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Quote from: Fredomago on September 03, 2023, 09:01:28 PM

Worse things that unexpected to happen if addiction already dominated your minds, those who do these kinds of things are no longer in control with their actions, a lot of addicted gamblers went to jail because of crimes that they've committed, not easy to quit once you already engaged that much, the power of self-will needs to be back up by your actions, probably if too much addiction professional help might be needed to control or to turn back the balance inside a person mindset.

Addiction occurs due to excessive attitudes towards hobbies or pleasures that they do. including gambling, those who are addicted to extremes must receive special assistance to straighten out their mindset toward gambling. it's hard to get out but if their mindset is put back with the right understanding, maybe it will be a little better. This of course requires a psychiatrist and family support for the mental stabilization process. Because it is already associated with harming others, it can be a severe case of addiction.

Quote from: lienfaye on September 03, 2023, 09:47:00 PM

That's true. If we don't want to be in a situation wherein we can't control ourselves anymore as an addicted gambler. Then before we play, think of the worst things that can happen or the consequences if we let ourselves be hooked in gambling. This way, you'll play with discipline since you're aware of the negative effects of gambling.

When you gamble very often, you will not think about the risk of loss. it has become a habit that may be difficult to break.
Addicted gamblers will not feel satisfied even if they win. they will not be able to suppress the feeling to continue playing. Even though the impact can be reduced, it is still difficult to quit gambling. what can be done is to change the pattern of gambling.

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Quote from: serjent05 on September 02, 2023, 06:36:25 PM

Everything can be controlled as long as we stay sane. But the moment we get addicted of it, it will change everything. Addiction means we are not in control anymore but the urge is. So whether it is lust, gambling, alcohol, or drugs, if we get addicted to it, there is no way of controlling it unless we ask for treatment and get cured. So in as early as possible when we engage in gambling, we must inculcate in our mind that we must gamble responsibly, have moderation, and always have a personal check to see whether we have the sign of being addicted and correct our ways even before addiction dominates our brains.

That's true. If we don't want to be in a situation wherein we can't control ourselves anymore as an addicted gambler. Then before we play, think of the worst things that can happen or the consequences if we let ourselves be hooked in gambling. This way, you'll play with discipline since you're aware of the negative effects of gambling.

Anyway, there's nothing wrong if you want to gamble and to have some fun. But just like what you've said it should be in moderation so we can prevent ourselves becoming addicted. Because once you're in such situation, it's already hard to quit and usually professional help is necessary in order to overcome it.

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I beg to disagree, once a person is addicted there is a possibility for this person to do unexpected things just to do the uncontrollable urge due to addiction. This is another reason why gambling when heard by other people are tainted with crimes and violence. Other gambling addicts tend to commit crimes in order to support their gambling activities. They start stealing the money from the family budget and then selling the properties, and then when all is sold, they go for loans until they default and are forced to commit robbery and the alike.

I believe gambling addiction can lead to criminal activity if not treated asap.

The person who get gambling addicted will speak the unwanted words to their family members or wife to get money for the game.This one is common for the people who ask money to drink,when they don’t have any money.The addicted people also get into the crime to gain some money for the game,they also get into violence as like they consume some drink.Most of the gambling addict commit the crime and earn some money,then the use money to the do gambling.Some addict will do some murder to get money,they don’t know what they doing in the addiction.

Worse things that unexpected to happen if addiction already dominated your minds, those who do these kinds of things are no longer in control with their actions, a lot of addicted gamblers went to jail because of crimes that they've committed, not easy to quit once you already engaged that much, the power of self-will needs to be back up by your actions, probably if too much addiction professional help might be needed to control or to turn back the balance inside a person mindset.

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Quote from: serjent05 on September 03, 2023, 06:09:52 PM

I beg to disagree, once a person is addicted there is a possibility for this person to do unexpected things just to do the uncontrollable urge due to addiction. This is another reason why gambling when heard by other people are tainted with crimes and violence. Other gambling addicts tend to commit crimes in order to support their gambling activities. They start stealing the money from the family budget and then selling the properties, and then when all is sold, they go for loans until they default and are forced to commit robbery and the alike.

I believe gambling addiction can lead to criminal activity if not treated asap.

