Topic: The person who can’t control emotions in gambling will never earn money from it - page 6. (Read 3170 times)

Gambling always keeps us happy as gambling is a fun thing but here we suffer a lot financially in order to get pleasure and to recover that loss our emotions make us panic a lot and place big bets we try to recover the loss quickly and it is  this is our big problem. and those who can control these emotions are saved from such great losses and those who cannot control emotions slowly lose a lot. So controlling emotions should be our first objective

Yes, that is what most cases are. The increase in joyful emotions could turn into a bad day if we don't withdraw as early as possible after a win. I did that many times and I can say it's more fulfilling to have the money and enjoy it after the withdrawal rather than being stressed again trying to find your luck and gain the same or near the multiplier that you achieved initially. It's a rare opportunity to win big so it's better if we can get out afterward. I may have no money to gamble again but for me, that's better than chasing something that might not come again for a long time.
I will be back to gamble, that's  for sure, but enjoying the profits is the most important part for me because as I said, it's a very rare opportunity so take advantage of it and enjoy it.

If you look at it with awareness, whatever kind of gambling you do, the final result will definitely be a loss, even if they bet with a small or large bet amount, it doesn't affect the small chance of winning, it won't change that, because the chance of losing is still big. and it will definitely happen. by them gambling again when they have experienced defeat or even when they win, it is the same as the end that can be predicted is defeat, because luck will not always be on their side, if the gambling they do continues to produce wins, it is not luck, also if like that, gambling can be a sure way to earn money, but in reality it is not like that.

Indeed, sometimes it is excessive hope that leads them to big losses and the destruction of their lives, because it is excessive hope that drives them to continue gambling in the hope that gambling again can produce a win and can turn things around, but it does not improve the situation completely. In fact, it only makes their situation worse. What you say is true is that it is important to be able to control our own emotions and greed. because something done with emotion or greed will not end well.

  The emotions can be adrenaline, excitement and pure ecstacy. The thrill is what keeps you coming back along with the thought of winning money. Eventually gamblers can desensitized themselves to these feelings, which can also make people bet high amounts of money to get that thrill back. As a gambler myself, the trip home after loosing a huge amount of money can give anxiety, depressive thoughts and feelings, anger at one's self, and a feeling of hopelessness. For problem gamblers, it isn't just the experience we chase, it's the accumulation of money is a short amount of time. With all these emotions, feelings can take over and really dissociate the gambler to their value of money. When you go back to the ATM to chase your losses, the internal dialog could be similar to “it’s just money who cares”, when the whole goal is to win back what you lost.
  If you do not have the mental fortitude to do something it only means that YOU don’t have he emotional strength to handle it. This doesn’t mean others are like you or are as weak as you. I don’t sky dive because I fear hieghts but that doesn’t mean our bets can’t do ianything. The same holds true for gambling. If you can’t stomach it, stay away from it, but those who can are more than welcome to enjoy the same freedom as others to do what they enjoy.

On the time that you are winning up on gambling then it would really be that so hard for you to quit up right away or you would really be making yourself that quit up completely or call it a day. One of the main reasons on why gambling industry is really that profitable just because gamblers are highly impulsive when it comes into their emotions on which they would really be always having that kind of approach towards gambling.
If you are someone whose really that treating gambling as some sort of income making or could make you rich then you would really be finding yourself that desperate and this is something that should really be avoided in the first place.Dont make yourself that delusional because on the time that you would really be having this kind of approach then 100% you would really be messing up your life with it.

Gambling should really be just that for fun and not something that you could really make it as a source of income or making a living with it. There's no way that you could really be able to make
yourself that to happen. It is really just that for leisure and dont expect something else from it.

Everyone who has won their bet from gambling of course still wants a bigger win on the bet they played and it will be difficult for some people to resist this desire by withdrawing the winnings they have obtained. Of course they will continue to bet in the hope of getting that win. even bigger, but it is very unlikely that they will win again and some will even experience defeat again after returning to play in the hope of winning.

