Topic: When does the moment come when the gambler loses control? - page 3. (Read 738 times)

Yes, that's right, because mindset determines gamblers' behavior and how they play, whether gambling for entertainment and fun or seeking wealth or making gambling a source of permanent income, but when gambling doesn't have the right goal and mindset, it usually gets out of control, it's hard to determine where to go. which way we gamble, at least we have to know the purpose of why we have to gamble.

At least don't lose control when gambling because winning and losing are part of gambling, not something that should make your feelings go haywire, the point is to gamble responsibly and wisely so you can control yourself well when gambling because it is very important to be able to control yourself when gambling. while gambling.

The fact is that not everyone can defeat their curiosity and their selfish feelings, indeed the best way is as you say that is to stop immediately when your gambling session is closed with defeat, but it is very difficult to do and maybe only some people can do it, because usually when you lose, your emotions will increase because the final result is not what you want, especially if you gamble with a large enough budget, and with that the curiosity is getting higher which is driven by uncontrolled emotions, which is why gamblers can lose more than what they originally budgeted, none other than because all the starting points of the problem are in the mindset that is too excessive in expectations.

In my opinion there are some significant differences between professional gamblers and novice gamblers, it is clear because in terms of how they play professional gamblers are more experienced and that means they will know better what to do and what to avoid in certain conditions, basically every gambler definitely wants to win but for those who are experienced they have ways to minimize the amount of loss one of which is by stopping when losing, they will not let emotions get the better of them, because of course if they let it then surely they will lose all control.

Taking a break after a significant loss is smart, but reason can't always overcome our emotions. I would even say that almost never, this is the main idea of gambling. I know that some professional players who have been making money from gambling for many years (and we know very, very few of them) can continue to play even after a strong loss. Probably it was tilt, but this is what distinguishes a professional: this can happen to him no more than 3 times a year and he always says what he feels in order to understand whether tilt affects his decision-making or not. I stopped playing with high stakes because I know that I have no advantage with smart decisions over the gambling platform.

The old 'chasing losses' routine! Serious gamblers consider it a rite of passage. Self-control loss? Friends, its game. Consider: whats a bet without an emotional ride? Gambling is unexpected, heart-pounding, and exciting. Self-control? Please. Not a monastery, but a casino. Riding the highs and lows is key. Accepting loss is for quitters. A true gambler knows the next big victory is imminent.

So he's confused? Good. Chess players overthink. Gambling requires gut instincts and some recklessness. The fun is there! Embrace turbulence, gamble, and who knows? Luck may smile upon you. Nobody talks about when they played it safe and went home.  

That's why they say that ludoman is primarily characterized by the fact that he has to pay for relatives who are ready to endlessly pay loans and credits for him. But what is money for a ludoman? They have no meaning for him, they are just candy wrappers.
But I would like to note that any ludomaniac is curable if he knows how to empathize or who experiences shame or reflection.

Yes, that's what happens to many gamblers, where they can't control themselves until they finally become addicted to gambling, and it's even worse than they imagined. It is true that when someone is addicted to gambling, they will not realize it and are still fine even though if other people saw it, they would think of them as a gambler with a serious gambling addiction. We will lose control when emotions provoke us because we have experienced many defeats. We can't imagine a gambler who can initially control themselves, and finally, after gambling often and experiencing more and more losses, they slowly lose control of themselves.

Both results can make players become dependent on gambling, either when they win very big amounts of money or when they experience a big losses because both provide curiosity so that players find it difficult to stop.
When you lose, you feel curious about why you haven't gotten good results, you also feel like you need to recover the money you have lost, so you keep playing, and when you win, you feel the need to continue because you think it's your lucky time.
Gamblers who can control themselves well will stop when they feel the need to stop, regardless of the results they are getting, whether they are making a profit or vice versa, but those who cannot control themselves will feel the need to always play to get what they want, even when they have already got what they want will not immediately stop because he is still dissatisfied with his gambling.

maybe some people have given a more precise answer, but from my assumption, winning or losing can encourage a gambler to continue betting to make a profit or restore the situation.

when a gambler gets a win he will be greedy and feel he will get bigger results than he got and that when he will lose control and continue betting but usually if he has won he usually not continue to get a winning streak he will even get a losing streak and trigger thoughts to chase defeat.
likewise, when a gambler experiences a losing streak, that when he thinks of chasing losses and making deposits to chase losses as I said above.

winning or losing can be an incentive to lose control but it all depends on the mindset of each gambler.

Chasing losses can make gamblers lose control because they will think about their losses and need to be able to recover their losses. It wasn't good for him because with his emotions rising, he wouldn't be able to think clearly but would only want to recover his losses. He actually knows that this could pose a risk of losing more money but he doesn't seem to care about it because, with his increasing emotions, he just wants to get the money he lost by continuing to gamble. That is why a person must continue to practice self-control so that he can restrain himself from wanting to recover his losses and accept his defeat. If he loses at gambling today, he can still gamble again on another day, and maybe he can be luckier. But to recover his losses it would only make him lose self-control.

Chasing defeat is what makes it difficult for them to control themselves so they become addicted because they always think that if they keep doing it they will definitely get the results they want, indeed the saying once said "effort will not betray the results" so they continue to think that if they keep trying to chase defeat they will achieve victory. They shouldn't have thoughts like that because the concept is different, we can enjoy gambling happily if we don't think about winning and losing so that we can be more controlled in carrying out gambling activities comfortably.

