Topic: Where is the fun when you lose your money? - page 10. (Read 3118 times)

We should be earning back to back but we're not in control. I try my best not to be in a position where losses will ruined my day, anytime I'm able to spot winnings and losses surpassing my ratio for the day. It's simple, just quit and wait patiently for a bright new day to go again, there's always new opportunities for us in the space. Losing money and you talk about fun? There's absolutely no cruise to catch or fun because losses are at stake and in our best interest, we should be grinding in for the big winnings.

I don’t know how you will feel or others that will have the same feeling as you feel in them when they lose money in gambling. No money is worth losing to me, whether earned, gifted or borrowed. My mind cannot even take it and I will feel bad for losing those monies. So it is better I trade cautiously and to avoid anything that will make me lose money. It is okay if you feel that way, maybe it is because you’re able to control your emotions better than I do or maybe I cherish the value of that money more and not ready to lose it for anything if it won’t double, as the case maybe for the intention of what the money is used for in the first place.


Most gamblers gamble to make more money and not all of this that some people claim they do it for. Most gamblers that commit suicide does all that because they lost a lot of money to gambling and may not have a means to recover it or gambled with money they were not ready to lose. Only few people gamble for fun and I only said that because some people claim they do it for that but practically, no one gambles for fun but for making more money and all those I’ve come across that gambles so much, does all of that for making more money and not the former.

That's normal if most gamblers have their reason why they still expect to make money from gambling because they already see what happens to some people who can win much money from gambling. They still attract to come back to gambling and playing many gambling games because they see they have a chance to win some money. Not about win much money but some bucks that can makes them feels happy. Though gambling is just a fun, they consider to used gambling as a fun and a place to make money if they luck. But actually, they can't expect to make money from gambling because that's difficult as many people already tried it but they just lost their money. Many of them lose much money and some already bankrupt without having a chance to recovers their lost. They must realizes the fact that gambling is a place to have fun and not a place to make money so they must limits themselves while playing gambling because once they lost, the intention to recovers their lose will be there. If the intention is show up, they will difficult to accept their lose and playing gambling will not be fun anymore.

You would really be able to experience financial issues if you do really make yourself that let it happen. You are the ones who do make out such actions on making yourself to be put up on such condition or situation. If you are really just that someone whose really that sensible on the things that you are really that doing then you wont really be putting up yourself on such trouble.
There are really just those individuals who are really that not minding about on the possible things that would happen into them and just really that minding on the things that they are currently facing up.
We do know that gambling is really just that for fun and its true that losing money is never been fun but this is something not that an issue if you are someone whose really that accepting
those possibilities from the start. It would really be justthat a matter of acceptance honestly.

Most gamblers gambles for reasons farfetched from how it been expected of them to have with gambling, there is no how we can work on misplaced priority and expect things to work out as we expect them, gambling is such a means of meeting people and creating an atmosphere of having fun together, some will want to gamble all because they are financial in need of how they could earn a living, which we should totally kicked against because it's not at time that we may have to win when we are gambling, we lose more often to be precise.

Most times, addiction comes as a result of financial issues. When a gambler is pressed with financial challenges and have no other means of meeting up with his or her financial demand, they just fall back to gambling as a last resort and rescue. They just go ahead to keep gambling and trying of luck and it keeps repeating and repeating to some extent of borrowing to gamble to see of they could try their luck and see if they could win. I have encountered many of them and the situation is very devastating because they no longer have that self-control as they are bent on winning a game to sort out financial issues they are into and in that case they keep gambling and it continues that way.

that's true, then it's true that with gambling it depends on what kind of response we have, if our goal in gambling is to make money then maybe in reality what will happen is defeat then we won't be able to accept that because the goal is to make money, and When the money at stake is lost we will not be able to accept it, whereas things like that can trigger actions that are more risky. It's better to gamble with the idea that it's just for fun, and try to accept defeat well, not worrying about defeat is the key to avoiding even bigger losses.

After all, making money or wanting to make money from gambling is a big risky thought. because the chance of winning is very slim while the chance of losing is big, therefore all gambling that is done will most likely only end in defeat and we as gamblers must be able to accept defeat if we cannot accept defeat which will clearly be If this happens, big problems could happen, so if we are not ready to lose the money we bet, it's best not to gamble.

