Looking at the economic situation right now in my country, personally I will only think of getting married if I have a good accommodation, have stable and different sources of income, when am able to accept the responsibility of a good husband because right now I don't think am fully ready to do that looking at my current position now.
Getting a well paying government job can make me to get married very fast because in government jobs you have atleast 35 years of service before going for retirement so you are sure of the steady monthly payment that can take care of your family needs if you must get married.
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When will you be comfortable to start a home.
After the BRICS gold backed currency is globally accepted, and after the Federal Reserve banking system (the USD) fails.
After the BRICS gold backed currency is globally accepted, and after the Federal Reserve banking system (the USD) fails.
Some would have money, but cannot get in control of it instead they are under control by the money.
Your unreadiness despises your financial stability and your irresponsibility would give you no faith in marriage.
You really have to figure what you want before you can go find it.
It's not really the money you have earned or your financial stability that would determine your marriage time but your personal determination which overrides the money.
However, the family is in need of money as daily services are required.
Your unreadiness despises your financial stability and your irresponsibility would give you no faith in marriage.
You really have to figure what you want before you can go find it.
It's not really the money you have earned or your financial stability that would determine your marriage time but your personal determination which overrides the money.
However, the family is in need of money as daily services are required.
I decided to get married as soon as I got a job with a fixed income. This is the stage of economic stability somewhat, even if the salary is somewhat low, but it is a stable income and it is necessary to start married life.
I do not advise people with unstable income to get married until they can get a stable income, because that is very difficult after marriage.
I do not advise people with unstable income to get married until they can get a stable income, because that is very difficult after marriage.
starting a home required a lot but not much, there are basics things that must be in place, you must be self independent first, be on your own, get a private house, and earn some money first. you can't be a liability and start a home, you will end up being poor.
some people wants to make so much money before starting a home, that's not proper, once you have work or business that's fetching you daily money, and you're sure you won't starve then, start a home, with time things will get better.
some people wants to make so much money before starting a home, that's not proper, once you have work or business that's fetching you daily money, and you're sure you won't starve then, start a home, with time things will get better.
When you find the right one it is time to start a home. Money will come. When your are married you will earn, save and work more.
Before you consider marriage, you should have a solid source of income, which implies you can live on your own and are not dependent on anyone.
Solid source of income does not really matter. You can have something that you are doing and ready in your mind but not just solid source of income. Readiness also matters because it helps you to overcome different challenges that may come after in the future. This is the place of maturity. You have to be mature in mind, body and spirit before that and majority is not about age because some people are aged but are not able to take proper decision of their lives not to mention marriage.
Before you consider marriage, you should have a solid source of income, which implies you can live on your own and are not dependent on anyone. To have a good relationship, you must be financially and emotionally solid. If someone does not have a steady income, it does not mean that they will always be like that. Things can change quickly, such as his getting a better job or being promoted at work. But, of course, this is only feasible if he works hard towards a positive change. If someone does not have an income, it is best for them to focus on getting a job rather than thinking about marriage afterwards. When he has a career that pays well, he will be able to provide for his family. You shouldn't marry only to be financially dependent on someone else.
To me I won't rush into starting a home, in the society today as we know it's so obvious that everyone needs money, infact we need money( stable source of income) for everything we wish to achieve in our society today.
As am single now I always say it that before I will start my home I must have a stable source of income, love is sweet yes we know, but when money enters, love becomes sweeter.
I wouldn't want to be in a situation of low standard kind of life with my family when I will be married, I remember what I and my siblings went through because my dad and mum were not having a good source of income, my elder siblings suffered all their days in school because there was no stable source of income, I myself even dropped out of school because of low income too, so I wouldn't want my children to go through such problems too, same reason why I'm always working hard to make sure I have a stable source of income before making my own family.
To me if I don't have a stable source of income I won't start a home, and the woman I Will get married to won't be an idle woman, she must have something doing too...
As am single now I always say it that before I will start my home I must have a stable source of income, love is sweet yes we know, but when money enters, love becomes sweeter.
I wouldn't want to be in a situation of low standard kind of life with my family when I will be married, I remember what I and my siblings went through because my dad and mum were not having a good source of income, my elder siblings suffered all their days in school because there was no stable source of income, I myself even dropped out of school because of low income too, so I wouldn't want my children to go through such problems too, same reason why I'm always working hard to make sure I have a stable source of income before making my own family.
To me if I don't have a stable source of income I won't start a home, and the woman I Will get married to won't be an idle woman, she must have something doing too...