The person who get gambling addicted will speak the unwanted words to their family members or wife to get money for the game.This one is common for the people who ask money to drink,when they don’t have any money.The addicted people also get into the crime to gain some money for the game,they also get into violence as like they consume some drink.Most of the gambling addict commit the crime and earn some money,then the use money to the do gambling.Some addict will do some murder to get money,they don’t know what they doing in the addiction.So help your gambling addiction friends with some advice and get them to not do any crime in future.

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Quote from: klidex on September 03, 2023, 04:20:25 PM

Actually gambling addicts are not as complicated as we think and not as bad as we think and gambling addicts as if they are not crazy people who must be treated by professionals and do not even require violence to deal with this.
Gambling addicts are ordinary people who do the same activities as us without harming other people, but in their gambling activities they don't have full control over themselves or seem to be unable to stop gambling, always thinking about winning.
Problems like this we don't need to think too much about something bad because if it happens to family or friends we can try to do the first approach slowly following the flow of what he is doing after that try to open a conversation regarding gambling and encourage him to tell about what he thinks on gambling.
In this way, we as ordinary people who are not gamblers can find out the cause of their addiction so that it is easy to help them stop betting.

I beg to disagree, once a person is addicted there is a possibility for this person to do unexpected things just to do the uncontrollable urge due to addiction. This is another reason why gambling when heard by other people are tainted with crimes and violence. Other gambling addicts tend to commit crimes in order to support their gambling activities. They start stealing the money from the family budget and then selling the properties, and then when all is sold, they go for loans until they default and are forced to commit robbery and the alike.

I believe gambling addiction can lead to criminal activity if not treated asap.

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If a quit decision is coming from a gambler then I don't think it should be a problem much for him to achieve but in most cases, we try to engage force and other means to achieve our own wish over the gambler involved to see the change we want come to pass in them, to quit is not the hardest task here, the approach we apply in achieving is sometimes are wrong entirely, this makes it seems so difficult so someone to change or quit especially when they were already found addicted to gambling.

If they use violence, it doesn't seem like it will work because change can only be successful if there is an intention from someone who wants the change. If other people force him to stop gambling, it will only cause conflict between other people and himself, where he will surely defend himself. But if there is a desire from someone who is addicted to gambling to be able to stop, it will open up opportunities for other people to come in and help them as much as possible. And people who are addicted to gambling will not just remain silent but will try to carry out their desire to stop gambling. We have to use a completely different approach from one gambling addict to another because maybe the root cause of the problem will not be the same.

That is why it is better to leave it to those professionals, mostly if we are having trouble somewhat controlling a person due to his gambling activities, because those professionals, like psychologists, will know how to better approach that addict to make it stop or just lessen his gambling activities, though the problem really is that if the gambler is willing to be helped, we know that those gambling addicts won't accept or recognize that he is already addicted to it.

Actually gambling addicts are not as complicated as we think and not as bad as we think and gambling addicts as if they are not crazy people who must be treated by professionals and do not even require violence to deal with this.
Gambling addicts are ordinary people who do the same activities as us without harming other people, but in their gambling activities they don't have full control over themselves or seem to be unable to stop gambling, always thinking about winning.
Problems like this we don't need to think too much about something bad because if it happens to family or friends we can try to do the first approach slowly following the flow of what he is doing after that try to open a conversation regarding gambling and encourage him to tell about what he thinks on gambling.
In this way, we as ordinary people who are not gamblers can find out the cause of their addiction so that it is easy to help them stop betting.

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But to stop gambling requires a strong intention and the right effort so that they can really stop gambling and never return to gambling again. Only people who have such things can completely stop gambling while others will return to gambling and there are even many who develop gambling addiction without help.

Exactly, for some people, they wouldn't stop gambling even they are already have a bad results. They will say I will quit, but in the next few weeks, they will going back. Without a strong inner desire to stop, there was no other way. Forgetting the defeat have experienced, focusing on other things, might help. But, they must also remember, that they already has the intention to stop gambling. Never ever trying to play again. Once they tries, the addiction has previously managed to reduce may feel stronger than before.

Yeah, I see that point the intention was there, but if you failed to resist and you follow the dominance of your desire that lust inside you will be going stronger and your engagement to gambling will be more solidify you need to work more with your will and make sure that you have that inner strength that can limit your gambling session.

