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legendary
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October 06, 2022, 09:02:00 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
It is normal that every beginner have gone through this experience maybe because of greed. But at last most beginners learn from their ugly experience and try to get limit in gambling  and self control not to spend all they have in gambling.

It really depends but there is a high chance that almost every beginner will experience this because he/she doesn't know yet how to control things while gambling as there are some factors that we need to consider to avoid such extremes like emotions and proper mindset to know how to set your boundaries to avoid getting over your limits, so that your finances won't be disturbed as that will cause more problems.
legendary
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October 04, 2022, 07:29:30 AM
~snip~
In my case I do not blame newbies when they make the mistake of thinking they can actually become profitable when they gamble, my problem is that some of those newbies never really learn their lesson, they lose all of their capital and instead of thinking that this is a trend that is going to continue they believe that this was an exception, so the next time they gather some money they gamble once again with the intention of becoming profitable, then at some point they realize all the money they have lost and then they keep gambling hoping to recover it, and by that point there is a very high chance that they are already addicted to gambling.

The entire gambling industry creates games, machines, systems, etc, that create an illusion that the gambler might win big next time, and try to be as addictive as possible.

On the other side you have the cold, boring math that tells the gambler that it will lose all the money in the long term. There's also no money in pushing this side, so the message rarely gets to the gambler, other than "Gamble Responsibly" or similar.

It's hard for some people to just rationalize this, and act accordingly. Many people will just follow the fantasy because it's designed to be more attractive than reality, which is quite boring in comparison.
In general, in some ways, gambling turns out to be similar to an ordinary drug, after trying which it is already very difficult to return to a “normal” life, especially if you are lucky at first.
It seems to me that the chance to "get addicted" to gambling is much less if you lose at first.
sr. member
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October 04, 2022, 07:12:09 AM
"Just one more game" is a phrase we often say and it makes us not realize that it is the beginning of our next defeat. One more game will make us even more curious, especially if the results are not what we expected and can make us come back the next day. Whatever result we get, if we still say that sentence, I don't think it will always work for us and maybe the result will be very different. Therefore, if we want to stop, we must be able to try to stop immediately and not say the sentence.
When a gambler spends more time in gambling from a certain time frame, gambling addiction is seen in him to some extent. And this kind of incident is seen frequently in almost all gamblers to a lesser or greater extent. However, spending a lot of time in gambling is not bring what you have expect. So ignoring all these things gambling can bring the big success.

Anything in "excess" always have a negative impact, it is every gambler's responsibility to handle the manner in which they played but I'm curious to ask, from your comment, what do you have to say when a player has more wins than the number of losses and the player decided to spend more of it is time than the expected time, will that be considered as addiction?
You know the nature of gamblers and greed is what drives our hormones, if the games are in their favour, they will likely play more than the time they set for them self but the wise ones will exit as soon as they hit 3 losses in a row but the addicted ones don't usually stop until they blow up what they have all won to the house.

Indeed, anything that is too much and beyond control is harmful. That's why they always say that always do things in moderation and responsibly. Because if you won't establish boundaries and limitations, you'll just end up hurting yourself in the process and it might lead into something serious that is more difficult to address such as being addicted to it.

Addiction is cannot be treated overnight and you might as well do your very best to avoid falling victim of it. For me, despite the percentage of winnings is greater than the losses, one must not go beyond his budget allocated for gambling especially if he already spend the amount intended for it and that is what he can only afford to lose. The phrase "one more game" is actually a deadly one because it could be continuous until you no longer notice you are being caught up playing. Just set a specific time frame for playing and a specific amount for your budget in gambling and do not ever think of going beyond it to ensure you'll keep your discipline intact. 
hero member
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October 04, 2022, 04:50:10 AM
"Just one more game" is a phrase we often say and it makes us not realize that it is the beginning of our next defeat. One more game will make us even more curious, especially if the results are not what we expected and can make us come back the next day. Whatever result we get, if we still say that sentence, I don't think it will always work for us and maybe the result will be very different. Therefore, if we want to stop, we must be able to try to stop immediately and not say the sentence.
When a gambler spends more time in gambling from a certain time frame, gambling addiction is seen in him to some extent. And this kind of incident is seen frequently in almost all gamblers to a lesser or greater extent. However, spending a lot of time in gambling is not bring what you have expect. So ignoring all these things gambling can bring the big success.

