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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

Most likely you are not the only one facing this problem. This is a very common problem. I think it’s worth withdrawing some of the money right away and paying for the bill/buying something you need. That is, so that you can see the result of your game. You are right, the longer money remains on the platform, the greater the likelihood of losing it.
You need to develop a strategy that you will follow if you win, and which you will not violate even under the influence of emotions, and this is very important. Sometimes we create a strategy, but under the influence of emotions we violate it. In this strategy, distribute the part of the money that you will withdraw from your wallet when you win.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

the title says it all mate , Have the same experience here like in Physical casino that when I still have this chips , i kept in betting this is why i go cashing out once my funds goes more than double.

I remember up to now I still have some small funds sitting in my casino wallets and yeah now I can manage to keep those there without the urge to gamble again.
Maybe this means I am mature enough to learn my lessons and knows how to control my urge .

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Quote from: Nrcewker on June 12, 2024, 01:07:15 PM

I can understand; as gamblers, we get tempted to place bets. The best way to counter this is to set a profit limit or target. Once the target is achieved, make the withdrawal. If you keep your balance in the casino, then you will eventually get the temptation to place a bet and will continuously want to make more money. Hence the best thing is to just withdraw the funds after a certain amount is made in profits. Withdraw the initial amount you used, and if you really want, then gamble with the previous game’s profits.

that's right, If we just leave the money and what we earned in our gambling accounts, there is a great possibility that we will return to our gambling activity from time to time, unlike when you only have a set bank roll and only spend a limited amount, you will learn to limit your spending and placing bets. Withdrawing the winnings is really the best way to do so that we can monitor how much we have won. As a gambler, what I really do is I take all the winnings and I only leave the initial gambling fee in my account, it will helps me to handle my money in a very smart way so that I don't overspend or overbudget on gambling expenses. My strategy is how I will grow the initial money that I put in my account, so that there will be gambling in the next sessions because I will never deposit any fees again.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

I completely agree with you, most of us are the same... when we win we start playing even stronger and we end up losing everything. Been there, and done that so many times. So definitely yes, winning is when we withdraw and do something nice with that money.

The only good approach is to withdraw when we make some nice profit, to not chase for more... that craziness that catches us when we get into the money. That means we need to learn to stop, withdraw the money, and give it another try when we cool our heads. Again with the starting amount. I try to stick to that, but I slip often.

Right, and maybe I would say one of the reasons about why the majority of us continue gambling sessions with various decisions that tend to be aggressive when we have managed to get a win is because of the greed that is sometimes very difficult to eliminate in the mind. So of course as you understand here that it is not a real victory if in the end they lose again due to applying greed in themselves, meaning that the real victory is only when someone has actually gone through the process of cashing out and has seen the amount of money in real or physical form.

Of course having the approach of withdrawing at the right time such as when winning is a good approach to gambling, because this is the same as you limit yourself to avoid some unwanted possibilities such as losing the amount you have previously won which is often experienced by gambling addicts which ultimately makes them regret and emotions lead them to make more crazy decisions without consideration and ability to accept the situation. Gambling is always about two things where if you don't win it means you lose, so obviously there must be a time for us to take advantage of the winning situation by cashing in and enjoying it.

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It is a universal property of the human psyche that we love to get carried away. We may get a random win and it seems to us that this is not an accident, but a pattern. We believe that if we play a few more times, we will have exactly the same outcome as in the first case. We only believe in the best outcomes, and bad scenarios have to happen to someone else. We are simply fooled by chance. If you have a desire to play again after winning, then you definitely need to stop. Most likely the loss will be crushing.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

I completely agree with you, most of us are the same... when we win we start playing even stronger and we end up losing everything. Been there, and done that so many times. So definitely yes, winning is when we withdraw and do something nice with that money.

The only good approach is to withdraw when we make some nice profit, to not chase for more... that craziness that catches us when we get into the money. That means we need to learn to stop, withdraw the money, and give it another try when we cool our heads. Again with the starting amount. I try to stick to that, but I slip often.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

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...If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

It is only my opinion,.but if you believe losing money to the house or to the casino, then perhaps you should take a long break from.gambling or even consider to adjust your wager down, in order to relieve your grief on lost money.
Because, if we are honest we ourselves, as long as we continue to gamble, in the long term we are going always going to lose money to the house, even if we start to withdraw part of your earnings... we will keep depositing eventually and lose more than those withdrawals.

OP, do not forget gambling is a business, usually big and luxurious casinos are part of such business and to keep such establishments going it is necessary for the owners of the casinos to guarantee they will have a constant profit off gambling.

I would understand of you do not want to quit completely, but consider those options I mentioned. What is the point of gambling if you are going to feel grief like that in the end?