There are various ways a person can express how they gamble, whether just for fun or spending their free time for entertainment. or, there are various reasons for each person who likes this type of gambling entertainment. the problem is, this type of entertainment has risks. first, we have to spend money as a medium. apart from that, be prepared to lose. another impact is that we will most likely be forced to spend a lot of time and ultimately ignore several tasks or work that should be completed. if it's about winning money, everyone loves it. you know, we will always be involved with money in life. Likewise with gambling, all gamblers like winning, especially getting big rewards as bonuses. But it's important to remember, gambling isn't just about money. there are various ways someone can interpret it, apart from getting a big win.

If you think it's more fun when your budget is much bigger than the losses, that's your right. but in reality, most of them are not as you hope. interestingly, you asked and I will quote: So where's the fun when you lose your money? the answer is, stop gambling because you will never achieve what you want. for me, pleasure is not just getting money.  in gambling, we can get something fun from the features and games that we like. playing it, enjoying every sensation, and getting pleasure from the entertainment provided, that is the essence of pleasure. If you lose, don't you know the risks of gambling? so, stop it if it's no longer fun.

Of course, I think everyone definitely doesn't want to lose money, because everyone clearly needs money to survive and to fulfill what they want, just like gambling where you have to use money as a medium of exchange, but many people are trapped by gambling. says there are wins that can be obtained even if you use a small amount of money, it can result in big wins or make a lot of money. there is no joy in the losses that occur and the loss of money that occurs is unconscionable.
If the aim of the gambling is to make money or win then perhaps what will happen when the gambling that is done ends in defeat is that we will not be able to accept the defeat. but that's not true, because like it or not we have to be able to accept defeat, because otherwise what might happen is losing even more money.

Of course, losing money is not fun and it’s hard to imagine anyone enjoying it. However, losing money creates an emotional storm in a person, and some people lack emotions! Often we play because of emotional emptiness, because our life is very bland and we don’t really feel life. Imagine some office clerk who is sorting through papers in his office, doing boring work that no one needs. He is not proud of his work and only does it for money. When he returns home and goes to the bookmaker’s website, he is transformed. He feels like a great player. Even if he loses his money.

Gamblers forget their purpose once their mistake consistently reoccur. The problems appear oftentimes in different dimensions. A player may lose higher amounts than he lost the last time he encountered a loss. Hence, the pain will be fresh, and the player will feel angered again. I understand that players are meant to get used to it, but nobody feels a fresh pain and holds his tongue. Gamblers undergo numerous unique problems ranging from money, emotions, stress, etc. Yet, for some, the game is fun, and for others a huge problem. Moving ahead, I'd say that how they feel is a self-determination. A gambler who is focused on enjoying his game, won't get sad over a loss.

His concern would be other things like building and maintaining his strategies. While others will pass through hassles and tough experiences, tending to achieve all their monetary fantasies. So, to remove the Op's doubt the players behave according to their gambling perspectives. Putting a smile on our faces over a loss is a personal decision. They are players who will never laugh over a loss. It all depends on how much is lost in the gambling process. Random players with no strategy experience regular gambling losses and it hurts. Due to their designated expectations. Those who don't have a single expectation welcome any outcome they receive. Provided that the lost money isn't huge enough to get them sad.

Well this is true! And in fact there is no fun on losing money at all. Unless you have unlimited cash to gamble on and you are willing to lose them all. I think the paradox is if you are doing it for money and to earn money solely, then you won't be happy everytime you see negative numbers on your balance. BUT! if you do it for dun, and only for pleasure, for hype and the dopamine it does release from your body? It will be fun always.

For me it always digs down to what is your intention gambling. Because believe me or not, the casino will always give you what you are looking for. If you are looking for something risk money, it will give you that. If you just want to lose your money, then casino will be willingly take that from you. And if you just want to play and spend your time, they will be easily accessible. As much as you cash to gamble with.

In my opinion, only a few people gamble with the aim of seeking pleasure, this doesn't seem to apply to all gamblers but only dominates rich gamblers who have a lot of spare money, because in my opinion the majority of people who gamble their aim is to get money. or make money, for people who gamble, the goal is to have fun, I think they also want to win, only they can accept the fact that defeat will definitely happen so they don't mind losing or losing the money they bet on.

In my opinion, people who feel sad because they lose and people who feel sad because they lose money are the same when it comes to gambling, because the fact that the gambling they do ends in defeat means that it clearly indicates a loss of the money they bet on gambling. and also I don't think anyone is happy when their gambling ends in defeat. Maybe people who are happy with the losses that occur from gambling are people who have a lot of money and are confused about how to spend it, but I think there are almost people like that too.

