Topic: Patience can help alot - page 3. (Read 3002 times)

That's the problem, gambling should be played but because they are impatient with playing it so many problems occur instead gambling plays on them themselves. It is very unfortunate when they are fooled by gambling because then they will only experience big losses. with the motive of wanting to win but instead experiencing big defeats and losses. It is very wrong if they think that gambling is a shortcut to getting rich, even though there is a chance of winning big at gambling, it is very impossible to get it, therefore if we want to win then we have to be patient, don't let gambling play tricks on us.

Sometimes the pleasure we get actually causes us to experience the destruction of our lives, for example when gambling has already resulted in a win, but because they can't wait to win an even bigger win, many gamblers continue to gamble using the winnings they have obtained, until they win. If it is lost again, we must be able to realize that gambling will only make us lose money, therefore we must be able to gamble patiently.

This patience of a thing is easy to say but not easy to accomplish, it is such that is a virtue and helpful in a way, but never what will actually help you to gain in gambling. Patience can also be let go no matter how dedicated you think you are, so if we are talking about patience and also want to actualise it, we should endeavour not to slack in other criteria that will help us be good gamblers. I've read enough on this thread hyping patience so well but never helped them since gambling is beyond that, and the way people pretend about this is much. In reality, you would see that they are always abandoning it because it is not a direct means that can earn them money when betting.

You can imagine the gambler who believes he is patient but couldn't win an encouraging bet for a whole 6 months having wagering a sizable amount of money monthly, do you think such can still be patient? Except he is such a person who is gambling for fun or does not just think about the money, if not, such will never be patient having wasted money for that long with nothing to show for it. Owning to this, when we are patient, we should be reasonable with it, we should have good plans on our gambling budgets and management, and we should also pray for luck and do the needful when it comes to the skills needed to win, and that's if it is possible in the aspect of gambling we are playing.

Patience. Everyone uses it, but do they understand? You do. You know patience is crucial in every money game, not just gambling. Unfortunately, most people are wired for quick wins, get-rich-fast schemes. This is how they're played

The perfect example is gambling. People consider it a shortcut. It's not. After one lucky hand, you feel invincible. Then it becomes ugly. You crash harder than you ever soared due to impatience, greater investments, and crazier risks. A damn cycle, and not only about cards or spaces. This garbage is everywhere—stock market, business dealings

Man, this is life. The tortoise and the hare, remember? Instant pleasure poisons our time. Patience is needed for lasting success. This requires grinding, thinking, and occasionally playing it safe. Who has time for that in this chaotic world? That's our dilemma

It's easy to say when you've not been caught up in a gambling addict.
An addict does not have a mind as you say, they cannot be patient and do not have any management.

They just play and keep playing until the goal for the jackpot can be reached, even though when the jackpot is obtained, all the money has run out.
An addicted person cannot just stop, there will be an urge to continue placing bets, playing slots and so on.

Patience is an attitude that everyone actually has and whether they are gambler or not, they will still have an attitude of patience that has been ingrained for long time, but each person patience limit will be different.
In gambling, gambler who has very patient attitude in the real world may not necessarily be able to apply his patience when gambling, especially when in certain conditions that make them emotional, they will be stupid with patience.
In gambling, patience that is really useful is to be able to accept every outcome that occurs, and always remember that patience will not affect the outcome, whether win or lose.
But I will not deny that gamblers who have patient attitude always consider what they do in gambling and everything on the experience and information they have.
This is not guarantee of increasing winnings but only an effort to minimize losses but can still optimize winnings even though there is no guarantee of victory.
I completely agree with what @Furious 7 has said and in fact it is all truth that not everyone can realize.

Never put 100% trust in gambling because its always the reverse of out expectations that would likely happen. We should be ready to face all obstacles thrown to us by the system, I know I'm never going to missed opportunities but even though I do, it will not be pained because I've somebody  close to trigger the task. Another thing we should know is patience, it works for those gamblers that have the  appropriate mindset of waiting and doing everything positively possible to gain.

It is true that you said, patience does not only apply to gambling, patience certainly applies in all the things we do including the activities we do every day, especially with things that are related to finance or profit, such as business or investment, of course patience has a big role, indeed everyone wants wealth so who doesn't want to be rich? Of course everyone wants that, but there are people who cannot be patient with wanting to get a lot of money so they think that gambling is one of the means that can give them victory and make them rich in a short time, unfortunately that is not true.

Every person who gambles, of course, their main goal is mostly to double their money or want to get, it is clear that there are wins that can be obtained, it's just that most people are impatient in gambling. As when they experience victory, when they get a victory they consider themselves lucky and with that they play more aggressively so they forget that the risk of losing is greater than winning. And also those who experience big losses I'm sure because they can't be patient when gambling, whereas as you said gambling must be done with good patience so that there are no big losses.

Others, perhaps, can say that gamblers are patient; even if they always lose, they continue to gamble because they believe that one day they will also be lucky enough to win a large
sum of money.

Or it could also be that they continue to gamble because they are looking to have fun, whether they win or lose. That's fine.


You seem to have a point in what you are saying, Maybe just be patient as a gambler in terms of which of course we should also implement the limitation of the money we gamble so that when we lose we stop and come back another time.