Anything in "excess" always have a negative impact, it is every gambler's responsibility to handle the manner in which they played but I'm curious to ask, from your comment, what do you have to say when a player has more wins than the number of losses and the player decided to spend more of it is time than the expected time, will that be considered as addiction?
You know the nature of gamblers and greed is what drives our hormones, if the games are in their favour, they will likely play more than the time they set for them self but the wise ones will exit as soon as they hit 3 losses in a row but the addicted ones don't usually stop until they blow up what they have all won to the house.
hero member
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October 03, 2022, 10:51:47 PM
~snip~
In my case I do not blame newbies when they make the mistake of thinking they can actually become profitable when they gamble, my problem is that some of those newbies never really learn their lesson, they lose all of their capital and instead of thinking that this is a trend that is going to continue they believe that this was an exception, so the next time they gather some money they gamble once again with the intention of becoming profitable, then at some point they realize all the money they have lost and then they keep gambling hoping to recover it, and by that point there is a very high chance that they are already addicted to gambling.

The entire gambling industry creates games, machines, systems, etc, that create an illusion that the gambler might win big next time, and try to be as addictive as possible.

On the other side you have the cold, boring math that tells the gambler that it will lose all the money in the long term. There's also no money in pushing this side, so the message rarely gets to the gambler, other than "Gamble Responsibly" or similar.

It's hard for some people to just rationalize this, and act accordingly. Many people will just follow the fantasy because it's designed to be more attractive than reality, which is quite boring in comparison.
legendary
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October 03, 2022, 09:36:25 PM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
It is normal that every beginner have gone through this experience maybe because of greed. But at last most beginners learn from their ugly experience and try to get limit in gambling  and self control not to spend all they have in gambling.
In my case I do not blame newbies when they make the mistake of thinking they can actually become profitable when they gamble, my problem is that some of those newbies never really learn their lesson, they lose all of their capital and instead of thinking that this is a trend that is going to continue they believe that this was an exception, so the next time they gather some money they gamble once again with the intention of becoming profitable, then at some point they realize all the money they have lost and then they keep gambling hoping to recover it, and by that point there is a very high chance that they are already addicted to gambling.
hero member
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October 03, 2022, 02:42:46 AM
You are exactly right in this.I also when I lose a lot of money I say to myself a similar phrase to it and mine is "Just 100 more auto spins to win the bonus" and this keeps being repeated until I lose all of my money.Luckily for me though it has been near three weeks I have not touch a slot with real money as I got a huge bad luck the last time I played that made me think cold headed that these games are created against me so why continue to play them.So far it has worked but slots are so addictive and the providers come up with all sort of game play mechanics that makes you come back in no time.
Many of us have thought of phrases like this because I often get them. But soon, I diverted such thoughts because it would not be worth it. Besides, I once tried to follow that thought but got lost.

Yes, I agree that slots are very addictive and only we can say no to continue the next spin. The phrase "only 1 or 2 more rounds to play" is a temptation that we often experience and is very difficult to avoid, especially if we have won.

