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Quote from: milewilda on September 25, 2022, 06:23:08 PM

Quote from: herurist on September 25, 2022, 06:17:45 PM

But in this case, addressing it as an experience when it's all gone and regrets don't actually change anything.
I agree more with what @seleme said by not making deposits that he can't afford to gamble because obviously this is the same as digging his own grave, especially since we know that gambling is not certain because it relies on luck.

Gambling does heavily rely on luck but people do ignores that thing and just focused on making money and this is what most people do commit out mistakes and this is where realization do comes at the end.
I do disagree that regrets doesnt change anything, we might be saying technically but on the other hand which these regrets could really make someone do improve in terms of real experiences and
awareness about the truth about gambling.This is where you do really know on when how to deposit and when to withdraw if you are in profits or completely stop when you do lost all of your bankroll.
Always had limits and have control in everything specially into these various conditions or situations.

Saying about the actual experience is indeed quite good but on the other hand we must know the characteristics of ourselves because sometimes for gamblers who say about the experience, they always get carried away into the atmosphere of the game and forget what was said before about the experience.
Although there are indeed a few people who learn from mistakes, there are still many people who never learn from it which makes them repeat the same mistakes.

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Quote from: paxmao on September 15, 2022, 06:35:32 PM

Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.

Very difficult to find people who do not have such experience in betting. Everyone has faced this kind of situation at one time more or less. I have also seen gamblers who lose their gambling money as soon as they make a deposit. Their gambling style is very strange they are participating multiple game in one time and their gambling continues until they run out of money and when the gambling ends they suffer from regret.

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Quote from: Mauser on September 26, 2022, 09:35:00 AM

Quote from: paxmao on September 15, 2022, 06:35:32 PM

Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.

Yes I had similar experiences myself in the past. Whenever I lost a big bet, I felt really bad about it and looked for smaller more risky bets to recover my losses. My problem was that I went into too many of those bets and I lost control over it. In sum the small bets were larger than my initial bet, and because they were more risky I usually lost more money. It took me a few months to identify my problems and find ways to correct them. The first step that helped me was to have less money at the casino and sports betting site. Like that my chances are smaller that I spent too much money in a week with gambling. The second step was to have more control over my bets by keeping track of them. I started writing down all my bets in an excel file to see how much money I bet, win and lose. This helped me the most to not fall into bad habits.

more precisely is not being able to control emotions or poor emotional control. but all of that is understandable because gambling addicts always can't control their emotions while playing at the gambling table. they will always be dissatisfied with what he has got or did at that time. he will not think how much bet he will give what is important to him is the satisfaction of continuing to play and subconsciously they continue to lose all his money

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Let's give it another look from this approach, when bettings become too high, regret becomes inevitable for a gambler, this is when you begin to see a number of side effects in the live of an addicted gambler that let the whole gambling got to override his personal integrity and control, it has been a rare occurrence in situations where an addicted gambler turns not to gamble again in a lifetime, just almost same spirit back it up with those addicted to alcohol, once into the system is a lifetime contract of both good and worst seasons in gambling.

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Quote from: STT on September 25, 2022, 04:16:12 PM

Just set your own limits, no excuses if you go past the limit consider it a loss at that point regardless of any game report you cannot consider gambling capital thats not available as any kind of win. Close it for the day and move onto other things, it does take some discipline but the main point is to always take anything past that limit as the wall for gambling on that day. A set amount every day is way more healthy then risking it all on just 1 night.

In addition to setting limits, even if a person is perfectly disciplined and does not go beyond it, it is sometimes necessary to take a vacation from gambling.
I am familiar with the situation when a gambler plays almost every day, while he has a weekly limit and he "stretches" it sometimes for almost the whole week. At the same time, even if he is not playing at the moment, he is still "involved" in gambling - he plans future gaming sessions, keeps track of expenses, etc. In my opinion, even this is an unhealthy situation, because in life you have to think about many other things. Therefore, in order to clear the mind, it is useful to take a complete vacation from gambling, for example, for a month.

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Quote from: paxmao on September 15, 2022, 06:35:32 PM

Have you ever had an experience betting in which you knew that you were going over the limits of you finances and still continued? I have one playing a game, it was absorbing plenty of my time and despite me knowing it, I was kind of hooked on it. It was not a financial problem, but left me wondering how easy is to actually fall into a bad habit and how difficult is to break it.

