Topic: The person who can’t control emotions in gambling will never earn money from it - page 5. (Read 2929 times)

That's for sure, or it means that when you have the intention and goal to earn in gambling then most likely you will not be able to be rational and deal with everything that is in gambling while after all gambling is always about activities that can sometimes be very high risk when you come with the wrong intention and goal. We must understand that winning in gambling is nothing more than a "possibility" while losing is a sure thing, and with this it is clear that the intention and goal of earning will only lead you to a worse situation.

When one has such intentions and goals then it is obvious that he/she must have expectations of winning which means that if the results do not match the expectations then it will only increase disappointment which in turn emotions dominate and some actions result from impulsive decisions driven by emotions occur which basically as we know that this is what makes one lose a larger amount. You have proven it yourself with your own experience that when you plan to make money but the result is losing but when you gamble without expecting anything the result is winning, and this is what is called "possibility" activity which means you may win or you may lose, and this is also the reason why gambling cannot be used as a place to earn.

Those who apply emotions to gambling are definitely those who have wrong perspective of gambling, and those are the ones who usually lose so much while gambling.

You wouldn't be wrong for assuming that 90% of gamblers apply emotions while gambling rather than applying logic. Although whether you apply logic or emotions, it wouldn't have much impact on the outcome of the game itself but it can impact you directly. What I mean is that, how you approach gambling determines how it will affect you, for those who gamble with emotions, i.e those who gamble for profitability can be affected negatively because they're the ones who usually takes uncalculated risks that usually leads to unimaginable losses while those who only gamble for the thrill of the game are always in control and even when they take risks, they calculate every single risk they take.

I do agree with OP's title. Emotions are the walls to gamblers because they cannot decide better if they are filled with either hate, revenge, or too much joy from a big win. I can tell because I have been there and what happened was actually revenge. I was so angry because I cannot get my money back as fast as possible so I increased my bet playing a martingale strategy but to no luck because everything was gone faster instead of getting it back.
It's unwise to do that because online gambling sites knows what we are trying to achieve and they will probably just knock us down and take all our money. I bet a lot of gamblers have the same story as that.

In our psychology, there is always a desire to escape from reality and immerse yourself in a fantasy world. Sometimes, especially in moments of weakness, we just want to give up and forget about everything. That's why gambling is so attractive – it offers us the opportunity to break away from the mundane and the rules of self-discipline. But it is important to remember that this is just an illusion that can do more harm than good. Giving in to our desires is sometimes easy, but it is important to maintain balance and control over yourself. After all, our psychology is what makes us human, and we must learn to manage it, not be its prisoners.

Well our emotions play a vital role in gambling section, so if one emotions is not well checked it may lead to countless losses. And one of that common emotion is know as greed which we all possess as human as one of our emotions. So we can't actually stop such emotions because is part of us but we can actually manage and control it. Whenever we are gambling or doing other related money earning stuff. Before one should consider dipping their funds into gambling he or she must be sure that their emotions are well checked and they are ready for any possible outcomes. Because gambling is a chance of win and lose you should always have such mindset that you aren't going to win always there some time you going to experience losses but don't let it get to head and endup triggering your emotions to get the best of you.

It is really just that for fun but its true that it cant really be separated that it could really make out that money but only into the moment that you are lucky. The wrong thing on here is that people do really ends up on being greedy in the end of the line and thats why they do really mess up their lives just because they do have that kind approach that they are really that being that desperate on making some gambling session and making that even more deposits on the time that they do lose up which is really very wrong. On the time that you are already that chasing your losses then this is the best time that you should really be quitting or stopping gambling.

Emotions is something that most hardest part on controlling when you are on the condition or verge of losing that big. You would really be having those kind of change plans or aims
basing up into emotions that time and this is something you should really be careful on watching for.

I think what they are saying is that if your mind is so fixated on making money through gambling, you might act irrationally and this will likely make you lose money instead of making profits. I tend to agree with the statement that focusing so much on the money is not the best way even though we know that money is the motivation. I have this personal experience that whenever I want to make money so urgently, I lose instead but when I just gamble casually, I end up winning. This means that being too focused on making money rarely give me the results I want, hence the reason I'm beginning to think in the direction of those who say gambling should not be all about making money.

