Topic: Sympathetic gamblers looses itself (Read 1306 times)

Heck if the gambler had control over that money they would not be gambling in the first place. Its because they are chasing a loss or following their greed that they try to make money like this and eventually lose enough to put them in the vicious cycle instead of accepting a defeat and moving on with the money.

There are people who have learnt this the hard way and those who never did, the first group have moved on to things that can actually make money and not gamble while the second group have gone down the rabbit hole.

So instead of being emotional about the loss, accept it and stop playing.

There is no need to take such a strong stance against our emotions when gambling, otherwise we might as well not gamble as a great deal of people do so because they want to get some fun and feel something other than their own boredom.

What we need to do is to have a very strong control over the money we use to gamble, this way regardless of the emotions you may be feeling at the time you will not take dumb decision with your money, while at the same time you are able to enjoy gambling as you should.

slightly disagree with your opinion on this matter.
we may sympathize with other people who experience bad things in their gambling, but that doesn't mean pity, but only to be sympathetic and learn from their bad experiences so that we dont do it in the future. sometimes we will not experience this experience ourselves or it will be experienced by other people, so if you feel sympathetic to other people about their defeat or bad luck, you can use that experience as a valuable lesson not to make mistakes and it is better to be sympathetic to other people's experiences than your own. your own bad things and having to be sympathetic to yourself which will make yourself feel regretful or sad.

all gambling is always closer to luck or big risk, but as long as you have good self control and proper understanding of gambling, a gambler will not experience anything bad.

Yes, you are right because hoping too much for luck will make us forget to enjoy the gambling game so that we will only chase luck as much as we chase victory. And it is true that it will make us even more ambitious to win and it can actually make them feel disappointed because they haven't been able to get the win they want. The loss we experience will probably make other people who know about it will sympathize with us but that won't change anything because if they don't like gambling, they will only advise us to stop gambling immediately and never gamble again. But those of us who experience it will probably become more curious about why we can never win at gambling and it will make us gamble more often even though we have experienced many losses before. Every gambler must be able to overcome the disappointment he experiences as a result of gambling, but never expect to continue gambling if you have experienced defeat because that will make you more emotional and want to chase the win or recover from losses.

And because we don't predict when gambling, we don't need to gamble too often or too seriously because that will only make us forget to take care of ourselves while gambling. In the end it will make us lose more and more money and can become addicted to gambling. If we have a gambling addiction, we will only prioritize gambling over other things and what's worse, we can commit suicide like other desperate gamblers out there have done. It will make things worse and not only impact us but also our families.

Gamblers must know that luck will not always accompany them in gambling and will pass on to other people who deserve luck. We can only continue to play with limits and cannot use more money because that will only result in bigger losses. And yes, we as gamblers certainly hope to win and for this reason, many gamblers still continue to gamble so that they can win one day. But many of them can't control themselves well so they lose more and more until finally they become even more desperate than before. This is what we must avoid while we gamble and with good self-control we can do this to prevent the desire to continue gambling. There are still many things we can do to prevent a lot of losses and it will be more useful for us because we can have opportunities to get something useful for our lives.

If we play games based on luck, it will not increase our insight or knowledge and bring us closer to luck, but it will make us addicted to gambling and this can cause losses. So we must be able to limit ourselves from gambling too much in terms of the more we gamble the closer we will get to it luckily that would be very wrong. However, if you gamble based on skill, it can increase our insight in analyzing bets and get closer to luck and indeed this can be a challenge for us in betting because if we make the slightest mistake in analyzing bets, it can cause us to lose.

We don't need to be sympathetic to people who gamble recklessly because it is their own fault that they gamble excessively. Even they lose a lot of money and feel they should be pitied, but it still can't change their situation for the better, but it can be a lesson for us gamblers not to overdo it in gambling which causes big losses.

I think they will only be able to control everything, especially their emotions when they experience defeat, if they come without having a goal to produce, or what we usually call coming only to look for fun and entertainment, because if someone is more focused on winning than Concerned  about the possibility of greater risks, it will clearly be very difficult to be able to take such preventive measures, expectations and hope are one of the main problems.

I think you can't just say that "they can make money if they can control themselves or without putting expectations" you have to understand that self-control and avoiding greed is only something that is useful for minimizing risk and does not mean increasing the winning percentage  to bigger or more frequent, however, victory is always impossible to know when it will come because only luck can bring you results like that.