Yes I had similar experiences myself in the past. Whenever I lost a big bet, I felt really bad about it and looked for smaller more risky bets to recover my losses. My problem was that I went into too many of those bets and I lost control over it. In sum the small bets were larger than my initial bet, and because they were more risky I usually lost more money. It took me a few months to identify my problems and find ways to correct them. The first step that helped me was to have less money at the casino and sports betting site. Like that my chances are smaller that I spent too much money in a week with gambling. The second step was to have more control over my bets by keeping track of them. I started writing down all my bets in an excel file to see how much money I bet, win and lose. This helped me the most to not fall into bad habits.

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Quote from: serjent05 on September 25, 2022, 04:25:11 PM

Quote from: alpamar99 on September 25, 2022, 03:21:59 PM

The problem is this is easier said than done. Self-control is definitely something that is difficult especially for those who are always in the mood and rely on such things in gambling.
We often say self-control but sometimes when gambling is done and we have lost quite a lot, things like that will forget by themselves because we have been carried away by emotions.

I cannot agree more, I can attest to that, saying self-control is very easy but applying it during the game is not. Gambling games is addictive and easy to get hooked by them. I also experience the things when I got too hooked on gambling that I spend all the money in my bankroll where originally I mean to spend it for 4 sessions. Since the game became intense, I failed to stop even though my mind say to stop lol. I always say to myself to have self-control but sometimes it failed to work.

This is what makes it seem as if theory doesn't really apply when we're at stake. We know that when we are too excited there will obviously be more desire that arises so these words that already exist about self-control are just a passing wind that sometimes this becomes difficult for yourself in the end.
Self-control is easy when we don't think about anything and we can think we can control ourselves but when we're in an intense game rally it's obviously a slightly different story because sometimes emotions cover everything.

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Quote from: STT on September 25, 2022, 04:16:12 PM

Just set your own limits, no excuses if you go past the limit consider it a loss at that point regardless of any game report you cannot consider gambling capital thats not available as any kind of win. Close it for the day and move onto other things, it does take some discipline but the main point is to always take anything past that limit as the wall for gambling on that day. A set amount every day is way more healthy then risking it all on just 1 night.

Set a limit is good but it will be useless if we have no good self control because we may lose control while gambling due to our own feeling/emotion that may make us bet over our limit. For me, having a great self control is the first and the main key to avoid worst case in gambling including the one discussed in this topic. Once we have a great self control, any other things including limit will be following automatically.

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Quote from: herurist on September 25, 2022, 06:17:45 PM

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Getting over your financial limits will lead to higher risk level of chasing losses that can lead to taking a loan. After busting loan amount and deposit, you have to either chase loss or sell something valuable for paying back loan. At the first place, gambler shouldn't deposit money he can't afford to lose, controlling your limits and good management skills also don't guarantee you will be able to make a profit since it is called gambling for a reason.

Depends on how we react to the incident of getting past our financial limit. If we accept it and made it learning then we can avoid a higher risk level of chasing losses. Just like what STT stated, consider it as a loss and accept it.

But in this case, addressing it as an experience when it's all gone and regrets don't actually change anything.
I agree more with what @seleme said by not making deposits that he can't afford to gamble because obviously this is the same as digging his own grave, especially since we know that gambling is not certain because it relies on luck.

Indeed, it won't change anything but we have gained valuable experience so we hope not to repeat it in the future. By knowing the amount of the budget for gambling, we must try not to exceed that budget amount so that we can strive to comply. By learning to manage the amount of the budget, we can minimize the risk of loss that will be our loss so that we will not exceed the limits that we have previously set. That way, we can take care of ourselves while playing gambling and keep problems away that may arise later.

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Quote from: STT on September 25, 2022, 04:16:12 PM

Just set your own limits, no excuses if you go past the limit consider it a loss at that point regardless of any game report you cannot consider gambling capital thats not available as any kind of win. Close it for the day and move onto other things, it does take some discipline but the main point is to always take anything past that limit as the wall for gambling on that day. A set amount every day is way more healthy then risking it all on just 1 night.

It needs self-control and commitment otherwise, no matter how we set limits, that is still possible to break.
Honestly, once we had fallen into addiction, it was really hard to get out of it. Temptation is one reason why we can't and making a habit to keep on the limit at the start helps us to avoid going through that addiction. But yes, it really matters how we handle ourselves in gambling because many people have been spending on gambling, however, they are still able to manage themselves.

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Quote from: pawanjain on September 25, 2022, 11:09:51 AM

Ofcourse it is easy to fall for gambling since it is so addictive it makes us want to gamble more.

if you have this mind set then yeah i think this will happen mate, but if we knew those coming? then better to leave it before you lose.

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And yes it has happened to most of us that once we sit for gambling at some point we all would have gambled more than out limits.

