Kids are fast learner and literally trying to copy the same thing what they see from another. So it may be a smart decision to get them out of this gambling. Although i don't see any high risk activity here cause kids are normally fond of games. They don't know whatever you are doing, that is normal game or gambling. They just find it entertaining and agree to do so for having fun. Thats it. But it would a matter if kids are aged enough. That's why i agree with op, to avoid false perception on them, we need to make positive environment for their grow up
That's right, because the curiosity that arises in children will certainly lead it in a positive or negative direction, and we as parents must always monitor their activities, perhaps by checking our children's gadgets every day. Apart from that, we also have to always be careful in carrying out online gambling activities that we do, for example, don't let our children find out about it, if they find out about it they will definitely imitate what their parents do, because that's what they think. his parents' activities were always correct. Therefore, we as parents in front of our children must create as good behavior as possible. 
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Kids are fast learner and literally trying to copy the same thing what they see from another. So it may be a smart decision to get them out of this gambling. Although i don't see any high risk activity here cause kids are normally fond of games. They don't know whatever you are doing, that is normal game or gambling. They just find it entertaining and agree to do so for having fun. Thats it. But it would a matter if kids are aged enough. That's why i agree with op, to avoid false perception on them, we need to make positive environment for their grow up
There's a fine line between harmless games and gambling. They observe, pick up on it, and imitate. They expand in this way. The misconception and habits they are developing are more important than the activity's degree of danger, though. In other words, they don't know the difference between gambling and regular games, and they find games to be enjoyable and engaging. There's where the risk isTheir perception of gambling as a harmless past time cannot develop as they get older. The long-term impacts on their perspective and behavior toward gambling and risk-taking are what worry me, even though I agree that there might not be any obvious high risks. Create a nice, healthy environment for kids to grow up, learn the proper things, and establish healthy habits and viewpoints
Kids are fast learner and literally trying to copy the same thing what they see from another. So it may be a smart decision to get them out of this gambling. Although i don't see any high risk activity here cause kids are normally fond of games. They don't know whatever you are doing, that is normal game or gambling. They just find it entertaining and agree to do so for having fun. Thats it. But it would a matter if kids are aged enough. That's why i agree with op, to avoid false perception on them, we need to make positive environment for their grow up
This is also my opinion, kids nowadays have easy access to everything I mean things that can be research online is no longer a problem as they can just type it out and watch some video tutorials and that's it, they can simply move on and play on their own without your knowledge things that for sure you don't want to happen, better to change it up and be responsible.
Kids are fast learner and literally trying to copy the same thing what they see from another. So it may be a smart decision to get them out of this gambling. Although i don't see any high risk activity here cause kids are normally fond of games. They don't know whatever you are doing, that is normal game or gambling. They just find it entertaining and agree to do so for having fun. Thats it. But it would a matter if kids are aged enough. That's why i agree with op, to avoid false perception on them, we need to make positive environment for their grow up
But it is very important for us as parents to explain the dangers of gambling to our children because instead of them learning to find out about gambling on the internet and so on, it is better for us to start explaining the dangers and risks of gambling, that is how important it is for us as parents to know. How to solve this problem. Apart from that, never gamble in front of them when we have explained the dangers, but if we are seen gambling, it will definitely damage their trust.
It is very important to convey to our children the negative impact of gambling activities. And I am quite aware that I cannot fully supervise and accompany my children every day, because there are other things I have to do, namely work. to support them and I can only supervise my children only when I have free time in between my busy schedule and as for a mother who is at home, she cannot supervise them completely because she has homework to do. So it is very important to convey this message to our children, because at least doing this will be a warning to our children about the dangers of gambling.
This isn't just about gambling at all, but gambling is one of the best examples to discuss this matter. Everything that has an age limit is set for a reason, not just for the kids to avoid doing or watching but to avoid being influenced as well. As a parent, the biggest influence of your child will come from you, not from schools, not at the streets, not everywhere but from their parents. This is why your kids reflect how you are doing at home. Gambling in front of your kids may harm them in the long term. Of course, they will learn to gamble at any point in their life, but seeing it in the early days will trigger their curiosity to do it.
When we gamble in front of our children, this will be the reason why he gambles and when we try to reprimand him, what happens is that he will only make a statement that will make us die because of that statement.
And how much time does a child spend at school? A child may only spend a few hours at school and the rest of the time they spend at home playing on their cell phone. So this is where it is important for us as parents to spend as much time as possible providing family education to our children so that at least they know what is good and what is right.
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"I think it's better to visit your children in their room than go to prison once every week just because you want them to be free and explore the evil environment that they might be living in right now."This is the best quote I read today about the realities of life, of course it reminds me of one or two cases about it.
The main role of parents in educating their children is very large, but it is not an easy task even if we do it as best we can. The digital world and bad environment give them enough facilities to do something that is difficult for us to control, but this is a responsibility that every parent must have.
Today we are no longer surprised by the number of cases that illustrate how free the world can be without proper parental control. There are many children out there who do things that are prohibited, gamble underage, have free sex, are involved in drug cases and other things that harm other people's lives. All these problems are the result of parents' inappropriate parenting patterns, but in reality it is like that. None of us will escape our responsibility as parents even if many of us are declared failures.