That thought of how much we've spent gambling, can be settled with the number of wins and losses that followed. If the number of losses are way too higher than the wins. The player can re-strategize. Gambling out of the disappointment feelings due to the litany of losses, we've had. Will be detrimental to the gambler; effects more losses. As the player won't gamble with clear thoughts anymore. One big mistake of gamblers is, gambling with an unclear mind. Their decisions won't be practically effective. Thereby, staying angrier at every single lose that appears on the screen. Talking about excitement, it's a recurrent problem with humans. There is an advice; don't take decisions when you're too happy or sad. The state of mind must be balanced. Once excited, gamblers wager double the amount they used to gamble. Sooner, the whole funds travels, with speed of light, back to the house. The anxiety worsens, when the gambler remembers he didn't enjoy a dime of the money he won. It's an involuntary action for the brain to trigger excitement, when we win. To tackle making bad decision, the player can withdraw a specific percentage of the money. Then wager more until the rest gets exhausted. Luckily, if he wins again, he can repeat the same thing or wager them all, till he's satisfied with the fun, he's got.

It's all about the human psyche - a big win (for example, the size of 10 average salaries in the country where the player lives) allows you to solve many problems.
A person who absolutely does not expect this, who comes to the casino, can suddenly afford the equipment or clothes that he has long wanted, the latest iPhone, and close the loan that he took out before. And this makes me think that this can always happen, you just need to place bets.
This is a strong devaluation of one's own work.

When some gamblers win money from gambling, they will get excited and will want to keep on gambling. When people like that start losing money, they won’t want to give up, they will have the belief that they have won before, and if they don’t give up, they are still going to win back all the amount they have lost. That’s why some people get addicted to gambling just because of one good win that they once had, they will have confidence to win again even if they lose frequently.
 
And some gamblers do get addicted to gambling just because of their frequent losses, they will find it difficult to stop gambling because of the amount they have lost, they will always be hearts broken whenever they calculate the amount they lost, they will want to keep on gambling, hoping to hit a Jack pot in a day that they might never hit.

When you do really put up yourself on the time that you are already that become addicted to gambling then it is really that safe to say that you are that someone who would most likely on losing up control on the time that you are playing gambling. Why? you are already that out of your sense specially when making up decisions specially with gambling. When you are already making
tons of losses but still you are deciding that would really be still playing then its a solid indication that you are already addicted to it on which this is really something that it is very bad.
You wouldnt really be able to assess whether its good or bad because you are already addicted to it on which you would really be always believing that you are really just that basically
doing just fine.

When it comes to money, men get excited—sometimes overly excited—and there's always a chance that this excitement will cause them to lose control. This is the problem with addicts; when they get too excited and end up playing more games to make up for their disappointment when they don't get the money they expected, they end up implicating themselves by becoming addicts. They'll continue exacting revenge on it. I am aware of the advantages of registering for yoga, but not many people in my area do.  If their are activities to reduce mental stress it is good and will help relief what ever the stress might be either loss or not.

When a gambler becomes addicted to gambling, it is the time when he will start to lose control of himself. But actually, even when he starts playing, he has the opportunity to lose control of himself, especially since we know that gambling can tempt many people not to want to stop gambling. Those who can't stop have lost control of themselves, so all they think about is how they can get more wins. In fact, if they look at their gambling account balance, they can see that they have more money now than when they first made their deposit. But that still didn't make him realize that what he was doing was out of bounds. And that will also make him an irresponsible gambler because he has lost that responsibility when he decides to continue gambling.

I think they lose control when they get a small win, because at that time they will be confused about continuing the game or cashing it in. But most of those who continue the game because of a small win think that their luck has not run out, so they decide to continue the game even though by continuing the game, it is not necessarily going to get another win, instead it can spend the winnings they got at the beginning.
What often happens, when they continue the game, and most of the gamblers who continue the game they get a win that makes them upset and want to return the winnings they have gotten, but it needs to be underlined, with the loss of the winnings they get, based on their own choices, so they should be able to accept it instead of getting upset and wanting to gamble again. And this in my opinion can be said to be the moments when they lose control.

I hope you also know that the greatest dependence on gambling appears when a gambler see or hears that a fellow gambler has won a lot of money? This one is even the hardest moment because whether they win or lose, they will always be there to play again because they have the evidence that somebody win, so having a loss will only be a bad moment of short time that will be forgotten and winning will be validation of the gambler that motivated them in the first place.

Whichever they have in mind, I don't think it's a good idea to be too dependent on gambling just to win something big. If you win, your are safe and you may continue to play or exit but if you loss, you will be compelled to try once again. I doing if quit is going to be the next line of action that will ring on your head which will result to addiction and from addiction, you may lost it completely to gambling that will definitely affect your ways of life.

There is a lot of professional documentation on the subject, self-control is not associated with winning or losing intrinsically, it is something more complex than that, it involves factors such as bank management, times per game section, even diet, you can read a book by any professional and it is clear that self-control depends on many factors that some players ignore, even things as simple as sleeping well, in short, it is something of years, not moments.

The moment of loss is when the addiction to gambling begins to show if not controlled. At this point the gambler will easily tell a lie so that someone can loan money to them. At the back of their mind, the only to repay the loan will be after they have doubled and recover their loss.

If you ask many gamblers at what point did they struggle to stop gambling to prevent too much gambling, if they are truthful, they will tell you that it was during the moment of loss. That is where the real struggle is because they have lost and are disappointed and pained and they are looking for closure. And they think the closure they'll get is through gambling again or more.