I once become a gambler (but not addicted) though I realized the consequences earlier before dying deep to addiction .

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Because thats how we all learn not to spend more than we can afford to lose.
It's a tough lesson to learn but without that we keep on losing our precious money.

learning is part of everything we enters , but of course the most important thing is to analyze and realized everything before it gets worst .

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Quote from: herurist on September 25, 2022, 06:17:45 PM

Quote from: serjent05 on September 25, 2022, 04:25:11 PM

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Getting over your financial limits will lead to higher risk level of chasing losses that can lead to taking a loan. After busting loan amount and deposit, you have to either chase loss or sell something valuable for paying back loan. At the first place, gambler shouldn't deposit money he can't afford to lose, controlling your limits and good management skills also don't guarantee you will be able to make a profit since it is called gambling for a reason.

Depends on how we react to the incident of getting past our financial limit. If we accept it and made it learning then we can avoid a higher risk level of chasing losses. Just like what STT stated, consider it as a loss and accept it.

But in this case, addressing it as an experience when it's all gone and regrets don't actually change anything.
I agree more with what @seleme said by not making deposits that he can't afford to gamble because obviously this is the same as digging his own grave, especially since we know that gambling is not certain because it relies on luck.

Gambling does heavily rely on luck but people do ignores that thing and just focused on making money and this is what most people do commit out mistakes and this is where realization do comes at the end.
I do disagree that regrets doesnt change anything, we might be saying technically but on the other hand which these regrets could really make someone do improve in terms of real experiences and
awareness about the truth about gambling.This is where you do really know on when how to deposit and when to withdraw if you are in profits or completely stop when you do lost all of your bankroll.
Always had limits and have control in everything specially into these various conditions or situations.

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Quote from: serjent05 on September 25, 2022, 04:25:11 PM

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Getting over your financial limits will lead to higher risk level of chasing losses that can lead to taking a loan. After busting loan amount and deposit, you have to either chase loss or sell something valuable for paying back loan. At the first place, gambler shouldn't deposit money he can't afford to lose, controlling your limits and good management skills also don't guarantee you will be able to make a profit since it is called gambling for a reason.

Depends on how we react to the incident of getting past our financial limit. If we accept it and made it learning then we can avoid a higher risk level of chasing losses. Just like what STT stated, consider it as a loss and accept it.

But in this case, addressing it as an experience when it's all gone and regrets don't actually change anything.
I agree more with what @seleme said by not making deposits that he can't afford to gamble because obviously this is the same as digging his own grave, especially since we know that gambling is not certain because it relies on luck.

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Quote from: Peanutswar on September 23, 2022, 06:58:20 AM

Mostly we experience this kind of scenario when we are facing a huge amount of loss or tons of losing streak because there's a chance that you will make revenge gameplay and make a huge amount of bet just expecting you will make your money back from the losses at the same time but of course, it is a risk play there's a chance you will lose up more double or triple that your profit or just gain the profit back again and make a stop to play gambling, mostly we stop when we don't have enough funds that's why when playing gambling always set a limit.

We always end up gambling more than we can afford to lose because we keep chasing the losses and expect to finally win and double or triple the profits. This is the reason why we need to set a limit when we gamble to avoid too much losses that may result into financial breakdown. Gambling is not bad as long as you always gamble on your extra money and not on the finances that are used to pay for other matters.

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Quote from: alpamar99 on September 25, 2022, 03:21:59 PM

The problem is this is easier said than done. Self-control is definitely something that is difficult especially for those who are always in the mood and rely on such things in gambling.
We often say self-control but sometimes when gambling is done and we have lost quite a lot, things like that will forget by themselves because we have been carried away by emotions.

I cannot agree more, I can attest to that, saying self-control is very easy but applying it during the game is not. Gambling games is addictive and easy to get hooked by them. I also experience the things when I got too hooked on gambling that I spend all the money in my bankroll where originally I mean to spend it for 4 sessions. Since the game became intense, I failed to stop even though my mind say to stop lol. I always say to myself to have self-control but sometimes it failed to work.

Quote from: STT on September 25, 2022, 04:16:12 PM

Just set your own limits, no excuses if you go past the limit consider it a loss at that point regardless of any game report you cannot consider gambling capital thats not available as any kind of win.

A really good piece of advice, accepting it as a loss enables us to avoid chasing losses. This kind of acceptance made me move forward and restart my gambling session as if nothing happens before.

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Getting over your financial limits will lead to higher risk level of chasing losses that can lead to taking a loan. After busting loan amount and deposit, you have to either chase loss or sell something valuable for paying back loan. At the first place, gambler shouldn't deposit money he can't afford to lose, controlling your limits and good management skills also don't guarantee you will be able to make a profit since it is called gambling for a reason.

