When the pandemic came to the world, this only proved that not all industries are stable even if you think that you're a regular employee and your company has been stable.
This taught everyone that nothing is permanent in this world. Even the health workers have dealt a lot of patients and made them tired but that didn't stopped them from their calls.
And when I got married, I'm not stable and treated most of my hustles to be unstable and I just let it on with the flow of my life. But for those that will start their family, it's best to be stable before getting married.
Topic: When will you be comfortable to start a home. (Read 622 times)
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
I'm looking forward to setting up my own place when I've got the cash saved up. Right now, I'm stashing away money with the goal of getting my own house. It's not that I'm against my partner, parents, or siblings having their places, that's awesome for them. I just really want that feeling of having my own spot, you know? Saving up is the game plan for now, so eventually, I can say, 'Yep, this is my place.'
You have a good ambition because some men doesn't even think about comfort, they just want to settle down with their partner in either a rented house or their parents house which is a very wrong decision because as married couples, staying away from your parental home will save you some insults and embarrassment from your family and staying at a rented apartment is not also too good because in a case where you don't afford to pay for your accomodations will also result to some embarrassment so there peace and joy in having your own home so i encourage you to work towards your goal and you will achieve it.
Having a home it requires money being stable in your hand because you can't give excuse of not handling your responsibilities, making sure their is food at home and to also make sure the kids are properly taken care of,maybe their schooling their medical lines when they are sick ,all this things required money so to me when I will be comfortable to start a home is when I have something that fetch me money everyday ,not just money but from 30 thousand naira everyday then I can start a home
We started as soon as I made her pregnant meaning we are young as I was just starting to have a Job and so as her so basically we are not that ready , but given all those problem we made it to having our own House and Lot and a car , now we have another House and small farm in Province .
I think this is depending on your perseverance and dedication and of course your move as partners.
I think this is depending on your perseverance and dedication and of course your move as partners.
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
I'm looking forward to setting up my own place when I've got the cash saved up. Right now, I'm stashing away money with the goal of getting my own house. It's not that I'm against my partner, parents, or siblings having their places, that's awesome for them. I just really want that feeling of having my own spot, you know? Saving up is the game plan for now, so eventually, I can say, 'Yep, this is my place.'
Finance/income is the main foundation in marriage, because marriage is the beginning of the door to increased needs, I mean that single expenses only for yourself may be able to be managed by minimizing, and saving not to take frequent vacations. If you are married, of course it doubles in daily expenses, including if you don't have a house, you have to rent monthly or even annually, there is no obligation to be established but everything needs money, if something is certain, the ease of course we feel it, right? so the opposite. If finances are uncertain even single people will feel tormented and think that the needs of marriage will be more complicated. not always the case because fortune can increase. Marriage is a solution if there is readiness and opportunity. for 6 years of marriage, even though I worked odd jobs and erratic days, I experienced a very rapid transformation of conditions, not to be imitated, but God's power is big and full of wonders.
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
I must admin that i Got to have a partner(married) because I got my Girlfriend pregnant and in our country it is a customized that when you and your Girlfriend have a out of marriage Sex and got her pregnant
we need to marry them s this is what happened .
But none of those that we regret because up to now we are still inlove and having our
children near closing college so yes we are almost done in bringing them up.
I got married in 2018 and let me say I had not that stable finances but I was lucky to have a home passed down to me as a gift and that kind of gift gives you enough space to start a family even without much financial stability.I got a credit for about 15.000 EUR to furnish my home and I still have now about 2-3 years almost to finish it,so I am lucky to have been doing it.
In normal conditions you marry when you find the person that has the same objectives as you and you buy a home with mortgage and work together to finish it,meanwhile creating family and being a better citizen which gives the contribute to the world,i.e you bring up 1 or 2 babies in the world.As a single person there is no exact moment to marry,you marry when you find as I said your life partner,that person when you don't need much time but you soon realize that he/she is the one and marry,everything else come together after it as I explained above.
