pay taxes or be put in jail, not really a choice...
respect the NAP or die, again not really a choice...
they are at least equally bad, and NAP might be worse.
False comparison. More correct would be
respect government laws against murder, or die, not really a choice...
respect the NAP or die, again not really a choice...
In that case, yes, they would be the same, except that the second doesn't require a government.
i expect repercussions and thats why i don't do violence(im forced not to do violence, by thread of violence).
Which is all that the NAP says and expects of you. So if you are following it already, why are you so against it?