It's tough to work on your own lust. I mean, beating something that you are being please, gambling is entertaining and enjoyable, the problem is you really can't control once you already engage too much.

It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

Everything can be controlled as long as we stay sane. But the moment we get addicted of it, it will change everything. Addiction means we are not in control anymore but the urge is. So whether it is lust, gambling, alcohol, or drugs, if we get addicted to it, there is no way of controlling it unless we ask for treatment and get cured. So in as early as possible when we engage in gambling, we must inculcate in our mind that we must gamble responsibly, have moderation, and always have a personal check to see whether we have the sign of being addicted and correct our ways even before addiction dominates our brains.

Addiction is one of the things that makes a human lose control, because it is something that makes it difficult for that person to have control of emotions, impulses, and everything that has to do with their things, because to play In a casino, if that person does not have money, they will do whatever it takes to get even a little to be able to play and in that aspect is where they must have responsibility, because if there is not then it is not possible for it to improve, if the The gambler is irresponsible, he knows that he will be without money, and to get it again it is with work and that takes time because you have to wait 15 days or 30 days to have money in your hands and it is very bad if you leave everything in a casino, that It is an act that is not responsible.

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It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

You have raised a very good point and I want to address it. It should be called "lust and gambling".
Let's forget about the common meaning of "lust" (sex). Lust is when you desire something so deeply that nothing can stop you from achieving it. This is the right definition of lust. When you have lust for gambling then, based on the previous definition, nothing can stop you from playing/gambling. Keeping your self busy with something else or focusing on something else to forget about gambling may work if you are not lusting for gambling.

What is the difference between lust and emotion, so I think what is involved is not just a matter of mere lust. To be honest, I don't find the essence in the meaning of the word lust. The source that always triggers it is our own thoughts, and how dopamine plays an important role in making us enjoy gambling. and if we talk about lust, every human being has it and it is a natural trait that everyone has. and if lust is the trigger, then the initial trigger comes from emotion, and emotion is born from our own thinking. Whether what I say is true or false, this is just part of my point of view.

Well, whether it is easy or difficult to stop gambling depends on each individual. The thing is, everyone has their own way and how they react to it. In fact, there are many who find it difficult to stop gambling, because they are unable to fight their high desire to gamble. some others, it is easy to quit gambling activities. either by looking for other diversions, or indeed they only gamble at certain times. IMO, the point is, how do we define gambling itself. If we think that gambling is just for fun, do it without affecting the many aspects that have a detrimental impact on us.

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Quote from: Aanuoluwatofunmi on September 02, 2023, 01:37:20 PM

If a quit decision is coming from a gambler then I don't think it should be a problem much for him to achieve but in most cases, we try to engage force and other means to achieve our own wish over the gambler involved to see the change we want come to pass in them, to quit is not the hardest task here, the approach we apply in achieving is sometimes are wrong entirely, this makes it seems so difficult so someone to change or quit especially when they were already found addicted to gambling.

If they use violence, it doesn't seem like it will work because change can only be successful if there is an intention from someone who wants the change. If other people force him to stop gambling, it will only cause conflict between other people and himself, where he will surely defend himself. But if there is a desire from someone who is addicted to gambling to be able to stop, it will open up opportunities for other people to come in and help them as much as possible. And people who are addicted to gambling will not just remain silent but will try to carry out their desire to stop gambling. We have to use a completely different approach from one gambling addict to another because maybe the root cause of the problem will not be the same.

That is why it is better to leave it to those professionals, mostly if we are having trouble somewhat controlling a person due to his gambling activities, because those professionals, like psychologists, will know how to better approach that addict to make it stop or just lessen his gambling activities, though the problem really is that if the gambler is willing to be helped, we know that those gambling addicts won't accept or recognize that he is already addicted to it.

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Quote from: Aanuoluwatofunmi on September 02, 2023, 01:37:20 PM

If a quit decision is coming from a gambler then I don't think it should be a problem much for him to achieve but in most cases, we try to engage force and other means to achieve our own wish over the gambler involved to see the change we want come to pass in them, to quit is not the hardest task here, the approach we apply in achieving is sometimes are wrong entirely, this makes it seems so difficult so someone to change or quit especially when they were already found addicted to gambling.