It's not easy to resist continuing betting in the hope of winning, especially if they have experienced many losses before, of course they will continue betting in the hope of getting a bigger win, so it's important for us to keep control of our emotions and greed when betting. so that we can enjoy the winnings that we have obtained, because often those who are greedy when gambling find it difficult to win the bets they play.

Exactly, the fact is that only those who are irresponsible will eventually experience such adverse effects, as you said that such adverse effects will only be experienced when they are completely unable to manage, control and limit the gambling activities they experience, basically gambling is an activity that can be very tempting because there are so many things that look tempting that can sometimes make them fall into unconsciousness which in the end they usually realize when they have lost most of their money.

Of course, having a fun approach and mindset to gambling is more advisable because it's the best approach so that we can avoid the emotions that dominate losing, but I think sometimes it's possible that eventually the idea of fun in gambling can change over time into a stressful and stressful activity, and all of this happens because someone is not able to maintain an awareness of the concept of gambling, and the other thing is that gambling responsibly is easier said than done.

That happens only if you are an irresponsible gambler and you don't have any control over yourself, you don't have any limits for your time and the budget that you will spend on your gambling activities, however, those who have these things wouldn't get hooked up easily because they stop when they have reached the limit for the day or week or month, and they come back again only when their limits have reset and now they can gamble again.

Gambling for fun and entertainment means you have no extreme emotional attachment to it, you go to the casino casually having $100 with you, you start gambling, and have a good time, if you lose your $100, you get out and go away until you get your budget reset. That's how responsible gamblers gamble.

Indeed, all gamblers definitely want to win more even though they have already won. This has become a common case, I am sure that when you or I win, there will definitely be a feeling of wanting to win more, it's just that we have to be able to get rid of that ego, cashing in winnings is a smart way of gambling. It's just lucky if we can win again after getting the victory we already got, because most cases that happen with things like that will only end in defeat, or losing the winnings we've already got.

In my opinion, this happens a lot to beginners who are new to gambling. but not only that, I also think this happens to gamblers who have been gambling for a long time, because every once in a while they might lose control of themselves with the gambling they do, perhaps because they can't accept losing more often than winning. Gambling done with emotions is not recommended because it will only make us lose more money.

This is exactly, in my opinion, one of the main problems in gambling, when having received a win after a successful game and even having managed to cash out this winning, it begins to seem to you that you are definitely on a streak of luck and you should continue the game and you will win even more. 
But of course, only a beginner or an inexperienced player can buy such a bait.  But the result is naturally clear: he will lose more than he won and will then regret that he spent the money he won so stupidly.  I think that experienced players still find the strength and self-control to suddenly end the game after winning.  And just calm down the feeling that you can now get very rich because your luck has begun.  And accordingly stop the game. 
By the way, alcohol in a player’s blood during a game and winning greatly interferes with making a decision to stop playing.

There would really be a moment in time that you would really be having that kind of addiction on which you cant really be able to control your emotions or even the way you do think on which you would really be having that kind of moment where you cant be able to stop midway. You would be able to notice this and its impossible that you wont really be wary of your actions. There are really just that people who are neglecting or simply ignore those moments and continues on what they are doing. Gambling is never been a source of income or something that could give out that earning opportunity for someone.
It is really just that something that would really be for the sake of entertainment and leisure. It is really just that a matter of choice whether you would really be treating up that way or you would really be that
just focusing on what you do have in mind.

True that. It's actually a very hard skill to learn and it's not being talked about enough. I personally won't blame anyone that finds it difficult to keep their emotions in check. As someone that is aware that emotional management is a crucial skill and actively tries to build strong resilience yet, there are circumstances where it fails me. Imo, the key is to always remain calm even though emotions are all over the place and everything is just going haywire.

Even if it's just watching a football game, my emotions can get messed up really fast not to mention a bet I have a vested interest in winning. 

Didn't you know that "entertainment" is dangerous?