You just said my mind. Everyone needs patience in every areas of life, not just in gambling but in every areas of life, starting from your financial life, down to you marital life. Without patience you can end up making hasty decisions that you'll end up regretting later. Patience can help you stay calm even in situations that requires a hasty response or feedback, it can make you stay calm and reflect on the situation thoroughly before making any decisions.
In the context of gambling, patience plays a very vital role because it's exactly what makes you not to chase losses even when it appears that's the only option for anyone. It can equally help you not to make impulsive decisions when faced with certain decisions because it keeps you in control.

It's like discipline. As much as you have it, you don't need it. Only those who don't have it are wishing for it. Because it is not a God given gift. It is a practice to cultivate and be repeated over and over again if you want to improve and grow with it. Practice it in you day to day life and you will have the same on your gambling hours. Because what happens is that everything is just a reflection of what you do everyday. It becomes normal to you as day pass by like breathing. So you don't force anything. You bet until right opportunity comes and when there is none, you wait patiently.

In a way it is ironic that those that may need to be patient the most are in fact the ones that are the most impatient, but this should not be that surprising, as those people had a lot of opportunities to learn this during their gambling journeys and they refuse to do it, since it is way more exciting to take decisions on the spur of the moment than to take your time to analyze the situation and see if making additional bets is the right step to take at the time.

Being patient in gambling can be difficult as you mentioned. But dealing with impatient isn't that hard to handle. It depends on your determination. What you want to achieve in gambling can be grabbed easily with the determined drive in you to reach there. Since you may handle patience in other parts of your life, then gambling shouldn't be an exception. I understand the unending daily challenges of gambling that tend to overpower the strength and patience of gamblers.

Yet when we can get over the impulses of staying impatient and chasing after shadows, gambling seems enjoyable. At some time gambling each day wouldn't be a challenge for the gambler, as he could easily decide not to play for a week or more. Meaning that he's now in control of the game. Same thing when in the game, he could, through patience, decide to stop at a given time. Hence, to achieve this level of self-control requires patience. It'll be vague to say that you'd easily ascertain complete patience in gambling. It all takes time.

True, patience is useful in anything we do in life especially if we talk about gambling which is very likely to always be able to involve emotions, or simply patience is very useful for holding emotions when you lose, and maybe I would say that patience is an attitude that must be possessed by all gamblers especially those who always gamble excessively and also for those irresponsible who do not have the ability to accept the fact of defeat.

But I will say that patience will only be applicable or useful to minimize the amount of losses and not to maximize wins, because after all in terms of gambling for the problem of the results can never be known because victory in gambling is nothing more than a "chance" while defeat is a sure thing, meaning that you cannot guarantee victory even if you try hard because only luck will be able to deliver you while defeat is a sure thing, so of course this is the reason why a gambler should prioritize preventive measures such as applying patience.

I also think that patience is a virtue because things are not so easy when you are playing and you want to have a quick result, sometimes I lose a lot because I don't know how to wait, and I think that this has also happened to many players. same problem, the bad thing is that it is reflected in our money because we lose a lot, so sometimes patience is better to see as a virtue, I have patience for many things, but in the casino it is very difficult for me to have the patience of many, I For that reason I have always believed that things can be very good if we know how to control them , the people who are patients in the casino are truly blessed.

That's the good thing when you have that positive attitude, patience not only in gambling but yes in most activities that we encounters, If you have that you can just wait and find that timing with your luck,  unlike without any patience at all you'll just aggressively do a decision that can place you in a much higher risk, it's important that you are still in-control  and your patience will be a key factor to achieve and prevent you from losing a lot, especially amount that you can't afford to lose.

If you exercise patience in gambling, it is more worrying because if you are a rich person or a gambler and you exercise the patience that is said in this section, the more it is exercised and
the more the amount we lose increases.

Especially if we are still a bit unlucky in gambling and the chances are high that we will lose a large amount, then even if we win, it will still be negative because of the size of the loss that
we have already accumulated.

Patience does not only apply to gamble but it is a virtue that when you have it in whatever you are doing, you will be able to achieve a positive outcome. Gambling is what needs patience on, if not you will not be able to withstand a tensed atmosphere when you are running at loss. If a gambler is patient with his lucky to play out, that gambler will not take drastic decisions of gambling with the amount that he can afford to lose, or neither will he think of only winning and not losing.

Yes, be patient and calm in playing and see the opportunities in each round, how do we make decisions regarding betting risks in playing? Everyone definitely has their own way of betting and skills in reading the conditions of a round. This can minimize huge losses and we can get the desired results in gambling.

Peace of mind when gambling is extremely important. If you make bets in a hurry, without calculating the possible results, and choosing the object for betting by the method of poke - then the probability of success is extremely low. Therefore, calm, only calm - as said the great Carlson, who lives on the roof

Yeah patience is one vital tool that enhance a gambler aims of achieving bigger wins but alot of gamblers don't see to this perspective as what they think is making it so quick not adopting the fact that they need patience to givern a lot of the affairs that Will stimulates their wins..but then I concur entirely to your statement  that patience enables a gambler to make wise decisions.

Something happened to me that made me learnt so much lesson to be patient enough for whatsoever reason because it buys to my day to day activities and schedules,not to talk about a gambler so without patience I wouldn't have known a lot that I do now that has made me take most decisions that have profited me.