I don't even know why everyother person is saying that gambling should not be for money making but rather for fun. Though gambling should be more of fun but we should not disproof the fact that gambling is for money making. If gambling is only for fun as everyone is saying, I don't think people who lost thousands of dollars would have did so. Nobody is happy loosing thousands of dollars for fun. If you check this gambling board you guys will notice that most thread created here emphasis more on people that lost alot of money or did incredible things for gambling. I have read about a ma who kidnapped his grand daughter and demanded for $72k for ransom. Another man lost also some thousands of dollars under the influence of drug. All this out together is just toake the money. The only thing that need to be addressed is that we should not expect high hopes on gambling return but. saying that we should not gamble for money always make me feel like there is no need to gamble Afterall because there are thousands of games that don't involve staking your fund.

In fact, one can understand newcomers to gambling in the fact that their emotions from the game at first are certainly stronger than those of experienced players.  Naturally, this inspires such players more simply because this is a new and as yet unknown occupation for them. 

By the way, if you honestly remember how you yourself started gambling, you will agree with me that your emotions were different and they were stronger than now, when you have become a more experienced player.  But this should be treated with condescension and understanding.  I just remember that in general all players once started playing and passed this period of euphoria from their first games of chance.

Emotions are just one of the qualities, but in the context of a successful game it cannot be considered separately, since to achieve results you need to follow risk management, competent budget management and a number of other rules, without which you will not be able to achieve a positive result in gambling. Most often, negative emotions arise in us when we lose, and we can simply make a rule that we no longer play after losing a certain amount that day. This will not save you from all problems, but it will eliminate the possibility of making further mistakes.

Just as we have a way to prevent ourselves form losing too much money in a short amount of time, we also need to set limits to the amount of money we are willing to win in that time frame as well, this may not seem to make too much sense at first, but when you understand that when things are going your way, it is more likely for your luck to take a turn for the worse, then it makes sense to set a limit, so what it could have been a good day does not turn into a bad one, just because we could not stop ourselves and we keep gambling our profits away.

I agree that gambling always keeps us happy, but this said happiness comes more, when there is a winning.
Most cases, emotions are always inevitable in gambling and just as every other quoted member here has also said that, the ability to control the emotions are what truly matters because we can’t be talking about gambling without mentioning emotions, which means emotions is also an inevitable part of gambling.

Another thing I think people ought to consider, is luck. I think another great factor people don’t also pay attention to is their luck, as there are days we stake in poorly analyzed games and they end up turning to be a win for us, which is a clear sign that luck works in gambling.

Gambling always keeps us happy as gambling is a fun thing but here we suffer a lot financially in order to get pleasure and to recover that loss our emotions make us panic a lot and place big bets we try to recover the loss quickly and it is  this is our big problem. and those who can control these emotions are saved from such great losses and those who cannot control emotions slowly lose a lot. So controlling emotions should be our first objective

Yes, that is what most cases are. The increase in joyful emotions could turn into a bad day if we don't withdraw as early as possible after a win. I did that many times and I can say it's more fulfilling to have the money and enjoy it after the withdrawal rather than being stressed again trying to find your luck and gain the same or near the multiplier that you achieved initially. It's a rare opportunity to win big so it's better if we can get out afterward. I may have no money to gamble again but for me, that's better than chasing something that might not come again for a long time.
I will be back to gamble, that's  for sure, but enjoying the profits is the most important part for me because as I said, it's a very rare opportunity so take advantage of it and enjoy it.

If you look at it with awareness, whatever kind of gambling you do, the final result will definitely be a loss, even if they bet with a small or large bet amount, it doesn't affect the small chance of winning, it won't change that, because the chance of losing is still big. and it will definitely happen. by them gambling again when they have experienced defeat or even when they win, it is the same as the end that can be predicted is defeat, because luck will not always be on their side, if the gambling they do continues to produce wins, it is not luck, also if like that, gambling can be a sure way to earn money, but in reality it is not like that.