Most kids are very wise and at their tender age they want to try or replicate what they see or hear. That's why it's advisable as a parent or guardian to be careful of the things we do or say in front of our wards. I've seen where a child asked his dad to give him cigarette to smoke because he saw his dad smoking. So I don't gamble in front of kids and I don't let them come close to me when am forecasting my games.
Sometimes, I do see children below the ages of 18 going to sport betting shops to play the booked games of their elderly ones. I don't welcomed this and I think it should be discouraged because it has a way of affecting these young ones.
Sometimes, I do see children below the ages of 18 going to sport betting shops to play the booked games of their elderly ones. I don't welcomed this and I think it should be discouraged because it has a way of affecting these young ones.
Instead of my child learning about gambling from me, it is better for the child to learn it outside so I can correct him when I notice it, but if the child learn gambling from me I will have no mouth to correct him because I thought, him by myself, so it is better to keep gambling secret in the present of our children.
I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.
You are very careless when gambling with your family and your child pays attention to all your activities when placing bets so that he imitates your behavior in gambling. There are 2 mistakes you made because of your carelessness in gambling in front of your child and you not monitoring your child's activities when playing with gadgets, you should share solutions to overcome children who have been infected by accessing gambling, but educating children not to gamble at the age of under 18 is not enough and you must be firm in limiting the use of gadgets and must monitor all access history on gadgets, so slowly children will forgetting the activities he carried out on the previous gadget.A mistake that the children may think it's okay to gamble, it will be established on their mindset that if you are doing it meaning to say that it's not prohibited and they may also get that same interest, it's dangerous as the generation nowadays do have easy access to online gambling platforms, kids who earn that interest from what they've seen from you might trigger them to try playing and we can't just say that they are just kids as with the power of internet they can easily learn how to figure it out and start playing.
I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.
You are very careless when gambling with your family and your child pays attention to all your activities when placing bets so that he imitates your behavior in gambling. There are 2 mistakes you made because of your carelessness in gambling in front of your child and you not monitoring your child's activities when playing with gadgets, you should share solutions to overcome children who have been infected by accessing gambling, but educating children not to gamble at the age of under 18 is not enough and you must be firm in limiting the use of gadgets and must monitor all access history on gadgets, so slowly children will forgetting the activities he carried out on the previous gadget. 
I grew up with my grandmother who loves to gambling, since my parents have work, they leave me to my grandma to take care of me. Since she loves gambling she bring me with her (gambling called bringi along the neighborhood which is legal and have permission). At first it looks actually fun cause she gave me 1 card and told me if the number were called just mark it. So I did and when she checked my card and won, she gave me all the prize money reason why I was hooked in gambling.
I mean I don't normalize to gambling in front of your kids which is really bad to adapt, but maybe teaching them some games in proper age would be a beneficial for them trust me. Giving them the tips and skills wouldn't be so bad as long you guide them to the point they wouldn't be addicted and would think of gambling as for fun only and padt time just like what I think to gambling.
I mean I don't normalize to gambling in front of your kids which is really bad to adapt, but maybe teaching them some games in proper age would be a beneficial for them trust me. Giving them the tips and skills wouldn't be so bad as long you guide them to the point they wouldn't be addicted and would think of gambling as for fun only and padt time just like what I think to gambling.
gambling in front of your children is a stupid act because children easily imitate whatever their parents do. when parents gamble in front of their children it is the same as telling the children to gamble like their parents did, where at their age they should be shown positive things which can prepare them for a better life in the future.
but it would also be good if children were given good education about gambling because sooner or later they will know what gambling is, and giving them good education about gambling, especially financial management, could help them.
but it would also be good if children were given good education about gambling because sooner or later they will know what gambling is, and giving them good education about gambling, especially financial management, could help them.
It's a shameful act to be gambling in front of your children as a father, what lesson will you have to teach them about gambling that they listen to, seing you gambling is not of a benefit to them because you're not doing it to entice or encourage them either to also join in gambling, if one thinks he's such that cannot do without gambling everyday, he should then go private about it without involving the children, this will also help the father to maintain his integrity with the children and he can be able to correct them when necessary.
Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).
I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).
I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.
You did the right thing by telling her not to choose that part of her life; when parents gamble for a living, they are not also taking that path; however, when some are addicted, it becomes very difficult to leave and they are unable to see their children taking that part to be happy and see that they are doing the best in their lives. All parents want their children to do better than them, so despite that, this is a nice thread. If we allow our kids to choose gambling as a part of their lives, and something goes wrong, we as parents will be held responsible. We allowed these kids to start gambling when they were young, and we were powerless to stop them or correct them. If they don't have money to gamble, I believe they will definitely touch their parents' money, and a parent who didn't correct them at the appropriate time will find it difficult to communicate with them.
