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October 01, 2022, 07:05:58 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
"Just one more game" is a phrase we often say and it makes us not realize that it is the beginning of our next defeat. One more game will make us even more curious, especially if the results are not what we expected and can make us come back the next day. Whatever result we get, if we still say that sentence, I don't think it will always work for us and maybe the result will be very different. Therefore, if we want to stop, we must be able to try to stop immediately and not say the sentence.
When a gambler spends more time in gambling from a certain time frame, gambling addiction is seen in him to some extent. And this kind of incident is seen frequently in almost all gamblers to a lesser or greater extent. However, spending a lot of time in gambling is not bring what you have expect. So ignoring all these things gambling can bring the big success.
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October 01, 2022, 06:06:41 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.

Ever wonder why gamblers bet more than they could reasonably afford? What is going on in their minds? I believe there is a type of addicting factor involved, and I'm not talking about just the excitement of the game.

Maybe it is the buzz. Maybe it's the thrill. Maybe it's the relaxation that you feel after a win. Maybe it's the sense of accomplishment that gambling provides. But whatever it is, I believe that if we can't control this factor, we will see a repeated cycle in which we fall deeper and deeper in debt and become progressively more and more unable to control our compulsive gambling behavior.

So how can we stop the cycle? I believe that the solution is to develop a spending plan that you can commit to and use as a guide when the urge to gamble arises. You need to decide how much you can afford to spend on gambling on an average basis. Write it down and then set limits that you can live with. Each time you gamble, take a mental look at your spending plan and decide whether you can keep to it. If you are out of money, don't gamble. Make a list of activities you could substitute for gambling, and pick one of them. Choose something you enjoy that is fun, but affordable. This is the method I'm currently trying to apply.
legendary
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October 01, 2022, 06:00:58 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
"Just one more game" is a phrase we often say and it makes us not realize that it is the beginning of our next defeat. One more game will make us even more curious, especially if the results are not what we expected and can make us come back the next day. Whatever result we get, if we still say that sentence, I don't think it will always work for us and maybe the result will be very different. Therefore, if we want to stop, we must be able to try to stop immediately and not say the sentence.

You are exactly right in this.I also when I lose a lot of money I say to myself a similar phrase to it and mine is "Just 100 more auto spins to win the bonus" and this keeps being repeated until I lose all of my money.Luckily for me though it has been near three weeks I have not touch a slot with real money as I got a huge bad luck the last time I played that made me think cold headed that these games are created against me so why continue to play them.So far it has worked but slots are so addictive and the providers come up with all sort of game play mechanics that makes you come back in no time.
hero member
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October 01, 2022, 05:43:13 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
"Just one more game" is a phrase we often say and it makes us not realize that it is the beginning of our next defeat. One more game will make us even more curious, especially if the results are not what we expected and can make us come back the next day. Whatever result we get, if we still say that sentence, I don't think it will always work for us and maybe the result will be very different. Therefore, if we want to stop, we must be able to try to stop immediately and not say the sentence.
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October 01, 2022, 04:32:50 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued?
I imagine that everybody who has been gambling for a while has gone through this. We say to ourselves, "Just one more game". And before you know it, we are over our budget. We've already exceeded the amount of time we agreed we would spend betting after just one more game. I believe that this behavior is motivated by both the excitement of the game and the perceived reward.
sr. member
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October 01, 2022, 04:20:34 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.

This often happens to me, even though I have a plan that my losses should be up to this point, but it doesn't follow when I'm actually in the gambling game. Maybe that's how we play, we are always carried by our emotions.

But we should control it as a crypto gambling gambler. So that we can limit our gambling loss as a gambler.

It's often difficult to accept a loss when gambling, and when you're playing the game, it always appears that you're about to win, which is why you keep spending until you reach your limit. When you have exceeded your limit and are at a loss, you may consider going further; this is why most people continue to spend beyond their limits, believing they will win, only to lose more than they expected.

That's the big problem for us gamblers here in cryptocurrency, the kind of thing that while we're losing betting on gambling, this is the reason we think that we can recover even if we lose, we're still betting.
legendary
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October 01, 2022, 03:56:29 AM
I never had an experience where I forget about my gambling plan and indulge myself in spending money way more than my planned budget.  I know gambling is really attractive so I always play with great care and self-control because the moment control slipped out of our hands, the next consequence is quite hard to control. 
It's often difficult to accept a loss when gambling, and when you're playing the game, it always appears that you're about to win, which is why you keep spending until you reach your limit. When you have exceeded your limit and are at a loss, you may consider going further; this is why most people continue to spend beyond their limits, believing they will win, only to lose more than they expected.