If they use violence, it doesn't seem like it will work because change can only be successful if there is an intention from someone who wants the change. If other people force him to stop gambling, it will only cause conflict between other people and himself, where he will surely defend himself. But if there is a desire from someone who is addicted to gambling to be able to stop, it will open up opportunities for other people to come in and help them as much as possible. And people who are addicted to gambling will not just remain silent but will try to carry out their desire to stop gambling. We have to use a completely different approach from one gambling addict to another because maybe the root cause of the problem will not be the same.

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Quote from: serjent05 on September 02, 2023, 06:36:25 PM

Everything can be controlled as long as we stay sane.

It's difficult if you have become an addict because anyone who is addicted will feel that they don't realize it and feel that they are still sane, but they don't realize that they have gone far, so if you want to stop and get out of gambling, of course it's not that short, of course it takes time to treat it, namely By reducing activities and avoiding all gambling activities, especially if gambling at online casinos, staying away from the internet will be better by living an active social life outside the home.

We will not be able to stop the habit of gambling, especially if we don't consciously feel addicted, it will clearly be difficult, the only thing that can make us quit and stop gambling is the people around us, because having them around us can help us remind us us to stop gambling, even so it takes time to recover and stop gambling, but at least reducing it slowly will help us.

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But to stop gambling requires a strong intention and the right effort so that they can really stop gambling and never return to gambling again. Only people who have such things can completely stop gambling while others will return to gambling and there are even many who develop gambling addiction without help.

Exactly, for some people, they wouldn't stop gambling even they are already have a bad results. They will say I will quit, but in the next few weeks, they will going back. Without a strong inner desire to stop, there was no other way. Forgetting the defeat have experienced, focusing on other things, might help. But, they must also remember, that they already has the intention to stop gambling. Never ever trying to play again. Once they tries, the addiction has previously managed to reduce may feel stronger than before.

Yeah, I see that point the intention was there, but if you failed to resist and you follow the dominance of your desire that lust inside you will be going stronger and your engagement to gambling will be more solidify you need to work more with your will and make sure that you have that inner strength that can limit your gambling session.

It's tough to work on your own lust. I mean, beating something that you are being please, gambling is entertaining and enjoyable, the problem is you really can't control once you already engage too much.

It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

Everything can be controlled as long as we stay sane. But the moment we get addicted of it, it will change everything. Addiction means we are not in control anymore but the urge is. So whether it is lust, gambling, alcohol, or drugs, if we get addicted to it, there is no way of controlling it unless we ask for treatment and get cured. So in as early as possible when we engage in gambling, we must inculcate in our mind that we must gamble responsibly, have moderation, and always have a personal check to see whether we have the sign of being addicted and correct our ways even before addiction dominates our brains.

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Quote from: n0ne on September 01, 2023, 06:59:18 PM

It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

You have raised a very good point and I want to address it. It should be called "lust and gambling".
Let's forget about the common meaning of "lust" (sex). Lust is when you desire something so deeply that nothing can stop you from achieving it. This is the right definition of lust. When you have lust for gambling then, based on the previous definition, nothing can stop you from playing/gambling. Keeping your self busy with something else or focusing on something else to forget about gambling may work if you are not lusting for gambling.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on September 01, 2023, 07:51:08 AM

But to stop gambling requires a strong intention and the right effort so that they can really stop gambling and never return to gambling again. Only people who have such things can completely stop gambling while others will return to gambling and there are even many who develop gambling addiction without help.

Exactly, for some people, they wouldn't stop gambling even they are already have a bad results. They will say I will quit, but in the next few weeks, they will going back. Without a strong inner desire to stop, there was no other way. Forgetting the defeat have experienced, focusing on other things, might help. But, they must also remember, that they already has the intention to stop gambling. Never ever trying to play again. Once they tries, the addiction has previously managed to reduce may feel stronger than before.

Yeah, I see that point the intention was there, but if you failed to resist and you follow the dominance of your desire that lust inside you will be going stronger and your engagement to gambling will be more solidify you need to work more with your will and make sure that you have that inner strength that can limit your gambling session.

It's tough to work on your own lust. I mean, beating something that you are being please, gambling is entertaining and enjoyable, the problem is you really can't control once you already engage too much.