The gambler should control their emotions in the gambling,So he play the gambling without any expectation in the gambling.The biggest money making gamblers are the people who play the game without any expectations from the gambling site.Only the gamblers who doesn’t have any expectation will use their own strategies without any hesitation.Because the gambler had many options to take risk by playing without any expectation.The risk was the important one for the gamblers to make the money from the gambling site,greedy also should be avoided by the gamblers to make more money in the gambling sites in long run.

Giving into emotions can be dangerous, but successful is very subjective term. I would take it as being successful when we don't lose everything by playing everything we got, or even more then we budgeted. That's a win in my book. I don't necessary wait for huge profits in order to be successful. Just minimized losses. As long i am losing what i am affording to lose, i consider myself a successful gambler. That might be a low bar for someone but it keeps me straight and far from the trouble and deep end. And i consider myself greedy, not so desperately greedy i would play with a loan or anything like that. But i gamble with winnings sometimes, maybe with too greedy attitude, but that what gives me big wins sometimes. But only sometimes.

In my opinion, having too much hope for luck is also not good because this can make gambler have an excessive attitude towards their ambition to win, at first it may not happen but as time goes by luck is really expected and the ambition to win will be present.
If something like this happens then of course disappointment will be the thing you feel the most because winning is very difficult and what always comes is defeat.
Will you feel sympathy for the defeat? Of course not because the defeat was supposed to happen and the defeat also occurred because of the gambler own fault, who was unable to control his actions and improve his mindset.
And you need to know that there will be no feelings of sympathy for gamblers who have experienced defeat, even if it is large loss.
Every gambler must care about themselves and that is one way to avoid every mistake that usually occurs.

Gambling is an activity where you can't really predict what the impact and consequences will be.
Maybe some people just experience losses and lose money and also become addicted, but there are also things that are more serious, such as crimes and also cases of suicide that have occurred several times.
All of these are bad impacts of gambling, but apart from all these bad impacts there are still positive impacts that can be taken and it all depends on how the gambler himself is in each of his gambling activities.

Luck is one of the big hopes for gambler because luck can always give win, but hoping for luck with the addition of excessive efforts such as increasing the budget and increasing gambling time is also not an attitude that should be taken.
OK, I know that all gamblers have the desire to win, but the right step is that they have to learn, they have to be able to understand and also gather more experience so they can optimize every opportunity that exists.
And if all of this is truly done or decided happily and with full control then luck or victory can be guaranteed to come by itself.
In this way, the important point is that we can avoid the negative impacts of the gambling activities we carry out.

I can only believe they are up to be entertained when they bet $0.10 on online roulette and dice. But then everyone wants to win. I don't see a reason to gamble just to be entertained, it has to be with profit in mind.  That's why most of these gamblers are looking for new strategies to win just like sports bettors who analyze the teams and seek the opinion of other bettors.

You get to sympathize with players when you are with them on the table though since you can see the frustration on their faces when they lose money. But in loss, they will find strategies to win.

In gambling we want as much about winning but not about losing. But the rate of win and loss is 50-50. When we are too busy gambling to win, we will lose. Luck is definitely an important factor in gambling. Some people don't win in gambling even with 100% correct data analysis and some win on luck without understanding. A gambler should continue gambling depending on two things. But in the meantime, those who will gamble will win and some will lose there. So everyone should consider it only as a center of entertainment so that they don't have to be filled with sorrow.

As long as a person does not pursue profits from gambling games and only wants to get pleasure or entertainment from gambling, he will not experience mental problems. He will know that in gambling games, there are winners and losers. If he loses, he will accept it well without any desire to recover from his loss.

But if he turns around and wants to recover from his loss, he will experience mental problems. He will not be able to accept his defeat and will try to catch up or recover from his loss. Even though he knew doing that was not as easy as he had imagined. But he will still do it because he wants to get the money he lost at the gambling table.

He wouldn't even think about whether that meant he would suffer even more losses. He just wanted to achieve his goal of gambling. Meanwhile, the purpose of gambling has changed too. He no longer wants to get pleasure from gambling but he wants to get profit from gambling.

It is not that it is lost, what happens is that we must have the maturity to accept the reality of things as they are, that is, we are people who all the time are looking for a way to make more money, and it may be that When we are trying to figure out why we lose, we cannot find reasons, anyone has a way of playing, and that way of playing is the ideal for many, in fact the acceptance of each person's style speaks for itself. Alone, when we play it is obvious that we have more ways to play, but we also have to accept a fact, that we always have to give everything to be able to get the best, in this order of ideas, is to accept the house advantage , know that the money we are betting is money that we must accept that it will be lost, or it will be lost or multiplied, but seeing how things are we have to leave or assume the worst of the chaos , so that the best of the cases is Welcomed and the worst is completely accepted and assumed without any problem.