They are more aggressive to recover those losses and believing that as long as they have funds they still have that chance, similar when winning they are also kept on pushing for more, trying to exceed and make more money instead of quitting and enjoying the amount that they already got, we do have differences in terms of judgement but if not all most of us already experienced exceeding from our target limits and regret in losing a huge amount of money.

It's more on how you'll going to take and control yourself, to avoid heavy gaming and losing a lot.
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October 01, 2022, 01:32:09 AM
I never had an experience where I forget about my gambling plan and indulge myself in spending money way more than my planned budget.  I know gambling is really attractive so I always play with great care and self-control because the moment control slipped out of our hands, the next consequence is quite hard to control. 
It's often difficult to accept a loss when gambling, and when you're playing the game, it always appears that you're about to win, which is why you keep spending until you reach your limit. When you have exceeded your limit and are at a loss, you may consider going further; this is why most people continue to spend beyond their limits, believing they will win, only to lose more than they expected.
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October 01, 2022, 01:00:19 AM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.
I have not yet become addicted to any gambling or any game that would waste my huge time. Because I give more priority to my time.  So I don't indulge myself in bad addictions like gambling.  When I have some free time I go to some trusted gambling site to gamble.  This may be once or twice a week. so i haven’t any experience like your story of wasting time by playing any game
sometimes it is about attitude and behavior and also the community or the family that brought us, because it is the influence that we gather along the way so we might or not got addicted , or sometimes it is also about how we are dealing with friends  because they are sometimes the Bad Influence that let us decide into something much worst .
so better to do it or not? no one really care but our family and our self .
I really don’t understand fully your opinion . But I understand you mean that no one will give you good advice, not even your friends.  Only you and your family can give you good advice to help you avoid gambling . Your argument may be true.  And many times this happens.
actually my full sentiment is that People around us makes things complicated , who build us to become addicted are those  people .
 
and also ? it is not that no one will give you good advice but it is that we are still the one to decide , so no matter how good or bad the advise ?yet we are the one that will make it matter mate, and also the main Idea here is never to become addicted .
legendary
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September 30, 2022, 11:36:03 PM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.
I have not yet become addicted to any gambling or any game that would waste my huge time. Because I give more priority to my time.  So I don't indulge myself in bad addictions like gambling.  When I have some free time I go to some trusted gambling site to gamble.  This may be once or twice a week. so i haven’t any experience like your story of wasting time by playing any game
sometimes it is about attitude and behavior and also the community or the family that brought us, because it is the influence that we gather along the way so we might or not got addicted , or sometimes it is also about how we are dealing with friends  because they are sometimes the Bad Influence that let us decide into something much worst .
so better to do it or not? no one really care but our family and our self .
I really don’t understand fully your opinion . But I understand you mean that no one will give you good advice, not even your friends.  Only you and your family can give you good advice to help you avoid gambling . Your argument may be true.  And many times this happens.
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September 30, 2022, 11:27:36 PM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.
I have not yet become addicted to any gambling or any game that would waste my huge time. Because I give more priority to my time.  So I don't indulge myself in bad addictions like gambling.  When I have some free time I go to some trusted gambling site to gamble.  This may be once or twice a week. so i haven’t any experience like your story of wasting time by playing any game
sometimes it is about attitude and behavior and also the community or the family that brought us, because it is the influence that we gather along the way so we might or not got addicted , or sometimes it is also about how we are dealing with friends  because they are sometimes the Bad Influence that let us decide into something much worst .
so better to do it or not? no one really care but our family and our self .
hero member
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September 30, 2022, 08:36:59 PM
this issue of crossing the line doesn't just happen to newbies, in most cases it happens to people who are already playing for a long time, because games have one thing: the more time we dedicate to it, the more money we start to put into it and the more we sink because we start to lose more money in the game, but this process is not fast, and something that takes some time to find that we start spending more time in the game and we start to lose more money in the game, that's why I said that people who are the longest in the game and who are the most people who spend the most time in the game and who lose the most money in the game. in my case, for example, there was a time when I spent a lot of time in the game and it took me time to realize and stop it

That is true. Until we realize that we are spending more than usual time on gambling, we tend to spend more than we can afford to lose on gambling.
Fortunately, I realized this fact just after the initial few months when I started gambling.
It hit me hard when I found out the money I lost in gambling and a point of self realization struck my mind that whatever we do, we have to lose our money in gambling eventually.
So I took a break from gambling started fresh with a fixed budget for gambling. So far it's going good.
When I was attracted to gambling in the beginning, I was very happy. But when I started to gamble for a long time, once a moment everything in my life was starting random. I spent about 10-12 hours in gambling. But when I realized that it was addiction, I tried to take some breaks myself and later I was able to control it even though it was very tough. Now I gamble at a specified time and I spend my wining gambling money for the fun or entertainment.
It is important to not ignore the warning signals because if you do you will have a harder time leaving your gambling issues.