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If you cannot stop your urge to gamble, you better withdraw all your money after you win it; as long as you have cash in your account, you will always think of your bankroll and will always think of going back to try your luck, thinking that you can still win.
Those who win and can't stop believe in the saying strike while the iron is hot, something that a gamble should not follow as it will lead to losing what you have won; you are not always sure of what happens after your last roll.

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Quote from: un_rank on June 12, 2024, 01:19:08 PM

Always withdraw your winnings from gambling sites. If you are going to leave some to play around with it should be less than 20% of what you won and you should only do that if you had run out of capital to stake before winning. If you did not run out keep staking with what you have using the strategy you were using.
Gamblers get tempted to up the stakes when they win, but that is a terrible option.

I love your suggestion on continuing with previous balance before the winning and if a gambler can develop this level of discipline, it will go a long way in preserving his capital as well as a win will remain a win. It is even highly suitable for me that use a fixed amount per bet, per day and per week. I rarely increase my fixed amount unless perhaps I'm trying out a new system.

Quote from: un_rank on June 12, 2024, 01:19:08 PM

Another reason to withdraw your winnings is you are never sure which website will withhold your withdrawals when you try to pull out a large amount, as long as it remains on the site, you are being allowed to use it, which can change at anytime.

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Another good point Jay, and OP did not capture that. There have been several cases of such problems so it is best one withdraw the winning as soon as possible, leaving only what is planned to be gambled with

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If one persons biggest achievement from gambling is having a withdrawal, then I would suggest to reconsider his approach to gambling. This isnt normal when person thinks that he wins only if he is able to withdraw something. This isnt healthy. Moreno233, either create a financial strategy for gambling, or gamble for fun. Otherwise you will go nuts with time.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

I agree that the real victory is when we are able to withdraw results. However, what I often experience is that I have played 15-20 minutes and have won while my ambition to play still wants to continue, there is no satisfaction in a short time. Then the win is again at stake and ends in total defeat. When I can't withdraw my winnings, at least the satisfaction of playing for a long time has been fulfilled. Because it's really not fun if a game that has just started is forced to leave. Have you experienced a moment like that?

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Quote from: Mayor of ogba on June 13, 2024, 02:32:19 AM

Most gamblers like to play more bets and increase their staking power any time they win a bet because it gives them more confidence to predict games that will play. In the process of doing this, if caution is not taken, you might lose all the money you won because nothing is guaranteed in gambling. You should set a certain percentage to withdraw from your betting account at any time you have a winning so that you will not use the whole money you win to play bets and lose it.

Yes, the instinct or desire to play again always appears when we have won quite well. If they increase their bet and on that round they lose, of course they will definitely play again with selfish feelings and emotions inside them, and of course they will want to take their money back. that had been lost in the previous round. What we have to do is control ourselves in this gambling game. It's best if we cash out around 80 percent and you can play the rest freely and not think too much about losing.

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What you do reflects a greedy nature. Gamblers who have won should not continue playing hoping to gain more profits because it is possible that you will lose your winnings and all the capital you have because you are too chasing bigger wins. We must be grateful with what we get without having to think about winning more gambling and being greedy because greed is a bad trait for gamblers and most people who experience greed will end up addicted to gambling where it is difficult for them to stop.

For me, winning in gambling means that we can stop when we feel satisfied with the results we get and don't try to gamble continuously. Meaning that you have got the profit and immediately withdraw it so that you can feel the victory and not be trapped in a situation where gambling will be even more misleading when you experience greed and decide to bet more. Gambling sometimes makes it difficult for someone to think clearly when they expect to win more and finally decide to continue gambling but in the end if they continue playing the results will be disappointing.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

Exactly this is really the main goal should gamblers to target on. But lots of people failed to realize that winning a lot more is just a bonus scenario since what's really more important to consider first is to know when to secure our winnings. Since if we always think about getting a lot more profit and get greedy for thinking that we are having a lucky streak then for sure that there would be an instances that instead of we are gaining the table turn down and we lost everything we already have.

So its really important for people to have contentment of each positive happenings especially when they are already winning so that they can able to think to withdraw their winnings and don't want to get exceed because they know what will happen next to it.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

....The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling.

It is not yet yours until it is in your wallet and you are free to do whatever you want to do with it, I always make it a point to withdraw the money I won when I call it a day and sometimes just retain a few bucks in my bankroll for my next session or if you have an uncontrollable urge to gamble withdraw everything.

By withdrawing everything you will not be tempted to come back right away you only retain for your next session if you can control and stick to your session.

I have an office worker who retains a portion of his winnings, the first time that he did that he could not get over that money he decided to log in and check and play a few games during office hours and he was caught by the boss and was scolded Cheesy

so if you cannot control your urge to play just withdraw everything.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else.

That is how it feels when you are already in a state of greediness. What is in your mind is to gamble in order to make more money and you will never stop doing this because you already know that you have money in your pocket. And this kind of gambling behavior give us no winning but a losing end.