When a gambler spends more time in gambling from a certain time frame, gambling addiction is seen in him to some extent. And this kind of incident is seen frequently in almost all gamblers to a lesser or greater extent. However, spending a lot of time in gambling is not bring what you have expect. So ignoring all these things gambling can bring the big success.
It was only a matter of time before the gambler eventually became addicted and he would not notice. Gambling addiction can come anytime, especially when we are too busy playing for a long time. And when that happens, we will be even more engrossed in playing gambling without seeing whether there are changes that we experience or realize. But if you can stop the fun of playing, you can at least prevent gambling addiction from coming to you so you won't have any problems later.
sr. member
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October 02, 2022, 11:26:39 PM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
You are right. Things like that are common to everyone when they are gambling. because there is a high level of pleasure and curiosity in every bet. So it's no wonder that sometimes we get out of control until we unconsciously or consciously spend money or bets that exceed our capabilities. but usually experiences like this are also important in learning so that we can control ourselves more in the future. but if I'm honest. in fact I've done something like that a few times or even many times. It's very hard to get out of this habit. but luckily lately i have more control over myself.
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October 02, 2022, 10:54:05 PM
People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.

People will advise even not always from their own experience, people love to advise. We have a society of experts on all issues, all the masters advises to someone, but for themselves these tips do not work. ) To some extent this is a joke, there are definitely people whose advice will help solve many issues, you just need to be able to find the best and most suitable advice for yourself. I like to say that you should always think with your own head, no one will give you better advice than yourself!
It is true that some suggestions will always be received. Each person can share their different opinion from one place. But there is suitable advice to be combined with your intellect. In this case you must think with logic. Because whatever decision you take will be effective. Just realize that no one can understand better than yourself. Depending on your financial situation you have to decide what should you do.
legendary
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October 02, 2022, 12:44:20 PM
People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.

People will advise even not always from their own experience, people love to advise. We have a society of experts on all issues, all the masters advises to someone, but for themselves these tips do not work. ) To some extent this is a joke, there are definitely people whose advice will help solve many issues, you just need to be able to find the best and most suitable advice for yourself. I like to say that you should always think with your own head, no one will give you better advice than yourself!

As long as you are open to any open criticism, the very chance that you might take the best advice coming from your love ones or even from the experts. It's a case to case situation, but most of the time I also believe with your statement, there are people who love to advice, but applying that advice with their own situations will kick their ass high.

Everything still relies on how you will take the situation and how will you adjust and apply certain information when you already cross the bridge.

More on self-will and how will you execute the changes that's needed for you to avoid making mistakes.
legendary
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October 02, 2022, 04:27:27 AM
People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.

People will advise even not always from their own experience, people love to advise. We have a society of experts on all issues, all the masters advises to someone, but for themselves these tips do not work. ) To some extent this is a joke, there are definitely people whose advice will help solve many issues, you just need to be able to find the best and most suitable advice for yourself. I like to say that you should always think with your own head, no one will give you better advice than yourself!
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October 02, 2022, 12:28:10 AM

It's true that if you ask for advice, some people will give you bad advice and some people will give you good advice. It does not matter who gave the advice.  Because everyone has his own way of thinking according to which he can take all his actions and decisions . So one should always give preference to own decision

The moment you asked for an opinion, you should always be ready for the different suggestions from the people. There would really be various perspectives because each differs from one another. They experienced something that the others didn't and therefore they will have unique thoughts and viewpoint that could affect their judgment.

The advices you read here in forum and you hear in your everyday lives could be positive or negative. Now, it's just really up to you whether you follow those advices or just see through them and still decide on your own. After all, not every advices here are guaranteed to be correct and foolproof. You are still responsible of your own actions and for the consequences that come with it.
I agree with you.  If anyone asks in a forum for any advice.  So since there are millions of users, surely different people will publish there in different ways.  This is normal, because every person has different thoughts.  So if this happens to me, I will read each user's opinion and from there I will take a better quality opinion and with that, I will research that opinion myself and then make a decision.