It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

It not all about self-control only but also broad thinking about recognizing that gambling is just a place to gamble with small amounts to please oneself without having to come to gambling every day and this strong desire and broad thinking can create good self-control but if only say regarding self-control it will be very difficult as long as the thoughts and desires are not very strong.
Because as far as I feel now and from my experience, even if I try to control myself or try to hold back my desire not to continue betting, it will only be in vain because my thoughts are still imagining winning at gambling and also the fun of this gambling which make a person comfortable and difficult to avoid gambling.

If majority of people would be having that kind of behavior and mindset then we arent seeing gambling industry to be that so profitable and going bigger and bigger as years passing but we are seeing the different

or totally opposite thing on which it do become even more bigger and revenue and profits made out is much more higher on yearly statistics on which this one really proves out that there are tons of people who do
come on this field and lots or tons of newbies who do touch up this space. Cant really be denied that dealing up with gambling could really be just that fun, yes its not bad but on the time that you are already
spending tons and being that impulsive then this is where problems do start. If you are a person who cant really be just having that kind of approach then making yourself getting addicted would be so simple.

Speaking about quitting and having that good control then it would really be entirely be depending on a certain individual since not all would really be having that kind of the same control
and discipline towards themselves when engaging out on a particular situation.

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If a quit decision is coming from a gambler then I don't think it should be a problem much for him to achieve but in most cases, we try to engage force and other means to achieve our own wish over the gambler involved to see the change we want come to pass in them, to quit is not the hardest task here, the approach we apply in achieving is sometimes are wrong entirely, this makes it seems so difficult so someone to change or quit especially when they were already found addicted to gambling.

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But to stop gambling requires a strong intention and the right effort so that they can really stop gambling and never return to gambling again. Only people who have such things can completely stop gambling while others will return to gambling and there are even many who develop gambling addiction without help.

Exactly, for some people, they wouldn't stop gambling even they are already have a bad results. They will say I will quit, but in the next few weeks, they will going back. Without a strong inner desire to stop, there was no other way. Forgetting the defeat have experienced, focusing on other things, might help. But, they must also remember, that they already has the intention to stop gambling. Never ever trying to play again. Once they tries, the addiction has previously managed to reduce may feel stronger than before.

Yeah, I see that point the intention was there, but if you failed to resist and you follow the dominance of your desire that lust inside you will be going stronger and your engagement to gambling will be more solidify you need to work more with your will and make sure that you have that inner strength that can limit your gambling session.

It's tough to work on your own lust. I mean, beating something that you are being please, gambling is entertaining and enjoyable, the problem is you really can't control once you already engage too much.

It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

It not all about self-control only but also broad thinking about recognizing that gambling is just a place to gamble with small amounts to please oneself without having to come to gambling every day and this strong desire and broad thinking can create good self-control but if only say regarding self-control it will be very difficult as long as the thoughts and desires are not very strong.
Because as far as I feel now and from my experience, even if I try to control myself or try to hold back my desire not to continue betting, it will only be in vain because my thoughts are still imagining winning at gambling and also the fun of this gambling which make a person comfortable and difficult to avoid gambling.

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Quote from: n0ne on September 01, 2023, 06:59:18 PM

It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

Gambling have both negative and positive effects, we are the ones that will choose were we belong. We look for possible opportunities that will make us comfortable in the system. We are the only ones who have complete control over ourselves and our actions. Abstinence from gambling and face the realities of this world. It's easy to say "quit gambling," but it's much more difficult to accomplish. I've seen numerous circumstances when the gambler wants to quit gambling but lacks the determination to persuade the necessities involved to cease, leading him to wager again, and this time he's even worse.

You forgot to mention that the only reason that can make gambling difficult for anyone to quit is if the person is addicted, because for any normal Gambler out there, quitting is just as easy as saying "I want to quit" or "I am taking a break from gambling for a while".

Addiction is the only thing that ties people to gambling even when you're no longer comfortable doing it, this is why it is like we see a lot of gamblers who want to quit but are unable to, it is simply due to addiction, I hope this is clear and understandable enough.

To use myself as an example, there are times or periods that I can stay for as long as two to three months without placing a single bed, if I wanted to quit gambling from there, it is very easy, and this is possible because I am not addicted, but for the addicted, it is very hard for a day to pass without he or she gambling.

