Topic: The person who can’t control emotions in gambling will never earn money from it - page 7. (Read 3170 times)

If we are people who will always seek victory, not only in casinos but in all the activities that we ourselves propose, that is why When we are in a Casino it is best to have money for the casino, where it is money of no importance. If we lose it, Obviously we will look for a way to do everything necessary to be able to win, but basically there are many things that can be done to have greater clarity of what can be done, I will always say something, because in a casino we have to have the fresh mind, and we cannot generalize things, but we are People who must always take responsibility for what we are going to do, if we concentrate we can do Something else with our money apart from Playing because it is always better to risk the money that we are willing to lose , and not limit Yourself or control your emotions or anything like that, which are clearly very difficult things to achieve.

Emotion is one of the driving force of in Human, for me what emotions can't be totally eliminated but put aside that it doesn't affect your decision making while gambling. I suggest as a gambler once you're in a losing streak, close the sites or app to avoid placing random bets that won't help rather lead to more loses, we have learnt from this in one way or the other when we think we can revenge the casino or place bet with huge returns so as to recover our loses but end up getting disappointed.

For me before we talk about emotion, the first criteria in gambling is Risk management and also knowing your risk tolerance this shades and keeps us from a place of emotional stands and regret. Once this factor is overlooked you will keep swimming in loses and piss off anytime you lose. We don't know the outcome of any bets we take, we  gamble based on our belive system and what we think would work. So before you place your bets ask yourself;

Am I really ready to lose this money?
Do i really need this money?
How much am I wiling to risk on this bets?
Hope am not exceeding my risk tolerance?

This questions put us in a place where we act based on our decision and self examination before we bet and not act based on expectations, if we lose we accept it because we have already taken it into consideration before it occurred. Some of us then to put the profits (gain) and our high expectations first before we consider the risk involved which is the sole reason we are pissed up once we lose and give room for emotional stands. We must understand that it's a business and they would also want to make profits and in no way have they programmed there sites to allow for your winnings.
The earlier we accept this truth the better, so as to avoid more future loses and damage.

I like that strategy, but for me, I just try to walk it out first, when winning or losing and then about the consequence is I will go and continue or not. And so sometimes, I will say that I make the right decision to just not to continue and exit or withdraw my winnings.

Or if I'm in the land base casinos, I will force my wife and tell her that we should go won and not go and gamble my winnings as it is really very difficult to get money from casino or be lucky that night. And then just think about it when we go home and we can say both say that yes, we made the right choice and then we enjoy our winnings in the morning or go out with the kids and have some fun.

Controlling emotion is the most important in gambling because we knows that playing gambling can tempts us not to stops our gambling activity, even if we already lose before. That's because we wants to recover our lose or we wants to win more money but if we can control our emotions, we will knows that playing gambling can't always gives the win but will gives more losses. That's happens to many people who lose their control and caused them losing their money and even many people losing all of their money because they lose control of themselves. Without self control, someone will not be able to see how much losses he already gets instead will trying to recovers his lose. That will not be a good decision to recover his lose because that can increase his lose amount.

It is clear that all gamblers or people who gamble definitely want to win from the gambling they do. In my opinion, winning at gambling is one thing that many gamblers or people who gamble are aiming for. but we have to be able to understand gambling well, don't let us misunderstand gambling by thinking that gambling is something or a quick way to make money, of course that is not true, because if we are like that then the possibility that will happen is to lose more money when Gambling is done emotionally.
Yes, that's right, it's very likely that the gambling you do will definitely end in defeat, because behind the gambling there is a host who arranges everything, and of course the host also wants to win, and with those who have the role of host we can't beat them, even though There are gamblers who believe they can win big at gambling, but in my opinion this actually makes us trapped in a detrimental addiction.

The most important thing is to be furious and "be able to slap yourself mentally in the face to come to your senses." I've been able to control myself so well for a long time, and now people who don't know how to control themselves, who experience Tilt, look pretty weak and pathetic to me. Probably everyone who has gone through defeats and reflection has realized that nothing can be achieved in gambling, and trading, too, without self-control. It is even better if there is some kind of internal strategy that guides the player in gambling like a compass. If we add luck to these qualities, then victories and a good result will not take long in gambling. In any form.