It seems to me that you came very close to develop a gambling addiction but you were able to see what was happening to you and avoid the worst possible outcome, and while it now seems that you have your gambling under control I think it is a good idea to see if you can remain very long periods of time without gambling at all, so you can prove to yourself that you are finally above your past issues.
sr. member
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September 30, 2022, 07:49:17 PM
As I said before, words may be easy but from many cases that have happened when we have entered and are already in the intense category in a game of self-control, this seems to be nonsense.
I say this because I do feel that way and it's likely that I'm not the only one who feels the same way because not a few people say self-control but still have to carry on with the flow when it comes to gambling.
I don't think it's a game because some gamblers can control themselves during gambling and won't lose control.
I also experienced it before but I think if we want to try to learn to control ourselves, we can master it and will not experience what other people experience.
So I think it will depend on the will to have self-control while playing gambling and will not lose the power to stay in control.
It may take some time before we really get the hang of it and we must keep learning.
What I mean in the game here is when we are in an intense rally in gambling because I also don't think gambling is just a game because it is much more than that.
As for learning to control it's good and I also did that but come on only a few people can do that from start to finish and I won't be naive about it because the comparison is only 1 compared to so many gamblers who can control themselves in gambling.
Self-control is good and the will to control oneself is actually what everyone wants but only a few people succeed with that right.
legendary
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September 30, 2022, 10:27:29 AM
^

It seems to me that very few people are able to learn from the mistakes of others, because it's like learning to ride a bike without a bike. Most of us can only learn from our own mistakes, it's just that each of us has a different attitude to the money we lose - some of us get it easily, and some of us have to work hard to get it. Someone may have a mental disorder that does not allow him to control his behavior when playing gambling and no matter how much experience he has he will never learn to control himself. In my opinion it is all very individual.
This is in fact true, it is optimal to learn from the mistakes of others as this will save you a lot of suffering, time wasted, money, energy and psychological distress, but very few people can do this, but this means the ones which can do so hold a tremendous advantage over the rest of the population, as they can live easier and more productive lives without too much of an effort, which in part explains why people think that life can be very unfair as they have to go through all kind of troubles while others are able to avoid them completely.

Only a few have that kind of mentality to understand the side effects of being too much engage with gambling. Even there are videos and articles that are available, only a few will take time to use it a basis. They will continue and think that it will be a different outcome for them, after having huge losses and they already realize the mistake, it is already late and they already losses a lot.

Gambling/betting without control can lead you to over exceed from your target budget, anticipating more mistakes and more money to lose if you are unable to work it out.
legendary
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September 29, 2022, 10:51:30 PM
^

