borrow money because gambling is not something that should be forced.

I have to say it is not really that complicated to understand this, it is quite a common thing and doesn't feel like it is going to be all that confusing to anyone neither. We should just see how it is going and I think we are going to realize that loans are for people who are in need, or for business that will grow, nothing more than that. I do get that it is not going to be all that complicated, because we are talking about something that will not be all that hard, but if we keep spending time on it, then we are going to end up with something good.

We should consider how to do better, and to do that we need to avoid loans unless we need it for sure. I personally have debt, but most of them are not loans, it's credit card debt, I avoid loans as much as I can, only have two and they will slowly go down after September so I am fine.

Usually an addict will not borrow large amounts of money without any collateral because of course before they do that they usually provide collateral for example a house certificate and so on, that's why sometimes gambling addicts often go bankrupt losing all their possessions and even their assets, after all gambling with debt is not the right way because Just chasing losses will not guarantee you can win and pay all your debts, let alone return the money you have lost in gambling.

Every gambler should be aware that gambling is full of risks. If you don't want to lose money and lose, you should not gamble, but most of them ignore that without the right mindset, which is why many gambling addicts are in debt because of their gambling behavior, playing recklessly and irresponsibly, so that making gamblers finally dare to take shortcuts by borrowing money just to fulfill their gambling needs, even though this is very risky for expert gamblers. even a gambling expert would not dare to take such a reckless decision by borrowing money to gamble. A gambler like that will never be able to pay off his debt unless he changes his mindset.

Someone who wants to gamble should prepare their money first, either from their salary or savings, then they can gamble more calmly, because we don't know for sure how our gambling will end, so just in case, gamble with personal money it's much safer. because it is a stupid act to borrow just to gamble and it is very risky if the loan is high interest and short term and this will burden the gambler. Not to mention that usually the people who want to lend to gamblers are loan sharks and they don't hesitate to chase gamblers if they don't pay the loan, it's not worth it to risk your life just to gamble.

         -    It's a serious addiction to have that kind of behavior; it's not really normal for a gambler. Especially if you are a family person, you did that, and you have children, right?
Such a decision is really quite wrong. The worst part is that the borrowed money will be used up in a short time.

It's actually a headache because that kind of work is not normal. It's really scary when you get too addicted to gambling in any casino, whether online or physically.

with those who borrow money for the purpose of gambling, in my opinion they are already addicted to gambling so they lose their sanity by daring to take big risky actions such as borrowing money, because when they are addicted to gambling they tend not to consider the actions they will take because think more about what they want. What you say is correct, borrowing money from friends whose purpose is to use the money for gambling is certainly wrong, in fact I don't think it's just friends, borrowing money from anyone whose purpose is to gamble is the wrong action because it will only make things worse, but Indeed, because those who have been tempted by the big wins they can get, they forget themselves, it is even less likely that gamblers will be able to pay and pay off their debts, because when they have money all they will think about is gambling again.

What you say is correct, when addicts have debts, it is very likely that they will not pay the debts, it could even be that they don't want to be responsible for the actions they have taken, such as paying off the debts they have committed. and when it is true that the borrower's target is the family, they must be responsible for the act of borrowing money carried out and abandoned by one of their family members, unless the borrower does not ask for the money back then the family will not bear the burden.

Truly, that is mostly the case for gambling addicts who are not able to control their urges. It's main focus is to just gamble again and they will not worry about their future yet. Once every penny is gone, that is when they will start to get stressed with what they have done. All they can do is be frustrated with themselves and regret what they have done.
It's too late for them and it will be difficult to recover from it. Their other problem is if the lender will sue them. The worst-case scenario that I see is them paying up the loan while their job is inside the jail. As much as possible we should not do this. If there's no money left then just take a rest and wait until we have the money again.