When a person assumes or makes that the money they are willing to bet is an Amount , because if we are lost, we could become decapitalized, lose money that should not be lost and that is probably compromised, then this type of thing that we do is to basically fulfill our expectations of fun, in fact the game was invented to have fun, to enjoy, and to make us see this as that, it is like a service, where obviously if we put money we can win or lose money, that is why maturity is Needed in the person , to have a good idea of how to cope with things , well, for something in all lcasios requires that the Participants be of legal age.

The relationship between having fun/entertainment and gaining profits while gambling is to envelope ones mental reaction against lost so that it doesn't become worrisome.
The fact is that application of fun while gambling solicitates with your expectancy of making profits at where you could loose your game otherwise, a full dose of gambling for fun has a zero profits expectants and gambling without the considerations of fun but utmost to make profits would have you all consciences to strive eagerly just to win and at your lost period of time becomes a weakness.

Think about the money-driven gambler. Every loss chips away at their carefully built castle of financial security. They see gambling as a shortcut to riches, a calculated gamble for a big payday. So when they lose, it's a slap in the face, a crack in their meticulously crafted plans.

But then you have the thrill-seekers, the ones who see gambling as a playground, a chance to test their luck and feel that electric buzz of the unknown. Sure, they might not like losing, but it's just part of the rollercoaster ride, another dip in the crazy ups and downs. For them, it's not about the money, it's about the rush, the satisfaction of the game itself, the camaraderie of the whole scene.

This difference in perspective is what makes gambling such a fascinating human experience. It's all about personal motivations, how much risk you can handle, and how you deal with both winning and losing. There's no magic formula, no one-size-fits-all approach. The key is to understand why you're playing, how much you can afford to lose, and how those wins and losses make you feel.

Yes emotion is the main enemy of your gambling life it's not about gambling life it's also in real life. Emotion force you to take dessision in very short time and we all know short time dessision is always wrong and it make problem in life. That emotion create problem in gambling if can't control your emotion you can't be a gambler. If you can't control it the best openion is leave gambling or it will distroy your financial condition.

We can only hope for luck so that luck can come when we are gambling so that we can win at gambling. Maybe when we read that a gambler lost while gambling, we sympathize with him, but the gambler should know that he doesn't need to gamble too often to prevent more losses. And he doesn't need that sympathy because his defeat in gambling was due to his own mistake in using a lot of money.

We also don't need to experience the same thing as the gambler because we already know that gambling requires a lot of money and doesn't guarantee that we can win. We can only continue to hope for luck to come, and for the rest, we should just enjoy our time gambling and stay within the limits we have created. We must be able to prevent experiencing gambling addiction because that is the biggest problem that every gambler must avoid. The assumption that if we gamble often, we will be closer to luck is not entirely true because, once again, we are still determining when luck will come.

Purely depends on what gambling game you're playing. I don't think it would make much of difference to a pure-luck based games like dice, roulette, and anything similar. For sports betting, experience and knowledge may have a slight advantage but the odds would make things a little complicated and challenging for you to decide where to place a bet.

Well, I can't be sympathetic towards a gambler who losses everything, because first of all they have already made a choice and those are just to consequences for what they have done recklessly.

Of course, luck will be a secret. No one will know in advance or feel when we are lucky. I don't think frequent gambling will lead to that luck. I think that if we gamble regularly, the more knowledge and experience we have in gambling, our winning rate will increase.

But luck that comes to us is not necessarily a good thing. Being lucky the first time we play gambling will make us excited and addictive. And we had bet a more considerable sum, but our luck had run out. Severe defeat makes us want to win again, and the result is sadness.

Easy to say than to do because at the heat of the moment, you're going to have a hard time knowing how to navigate them because it's your emotions going out of control and even if you're aware, it's still difficult to stop those actions, they're an impulsive one after all, maybe you've got an advantage when you're aware but I don't think that awareness stops impulsive actions all together, this kind of behavior isn't something that you can easily stop and it takes some mental training for you to be able to do it. I don't think luck is a secret though, there are times when you can really feel it and it's a distinct feeling, I don't think anyone will be able to miss it even if they haven't felt it lucky before.