When will you be comfortable to start a home. - page 4.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on June 15, 2023, 01:11:05 PM

So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable.

I'm not stable when I've married my wife but that doesn't mean that I've got no savings and investments. Despite of being unstable, I've made sure that I've got enough of those and even source of income even if they're just side hustles or from my small business.

Quote from: Queentoshi on June 15, 2023, 01:11:05 PM

Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.

That's what I've thought of before but how long I'll wait until I get stable because we've got different priorities. I don't want to be that old before I become stable and get married. So, what's important is that you're prepared mentally, financially and spiritually when you're about to tie the knot.

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Starting a home, required so many things, finance and stability matters Alot, before one think of setting up home.

Starting a home, is self decision and not to be influenced by any societal influence. Because when you fail, no one will come to rescue you, you will have no one to blame, so think twice before Starting a home.
I'm not comfortable yet, to start a home, I have a less pay monthly and it's not enough to start a home with it. Is just for self maintenance.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on June 15, 2023, 01:11:05 PM

So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.

Before you decide to get married you should have a stable means of income that will be enough to cater for you and your spouse. There should be enough funds to pay bills like house rent, food, clothing, healthcare, and others. If you want to start having children, you also need to increase your income because your expenses will also increase. Marrying without a stable means of income will lead to hardship, frustration, and even divorce. I have also seen some men that have decided that they must be wealthy before they get married because they do not want their families to suffer. Some of them have waited for many years to get enough money to no avail. I tell people that the most important blessing a man can get from marriage is marrying a good woman and vice versa. If you are married to a spouse that understands, even in the face of financial hardship he/she will always stand by you. You don't need to have all the money before you get married but there should be a constant income that will sustain the needs of the family.

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I happen to be single. So I only have an opinion about getting married. Ideally in my opinion, choose those who are already established first and then get married. But getting married first and then being established is also not a problem. Provided that there must be a projection of what it will look like in the future, what plans to do with your partner in the future.

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So that everyone can share their opinion on this topic, ai will the question in two different ways. For the single people and people who already have life partners. For the people with life partners already, at what stage economically where you before you decided to settle down with a partner? Did you already have a stable source of income or your source of income was not very stable. For single people, when will you get married? Can you get married with an unstable source of income or you will wait till when you are very financially stable. Please share your personal answers.

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