Basically, not all incidents will really be known and even widely publicized, but we can see that there are several incidents where people are devastated because they are in debt and it is much worse if it is only used for gambling.
There is no need for social media reports or anything like that because if we live in country that is free from gambling or an area where we live that has high gambling activity then we can definitely find everything directly.
But this is form of learning for everyone who knows that gambling with borrowed money is very bad attitude that can cause complicated problems in the future.

Still, borrowing money just to use it for gambling is bad attitude, maybe can return the borrowed money but this can become habit that continue to do under certain conditions, such as when have lost lot and are trying to recover but don't have the capital.
I personally really pressure myself to never take out loans as gambling capital, in fact I will not even lend money to those closest to me if it is for the purpose of gambling.
There will always be problems that occur if do something like this continuously.

Considering the risk, as even your own money you are not sure if you can increase the amount no assurance that you may win what more if you barrow it will add more pressure when playing, as you will think about repaying and the focus will be on the side where you'll try everything that may lead you to be more aggressive while playing.

It's best to use your own money more on spare money that you can afford to lose to avoid any problem to take place, once you are done then you can just simply quit and stop.


If you can practice that then it's good for your gambling participation, but not many can do that, as there's  greed inside us that really tough to compete with, instead of stpping while you have the chance, you'll push for more thinking that it was your lucky day, end result most likely will return all those money to the house including your deposit.

A responsible gambler knows what is best and the right thing to do. Gambling is not wrong but borrowing money for the sake of this addiction could end in terrible losses and ruin their lives. Yes, the impact is not just for a short while and it is over but it continues forever unless we stop gambling.
This is too hard to say but what really happens in gambling is that the more we spend money, the more possible we lose. And most of all, we don't make our losses a reason to chase winning because whether we like it or not, we can't recover them anymore. More pressure, more mistakes, and more losses.

It's better we use our own money to playing gambling and always limits the money that we use to gambling because that will helps us to avoids the big lose. We don't have to borrow money if we thinks that can leads us to gets many problem and it's better we avoids that. We already knows what is the risks of borrow money to playing gambling so we don't have to try it for our own good. We don't have to playing gambling too often like other gamblers because we don't have the same money that we will use to playing gambling.

We don't have to aiming for more wins if we already wins because that can makes us lose that wins because chasing more winning. We should be enough to wins any money from gambling because we still have other days to return to casino and playing gambling. We just needs to remember that playing gambling needs to be moderation so we can avoids the big lose.

Addicted gamblers lose their minds because they already gets deeper in gambling while they don't know what happens to them They just know that they should continue playing gambling and use more money and they are not thinks about the outcomes. No matters if they win or lose, they will come back to casino and play their favorite gambling games. When they don't have money, they will try to search people around them to borrow their money but they don't think how they will going to repay the money

Their minds will not thinks about how they can be responsible in gambling because they already gets addicted to gambling and they only wants to keeps playing gambling. Even if they must borrow, they will do that and this addicted is dangerous for every people so we must be careful when playing gambling. Many lives already ruins and they can gets it back so we must become wise treating gambling.

Most addicted gamblers cannot use their common sense in making good decisions and acting well and they only think about how they can continue gambling.
With the intention of borrowing money from friends to be able to gamble is a wrong step and must be avoided, but what can be done because the urge is so strong to be able to continue gambling, addicts forget their obligation to repay the loan and there have been many addicts who are trapped in situations like this, they will disappear or do not want to be responsible because they are no longer able to accept the heavy burden of having to return money to the borrower.
And what's worse is that his family has to bear the burden of all this problem.

At first, I will never advised anyone to borrow more to gamble because this could have a big challenge than what we could think. Gambling is a pretty good and we can make money for ourselves if we know what to do to keep making profits from different bet. Sometimes some gamblers would borrow huge amount of money to gamble and at the end of the day they could finally make profit for themselves but this does not happen everytime. We need to be wise and take every decisions that would always bring forth better rewards to earn from gambling. Some could borrow and pay because of their winnings while others might not be that fortunate.