So much entertained by gambling that these people don't realize that they are now slowly reaching the level of gambler from casual, to regular, to heavy, and will end up addicted. Since they are gambling for fun therefore they want to continue that fun. Since it's gambling they will throw away money here just to make fun. I don't think these people will have good control over their emotions. Regardless of the purpose why they gambling, emotions are part of it, and no excuse. If these people who considered gambling for fun will win at some point, for sure they will continue. If they lose, for sure they will attempt to chase those losses. Not much different from those people who treat gambling for other purposes.

Yes, that's right and that's because they have a healthier mindset compared to gambling as usual which only wants to win and money, everyone who gambles definitely wants to win and not just for entertainment, let alone fun, I also apply this method to be able to shift the mindset so that Don't always think about gambling to win, but just for entertainment and having fun, nothing more than that, so you don't feel disappointed or even emotional when you lose. This is often applied by rich gamblers who usually have fun spending their money on gambling.

I'm just a poor person, of course if I have a poor mindset, gambling for money is the same as leading myself to play excessively and uncontrollably, many people don't want to use this method to avoid their emotional feelings when gambling, even though it's clear that this method works. Avoid myself from gambling addiction and emotions when gambling. So far we have seen many people gamble full of emotions, usually just because they want to win, not to have fun, therefore they are easily addicted to gambling and lose a lot of money in gambling, it is not recommended.

Having control over emotions can only make a gambler lose less in the long run, but when we talk about earning money from gambling, that should be taken out of the equation because it is simply not possible for one to earn money from gambling unless they are extremely lucky and manage to hit a jackpot or something and win a significant amount for the first time they gamble and then stop gambling after it, but that doesn't happen very often.

When a person gambles for gains, they are wasting their time and money because, at the end of the day, they won't get anything in their hands. However, if a person gambles for fun and entertainment while having limits and a budget, they are usually under control and have good control over their emotions.

The things that on the surface seem like the easiest are in reality some of the hardest things to do, controlling your impulses sounds easy in theory, however those impulses are natural reactions that we all have, so controlling yourself under those circumstances means going against your most basic instincts and that is very difficult to do.

And we can see examples of this every day, not only when people gamble, but in many other activities too, as if you were to ask a person what is the thing they did they regret the most, very often you will listen to a story in which the person failed to control their impulses and that is what caused them to do something dumb or risky.

That's the thing with control. It sounds very casual and easy when said but very difficult to achieve. What would be your first plan of action after major loss? Hurriedly try to recoup the losses by apeing into new bets? That is what happen to most people without complete control of their emotions during gambling and such rash decision(s) often lead to even more losses. Since I started learning control and being disciplined with my new style of play, I've had more Ws than Ls and the winrate has been on the upper north side but it's very difficult to maintain or uphold because some bets will mess your mind real good.

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In my open your I think that gambling is not a thing for only profitable is also about the enjoyment on every every game when we do gambling. But I will with you that yes the people who can confirm themselves they will have face much lesser lose from the others who don't have any control on their emotions. It is been seen most of the time when a gambler do bet on his emotions they face lossed that bet. It's been seen many time we do gambling on a rush time like a match or in a event on casino and we regret later for that.

Controlling emotions is not easy and it may help us to prevent our loss. But it is not sure whether you would be able to make any profit or not if you can control yourself. If gambling is too easy and easy to make money then everyone would like to practice about the control of emotions to make money from gambling.

Doesn't matter if you can control emotions or not, you shouldn't be gambling to earn money. Gambling is a form of entertainment that people enjoy. The best way to interpret this is to think that there no such thing as a "loss" in gambling. The money you lose is actually the money you can consider that you paid for that entertainment. Like going to the arcade and paying for the games.  The profits are extra rewards that you can keep for yourself or use it to continue gambling more. But you should never rely on gambling to earn money. No matter how much you "control" your emotions, there is no way you can beat the house. In the long run you will lose the money, while the casino wins.