Topic: Sympathetic gamblers looses itself - page 4. (Read 1261 times)

And when someone has started to get frustrated about a bet or gambling that he does. The person will completely lose control of his gambling because he is too ambitious to pursue victory. Which in the end only deepens the loss.
And such people are people who are unable to enjoy the gambling they do, they reason that gambling is for fun, but when they lose they feel regret. He said that gambling is a place to relieve stress, but after getting a loss makes them even more stressed and frustrated about the final result of his gambling.
When we get consecutive losses, it is better to take a break from the activity so that our emotions can subside a little. And if you plan to be able to return the losses you have experienced, then go home, hone your knowledge and skills in betting or gambling. Because we cannot make a precise calculation if we are still in an emotional state.

And if we are quite hesitant in gambling, then it would be better if we undo the intention to play gambling.

It's not always about knowing your net worth or income, once you develop this target in your mind using gambling, you will spend a lot to see it come true, and this is the biggest problem any gambler can have, even if you are making good income you can still ruin your life by having a target through gambling, all the pain you went through at work to get paid every month will be forgotten and you won't mind risking it all on gambling.

When you are trying to build something in your life, maybe you have a project you are working on, and you instead give face to gambling, your dream is toasted, you have sold your focus to gambling, that's why this is not for everyone, if you can't handle gambling as fun you are in for a big problem.  

At one point you won't know what to do with your life, you will be lost and you will be in the same problem as someone who start gambling and have no job or any source of income, the oy differences is you having a income you can take risks with no worries but if you are not a responsible gambler you won't end up with anything, either way that makes you same with someone who have no source of income.

Yes if your emotion work when you are gambling then finally one day you will lose everything. Beacose emotional gambling force you to do over gamble and over gambling is harmful habit. When you face losses then emotion force you to recover the loss at time but your brain don't work properly that time you bit wrong gamble. That's the reason emotional gambler lose itself.

Those who gamble using All In usually feel hopeless because they have experienced consecutive losses and have not managed to win, so they decide to bet all their money on one spin and hope that they will win their bet. But most people will lose all their money on that last chance and will regret making a hasty decision. I have never done it because I remember my experience in trading where I once used all in the amount of money I had to buy one coin but it turned out that the coin didn't manage to rise for a long time so that made me have to wait a long time. That is why it is very risky if we use all in for gambling because it will immediately use up all the money we have.

From a gamblers point of view I can understand that, we spend a lot of money and feel entitled for a big win after a losing streak. Unfortunately, this is not how gambling works, the casino games are based on mathematics and statistics. One of the most important things in gambling we need to remember is that each round is independent from the previous ones. It doesn't matter if there was 10 or 20 times in a row red at the roulette table, the chance for black to come next round is exactly the same. Humans like to see patterns, which is why our brain tells us that there will be black next round, or that we deserve to win now after a losing streak. This also makes chasing losses very risky and I try to avoid it as much as possible.

I call it frustration when a gambler experiences a losing streak and at the end of the bet he only has a few bets left and thinks in annoyance of trying to go all in with all the rest of his budget to try to recover his budget and to be honest I often do this if I feel annoyed betting on roulette but losing streak came and when I was all in, I said "ah never mind, this is the last bet, it will definitely win".
sometimes these instincts can be right and recover, but more often they fail and I fully support your opinion on this.

usually, something like this happens because they always lose in the previous game and want to back all their capital quickly. we can't blame them because this nature happens to every gambler. I've done it and sometimes succeeded in returning my loss. but it does require very precise calculations, if done blindly, the player will lose all his money like before. Players like this always rely on their instinct then calculation, so it looks sloppy and greedy.

If we bet by handing over all the money we have or what is better known as "All in", that is nothing but carelessness. But even so, there are still many people who behave like that, they complain about their fate in gambling.

And there is a story where I was traveling with my friend who was quite far away. And when we were in the middle of the road to go home, we only had 50 thousand left, so I felt a little uncertain because that amount of money wouldn't be enough to get home and on one side our stomachs were also rumbling. And in that situation, my friend took the initiative to deposit the money to gamble. At the start of the game we won, and the money was multiplied three times. However, how stupid my friend was at that time, instead of withdrawing the winnings, he instead doubled the bet to make it even bigger because he thought that victory and luck were on his side. And unfortunately at that time all the winnings were sucked back into gambling. Even though I was warned to withdraw the winnings. and in the end to be able to eat and continue my journey home, I had to borrow money from my brother. However, from this incident I learned a lesson, that there is only a slight difference between courage and recklessness.

Luck can't be learned but it is already on us. And it only comes out naturally when it is now time.
Yes, we can use gambling to see if how disciplined we are and it is actually better than the others because gambling is pretty addicting.

I am sure many are going to fail the test or they will get a low grade, but they can still improve it if they will learn on their mistakes and study hard if what they can do to be more successful on controlling their selves. For the many, they only treat gambling the way it is commonly used but those who think beyond than that, can carry what they experience in gambling to other aspects of their life, but that is mostly the positive traits.

I think by using gambling to see how disciplined we can be, because when we win we have to be able to immediately cash it in, and when we lose, we don't gamble anymore to chase the win, well by doing these two things we can test our discipline in gambling. does this sound ridiculous or absurd?
And also I think in gambling there are also things that can be a lesson for us such as, with defeat. where we can learn to accept it well do not let the defeat make us emotional towards gambling.