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It is all about the way how we take it forward. If we can keep ourselves under control, then it is possible to stay out of addiction. Lust is something that can be overcome concentrating on alternative things. Some might fail in it, but there is possible choices. If we consider gambling is similar to lust, then it is controllable. According to me lust on gambling and lust alone have got different meaning. Lust is some sort of feel, but with gambling there is money involved which could cause a negative effect than just lust which is much about feel.

Gambling have both negative and positive effects, we are the ones that will choose were we belong. We look for possible opportunities that will make us comfortable in the system. We are the only ones who have complete control over ourselves and our actions. Abstinence from gambling and face the realities of this world. It's easy to say "quit gambling," but it's much more difficult to accomplish. I've seen numerous circumstances when the gambler wants to quit gambling but lacks the determination to persuade the necessities involved to cease, leading him to wager again, and this time he's even worse.

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OP, there are many things' people do for fun but later ended in what has been generating income for them. People get paid to play games online using Xbox or PES, most content on YouTube are also fun content but YouTube get them paid. I do not advice that gambling is good and all that what am saying is that it is a choice and if a person gets his income from there then it's obvious his good at it and he can continue.

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Some gamblers believe in superstition and it's working for them as they win whenever they do whatever the superstition is about but that doesn't mean that the superstition is real. If you decide to follow them, it mightn't work for you as you don't have their level of luck.

Superstition is just a mechanism the individual uses to deceive his mind into believing there is a concrete evidence of a working strategy behind his winnings. He doesn't want to believe he wins just because he is lucky, because it's a too unstable way to see things, since your luck can vanish anytime, giving place to the unluckiness. On the other hand, superstition looks a safe method to play, since it works like a cake recipe you follow to reach the same results everytime. That is his mind protecting himself from the insecurity emotion of playing a game that can change anytime against him.

Also, when you are superstitious it's harder to quit, because you always feel like you have an ace up your sleeve.

Yes, but for this gamblers, they will have to lean onto something, a belief that they can win again and again and that's why most gamblers are superstitious. Met some of them locally, and they have like a bunch or rituals before playing on going on to let's say a traditional base casinos.

But we all know that everything is based on pure luck, I don't think that superstitions can help that much. If you are not lucky that day, then there's nothing that you can do. Maybe the best thing is to just quit for good and try maybe tomorrow to see. Maybe it will be different, in my opinion.

WTF, people going spiritual to win gambling??? That's the height of it, how could they be so naive and try to cheat the balance of nature with spiritual manipulation? Well, it's obvious that such a thing doesn't work, because if it works, it would have been a trend that people will be imbibing these days. I think I heard of a story similar to this in my country too, but it has been many years back to the extent that I couldn't remember vividly anymore. The person tried to go diabolic on a lotto company but ran mad in the process.

I believe that all these are unnecessary but people are doing it for the desperation of wanting to make money very easily and fast, which is not wise. Gambling is not the place to turn to become rich, you will hardly see people getting rich there except a few who are just destined for it. Gambling is where you can get a moderate amount of money, and can be consistent with it only if you know how to play well and luck is on your side.

I don't know if you can call superstitious gambling belief as spiritual though, but we all know that gamblers are one of the most superstitious persons that you are going to be meet because they believed that things can affect their winning or losing a game.

That's why I said that everything is based on pure luck and pure luck alone. There is no amount of spiritual or whatever we call it that can change the game in our favor. So just enjoy and have some fun and gamble money that we can afford to lose.

My friend, this is not superstition, it's real, some people are desperate and are going spiritual to win games, it's as bad as that. People have shared experiences of winning games through merely dreaming of numbers, and if that could happen, then knowing some games spiritually might not be impossible. At times, the country or environment we are makes us doubtful of certain things and generalise it as superstition, but in practice, it's so real. That's why it's good to travel often to know what's happening in some other countries and add it to our experience. Many of those things we see in movies are not only scripted but scripted reality. People could go the extra mile to make this money, and some will do it so that they will be able to see the vision to predict what will happen before it happens.

Does this thing work? I don't know but the fact remains that people do it and will continue to do it. Nonetheless, it has not stopped the house from winning and smoothly running its business.

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