I can relate to economizing and frugality up to a certain point, but at some point, you have to begin to treat yourself.
Yeah, while you are building your nest egg and your various financial assets, you might want to be extremely focused on utility and lack of depreciation; however, at some point, there is value in treating yourself and even showing status that comes with new products that depreciate - a car being a decent example of such.
Well, I did treat myself to a bit of a splurge, a 32 valve 5.0L Porsche 928S, bad assed little car that's pretty unique on the road.
If you go from one extreme to the next, then how am I supposed to be able to have a meaningful conversation with you?
At one point, you sound as if you are advocating a kind of fancy car abstinence, and then a few posts later, you are describing yourself as one of the most spendy of spendy consumers?
A new Toyota or even Tesla just doesn't add much in the wow factor for me.
Yes, people are different. Surely, some cars are more practical than other cars, and some cars have more wow factor, so of course, this will vary based on your own history and experience and/or who you might be attempting to impress, besides yourself.
A Lambo has been on the mental table, but I'm not sure if I can fit in one for a longer drive.
Yeah, I had noticed that Lambos are very low to the ground, so sometimes physical flexibility getting in and out and just overall comfort too, could be a factor. So the lack of practicality would likely make it just a fun extra car, rather than a regular use car.
Maybe if bitcoin tops 25k I'll pick one up just for giggles or something. But even then I would prefer a Diabalo as opposed to something new (The LP500S is amazing looking but a total bitch to drive. I tried it, too much work by far).
You seem to know more about different Lambo models and options, than me. I have not even considered any kind of car like that for myself.
Guess I'm just not at the showing status portion of my life yet.
Could be, but sounds like you are a bit ambivalent.
But I can understand the lack of wanting to wrench,
For sure. I used to do a lot of my own self-repair, but my own wilingness to repair has gone down, but like others have mentioned, too, cars have become a bit more difficult to self-repair, too (computerization matters and other special tools/parts).
I'm just pointing out to my kids that it's a lot cheaper to fix something themselves and spend money on hookers and blow than have a new car and no H+B. :-)
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Surely, it is a good thing to teach kids about different kinds of self-sufficiencies, but also how to control some of their temptations and self-indulgences. Of course, kids do not necessarily follow the guidances of parents, but it is good to give them guidance -and even presenting ideas of deferred gratification would be good, and leading by example might be more powerful than any words that you were to use.