I agree with that, indeed if we don't have enough money then don't force yourself. In my opinion, this happens to young people whose social relationships are still burning, where of course they compete to own property or other items that seem luxurious because they have high prices. such as gadgets or vehicles, many young people force themselves to have luxury items so that it makes things even more difficult for their parents. they cannot see the economic and financial situation of their family because all they think about is luxury due to their thirst for praise from their friends.
Of course, everyone wants financial freedom, therefore many people work hard to fulfill their needs and also to fulfill their desire to have something they want. if they really want luxury then they have to work hard, a saying I once heard was "if you want to buy things without looking at the price, then you have to work without looking at the time" and he said that was a mindset.
It goes back to the environment that encourages a person to obtain goods that are considered to increase their self-confidence in the environmental cycle.
Usually young people are in the wrong company like that, and for this it comes back to the upbringing of their parents to be able to teach them the right path.
Luxury goods are included in desires, they are not required to be fulfilled, but to make ourselves happy we have to try harder to get a lot of money to be able to fulfill these desires.
It should not be forced, but because of this we have more motivation, a big desire can sometimes also become positive energy.
That's true, indeed nowadays there are many young people who are competing to be stylish by owning luxury goods because perhaps that is a requirement to be able to hang out or gather with friends. because with that, perhaps what they think is that by owning or using luxury goods, other people will judge that they are people who really have a lot of money or have high taste. Unfortunately, in my neighborhood there is a young person like this, he doesn't work because he has just graduated from school, but he has high tastes such as branded clothes and also has a taste for using luxury goods such as vapes or gadgets with high prices, actually that's it. It doesn't matter because it's everyone's taste, but what's annoying is that he always forces a luxurious style but all his friends know that he is a lower middle class person, and I also heard news that he always demands his parents to buy what he wants while he doesn't look at the situation of his own family. and this is the problem, maybe it's because of pride that drives him like this.
What you say is correct, desires do not have to be fulfilled completely, if we are able to fulfill them, it doesn't matter, it's just that we have to be able to see in our minds whether our economic situation can adapt to our own tastes, self-introspection is important, don't let your tastes change. we have it instead it kills us ourselves.