Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 3. (Read 10419 times)

Growing up around gamblers, seeing their struggles, or trying it out yourself – that can definitely make you more likely to get caught in the game. Plus, if you're already dealing with stuff like anxiety or depression, gambling might seem like a quick escape, even though it ends up being a deeper rabbit hole.

Some folks just have personalities that crave excitement and risk, which ain't bad in itself, but when it comes to gambling, it can be a recipe for disaster. It's like skydiving without a parachute – sure, it's thrilling, but the consequences ain't pretty.

Quitting anything addictive is tough, and gambling is no exception. It's not about being "weak" – it's about your brain being tricked into thinking gambling is awesome when it really ain't. It's like that feeling you get after eating a whole bag of chips – good in the moment, bad later.

The concept you are trying to put out isn't a bad one but it seems you have not been able to put it out in very clear terms but then I think from what I've red so far I understand you are suggesting the concept of good and proper risk management and money management aswell which isn't a bad idea which if used by the gambler they will be better gamblers.

For those who has been addicted gamblers, they still have hope of getting out of such addiction if they first accept they are addicted and are willing to seek help, a professional help will really go along way to helping them fix their gambling deficiencies, but then they will have to be willing to get that help they need. For those still gambling they need better strategy to help them stay responsible gambling and this includes both their risk management and bank roll management.

The gambler was the backbone of the family,the money spend by the gamblers on the other expenses will leads to financial problems in the family.So the gamblers should play the responsible game in the gambling site.The every betting was the important one in the gambling,the gamblers who take enough time for predicting of the betting will make the possible outcome.

The random betting in the gambling will mostly cause the loss in the gambling site,the gamblers get the loan trouble need to play the gambling with more care.Because the loss in the gambling will make the gamblers to get loan for their own expenses.If they start to take the loan,the money handling was the bad with the gambler.

I got into gambling only for my entertainment and nothing else especially I never got into gambling to make money. So in my case there is no hard reality to face to get rid of gambling. I got into gambling just for fun and I can stop gambling at any moment. I have always considered myself mentally prepared and any time I will abstain from gambling forever. Especially I devote my alone time to gambling and other times I spend all my time on my personal work. Many people get addicted to gambling in such a way that they cannot come out easily but if they can control themselves mentally then it will not be difficult for them to stop gambling.

     -   What I have noticed is that the more a gambler is told to stop, the more he tries to gamble, even though it is not at the level of having an addiction. But when there is an addiction, they no longer pay attention or become numb to hearing such reminders. In short, it is difficult to deal with those who are really addicted to gambling.

But if the initiative to quit gambling comes from the gambler himself, I think they will be able to really quit little by little, not immediately or depending on the gambler who wants to quit or leave gambling.

And this is terrible, because for relatives, a problem player is a real grief in the family. I often heard the phrase "ludoman has no right to a family" from such problematic players, and they always said it with sadness and sincerity. Just imagine - your loved one is not drunk, not a drug addict, but his behavior is inappropriate and he is trying to take things out of the house. Spend all the money that is needed for the existence of the family. Perhaps this is the most terrible phenomenon of our century.

Just the same with the post above you, it depends from how the gambler engage themselves inside gambling, the urgency depends with your apetite, if you are not addicted it's easy to quit and stop, but if you are already addicted chances to stop is by far, there's a need of professionals to help you curing your addiction.

It should be take into account that bad side effects of gambling will extend not just by the gambler but also those people who sorrounds him and care for him.

When we are gambling at a casino, we must always remember when to stop gambling to avoid losing. If you still have difficulty determining when you can stop gambling, you should not gamble for a while and choose to do other activities that are safer and don't lose a lot of money. Stopping gambling is a must to avoid losing a lot of money so that we can use gambling as entertainment only and not try to make money from gambling because that will be very difficult. Many people have tried to stop themselves from gambling, but many people have not been able to do so and instead choose to gamble more and more often. They find pleasure in gambling, so it is still difficult for them to leave gambling. Maybe if they run out of all their money playing gambling, then they can stop themselves from gambling, but that's not feasible because we have to spend all the money before we can stop gambling. But if we can have discipline in gambling, we will remember when to stop gambling so that we don't have to spend a lot of money before we stop gambling.

