People's financial situation is not always the same as we have enough money now but in the future we may not have enough money to spend. Now we have enough money so now I will go out of my way to spend money as I want for no reason then later when I don't have enough to spend but no one else will give me money to spend. It is a fact that as long as you have money and as long as you spend money behind others people will speak for you and people will be with you but if one day you want to walk with them without spending money then you will find no one to walk with. Since money brings people closer and money drives people away, money should be given the most importance.
I think the right words for the argument you wrote are like this. “If you have a lot of money, you will definitely have a lot of friends. If you don’t have money, your friends will definitely disappear.” Incidents like this happen a lot in our environment today. Maybe because the cycle of life is now increasingly changing. But you need to know, there are still many people who are willing to be our friends, whatever our economic status. Try looking, you'll definitely find it. Maybe you've been hanging out with the wrong people. So the impact you experience is like this.
The amount of money that we are earning now is divided into several parts and the remaining money is the money but if we want we can invest or save so that if there is a financial crisis in the future but this saved money will support us well.
We must be careful about money, if you are careful about money then there is no problem if people call you stingy because some people's job is to say bad things about others.
I think saving is less efficient nowadays. Especially if you intend to save just in case a financial crisis occurs. Because when a financial crisis comes, sometimes inflation will be higher, and of course the value of money will fall. So it's better to just invest. Because by investing we definitely have the possibility that the amount or value of our money will increase.
Apart from that, being a stingy person is not completely wrong. Especially if our condition is not good. But believe me friend, when we generous (with money), the money will come to us more quickly and smoothly. Because as long as I have lived on this earth, I have never heard of a generous person falling into poverty. However, the philanthropist I am talking about here is of course a philanthropist who has calculations.