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As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

Even if you withdraw it, you will still put it back because you will gamble again. True winning is when you win and never gamble again. But if you still gamble, chances are you still spend and lose more than the amount you win. That is the reality of gambling that is why I gamble not thinking I could make money more but just to enjoy life. Some gamblers make a fortune here but the majority are in the face of losing.

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Quote from: Juse14 on June 12, 2024, 01:47:29 PM

More precisely, real victory in gambling is not about how big a win we achieve, but how capable we are of controlling the gambling activity itself.

Everyone who has been involved in gambling for a long time has certainly had their luck and achieved some big wins, but these wins are in vain when we are unable to control the gambling. What we get is lost for nothing in the next gambling session.

Making a withdrawal of the winnings achieved and withdrawing for a moment from gambling activities is the first step to safeguarding what we have earned. For the next step, don't deposit the money from the winning rice in your account or in your digital wallet, it would be wiser if you invest the money, spend it or lend it to people you trust.

Yeah, it is hard to actually quit when you win big, because our brains evolved to continue things that are working, and winning clearly is one of them.

Now, the thing is that the casinos have all of this figured out, and they trick your brain to try to keep you gambling as much as they can.

At the end of the day, most gamblers will have spent more than what they won. And that's by design.

I don't know, maybe thru experience, a gambler might have control of themselves when they actually win big and then quit for a while and not comeback. I myself have been in this predicament, however, I have matured already, as me and my buddy has this saying, at least if you play and you are already losing and then there's one chance that you able to come back, then quit.

And most likely that's what we have been doing, let's say I have a budget of $100 and almost lost it until a game that give me like $50 back, then I will take it as a win already instead of losing all that $100. And maybe come back another day and hopefully you can win big + that $50 that you have lost earlier.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

This is a great point tbh which I don’t understand why the topic doesn’t received even a single merit.

I can relate to this since this the most common dilemma of every gambler whenever their money is still inside the casino. You really can’t say that you already win until you withdraw your balance safely since I experienced many times that I win huge amount but still lose it all just because I triggered on losing small that makes me chase loss until I bust all my bankroll both my original money and profit.

That’s why instant withdrawal is a very important feature of the casino which gamblers should consider.

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Quote from: Moreno233 on June 12, 2024, 01:01:07 PM

Whenever I win, I usually feel this strong urge to gamble more and also increase the amount I'm using to gamble. I do fall for this urge most times and the result is always disastrous as I end up losing the money I won with great pain and regrets. The only time I can say I have won is when I make withdrawals and possibly use the money for something else. As long as the money is still in the platform, there is a high chance of using it to gamble more. I decided to create this topic to see how other people manage their winning in gambling. If I notice a better approach, I will switch immediately as I don't want to continue experiencing the pain of winning and later losing the money again.

Yes, same approach here, if ever I won big, it's either I going to used the money that I won to pay debts, like credit card, or buy something for my kids. I won't double think of doing that because I know that the odds are high that if I'm going to gamble again, I might donate my winnings to the casino again regardless.

So that will be the best approach in my opinion. Just enjoy your winnings, don't think about of getting back and replicate the same things all over again because chances are you won't win that big again. So it's better to used the money that will make you enjoy.

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Quote from: nullama on June 13, 2024, 04:10:42 AM

Quote from: Juse14 on June 12, 2024, 01:47:29 PM

More precisely, real victory in gambling is not about how big a win we achieve, but how capable we are of controlling the gambling activity itself.

Everyone who has been involved in gambling for a long time has certainly had their luck and achieved some big wins, but these wins are in vain when we are unable to control the gambling. What we get is lost for nothing in the next gambling session.

Making a withdrawal of the winnings achieved and withdrawing for a moment from gambling activities is the first step to safeguarding what we have earned. For the next step, don't deposit the money from the winning rice in your account or in your digital wallet, it would be wiser if you invest the money, spend it or lend it to people you trust.

Yeah, it is hard to actually quit when you win big, because our brains evolved to continue things that are working, and winning clearly is one of them.

Now, the thing is that the casinos have all of this figured out, and they trick your brain to try to keep you gambling as much as they can.

At the end of the day, most gamblers will have spent more than what they won. And that's by design.

But it will not happen if the gambler itself is aware of when to stop and how to limit itself. I get that many gamblers will have a strong urge to gamble more if they win quite a huge amount instead of securing it because, in their minds, they could not miss this opportunity to double it or to earn more, but think again: will you have the assurance to earn more or win some more games after a big win? Or are you just gaslighting yourself, thinking that it's okay to lose the money you will lose because it came from what you have won? That is not practical; that's being stupid and small-minded. If you have won a huge amount of money from a game, then secure it and lay low, and when you want to gamble again, dedicate a portion only so that no matter what happens to it, you will never get more money. It's like a limiter wherein when you lose it, you need to stop, and the money you have earned from a previous win should be secured.

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