When playing gambling, we must have clear boundaries so that we don't violate those boundaries, which could cause problems of losing more money. We cannot rely on gambling to get pleasure because we still have other things that can also give us pleasure. This depends on how we choose the activities, and if we have chosen gambling as a way to have fun, we should always limit gambling activities so that we can still enjoy gambling as entertainment. That is the purpose of gambling that many people forget and don't remember when to stop gambling. Apart from that, it is because of the desire to win that people return to gambling when they have more money. And no matter how much money they have, if they don't have self-control, the money will soon run out on gambling, and they won't have any money left that could be used to gamble another day. They can spread the money over several days rather than spending it in one day because that means they have to spend more money if they want to gamble another day.

Quit of the gambling was the dream of the gamblers who want to get away because of the gambling addiction.But the gamblers who want to get away should follow the certain steps in the gambling site.The proper training was the key for the gambling success and the people to get away from the gambling.The important one is money money handling on the gambling site.Plan the game with every betting with the less money in the gambling site.So the gamblers who want to quit should play the game with the small amount betting was the key for the game,the less amount risking will help the gambler not become a gambling addicted person in the gambling site.

What I think is that everything is a process in life, because for us to do and achieve certain things in life we need to focus that we Must do things correctly, in this order of ideas we must be very careful when we are playing and when We are practicing Certain things to do, for example when we are in a casino and we get very excited, because we have to do our Best to be able to have the best attention, and if a person does not control himself, then he can Obviously fall into Addiction and That is what should be Avoided , that is why when we are Looking for Ways for people to overcome addictions, the formula is not the same for some and for some and for others, so when we set out to stop doing something, it is not so easy. , it leaves its consequences, just if a girlfriend leaves a particular person, that is difficult, maybe for the person or for Her , so these Things are Difficult to overcome sometimes.

So when I say that things can be efficient in the casino game because we can make a difference, then in this case many ways can be generated to attack things in the addiction of the game, but leaving it as such, I do not recommend it. 'because it can lead to a relapse and if the person is addicted it can have a very strong impact, because the person will get even with it, so if we do it in steps, slowly but surely, it is the best, that is, if it is Leaving the game can be left little by little, not playing with such intensity, that is, if before we played with 200usd, the next time we will play with 100usd, and the other time we will play with 50 uas and the rest will be Used but in time , that is to say. Practicing a sport is the best thing you can do to cover the prevailing need to play, that's a great idea, obviously if you have the money to go to a Psychologist it's much better.

Indeed, I believe that this kind of perspective will help us recognize how complicated our gambling habits are and the difficulties some people may have in quitting entirely. Instead, I think it highlights how important it is to support people who struggle with compulsive or destructive gambling behavior and to promote our ethical gambling practices.
And rather than promoting total abstinence, if we concentrate on lessening the detrimental effects of gambling in our lives, treatments can target particular harmful behaviors and still permit people to engage in some level of recreational gaming if they so desire. The negative effects of gambling on gamblers and communities can, in my opinion, be reduced by encouraging responsible gaming practices and offering tools to help people overcome harmful habits.

I agree with this that the environment can be a factor in someone continuing to gamble impulsively. for a gambler will associate with a gambler, a drunkard will associate with a drunkard, and a wise person will associate with wise people. But later there will be a meeting point between an addict and a wise person. And this will be an extraordinary meeting point, where a wise person can make an addict aware to change his bad behavior, or even vice versa, where a wise person is actually influenced by an addict, until in the end both of them are trapped in an impulsive gambling.