It seems to me that very few people are able to learn from the mistakes of others, because it's like learning to ride a bike without a bike. Most of us can only learn from our own mistakes, it's just that each of us has a different attitude to the money we lose - some of us get it easily, and some of us have to work hard to get it. Someone may have a mental disorder that does not allow him to control his behavior when playing gambling and no matter how much experience he has he will never learn to control himself. In my opinion it is all very individual.
This is in fact true, it is optimal to learn from the mistakes of others as this will save you a lot of suffering, time wasted, money, energy and psychological distress, but very few people can do this, but this means the ones which can do so hold a tremendous advantage over the rest of the population, as they can live easier and more productive lives without too much of an effort, which in part explains why people think that life can be very unfair as they have to go through all kind of troubles while others are able to avoid them completely.
legendary
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September 29, 2022, 10:21:20 PM
Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.
I have not yet become addicted to any gambling or any game that would waste my huge time. Because I give more priority to my time.  So I don't indulge myself in bad addictions like gambling.  When I have some free time I go to some trusted gambling site to gamble.  This may be once or twice a week. so i haven’t any experience like your story of wasting time by playing any game
hero member
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September 29, 2022, 09:56:25 PM
In fact, only certain people can learn from mistakes because there are many who say things like that but they are just words.
The temptation to gamble is so great if it has fallen into this and I personally don't want to be naive because I still continue to do the same thing even though I often say self-control and learn about mistakes that have been passed but mistakes still keep happening.
We can certainly learn from the mistakes we have made or from other people's stories so that we apply them to ourselves.
And although the temptation to gamble is so great, we will not easily fall into that temptation because we have learned a lot from the experiences of many people and ourselves.
It will help us to have self-control so that we will not make mistakes like before.
Maybe it takes time but it's worth doing to avoid bigger losses.
As I said before, words may be easy but from many cases that have happened when we have entered and are already in the intense category in a game of self-control, this seems to be nonsense.
I say this because I do feel that way and it's likely that I'm not the only one who feels the same way because not a few people say self-control but still have to carry on with the flow when it comes to gambling.
I don't think it's a game because some gamblers can control themselves during gambling and won't lose control.
I also experienced it before but I think if we want to try to learn to control ourselves, we can master it and will not experience what other people experience.
So I think it will depend on the will to have self-control while playing gambling and will not lose the power to stay in control.
It may take some time before we really get the hang of it and we must keep learning.
sr. member
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September 29, 2022, 02:35:18 PM
In fact, only certain people can learn from mistakes because there are many who say things like that but they are just words.
The temptation to gamble is so great if it has fallen into this and I personally don't want to be naive because I still continue to do the same thing even though I often say self-control and learn about mistakes that have been passed but mistakes still keep happening.
We can certainly learn from the mistakes we have made or from other people's stories so that we apply them to ourselves.
And although the temptation to gamble is so great, we will not easily fall into that temptation because we have learned a lot from the experiences of many people and ourselves.
It will help us to have self-control so that we will not make mistakes like before.
Maybe it takes time but it's worth doing to avoid bigger losses.
As I said before, words may be easy but from many cases that have happened when we have entered and are already in the intense category in a game of self-control, this seems to be nonsense.
I say this because I do feel that way and it's likely that I'm not the only one who feels the same way because not a few people say self-control but still have to carry on with the flow when it comes to gambling.
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September 29, 2022, 10:19:10 AM
this issue of crossing the line doesn't just happen to newbies, in most cases it happens to people who are already playing for a long time, because games have one thing: the more time we dedicate to it, the more money we start to put into it and the more we sink because we start to lose more money in the game, but this process is not fast, and something that takes some time to find that we start spending more time in the game and we start to lose more money in the game, that's why I said that people who are the longest in the game and who are the most people who spend the most time in the game and who lose the most money in the game. in my case, for example, there was a time when I spent a lot of time in the game and it took me time to realize and stop it

That is true. Until we realize that we are spending more than usual time on gambling, we tend to spend more than we can afford to lose on gambling.
Fortunately, I realized this fact just after the initial few months when I started gambling.
It hit me hard when I found out the money I lost in gambling and a point of self realization struck my mind that whatever we do, we have to lose our money in gambling eventually.
So I took a break from gambling started fresh with a fixed budget for gambling. So far it's going good.
When I was attracted to gambling in the beginning, I was very happy. But when I started to gamble for a long time, once a moment everything in my life was starting random. I spent about 10-12 hours in gambling. But when I realized that it was addiction, I tried to take some breaks myself and later I was able to control it even though it was very tough. Now I gamble at a specified time and I spend my wining gambling money for the fun or entertainment.

Damn, 10 - 12 hours every day is definitely a high number of hours you had spent on gambling.
It's good that you had the self control to come out of it and gamble within your limits. It must have been hard though.
In my case, even if I win any amount from gambling I spend it again on gambling itself.
Thus I spend less on gambling and more on other things.
sr. member
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September 29, 2022, 06:23:51 AM
We have to go through such a situation for us to learn our lesson. We will not be able to learn how to have self-control and self-discipline if we will not experience losing.
What I know is that gambling is not mandatory so it's not needed. Before these crypto casinos exist we already face difficult times in our lives and those already taught us a valuable lesson. You now know what to do next, this is why there are people who don't engage in crypto gambling because they know that they can be addictive.

Ofcourse it is easy to fall for gambling since it is so addictive it makes us want to gamble more.
And yes it has happened to most of us that once we sit for gambling at some point we all would have gambled more than out limits.
Because thats how we all learn not to spend more than we can afford to lose.
It's a tough lesson to learn but without that, we keep on losing our precious money.
Gambling might be known like that (to be addictive) but it will also depend on the gambling company first if how can they promote themselves and it also depend on the people that views it but a well marketed gambling site and offers a good service, bonus and then no kyc will always be hot to the eyes on the people. That is the first step for them to fall in gambling.
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