Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 50. (Read 12692 times)

If they are not yet fully aware, we should stop gambling for a while to keep the children away from where we gamble. Usually, they will stay beside us, wondering what we are playing. They will pay close attention while asking what to do, and we will not focus on the gambling game. And if those kids find what we're doing interesting, they'll probably tell their friends about it. And if his friends know the type of gambling game, they will try to play it based on what they know. As time goes by, they will become curious, and with the help of the Internet, they can find information easily and share it with their friends and not their parents. They are more comfortable telling stories to their friends than to their own parents, and usually, this is because their parents are busy with work. But we can explain to them what we are doing and the explanation is adapted to their age so they can understand it.

Another post without any proof. Kid saw you eat broccoli, based on you logic, the kid will also taste and eat it. And become super healthy, as he is eating vegetables of vitamins. But in reality, kid wont eat it, and would rather eat fries or pasta.

All those who say “kid will do everything parents do” either dont have kids, or dont know their kids, or follow some life standarts of elder generetion.

What negative affect would kids have? You have mentioned that. Please dont say addiction. Be more original. Those who gamble not always are addicted.

If gambling is bad - why you gamble? Why you show bad example for everyone around you? 

If this becomes a problem for the player, if it becomes an addiction, then I assume that he will hide it from his family, perhaps because of financial problems, perhaps for other reasons, but everything secret becomes clear someday.
But even if gambling is not a problem for the player, it is better not to do it front of children, because in any case they will ask you to explain what you are doing and why. Even if you say that this is a game that you like to play, they might want to play this game too.

It depends on their age, because sometimes even if we explained it to them, they aren't fully aware and they don't really understand what is gambling all about, if we force them to give an explanation, it might even cause a child to become more curious. There's nothing wrong in giving an explanation to them but we should check it first and assess your child, it's better to keep an eye on them and see if they're really interested in what they saw or maybe they don't care, if they don't care at all, that's better.

I think if they accidentally see it then we have to educate them about gambling. This must be done otherwise it will definitely be difficult for us to control if they come alone to the gambling site and then try it uncontrollably. I'm sure some children jump in here on their own without guidance and end up getting addicted. Learning not to gamble in front of children is also important.

And as always, we need to be conscious of what we are doing in front of our kids. As for them, what we do is something that's not bad, they will follow that and will try to imitate those things that we are dealing with in front of them. Being aware will let us lessen the chance of having our kids interested in something that we don't want them to get involved with.

Unless, which is really also possible, where parents are willing to teach their kids, and letting them to experience gambling at an early age, culture or whatsoever, but it's possible that there are family who have this kind of set up.

The world of technology is growing and advancing, even if we are not showing activities as gamblers, they will definitely find their own world, in this case the world of gambling.
As parents, especially those who are already involved in the gambling world, we must keep an eye on what our children are doing in the use of their gadgets.
I'll take just one example, slot games, for young people now the game is not gambling, just an ordinary game that can make them get money easily just by pressing gadgets. how do you see this? even though slots are one of the gambling activities.

The gambler who get addicted to the gambling will do the gambling in front of his wife and daughter.But the normal gamblers will not say their gambling game and the gambling addiction to their wife.Because if their husband not give money for any month for the monthly expenses,which may cause the gamblers to get into trouble.Because his wife ask the first question,he had loss the money in the gambling site.So the kids may not interested in his father game,because he may be engaged with his own game in the real life.So my opinion is different to this thread.Because the gambler will play in the separate room from the kid.

As a parent then we are really that responsibility for us to raise them well on the path on which it is really that something to be that good and beneficial to them. As much as possible we shouldnt really be letting them to see and get involved into those things that we are doing specially with gambling. They might be able to encounter it out naturally because of online world or social media but it would be better that you should be avoiding them to see at all cost. If ever it would be that possible then having those simple explaination telling gamblings cons and negative effects
could really be that something will really be helpful to them on later into their own lives or on the time that they become independent.

Avoiding gambling in front of my children or any other teenagers is the most crucial rule I follow. if kids witness us gambling, they can be motivated to do the same. In my opinion. due to their youth and immaturity, it could negatively affect their future. Kids always tends to follow their elders. So I don't want my kids to catch up my bad habits.

This does not call for much debate. It is purely illogical to gamble in the presence of your kids. If you do, they will learn with it whether intensionally or unintentionally. Kids are spirits, they learn by seeing, perceiving and by intuition. So, to be very safe is to eradicate everything gambling and not make the children have an idea of it.

If they have an idea of it but not do it, whenever to go to play with their friends, they will ask their friends about it and those may likely push them into it. Whatever you don't want your child to copy, do not do it before them.

Everything with children is delicate, things have to be done very calmly, one cannot be very advanced nor will it delay them in their learning, they handle most of the internet, they have cell phones, PCs, tablets, anything that they need. will say what they do , so Children must know how to talk to them, warn them of all the dangers, it is always good to know first from parents than from friends , third parties, there are so many dangers that there are , so this type of thing is sometimes a delicate issue because We have to be aware of how the child may be in his Environment, but as in some homes the family is not so united because children learn these types of things on the street, or as I said before friends who have more open senses and they They say things, So when that's the case , it's Better for them toKnow things from what they are Parents to than from Others.