A father and his children can be seen gaming for a living. I was just surprised if they really believe that they have chosen the best path in life. That's not good all family should gamble. After all, if they spend all of their money on gambling, who will provide for the family's needs in the future? This kind of family may even sell all of their properties or take out loans.
gambling in front of your children is a stupid act because children easily imitate whatever their parents do. when parents gamble in front of their children it is the same as telling the children to gamble like their parents did, where at their age they should be shown positive things which can prepare them for a better life in the future.
but it would also be good if children were given good education about gambling because sooner or later they will know what gambling is, and giving them good education about gambling, especially financial management, could help them.
but it would also be good if children were given good education about gambling because sooner or later they will know what gambling is, and giving them good education about gambling, especially financial management, could help them.
Have good quote, "like father like son" and we must show the best attitude in front of our kids, they will practice what they learn from his parent actually with father activities, if we show good activities in front of them actually when growing up they will have good attitude depend what their learn from his parents. Actually gambling platform is not worth for playing in general place, need to secure not only from children but also for people have marriage hidden as soon possible from his family or his wife.
Give bad relationship in family one day later if know with their husband have gambling habit and can't controlling their kids from bad activities. Have one hidden room if start gambling and there not access for children or family to see father or husband activities with gambling.
Children always tend to repeat and imitate their parents. The fact is that we may not even notice how children will watch us because we will be carried away by the gambling process. You need to make sure that there is no moment when the child sees it. I recently watched a poker streamer, he has 3 children. The youngest daughter sometimes sits on his lap because his wife is busy with something. I think this is not correct. This may have consequences in adulthood on a subconscious level, for example, a hidden craving for gambling will appear. She may not even understand it. Give bad relationship in family one day later if know with their husband have gambling habit and can't controlling their kids from bad activities. Have one hidden room if start gambling and there not access for children or family to see father or husband activities with gambling.
Have good quote, "like father like son" and we must show the best attitude in front of our kids, they will practice what they learn from his parent actually with father activities, if we show good activities in front of them actually when growing up they will have good attitude depend what their learn from his parents. Actually gambling platform is not worth for playing in general place, need to secure not only from children but also for people have marriage hidden as soon possible from his family or his wife.
Give bad relationship in family one day later if know with their husband have gambling habit and can't controlling their kids from bad activities. Have one hidden room if start gambling and there not access for children or family to see father or husband activities with gambling.
Give bad relationship in family one day later if know with their husband have gambling habit and can't controlling their kids from bad activities. Have one hidden room if start gambling and there not access for children or family to see father or husband activities with gambling.
Gambling in front of our kids is not good because, as our kids are watching how we bet games, they are learning from there and these kids are learning things as fast as they can. So, if we are playing games in front of our children, we are also leading them astay, and we are also teaching our children how to bet them and that attitude will lead the children astray in future.
As parents, definitely, it's not good in front of your children to put your bet or even play slot games specially the sounds as it might attract them, although you can lower the volume, but it's not the correct way. Perhaps if you are really into gambling then just go to your place or a room that they will not see what you are going in front of your laptop or phones.
Instead of my child learning about gambling from me, it is better for the child to learn it outside so I can correct him when I notice it, but if the child learn gambling from me I will have no mouth to correct him because I thought, him by myself, so it is better to keep gambling secret in the present of our children.
You mean influence by friends and then peer pressure? It's not really good as well, but in any case that they are exposed, hopefully they will not fall for the trap of being addicted at a young age.
I really hate this parenting type where you need to supervise your children and make sure they're not going to far. Most parents are very strict and whenever they smell something strange or unethical, they will limit you or giving punishment to make you not try that.
This will make your kids have no creativity, decrease their friends and not able to leave their safe zones.
This will make your kids have no creativity, decrease their friends and not able to leave their safe zones.
It depends on the place where you currently living because if the crime rate is high caused by drug addicts and other evil people, you should not make them free to go with those people who eventually makes them due heinous crime in the future, you should take care of it while they are still young and can be easily controlled because you won't get anyway when they became criminals after all his enemies will get you if they cannot find him. I think it's better to visit your children in their room than go to prison once every week just because you want them to be free and explore the evil environment that they might be living in right now.
Now there is another problem that i think you have to control too, well that is friendship at school, usually children will share stories and start learning things that make them curious, you must supervise your children.
I really hate this parenting type where you need to supervise your children and make sure they're not going to far. Most parents are very strict and whenever they smell something strange or unethical, they will limit you or giving punishment to make you not try that.This will make your kids have no creativity, decrease their friends and not able to leave their safe zones.
Yeap, dont like such kind of parents either. The must let kids to their mistakes and have their own life, instead of repeating their parents mistakes and lives. Grandpas and grandpas that overreact over everything are separate kind of problem. As they influence on their kids, who later influence kids
Parents goal is to teach, give advices and observe, instead of putting kids on a leash. We can do only "good" and legal things in front of our kids, but they can grow up into completely opposite. Now there is another problem that i think you have to control too, well that is friendship at school, usually children will share stories and start learning things that make them curious, you must supervise your children.
I really hate this parenting type where you need to supervise your children and make sure they're not going to far. Most parents are very strict and whenever they smell something strange or unethical, they will limit you or giving punishment to make you not try that.This will make your kids have no creativity, decrease their friends and not able to leave their safe zones.
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