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I think it's better to wait for a stable formerly income before getting married. So that life after marriage is not too burdened because you already have a stable income. Which makes the family economy easier.
You are right. It is always better to have some sustainable sources of income before going into marriage so that after marriage you can have a sweet home, having the ability to provide for most (like 80%) of your kids, your wife, and your personal primary needs. Marrying with a low financial income can even drain all the little money you managed to save up. Family is usually very demanding; it's not just something one can start without having proper plans for it. Otherwise, you could have issues paying your kids bills, which is usually the most primary need in the family. You will need to consider the children before anything else. My friend used to tell me that unless he has something that is earning him about $1k–2k every month, he's not yet getting married. I just see the reasons for what he said.
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To be financially stable is everyone's dream, creating source of income is everyone's plan even though they couldn't make it at its end but the fact remains that the thoughts of having money would always run through everyone for the necessity of exchanges is its own government within everyone which has made money compulsorily needed.
Marriage: Is a union/partnership of two opposite sex of different souls, different bodies, different characters from different places coming together to agree to be one at any condition to make a home.
I would really love to air out my view on what a home is.
Home is permanent resident within a circle of a family where one find most comfortable and protected of being.
So, it's not about having or making enough money or a stable financial source of income that guarantees one ready for marriage.
Your qualifications of getting married depends on your readiness whether financially stabled or not because marriage is as an institution which requires you to possess the above qualities...
1) Love
2) Caring
3) Trust
4) Tolerance
5) Endurance
6) Transparency
7) Sacrifice and
Forgiveness.
It isn't money that purchases you these qualities but a personal decision. However, money remains necessarily and essential as I earlier stated.
Marriage: Is a union/partnership of two opposite sex of different souls, different bodies, different characters from different places coming together to agree to be one at any condition to make a home.
I would really love to air out my view on what a home is.
Home is permanent resident within a circle of a family where one find most comfortable and protected of being.
So, it's not about having or making enough money or a stable financial source of income that guarantees one ready for marriage.
Your qualifications of getting married depends on your readiness whether financially stabled or not because marriage is as an institution which requires you to possess the above qualities...
1) Love
2) Caring
3) Trust
4) Tolerance
5) Endurance
6) Transparency
7) Sacrifice and
Forgiveness.It isn't money that purchases you these qualities but a personal decision. However, money remains necessarily and essential as I earlier stated.
I think it's better to wait for a stable formerly income before getting married. So that life after marriage is not too burdened because you already have a stable income. Which makes the family economy easier.
The truth is just to have money to provide the basic things, it doesn't really matter one has to have enough money before starting a family. Money is very necessary in starting a home, because without considering financial income one is is just creating a burden and load all in the name of marriage, not having a better financial income can also affect children that will be raised. Money is important to provide the necessary things the family wants. People should think of how to create income before planning to start up a family. Money is what the family can only look to . 
I think everyone is stuck into that idea that they should be stable before marrying someone. Because it's not an easy responsibility that you'll be taking in and life in marriage isn't going to be all about you being alone. Every decision that you make should also be consulted with your partner.
There's a mutual decision together with your partner whether both of you are stable or not, as long as you agree that you'll strive together and work with your plans and dreams so that's it.
There's a mutual decision together with your partner whether both of you are stable or not, as long as you agree that you'll strive together and work with your plans and dreams so that's it.
I'm 25 years old and in a 5-year relationship already. I can't be 100% sure that it's my lifelong partner, but if things turn out okay, it probably is. I currently don't have a stable job because I'm deployed in the army, which is mandatory in Greece for 9 to 12 months for all male citizens, but I think that it's a bit irrelevant supposing that I want to settle down. We're currently in the process of looking for a home to rent in order to live together after I return, but as someone who's not religious, I wouldn't get married; I'd form a civil partnership instead.
I don't have huge expectations, nor do I want to go after money; I'd be satisfied with a decent house to live in and two jobs that provide enough to live comfortably.
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
It is difficult to answer correctly, because this answer depends on each individual, condition, situation, and which country you come from. ideally, before someone gets married, they must have a solid foundation both financially and mentally prepared before building a household. in essence, everyone wants a decent life even when they are young.
Before i got married, i wanted to have my own house and get a proper job to aim for a bright future. but along the way, life was not as smooth as I expected. I'm sure, everyone has a winding journey in living this life. fortunately, before I got married I already had a job that was practically ideal. Even though I don't have a high position, the salary generated is enough for me to save. and, I live in a country that has a lot of land. in fact, housing prices in my country can be considered affordable. I mean, when compared with highly developed countries. that's why, I said the answer depends on the situation, condition and in which country you live. after I got married, I paid off a simple housing for us to live in, until now.