People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.
If i ask for any advice for my own purpose here. then i must focus the high reputable person advices. coz i believe they have huge experience then others . that’s why i have must follow them and also i research there advice from my own thinking and experience . Then it makes me feel more stable
Since gamblers have more control over luck. So gambling with your own thoughts doesn't always work out. So I think it is better for those who are experienced to judge the difference between other thoughts and own thoughts. If this difference can be determined then comparatively of winnings in gambling increases to a great extent.
legendary
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October 01, 2022, 07:22:07 PM

It's true that if you ask for advice, some people will give you bad advice and some people will give you good advice. It does not matter who gave the advice.  Because everyone has his own way of thinking according to which he can take all his actions and decisions . So one should always give preference to own decision

The moment you asked for an opinion, you should always be ready for the different suggestions from the people. There would really be various perspectives because each differs from one another. They experienced something that the others didn't and therefore they will have unique thoughts and viewpoint that could affect their judgment.

The advices you read here in forum and you hear in your everyday lives could be positive or negative. Now, it's just really up to you whether you follow those advices or just see through them and still decide on your own. After all, not every advices here are guaranteed to be correct and foolproof. You are still responsible of your own actions and for the consequences that come with it.
I agree with you.  If anyone asks in a forum for any advice.  So since there are millions of users, surely different people will publish there in different ways.  This is normal, because every person has different thoughts.  So if this happens to me, I will read each user's opinion and from there I will take a better quality opinion and with that, I will research that opinion myself and then make a decision.

People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.
If i ask for any advice for my own purpose here. then i must focus the high reputable person advices. coz i believe they have huge experience then others . that’s why i have must follow them and also i research there advice from my own thinking and experience . Then it makes me feel more stable
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October 01, 2022, 11:26:09 AM
I also experienced this situation but if this is left uncontrolled then expected something bad since you were using more than the amount or your an amount limit that you can afford to lose in gambling. I'm sure you know what will happen if you did spend more than the amount you can afford to lose more than once and it is very bad or worse that your wife might leave you because of it or you will be in greate debt that may cause suicide, going to prison if this continues to happen. The reason why many people give opinions that are bad when it comes to gambling is because gambling means taking risk to increase the money double, triple or much more.
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October 01, 2022, 11:20:13 AM
People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.

This is always be the case on gambling because there is no determined right or wrong strategy here since it's a luck based game. Anyone claiming that there strategy is working and other should follow is surely didn't know what he is saying because there is no fixed working strategy in gambling since it was designed to be an unpredictable.

Following the person comfortable strategy is really the best because there is really no fixed working strategy here.
hero member
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October 01, 2022, 11:11:57 AM

It's true that if you ask for advice, some people will give you bad advice and some people will give you good advice. It does not matter who gave the advice.  Because everyone has his own way of thinking according to which he can take all his actions and decisions . So one should always give preference to own decision

The moment you asked for an opinion, you should always be ready for the different suggestions from the people. There would really be various perspectives because each differs from one another. They experienced something that the others didn't and therefore they will have unique thoughts and viewpoint that could affect their judgment.

The advices you read here in forum and you hear in your everyday lives could be positive or negative. Now, it's just really up to you whether you follow those advices or just see through them and still decide on your own. After all, not every advices here are guaranteed to be correct and foolproof. You are still responsible of your own actions and for the consequences that come with it.
I agree with you.  If anyone asks in a forum for any advice.  So since there are millions of users, surely different people will publish there in different ways.  This is normal, because every person has different thoughts.  So if this happens to me, I will read each user's opinion and from there I will take a better quality opinion and with that, I will research that opinion myself and then make a decision.

People will only advise you based on their own experiences and preferences. Some might be acceptable while others will be offensive but once you as for their opinion, you must be ready to listen and accept it though it might hurt your feelings or might not be in favor of you. Just be sure to take and follow the advice that will help you grow and make you create good and reasonable decisions in such a field.
legendary
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October 01, 2022, 10:26:26 AM

It's true that if you ask for advice, some people will give you bad advice and some people will give you good advice. It does not matter who gave the advice.  Because everyone has his own way of thinking according to which he can take all his actions and decisions . So one should always give preference to own decision

The moment you asked for an opinion, you should always be ready for the different suggestions from the people. There would really be various perspectives because each differs from one another. They experienced something that the others didn't and therefore they will have unique thoughts and viewpoint that could affect their judgment.