Maybe you are right, it's not just about winning and losing. but it's also about how we learn to deal with all the problems that exist in gambling.

This is exactly how it feels. Most lot of gamblers holds their faiths at lost appreciating its ratios of lost in the gambling after comparing and evaluating what they have lost and what the others has lost failing to understand that a gamblers losts and a gamblers wins is within itself.
So basically... When they wins, they seems to compare others who has been counting lost in the gambling table and believes they are at the safer side also at when loses, the looks upon knowing how much total lost of others and also check on how much they have lost to consolidate itself with a self sympathy.
They are usually likely to recalling of historical gambling experiences as reference and not just minding its businesses and thinks about the now or later.
They are best to uphold sympathetic memories upon it selves.

Exactly my point OP, a gambler's financial capability is measured by his bankroll, and that should also influence the gambler's staking power and the kind of risk he is to take when gambling, a gambler who knows his bankroll is only 50k and then risks the whole of the 50k is acting out of greed, and there's a two way outcome to it, to eith double his total money or loose it all. Some gamblers feel this kind of risk is worth taking but I think it's too much of a risk .

Slot games are the easiest among other gambling games. And there are already many casinos that have many interesting slot providers to play. It is a normal thing when there are gamblers who want to find a new atmosphere in a different casino, and that is also the wish of @OP. What @OP must pay attention to is that whatever gambling game he plays, he must be able to use the money he can afford and not use more money. Otherwise, he will only lose the money and will regret it when he is finished gambling. And don't forget to be able to control yourself while gambling because in gambling, there will be many temptations that might make you forget to stop gambling.

Gamblers are hopeful when they gamble their money even if it's their last they just cross their fingers and brag about how much they lost. You can be sympathetic to some of them but probably to those who genuinely need sympathy. Apparently, hard to see how genuine a person is even in times when he needs money the most.
A few dollars he will be grateful for it and you can only hope he will do the right way and not gamble with what little he has.

That's why most people here always say to gamble for fun, not for anything else. Even if you lose, it's okay because the only goal is to have fun.
As much as possible, we should always have control over ourselves as gamblers in this field.

It's okay to lose; what's not okay is to lose a lot of money because we didn't control our emotions or ourselves. You know that gamblers often lose and winning is very seldom in the gambling platform.

In as much as it will turn out that our losses may be nothing compared to that which others have lost if we are to start comparison, that still doesn't mean we should not be sympathetic or overly sympathetic with those who happens to be in such situations but then hopefully they will get pass it within a number of time.

Gambling with what you can afford to loose and how well you can manage your risk should most times be our priority but otherwise we would be the next line that they would be sympathizing with after our next losses. These gamblers if they turn out lucky with such risk, they most times go quiet and mute about it, not sharing their sins the way they share their losses to get sympathy from people around, so in variably they should most times be left to grieve over their losses.

Do we actually needs to pity any gambler when they make loss, we don't also console them when they make a big win and enjoy their fund alone, gambling should be known for it risk, we shouldn't gamble the amount of money we cannot afford to loose, when we take any decision with gambling that is beyond what we can handle, then that's on our own risk, you're also right, if you consider your own lost compared to others, you will discover you're nothing to be compared to what others have been through.

That is normal to be emphatic to other fellow gamblers when they lose a lot,I remember when I used to lose big one time many years ago and I even lost money that I needed to eat,being deep down in addiction not only one person but a couple of them gave me condolence tips of 10-20 Euros and I only then realized what I have done and what gambling addiction can do to you,it can totally destroy your senses like it did to me at that time.

I never think that someone lost more than me,I just think that I am fighting to hit that huge multiplier and when I lose I do not condone myself to think that other lost more,I am very angry as why I didn't hit that huge multiplier although I know chances when playing slots are 0 or almost 0 in the long run.

I think there are two things that can make us lose consciousness in our gambling involvement, first is winning, we often find that someone can be carried away by the situation that can make them feel happy, do not remember the time to go home and what they want is to continue playing because they think that it looks like a bigger luck they will get soon and that is greed. The second is a losing situation, your emotions will play a big role when you are in such a condition, the absence of responsibility makes you unable to accept a bad result, so it makes you emotional and continue gambling with the intention of catching up with the loss and it can also be said to be carried away but it refers more to losing calm because the final result is not what you want.

That's right, and that means luck varies greatly, as I said earlier that everyone's luck has its portion, so you can't if you want to have the same luck as them, especially in terms of a big enough win. A person's behavior and nature from birth will produce a different reaction between you and other people in terms of results that are not in accordance with the wishes, for example someone who has a personality that is easily provoked and provoked or temperamental.
will definitely be excessive in acting out his emotions.

Every game can teach you about luck, trends, and even psychology. It's like a live-action class where you're both student and participant. You bring up an important point when you say that it could be addicting. Could we use gambling to see how disciplined we are? Setting clear limits, we use each lesson as a chance to work on self-control and learn how to leave without worrying about what will happen. This control that I put on myself might show up in other parts of my life, right? So, gambling changes from a habit that could hurt you to a way to improve yourself. It's not about winning or losing money; it's about learning more about ourselves and how we make choices