The important point is to remind each other, because humans are never free from wrongdoing, and can unknowingly commit carelessness which results in a loss. And indeed, when we try to advise or remind other people, we have to do it slowly and with good words, so that the person we are advising is not provoked by emotions and is able to accept a statement regarding their bad behavior in gambling.

Being addicted to gambling means that we have used gambling as a priority in our lives, where it will only give us problem after problem so that we will not be able to withstand the problem if it gets bigger. We may become frustrated seeing that the problem cannot be solved easily, and we will not even see that there is a way out of our problem, so we will only think negatively about ourselves. Maybe those who are addicted to gambling have the intention to change and heal themselves, but when they don't see any other way to stop gambling, they don't try to cure themselves. By always trying to prevent gambling addiction from happening to us, we will try hard not to gamble for too long and also will not use more because we already know the risks and really want to prevent it from happening to us. We will do whatever it takes to prevent many losses, but some people don't want to pay attention to this and end up experiencing problems that will keep coming and going without a solution.

Stopping gambling will never be easy because it depends on a person's intention to stop all gambling activities, including not looking at things related to gambling so that their mind will not think about gambling again. Doing other things that are not related to gambling is a must so that our minds can calm down and not think about gambling anymore so that we will not be too dependent on gambling to get that pleasure. But when we feel that we have started to develop a gambling addiction, we can ask family members for help or even visit an expert who can help us cure our gambling addiction before it causes other problems. It won't be easy, but we have to keep trying so that we are truly free from gambling addiction rather than facing risks that we can't imagine what the impact will be. We should prevent it than to treat it because to treat it, we need a lot of money, whereas to prevent it, we can do many things or activities so that our minds can be distracted and we will not think about gambling.

In my opinion, the best solution for gamblers who have committed to quitting is to avoid hanging out with the same environment. Even if the gambling habit is often done online, it is necessary to temporarily limit the use of smartphones. It sounds like it is very difficult to stop gambling, and apart from needing new things to divert this bad habit, you also need positive encouragement from the people closest to you. By looking further ahead, organizing it with more logical thinking, before it is too late it will provide a complete picture to stop gambling.

I admit that quitting gambling is very difficult, several friends and people I know who actively gamble say the same thing. So far they are still doing this bad habit, although sometimes I also remind them of the long term impact if they don't think about stopping. Indeed, the amount they bet is only a small amount, but if it is accumulated it will look large too. Personally, I also maintain a limit of not giving too much advice to friends, because it will make them avoid hanging out with each other because they are insecure about their bad habits.

What makes it difficult for them to leave gambling, isn't it that the gambling they do can only cause losses and only become an obstacle to their balance in life?

And know that the problem is actually not difficult, it's just that the person is making the problem even more complicated. And it is not difficulties that make them afraid, but fear and doubt that make them difficult, so that they will forever be trapped in impulsive gambling. If a person has a strong desire and commitment to a better life, then it is not difficult to get out of that condition. Unless someone is not aware and always ignores the negative impacts of compulsive and irresponsible gambling. Because no matter how long I try to explain and make him aware of this behavior, if the person doesn't have awareness, desire and effort, then everything will be useless. and if what they are after is pleasure, there are still other things that are more enjoyable without causing serious negative impacts.

That's right, that's why people who are already addicted have difficulty getting out of their gambling activities, because they already think that gambling is an activity that cannot be separated from their lives, and this happens because you come with the wrong understanding so that this makes you bring the wrong way or approach to gambling which also of course in the end makes you feel dependent on gambling. On the other hand, one of the reasons why it is difficult for someone to get out of gambling is that from the beginning they put their hopes on winning which in the end as I said above that with goals and expectations like this it will be very difficult for you or them to reach the realization that will be useful to ensure that the way or approach that is brought to gambling is wrong.

This is also the reason that there are some people who get into addiction and there are also some who are still safe without experiencing too significant an impact, and this means that there is a mistake they make that makes them end up suffering from something different from other people or other gamblers. On the other hand if there are some of them who argue that stopping gambling is the same as eliminating a place for them to have fun then obviously it is an absurd idea because after all there are still very many other activities that are also fun without involving any risk.