The advices you read here in forum and you hear in your everyday lives could be positive or negative. Now, it's just really up to you whether you follow those advices or just see through them and still decide on your own. After all, not every advices here are guaranteed to be correct and foolproof. You are still responsible of your own actions and for the consequences that come with it.
I agree with you.  If anyone asks in a forum for any advice.  So since there are millions of users, surely different people will publish there in different ways.  This is normal, because every person has different thoughts.  So if this happens to me, I will read each user's opinion and from there I will take a better quality opinion and with that I will research that opinion myself and then make a decision.
sr. member
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October 01, 2022, 10:09:43 AM

It's true that if you ask for advice, some people will give you bad advice and some people will give you good advice. It does not matter who gave the advice.  Because everyone has his own way of thinking according to which he can take all his actions and decisions . So one should always give preference to own decision

The moment you asked for an opinion, you should always be ready for the different suggestions from the people. There would really be various perspectives because each differs from one another. They experienced something that the others didn't and therefore they will have unique thoughts and viewpoint that could affect their judgment.

The advices you read here in forum and you hear in your everyday lives could be positive or negative. Now, it's just really up to you whether you follow those advices or just see through them and still decide on your own. After all, not every advices here are guaranteed to be correct and foolproof. You are still responsible of your own actions and for the consequences that come with it.
legendary
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October 01, 2022, 09:51:37 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.
I have not yet become addicted to any gambling or any game that would waste my huge time. Because I give more priority to my time.  So I don't indulge myself in bad addictions like gambling.  When I have some free time I go to some trusted gambling site to gamble.  This may be once or twice a week. so i haven’t any experience like your story of wasting time by playing any game
sometimes it is about attitude and behavior and also the community or the family that brought us, because it is the influence that we gather along the way so we might or not got addicted , or sometimes it is also about how we are dealing with friends  because they are sometimes the Bad Influence that let us decide into something much worst .
so better to do it or not? no one really care but our family and our self .
I really don’t understand fully your opinion . But I understand you mean that no one will give you good advice, not even your friends.  Only you and your family can give you good advice to help you avoid gambling . Your argument may be true.  And many times this happens.
actually my full sentiment is that People around us makes things complicated , who build us to become addicted are those  people .
 
and also ? it is not that no one will give you good advice but it is that we are still the one to decide , so no matter how good or bad the advise ?yet we are the one that will make it matter mate, and also the main Idea here is never to become addicted .
It's true that if you ask for advice, some people will give you bad advice and some people will give you good advice. It does not matter who gave the advice.  Because everyone has his own way of thinking according to which he can take all his actions and decisions . So one should always give preference to own decision
sr. member
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October 01, 2022, 06:40:12 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
"Just one more game" is a phrase we often say and it makes us not realize that it is the beginning of our next defeat. One more game will make us even more curious, especially if the results are not what we expected and can make us come back the next day. Whatever result we get, if we still say that sentence, I don't think it will always work for us and maybe the result will be very different. Therefore, if we want to stop, we must be able to try to stop immediately and not say the sentence.

You are exactly right in this.I also when I lose a lot of money I say to myself a similar phrase to it and mine is "Just 100 more auto spins to win the bonus" and this keeps being repeated until I lose all of my money.Luckily for me though it has been near three weeks I have not touch a slot with real money as I got a huge bad luck the last time I played that made me think cold headed that these games are created against me so why continue to play them.So far it has worked but slots are so addictive and the providers come up with all sort of game play mechanics that makes you come back in no time.
If it only just happens to others and has the same mindset as you, there are no addictions happening, honestly. But because we all have different mindsets, it was too hard to influence others and be like you. Limitations and self-control is very important in gambling but most of the time, it was been ignored due to some temptation, especially when we win and it comes to our mind that we are lucky all day. Yet, it was unfortunate that it can't be and usually end up losing all the winnings.
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