In normal conditions you marry when you find the person that has the same objectives as you and you buy a home with mortgage and work together to finish it,meanwhile creating family and being a better citizen which gives the contribute to the world,i.e you bring up 1 or 2 babies in the world.As a single person there is no exact moment to marry,you marry when you find as I said your life partner,that person when you don't need much time but you soon realize that he/she is the one and marry,everything else come together after it as I explained above.
This was more or less my situation.
I didn't have a stable financial situation when I met the girl that became my wife. We were both students and we barely had any money. We were living in a rented flat, getting tuition and working part time. Fortunately my parents were sending me some rent money every month because without it we wouldn't be able to eat healthy.
When we got married it was much different. I already had my bitcoin savings so I felt secure. My wife had a full-time job and I was working part-time. We've decided to rebuild an old abandoned property in the woods that my parents used to treat as a summer retreat, so we had our own place without having to take a loan and a few years later there was already 3 of us living there
Don't wait until you have a lot of savings, don't delay things because there's never going to be a perfect time. If you wait for too long you're going to miss your chance to start a family.
Before making the decision to get married you must be financial stable and have the ability to face some certain challenges because challenges will definetly come as a couple and take responsibilities
I think marriage creates a beautiful path for a man to act and find his way.So it does not really matter before marriage or after marriage but most people try to settle down first and get married later, but I think marriage makes that way easier too, but there will be some hurdles, but you have to put them on hold Have to think positive.But if you get married only after you are financially stable, you will be considered good in the eyes of the society.Your wife, family, and neighbors will all declare you good if you have karma before, but if you do not have an income, you will be perceived as bad in everyone's eyes, but only temporarily.But such a decision should be taken after fixing the income.I think marriage should be done when it is necessary. I have seen many become millionaires and many have become poor.So I think if you can afford to go without fear of this then you can complete it.Finally, lucky people get married first, those who want to settle their money get married later.
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
for me, you must be financially stable before going into marriage. you must have something that give you money or something that give you a daily income. before you talk about marriage. many people have been mislead to get married without having a daily or good job. then after marriage what comes out from the marriage is no one's business. my advice is, for anyone to go into marriage. he/she needs to be financially stable. because everything about marriage is money.
It all depend on tribe and individual, some tribe has certain age for a man and woman to settle down, regardless of the economic and situation, you just have to pick a wife and start a family.
while, some people have to plan on certain things first before settling down, some needs a build a house, buy car and be fully employed before thinking of starting a home. its all based on what one need first.
while, some people have to plan on certain things first before settling down, some needs a build a house, buy car and be fully employed before thinking of starting a home. its all based on what one need first.
For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Economically, it isn't a good advice to not have a stable or near stable source of income before getting into a relationship, let alone marriage.
For those who have pets, it is work enough to commit the feeding of it, if there aren't other creative means the pet feeds. Now imagine getting married to someone who maybe doesn't have a potential source of income or a skill or certificate or the will to learn.
I have also seen people who got married while they had nothing and wasn't earning, after the union, they either got jobs or started a business.
For me, it does not really have to be about money in entirety, finding someone who understands us is important, as well as had good communication ability, are also qualities that makes one choose to remain single or get married with or without money.
For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Is really difficult to get married or settle down without being financially stable, money plays a big role in ones life. From where I'm from if you don't have money I don't think anybody would even have your time talkless of getting into a serious relationship. If you're poor just forget about settling down because nobody would want to settle with a guy who's broke. I prefer making money before getting married.
But I'm hoping for the day that we'll be using Bitcoin to pay bride prize, I just wonder how it will look like instead of using fiat.
I am in a relationship for 7 years now and we are already on a marriageable age. We've seen some of our friends tie the knot, but we're not seeing ourselves do it anytime soon YET. For us, once we have decided to get married, it means that we're now ready to shift our focus to building a home and starting our own family. In short, we should be ready to settle down. With our current financial status, we are able to live comfortably but we know that it won't be enough to raise children given our current economic situation. We are not gonna be selfish and we will ensure our future child's happiness. That's why right now, we are working very hard to be financially ready for marriage.