When we are seeing what is only best for a child, or the children are delicate because there is no format to follow to raise children, one always wants the best for them, and one always tries to protect them from all danger, which as Father will always be like this, so in this Order of ideas I have him shown or not Shown the Game of chance, they will Probably have already been there and already know about the casino , because things are like that , I fixed on my 8 year old boy, he knows a lot of incredible things , and yes, he knows about casinos and he told me that he didn't get involved because it was a waste of money and that the only thing he gave up was to buy caralmelso candy There are things like that and because he Always wants to buy newer and newer Soccer balls, of models that he likes, then this type of things is something that Children , or the Majority of them, already handle this type of information, what happens is They Must be mature Enough to Identify that in some way this could lead them to harm themselves, since children are not Stupid.

Yes, because there is basis that the child will be curious about what we do.
Memory and the power to know are very high and it must happen to all children everywhere.
Children will not only do what is heard from parents. However, they will also do what their parents do.
For that, be a good example for children.

It is understandable, that drinking alcohol or smoking near children is bad not only because they can take is as a habit, but it makes an impact on their health (smoking) from childhood. Smoking and alcohol can make an impact on health. However this is very personal. For example Joe Cocker, singer, smoke 2 pack of cigarettes a day and was a heavy drinker. Died at age of 70 (however from lung cancer). And there are people who have healthy life and live till 60.

But what harm can gambling bring to a kid that saw his parents gambling?

Will he immediately run and start to gamble? No.
Will he become addicted? Yes, no, maybe. No one can tell that or forecast his future.
Will he get curious what his parents do? Yes, but we cant tell if he would have a huge interest in gambling after founding out what it is.
Will he spend all his money on gambling? No, he would rather spend it on toys, candies, fast food, video games.
Will gambling harm his health? No

When there is so many no, so unclear what his future will be, why so many are against gambling in front of kids? It does not mean that parent will force kids to watch and learn to gamble, when we speak about gambling in front of them. Also people never gamble 24/7. So what is bad from seeing mummy or daddy gambling once a while? The kid wont stand next to parents still, being hypnotized and watch without moving. He will take a look, ask few questions and run away.

I think you dont have kids. If you had them, you would notice, that kids prefer to run sneak away, do things that they are interested in, instead of being or standing close to parent all the time. Because the kid his own interests, and we, adults have ours.

This is true because I have seen it myself in several children who want to see their parents' activities every time their parents are using their smartphones. And the danger is if the parents are playing online gambling and suddenly the children want to see their parents gambling. This will make them curious about what they are playing and their children will also be curious and want to try playing it. Especially nowadays, children are very used to using the Internet and can search for what they want easily. They can learn about gambling games, so it is the role of parents to guide their children to use their smartphones well. They still need supervision from their parents even when they are teenagers.

OP, I love what you did by advising her not to think of such for now, since her age is not ripped for that, ordinarily some people wouldn't have done that, kids are very sensitive, any thing you are doing in their present should be something that will teach them morals, people should very mindful of what they do around there children, not only gamble but other things like smoking and taking alcohol, when you are not around or when they don't sight anyone coming they will be moved to practice what they learned or see someone doing, some people are careless to the extent that they care if they are doing the right thing or not, op I thank you once more for such act of yours kudos.

Everything that is in favor of protecting children is something that should always be considered, I can say that when it comes to protecting children, well, there I am, I have my two small children, one of 8 and another girl of 2, and For me they are everything, it is obvious that now children are very advanced, they can handle electronic devices even without knowing how to read, the truth is they are very good, but I think that things when it comes to casinos and this, they should be restricted, Because I see that they can easily access a site, register and play, even if something is available out there so they can pay, credit cards or something like that, even more so for them, but you have to be very careful, they are very smart, and they can access things that, even for their ages, should not be allowed, nor are they allowed, we must be very responsible, first of all, do not leave them with a phone alone, because not only can they enter casinos, we do not know that there are sick people who want to harm them for the webm, there are many cases where you see ugly things, that should be avoided.

As responsible parents, if a child has a tablet, phones, we must know what they do, what they write, everything, nothing about having privacy for them, because they are minors and can be easily influenced by other things, so We must be very cautious, they are innocent, very smart, even though they are innocent children, and when they are at other ages, it is different, things will change and they will be able to see themselves in a different way, personally the adolescents, who are 12 -17 years old are already more mature, on the surface they know that almost everything they should know, but even so things with them should be even more careful because they are almost adults, who learn things that are above their age, and they can still be influenced, this is just that they must be protected, for me all this is very important.

Children's curiosity is certainly quite high, if they often see their parents' activities when playing online gambling, of course they will ask to know about the game.  That's why we have to avoid children when gambling online, because most children today can easily access the internet via their cell phones.  Gradually, they will find out about it through various advertisements on social media or other things and match the games they have seen when their parents gambled anywhere.

its very necessary to get conscious about kids & their activities. Gambling is kind of thing where mature people also get out of control even get addicted with it while kids are innocent and hard to control them while they want to have anything once in their mind. So undoubtedly i want to go with op what he thought, is definitely valid point. Gamblers also need to maintain discipline and so for their kids to make them safe and should give them healthy environment by not doing any kind of unwanted things which could badly effect on kids in future

You need to be more careful when dealing with something that you also understand that may trigger interest in your kids. What they see is what they will do thinking that it is okay. It's tough since we need to be more cautious, as we don't want them to be involved in something that we know that might put them in danger or risk, though kids, as we think of them, have nothing to do with our activities, but inside them, when they keep seeing things it will develop interest.

With curiosity, we're silently influencing them with the way we react, especially when we are enjoying ourselves. With that kind of reaction, kids will be alarmed thinking that they can also duplicate those things that they are witnessing from us that we are enjoying.