When you win at gambling, of course it's fun, and it's natural that we want to win again, because there is no gambler who doesn't want to win, all gamblers certainly want to win with the gambling they do because that is one of the things that many gamblers aim for. . but sometimes when we want to win again it can actually make us lose more money, because luck won't last long, and with events like that it can make us emotional and with overflowing emotions it can make everything fall apart. .

What you say is correct, we must be able to have limits with the gambling we do, such as when we win, of course when we win at gambling we have to realize that winning at gambling is not easy to get, it is very rare for the gambling we do to result in a win, so Therefore, we must have limits such as stopping when we win, being aware of ourselves, don't want more than what we have got, cashing in our winnings is the best choice. It's the same as when gambling ends in defeat, we have to stop gambling and leave gambling to calm our minds rather than continuing it will only invite emotions which can make everything fall apart.

It is very true, when we begin to understand the game, the things that can be done according to our capabilities and with respect to our maturity, things can be very good, for example we are looking for a way to win, because everyone wants to win, but we must know that in games of chance, casinos, sports betting, at any time we can lose, in fact, it is more likely to lose than to win, We have to be very lucky to win in a row, the only thing we can do is that sports betting can be a little more profitable , in sports betting we use a lot of our intelligence and that is enough to predict some results, and with that we could be winning, so in view of that we as gamblers must be maturing and by Maturing I mean learning to play and accept the designs of the game.

One win doesn't indicate you're a magician. You got lucky. But that burning feeling? It impairs judgment. It makes you want that next win, and you end up digging yourself deeper. The house always wins. They set odds and stack cards. You win a few money, feel like a king, and lose it all chasing the next high. The cycle is cruel, man. Rollercoaster to failure

Which move wins? Recognizing a win as fortunate. A smart move? Cash out, leave. But that's hard, right? Ego rules. Accepting a win as a gift, not a right, is the real challenge. This goes beyond gaming. You must know your boundaries. Knowing when to leave the table, even when you're hot

I get your point mate and the trusty be told that, gambling and emotions work very much together and what truly matters is the fact that, we the gamblers have the ability to control those emotions and not let the emotions control us to making decisions without calculations and proper analysis.


Personally, I think gambling is one thing that no one is certain of, no matter how accurate your predictions might be, based on several factors you might have gathered, the result of the match can still be slightly or totally different from your predictions and that’s why, you still get to see very small teams winning big teams and that’s gambling (a game of uncertainty)
You don’t have to blame anyone but rather encourage everyone to know their limits on when to play and when not to play and stop playing .

Exactly, and this is what I have been saying before, gambling is all about emotions, all emotions known to man, you will be affected and might fall for the trick on playing. And specially that online casino are everywhere, you don't know to go to brick and mortar casino to scratch your itch, in just less than 5 minutes and you can start playing. So if someone who are emotionally like to play everything and doesn't have any control of it, there are only one way to happen, be a addicted gambler. And so with that, if there are still time and our mind is not clouded yet by gambling thoughts, we should at least learn how control it.

with winnings being difficult to get when gambling, then when luck gives us a win then we have to be able to make good use of it, the best choice of action when we get a win is to cash it in, that is the best choice, but who would have thought that when we get a win it can also make us If we lose control, when we win, maybe we will feel that luck is on our side, so there is a possibility that we will increase the bet amount and continue gambling again, thinking that we will win again because we feel that luck is still on our side.

In this way, the most likely thing that will happen is losing the winnings that have been obtained, and of course that will trigger our emotions to rise, but after that what happens is messy gambling, such as losing self-control by depositing money back into gambling because you feel annoyed with the winnings that have been made. lost due to careless actions and oneself who is not ready to lose and accept defeat that is not good. We hope that we can control everything well so that there are no big problems, or as you said, comfortable gambling.