for single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Although your statement is very important I am single yet not married. And my plan is big yet my education is not over I am related to cryptocurrency along with my education. Of course my future plan is to establish myself and build a stable source of income and then start married life. At the moment I have no job or source of income so getting married would be most foolish. And a person must be established before marriage so that he can lead a happy married life with his wife in future life. and my move is that I will first establish myself and stand on my own feet and then get married so that I don't have to look back in the future.Despite all our good plans to have a stable financial status to be able to lead a good home, train the children and make them happy as a father, we still should remember we can't wait forever for that to happen. Trying to achieve all that if that is your purpose, you should consider the economic situation of where you are living, times are hard and a stitch in time saves nine as they say.
for single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Although your statement is very important I am single yet not married. And my plan is big yet my education is not over I am related to cryptocurrency along with my education. Of course my future plan is to establish myself and build a stable source of income and then start married life. At the moment I have no job or source of income so getting married would be most foolish. And a person must be established before marriage so that he can lead a happy married life with his wife in future life. and my move is that I will first establish myself and stand on my own feet and then get married so that I don't have to look back in the future. 
It is better to be single than to marry wrongly. When choosing a lifetime partner, there are certain things to look out for; whether you are both compatible with each other, and whether the funds are there to run the family in case children start coming.
You don't just say I do all because of love. Marriage is a forever thing that doesn't only require love but understanding, care, and provision to stay in it.
I would rather be single than not be financially buoyant to take care of and support my family. The future of my unborn kids is what I should consider first before saying I do to someone
You don't just say I do all because of love. Marriage is a forever thing that doesn't only require love but understanding, care, and provision to stay in it.
I would rather be single than not be financially buoyant to take care of and support my family. The future of my unborn kids is what I should consider first before saying I do to someone
I think I would rather to wait and have a stable source of income which could guarantee a life of dignity for me and my hypothetical family.
To be honest, though, this is the kind of topic which can make me feel anxious about the future, specially living in a country where sometimes we as citizens and workers cannot easily reach the end of the tunnel and see the light at the end. We want to live a normal life, to settle for a spouse and and children, but these economical situations make me think that perhaps it may not be for me, even if I managed to save some money and keep a good job.
I am scared of being a failure of a father, seeing so many cases around me which are the case
To be honest, though, this is the kind of topic which can make me feel anxious about the future, specially living in a country where sometimes we as citizens and workers cannot easily reach the end of the tunnel and see the light at the end. We want to live a normal life, to settle for a spouse and and children, but these economical situations make me think that perhaps it may not be for me, even if I managed to save some money and keep a good job.
I am scared of being a failure of a father, seeing so many cases around me which are the case
Yes that's correct. I prefer to wait and have a stable income before getting married. Because after marriage there will definitely be a lot of expenses, not only for yourself but also for your family.
Though, I would also like to mention that in life there are chances which come and won't happen again, that is something my father has tried to teach me lately. What would happen if we met a person who we would love to spend the rest of our life with, but in that moment we are going through a period which our economical situation is not as stable as we would wish? I don't think the reason would impose the logical thing to do on a person who has felt in love.
Perhaps the suffering which would come could be worth it, as good times could be ahead in the road and there would be company to enjoy it. Life is weird.
I think I would rather to wait and have a stable source of income which could guarantee a life of dignity for me and my hypothetical family.
To be honest, though, this is the kind of topic which can make me feel anxious about the future, specially living in a country where sometimes we as citizens and workers cannot easily reach the end of the tunnel and see the light at the end. We want to live a normal life, to settle for a spouse and and children, but these economical situations make me think that perhaps it may not be for me, even if I managed to save some money and keep a good job.
I am scared of being a failure of a father, seeing so many cases around me which are the case
To be honest, though, this is the kind of topic which can make me feel anxious about the future, specially living in a country where sometimes we as citizens and workers cannot easily reach the end of the tunnel and see the light at the end. We want to live a normal life, to settle for a spouse and and children, but these economical situations make me think that perhaps it may not be for me, even if I managed to save some money and keep a good job.
I am scared of being a failure of a father, seeing so many cases around me which are the case
Yes that's correct. I prefer to wait and have a stable income before getting married. Because after marriage there will definitely be a lot of expenses, not only for yourself but also for your family.
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