Still i want you to consider that perhaps other massacres by western governments went unnoticed because the victims were foreigners.
The south weren't foreigners to Lincoln. He'd lived in New Orleans himself!
I could likely dig up a half dozen other examples too why the victims of national conquest don't have to be foreign, but surely you get the point... Nations are simply ruthless, and always will be so. Whenever you create a position of power, such as head of a state, all it takes is a few terms for the most Palpatine-like among the country to rise to that position. There is no way around this except for Anarchy.
Judging by your Avatar, I think we're together on this much... So why is it so hard for you to see that the whole world is populated by countries run by these evil bastards, and don't want your free society to threaten their rule in any small way?
Perhaps this time it would be different. Any first world country that attacked us would have tons of its own people living on our island since people would come from every where in the world. Perhaps if they tried to attack us people would take notice, perhaps people would go to the internet specifically to read about this story if it wasnt covered on the news. after all MANY people would personally know people who lived on the island. That could make things different.
When the internet is more free we'll be able to have that to an extent... But even once we do, we'd need a heck of a lot more than friends and family back home to care about us to save us from nations' wrath... These people may individually care about you, but they obviously don't give two farts in the wind about freedom from their slavery or else they'd be joining you.
They'll just think you're fruity, and won't be too surprised when the mainstream media tells them that some silly calamity befell your island and you sadly died because you're a shortsighted fruitcake.
also im not as naive as you think. I know that nations are a ruthless old boys club. Im not suggesting that we build a nation on good will. Im suggesting that we hammer out mechanisms that make it not in their interest to attack us, if that is possible which maybe it isnt.
I tried that line of thought for a loooong time with the seasteaders.
Trust me, it isn't.
http://applicants.mars-one.com/Or start a similar plan to go to the Moon. Or Ceres. No AnCap island nation on Earth, I'm sorry. The nation-states have this one all sewn up. The only way to get to there from here is for them to go away, or for us to leave.
Moonsteading appealed to me for a bit too, but then I remembered some Arthur C Clarke...
Moving an existing asteroid's path ever so gently would give them a way to both destroy all life on our new habitat, AND claim it was an act of nature.
Besides, if we can get there, and their piggybank is bigger than ours, what's to stop them from getting there soon afterwards, claiming the whole moon/planet, and declaring us outlaws over there?
You can't run into space, either.
You can only wake people up... That's our only hope for freedom.