It's really better before you get married that you already have a home but don't worry that is just some kind of thing that you are worth having before you decide to settle out. But when you have the woman you love and you still lack money for your marriage, then it depends on where you currently reside because, for some countries that's not really a problem once you found the right partner to be your wife, the rest will be easy for you. You can build a home together slowly but surely with someone you can trust both your wealth and secrets.
As someone who is currently in a committed relationship, I believe that financial stability is an essential consideration before settling down with a life partner. Having a stable source of income provides a solid foundation for building a life together and ensures that both partners can contribute to their shared goals and responsibilities.
For single people, I think it's essential to prioritize financial stability before getting married. Marriage involves shared financial commitments, and having a stable income can reduce potential stress and financial strain on the relationship.
Of course, everyone's situation is unique, and there might be exceptions where love and support can overcome temporary financial instability. However, from my perspective, being financially secure before marriage can lead to a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership.
You just nailed it, thanks for this guy, finance is one important source of happiness in marriage, regardless of the person you got married to. Even woman you feels understand your financial ability, might one day complain unknowingly or knowingly to the husband. We must consider our finance first before even living your parents house to be self independent. The second things you must consider is a good woman, because with you huge finance, if you don't marry to a woman that's contented, you will have unhappy home. we must consider these two things. For single people, I think it's essential to prioritize financial stability before getting married. Marriage involves shared financial commitments, and having a stable income can reduce potential stress and financial strain on the relationship.
Of course, everyone's situation is unique, and there might be exceptions where love and support can overcome temporary financial instability. However, from my perspective, being financially secure before marriage can lead to a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership.
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Getting married and making babies is expensive. It is not a decision anyone should make in a haste. We are all witnesses of the rate of inflation that has greeted the whole world. Catering for yourself is simple, but catering for your wife and also your children is not easy. One needs a stable flow of income to do that. Children foods are really expensive, I am sure of this because I Co trained my Nephew. That being said, the burden does not lie only on the man. If you as a man marries an industrious spouse, I think the burden can lessen and bills easily paid.
So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.
Money will always decide when a man will make a home because it all ties down to money. Making a home is a responsibility whereby the man will stable to take care his family, when there is no good source of income I don't think it will be right to make plans of starting up a family. Starting a home depends on how sufficient a man incomes is. Starting a home does not depend on age because it is not age of the man that will make a good home but money.
My opinion on starting a home
I will make my input from two dimension.
First, as a man who thinks of himself of being matured enough to settle down my advice is try to build a stable stream of income because they're is a lot to do with money in marriage. u will agree with me that from time immemorial there is "no romance without money", yes and that is because women are so attracted to flashy things and finished products which I will not hold that against them because after all they were brought out of a finished creation which (man).
Secondly, not everyone is destined to have plenty of money before setting up a family some times we have to take a bold step with a concrete understanding with our partner on our financial strength and future budgets. by doing this we can build and family and at the same time build a solid financial background as a team work. Mind you idleness can not give you a stable inflow of income so before you think of starting a family get something doing first.
I will make my input from two dimension.
First, as a man who thinks of himself of being matured enough to settle down my advice is try to build a stable stream of income because they're is a lot to do with money in marriage. u will agree with me that from time immemorial there is "no romance without money", yes and that is because women are so attracted to flashy things and finished products which I will not hold that against them because after all they were brought out of a finished creation which (man).
Secondly, not everyone is destined to have plenty of money before setting up a family some times we have to take a bold step with a concrete understanding with our partner on our financial strength and future budgets. by doing this we can build and family and at the same time build a solid financial background as a team work. Mind you idleness can not give you a stable inflow of income so before you think of starting a family get something doing first.
Op it is important to note that starting up a home is not something you have to rush into, you have to be matured in thinking and reasoning in other to adapt in marriage and also to know if you can manage some events, If they eventually occur in the union in future. Financial stability plays a major role as a man in marriage because if you are not financially alright taking such a bold step might be disasterous in the long run , It doesn't mean that men who got married when they have nothing cant progress, is just that the possibility is slim, so don't gamble with marriage because it might fail if you don't make the right step, If I may advice I don't think is reasonable for a man to marry when he is not well to do because not every partner can adapt in such situation, in conclusion I will be comfortable to marry when I see myself as being financially stable and very matured in handling internal conflicts with my partner whenever it arises, any day I see myself possessing all this things I mentioned above, That's when I will journey towards such responsibility.
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