Indeed, sometimes it is excessive hope that leads them to big losses and the destruction of their lives, because it is excessive hope that drives them to continue gambling in the hope that gambling again can produce a win and can turn things around, but it does not improve the situation completely. In fact, it only makes their situation worse. What you say is true is that it is important to be able to control our own emotions and greed. because something done with emotion or greed will not end well.

  The emotions can be adrenaline, excitement and pure ecstacy. The thrill is what keeps you coming back along with the thought of winning money. Eventually gamblers can desensitized themselves to these feelings, which can also make people bet high amounts of money to get that thrill back. As a gambler myself, the trip home after loosing a huge amount of money can give anxiety, depressive thoughts and feelings, anger at one's self, and a feeling of hopelessness. For problem gamblers, it isn't just the experience we chase, it's the accumulation of money is a short amount of time. With all these emotions, feelings can take over and really dissociate the gambler to their value of money. When you go back to the ATM to chase your losses, the internal dialog could be similar to “it’s just money who cares”, when the whole goal is to win back what you lost.
  If you do not have the mental fortitude to do something it only means that YOU don’t have he emotional strength to handle it. This doesn’t mean others are like you or are as weak as you. I don’t sky dive because I fear hieghts but that doesn’t mean our bets can’t do ianything. The same holds true for gambling. If you can’t stomach it, stay away from it, but those who can are more than welcome to enjoy the same freedom as others to do what they enjoy.

On the time that you are winning up on gambling then it would really be that so hard for you to quit up right away or you would really be making yourself that quit up completely or call it a day. One of the main reasons on why gambling industry is really that profitable just because gamblers are highly impulsive when it comes into their emotions on which they would really be always having that kind of approach towards gambling.
If you are someone whose really that treating gambling as some sort of income making or could make you rich then you would really be finding yourself that desperate and this is something that should really be avoided in the first place.Dont make yourself that delusional because on the time that you would really be having this kind of approach then 100% you would really be messing up your life with it.

Gambling should really be just that for fun and not something that you could really make it as a source of income or making a living with it. There's no way that you could really be able to make
yourself that to happen. It is really just that for leisure and dont expect something else from it.

Everyone who has won their bet from gambling of course still wants a bigger win on the bet they played and it will be difficult for some people to resist this desire by withdrawing the winnings they have obtained. Of course they will continue to bet in the hope of getting that win. even bigger, but it is very unlikely that they will win again and some will even experience defeat again after returning to play in the hope of winning.

It's not easy to resist continuing betting in the hope of winning, especially if they have experienced many losses before, of course they will continue betting in the hope of getting a bigger win, so it's important for us to keep control of our emotions and greed when betting. so that we can enjoy the winnings that we have obtained, because often those who are greedy when gambling find it difficult to win the bets they play.

Exactly, the fact is that only those who are irresponsible will eventually experience such adverse effects, as you said that such adverse effects will only be experienced when they are completely unable to manage, control and limit the gambling activities they experience, basically gambling is an activity that can be very tempting because there are so many things that look tempting that can sometimes make them fall into unconsciousness which in the end they usually realize when they have lost most of their money.

Of course, having a fun approach and mindset to gambling is more advisable because it's the best approach so that we can avoid the emotions that dominate losing, but I think sometimes it's possible that eventually the idea of fun in gambling can change over time into a stressful and stressful activity, and all of this happens because someone is not able to maintain an awareness of the concept of gambling, and the other thing is that gambling responsibly is easier said than done.

That happens only if you are an irresponsible gambler and you don't have any control over yourself, you don't have any limits for your time and the budget that you will spend on your gambling activities, however, those who have these things wouldn't get hooked up easily because they stop when they have reached the limit for the day or week or month, and they come back again only when their limits have reset and now they can gamble again.

Gambling for fun and entertainment means you have no extreme emotional attachment to it, you go to the casino casually having $100 with you, you start gambling, and have a good time, if you lose your $100, you get out and go away until you get your budget reset. That's how responsible gamblers gamble.