Depends on how we react to the incident of getting past our financial limit. If we accept it and made it learning then we can avoid a higher risk level of chasing losses. Just like what STT stated, consider it as a loss and accept it.

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Just set your own limits, no excuses if you go past the limit consider it a loss at that point regardless of any game report you cannot consider gambling capital thats not available as any kind of win. Close it for the day and move onto other things, it does take some discipline but the main point is to always take anything past that limit as the wall for gambling on that day. A set amount every day is way more healthy then risking it all on just 1 night.

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That is an early sign of addiction, it is not good not to have a limit to how much you can wager and if such a limit is not set one will frequently go overboard and spent a lot of money gambling without even knowing, most especially if you have a huge balance.

Gambling is a highly fun activity and that can easily get someone tempted to keep playing so one needs high discipline to manage properly when playing in other not to fall into financially tight corners.

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Quote from: alpamar99 on September 25, 2022, 03:21:59 PM

Quote from: virasisog on September 25, 2022, 11:37:19 AM

We have to go through such a situation for us to learn our lesson. We will not be able to learn how to have self-control and self-discipline if we will not experience losing. Most of us have been through that kind of situation where we felt overwhelmed and lost control. This scenario usually happens to beginners who sometimes disregard the risks of gambling hoping that they will have a consistent profit. Greed is human nature so we should know how to deal with it.

The problem is this is easier said than done. Self-control is definitely something that is difficult especially for those who are always in the mood and rely on such things in gambling.
We often say self-control but sometimes when gambling is done and we have lost quite a lot, things like that will forget by themselves because we have been carried away by emotions.

Yes, this had always been the case that people do really find out for this to be that easy to be done when you are on the foot of those people who are addicted to gambling.You would definitely not able to have those

self control and awareness of your actions if you are on the condition where you are just thinking on to play gambling no matter what.Some might do able to control themselves but there are people who cant really just

do even it do really sounds basic on having that discipline and good control.You cant really just get out of it if you do have that greediness inside your mind.

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Quote from: virasisog on September 25, 2022, 11:37:19 AM

We have to go through such a situation for us to learn our lesson. We will not be able to learn how to have self-control and self-discipline if we will not experience losing. Most of us have been through that kind of situation where we felt overwhelmed and lost control. This scenario usually happens to beginners who sometimes disregard the risks of gambling hoping that they will have a consistent profit. Greed is human nature so we should know how to deal with it.

The problem is this is easier said than done. Self-control is definitely something that is difficult especially for those who are always in the mood and rely on such things in gambling.
We often say self-control but sometimes when gambling is done and we have lost quite a lot, things like that will forget by themselves because we have been carried away by emotions.

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Quote from: Fredomago on September 25, 2022, 12:36:51 PM

Quote from: virasisog on September 25, 2022, 11:37:19 AM

Quote from: pawanjain on September 25, 2022, 11:09:51 AM

Ofcourse it is easy to fall for gambling since it is so addictive it makes us want to gamble more.
And yes it has happened to most of us that once we sit for gambling at some point we all would have gambled more than out limits.
Because thats how we all learn not to spend more than we can afford to lose.
It's a tough lesson to learn but without that, we keep on losing our precious money.

We have to go through such a situation for us to learn our lesson. We will not be able to learn how to have self-control and self-discipline if we will not experience losing. Most of us have been through that kind of situation where we felt overwhelmed and lost control. This scenario usually happens to beginners who sometimes disregard the risks of gambling hoping that they will have a consistent profit. Greed is human nature so we should know how to deal with it.

We should know how to deal with greed, self-control is the main factor to avoid losing huge chunks of your money, though it's true that most of the time newbies got overwhelmed thinking that they can beat the house and suck huge amount of money out from their luck, not realizing that it will be the start of their doom playing inside.

If you know how to control, you can put proper discipline in each gambling participation that you'll going thru.

From that, you will be able to avoid betting big, you will stay with the strategy or patterns that you created or following for your gambling activities.

this issue of crossing the line doesn't just happen to newbies, in most cases it happens to people who are already playing for a long time, because games have one thing: the more time we dedicate to it, the more money we start to put into it and the more we sink because we start to lose more money in the game, but this process is not fast, and something that takes some time to find that we start spending more time in the game and we start to lose more money in the game, that's why I said that people who are the longest in the game and who are the most people who spend the most time in the game and who lose the most money in the game. in my case, for example, there was a time when I spent a lot of time in the game and it took me time to realize and stop it

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