Yes exactly, I agree with that that simply is that most gamblers especially those who are addicted have a mindset that will deceive themselves with various ideas that are generated from a mindset that is far from reasonable and rational. And the trap always starts with the situation of getting a win where winning once may not really increase confidence, but once they manage to win again in the next session then that's where their confidence will be even more rounded by thinking and assuming that gambling is worth it as a place to change fate, they seem to find a solution to improve life, which in fact it is all nothing more than a delusion.
It is a fact that there will never be significant results with just a little effort, some people always need patience, hard work and other things to be able to get success to be able to change their fate, meaning that getting money just by gambling by predicting and executing without hard work and process can never be used as a place or medium to change life. Another thing is like what you said that they even resort to all means to fund their gambling activities such as stealing, robbing or cheating or borrowing and all that is done to get money to pursue something that always has no certainty in gambling.
You are absolutely right. The majority of gamblers, especially addicted ones, are trapped in irrational cognitive loops. They are easily swayed by momentary wins, leading them to believe that gambling is a reliable path to increasing their wealth. However, this is just a mirage. The reality is that real success in life (i.e. patience, hard work, and dedication) does not have any of the guarantees or stability that gambling provides. Hoping to change your life completely through gambling is like looking for apples in an orange tree; big mistake without any silver lining. Gambling does not provide any help or support to create stability in life, so it is wrong for someone to rely on it as a way to change their fate. Patience and hard work pay off in stability; not gambling.
This situation can escalate into a worse scenario when some addicted gamblers resort to theft or cheating to finance their habit as this only fuels unknown aspirations. This is not a solution; this will actually make their situation worse.
So, the key is awareness and self-regulation. Turning to gambling as a means to change your life is dangerous and fruitless. Instead, choose sincere and moral efforts, which lead to achieving safer and deeper milestones in your life journey.
The main problem here is that “there is no certainty, guarantee and any element of consistency” in gambling that leads to winning, meaning that everything is always gray, it will never be known but I think it's natural because after all, from the name alone it is gambling where a gambler bets his money to lose or win. Yes it is true that the key is self-awareness and recognizing that gambling is always a risky activity, and it is because of this that I always advise anyone to first understand how gambling really is before they finally jump in and get involved, because if it is too late it will be very difficult to heal.