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Old question, same answer :
1. There aren't many payment processor/gateway which accept LN
2. There aren't many wallet which support LN, personally i doubt custodial or web wallet will support LN at all
3. Trade-off between convenience or full-control when choosing LN wallet
1) True. But there are more then there used to be. Off the top of my head there is
a) BTCPay
b) coingate
c) zap
2) Why would you want a custodial wallet? But they are out there.
a) Wallet of Satoshi
b) bluewallet
3) Would also add technical knowledge. We as a group are still introducing people to bitcoin. Now we have to explain lightning.
Stay safe.
-Dave