Emotions would really be normal since we are just humans on which having that emotion on which it would really be just that normal. It is really just that there are ones who cant really be able to control
and ended up on having those impulsive actions basing up into their compulsive emotions on which we know that this is something that could really happen into a certain individual. There are ones who are really that mindful about into their actions and there are ones who are really that pushing something like winning up big or simply being desperate on which they do really end up on a disaster.
This is why it would really be better that you should really know on what are the things or actions that you would be making and not really just that simply taking actions on which you do know that it could give out that huge negative impact on you, not only on finances but also in other things as well.If you dont like on messing up then better thinking up well on every actions you made.

Emotions is one factor in gambling that can’t be overemphasized but the truth is that, there are several factors that contributes to emotional plays during gambling and those’re also a lot of things that trigger emotions in gambling. It is also worth making it plain that both winning and losing can trigger losing in gambling and what truly matter in most cases is having a laid principles( strategies ) and deciding to steak to it for a longer time even when things don’t go well and rather than doing things out of panic, you’re unshaken by the happenings.

I’ve seen people that can’t control their emotions in gambling and yet are doing just fine in the industry and maybe you can call it their luck working for them and it seems they have a strict principles and gamble within their range and this don’t get panic by losses but only triggered to stay focus and figure out problems and proceeding a solution for it .

This is good advice for those people who are just starting their gambling history, and of course for young people.  Advice that the factor of luck and, accordingly, winning is only one of the aspects of the game and when luck appears, you should not be too happy about its arrival simply because it will leave the player anyway after some time.  Moreover, this should be perceived better as not the most important aspect of the game, but rather the emotions and moods that the player receives as the most important factor in the game.  With this psychological attitude, gambling becomes pleasant and comfortable.

In gambling, we only get two opportunities, namely a loss or a win, and most of what we see is that we often experience losses.
What strategy do you mean because I don't understand how we make strategies in gambling except money control strategies when we are involved in gambling.
In fact, emotions will form when we experience defeat and if we are unable to control our emotions, the decisions we make will become even more chaotic.

I am one of those people who find it difficult to control my emotions when gambling because when I win I will bet again, so currently I am not very active in gambling anymore. Mostly I only gamble when the football club I like plays and even then I don't bet all the time.

I don't believe that many people's awareness has become so low. For example, in cases where there are few reports and no information, a little lack of awareness is acceptable but gambling has lived through history and many generations have written down their experiences with it, molding it into a lot of advice that is also expressed very clearly. Unaware and unclear about the role of the game and what gambling brings, it sounds like they are making excuses, mainly the feeling of joy cannot be equal to the vibrating sound of money.

Imagine how crazy those person doing this since this could lead a total huge loss for them if people decide to continue their gaming session for long hours since provably he might experience such big losses that he can't afford to encounter. There must be a paused on everything they do, particular on playing on a casino since for sure that we will get disturb and will be out of focus especially already experiencing a losing streak.

If I have a lot of money to spend I will not come to the point doing this action since imagine how things possible happen to us and for sure we will just get frustrated on the result that will show up to us.

That's true.
We cannot just keep on gambling nonstop, there must be a pause, a rest, a point where we should enjoy our profits. Also, even if we are losing we must keep that discipline intact.
I think that's the best definition of a responsible gambler.
I won't be a hypocrite to say I have never been there, because I did. Even now, I have a hard time controlling myself when I am on a losing streak. I always want my money back as fast as possible but recently I have been thinking twice and I think that's a good sign. Our emotions will always get the better of us but we must be strong mentally so that we can preserve our money and we can keep on enjoying our gambling haibits.

If they really think of gambling as something that can make money for sure, that means they are only putting themselves in trouble. Because actually gambling is not a means to make money for sure, gambling is a game of chance where we can win if we are lucky, only many people force themselves to win without thinking about the luck factor. It is clear that gambling is related to money, winning or losing is still the same regarding money, it is true what you said if they play with emotional behavior then this can cause them to lose self-control or lose the money they have even in large amounts.

It's natural that things like this happen a lot to young people, because nowadays many young people are crazy about gambling, especially young people really want to be stylish and to fulfill their style, of course they need a lot of money and many young people gamble with it. The aim was to double his money but it ended up being a disaster. It is true that everyone or gamblers definitely want to win, but we must be able to see first how to win at gambling. This doesn't mean we have to spend a lot of money to win, because if we're not lucky then whatever money we spend on gambling will just be lost.