Things always become Detached from what they are , that is , Always for anything that we are Not used to Because things are like that in this Order of Ideas and One can do Something that is Beneficial to get out of something that one is Not doing Wrong Because Everything is Welcome , But in Any of the chaos and Circumstances what is being Done Wrong , in this case a Person Must always Try to do things well and without much Effort all that can be done to avoid being wrong is Welcome , there is no other way , in this case we are Just people who may be Causing them to not Control their Impulses well, and it is normal , for us , most of the things that are Done to have more Possibilities of doing things because they have to Assume that The biggest danger of this is that they Fall into Addiction, this is something we must ssume, and the best Thing is that we Have to do Whatever it takes to be well, But there is no Worst thing I know about Becoming Addicted.

That I say it's easy to Stop Betting ? No , things are Not that Easy , things are the Routines That we do on a daily basis , for me it is Easy to say that I Should Leave the game and not Play Anymore , but when there is a habit, when there are Other things of Course , no It's Easy , there will Always be something that canPrevent us from Doing so ,  I Would say that Sometimes to let Energy go and look for professional help , if you don't Have the money it is best to do Another Activity such as Going to play Soccer, Running , Swimming, making Yourself Tired the body to make things Easier, I have Always said that if a person Starts to see things from the Point of View of quitting an Addiction it is Difficult, it is little by Little and tiring the body Requires some rest and that It Awakens the desire or desire to play, that is what I see most on that Side , I am Not a fan of Therapies of that Style , if I Were a psychologist or something like that, also if I see that it is very Strong and that he does it without Control I would make him Sleep Cures.

Gambling is something to learn self-control and discipline so that if someone succeeds in mastering it, they will not have any problems with gambling and other things. They can resist the temptation not to continue gambling because they know that continuing to gamble will only spend their money faster, especially since they don't know when they will win. Those who can't stand the temptation will just continue gambling without being able to stop because they think that one more step and they can win some money. But it's all just a dream that is difficult to realize because gambling is not something that can give them a big opportunity to make money. Even though some people can make money, it is because they have luck and skills in gambling that other people do not. A greater will or desire to win cannot always result in a win because this is gambling, where the gambler who wins will continue to change and is never the same person. And if we remain unaware of it, it's only a matter of time before we run out of money, and we could lose money even faster.

By having good self-control and being responsible when playing gambling, we can prevent ourselves from losing more and more because we know how to stop it quickly before we suffer more losses. We will quickly remember that gambling is entertainment, and there is no need to gamble too often or for too long because we will prevent losing money from happening to us. We will not face problems that have happened to other gamblers thanks to the self-control and responsibility we have so that we can enjoy gambling as it should be. After we take a break from gambling, we can do other activities that can divert our attention from gambling and keep ourselves busy doing it. We also won't be tempted by anything we see in the casino because our goal is just to have fun for a while in our free time, so we have no intention of chasing wins or recovering from losses.

If you still have that control over your emotion then it's aggreable that you can still quit your way, though there are different levels of addiction and those who already suffer from deep addiction needs help from the professional, as even how hard they will going to try the dominance of gambling already pollute their minds.


Becuase that's also the outcome of being greed, thinking that money can be earn easily and quickly, you attached yourself and your engagement is no longer controllable.


Still in denial stage, most of those addicted gamblers are in that phase and not willing to be corrected, they keep trying and the outcome still unfavorable to them.

The difficult someone faces Whenever they try to stop something actually depends on how much that thing has become a part of them. Every gamblers gambling routine is not the same with others therefore the easy for them to stop it still isn't same.
Besides, stopping gambling is not something most gamblers will do but stopping unhealthy gambling practices is definitely something worth doing.
Alot of gamblers will even be of the opinion that stopping gambling is more like telling them to stop having fun which actually sounds and seems irrational.