Yes, this goes back to our actual gambling goals, although losing money and feeling sad is a natural thing, especially when you get a lot of winnings and can be lost in a short time, but usually people who tend to have a gambling goal to get pleasure in the sense that they just like to play without caring too much about getting money or not after they play.

Everyone wants to win, but not necessarily everyone wants to get money even though in the mechanism who wins definitely gets money, but if you break it down in two things, people who feel sad because they lose and people who feel sad because they lose money are different, and people who are happy because they win and people who are happy because they get money can be classified differently. as in the initial intention, people who intend to spend money because they want to play and people who spend money to multiply money.

From the above two intentions and goals of course what is recommended is to gamble with the intention and purpose for entertainment and nothing more than that, but unfortunately I think it is a fact that most people come with the intention and purpose to earn which sometimes they never ask themselves especially if for example they come because they see some of their friends who managed to get a big win then we can conclude that what they want is to earn and not to seek entertainment.

I will mention one of the things why gamblers look sad when they lose which is that they put an amount that they cannot account for, or simply put they put the hope of winning on the money they are betting so that when the situation is reversed in the sense that they lose then it is natural that they feel sad, While responsible gamblers usually agree with themselves from the beginning that whatever happens to their money, they must be able to accept it, and this is the reason why responsible gamblers prefer to accept the possibility of losing from the beginning which ultimately makes them decide to put a small amount that will not be a problem if they lose in the end.

It is also better that we asked ourselves on the purpose in which we are gambling for, maybe its something that we are doing in other to depend on gambling as a source for our income or we are doin such for an entertainment purpose, i don't know why some gamblers will fells very sad when they discover making a loss in gambling, this shouldn't be the first kind of their encounter and as a regular gambler, they ought to have been used to it already that we either win or loose when gambling.

Every gambler must have a gambling budget so that he has an alarm for his own limits so as not to play beyond his limits, every gambler actually wants to win, it's just that it all depends on his mindset, if his mindset is right, gambling for entertainment will certainly not be a problem when he loses when gambling. because we are used to losing money, which is definitely money that is ready to be lost, even though we don't know where the fun is, at least gambling in a controlled manner is enough for gamblers.

Most gamblers never have control when gambling, so there is a difference between gambling to make money and gambling to have fun, those who gamble for fun will never experience losing at gambling because they will always think it is just entertainment so for them losing is not something. which is bad for them, after all gambling doesn't always win because there are always losers, hypocritical people don't want to admit their defeat even though professional gamblers have experienced defeat and lost a lot of money, so don't think that losing at gambling is something strange, the important thing is not to get addicted. gamble.

Alot of us are already classified as addict's since some time we don't follow whatever pattern that we draft for ourselves because at most times we get carried away to over gamble and gambling with the mindset of hitting jackpot with every of our bets, this mentality have affected alot of forks today and it has lead them to betting outsind of fun which make every game to decide their mood, for example when you gamble with such mindset, when you win, you become happy and when you lose you equally feel sad about it, so for anyone in that category they will never feel fun when they lose, and majority or even all of us are made up of such mindset.

I noticed this from my gambling system that made me not to use huge amount of money to gamble because, anytime I gamble to expect big money from a particular bet, it will make me to lose in that particular game but if i just play the bet without putting my mind of expecting big money from it,  it will bring good results at the end.

Even though you are gambling for money, don't use all your money to gamble because you want to win by all means which are some of the attitude that forced some people to be addicted to gambling, but if you gamble for fun and win or lose, it will not make you think of quitting gambling.

Yes that's right, in any case I think it's a fact that everyone doesn't like losing their valuables especially money which means there is absolutely no pleasure in losing something that has value, but however gambling is always about risky activities which means it has the possibility of losing your money unexpectedly regardless of the chances of winning and this is why it is always recommended to be a responsible gambler in the sense that we must be able to take responsibility for whatever will happen at the end of the session especially losing.

I would say you're a loser if you're only thinking about the winnings but not ready and able to accept the losing situation and maybe I would advise you that it's better not to gamble at all if you're not able to be a responsible gambler because after all, the inability to accept risk is always the starting point for someone to overreact or do things that are out of control that have a high probability of triggering many bad possibilities such as those experienced by addicts where they lose more money than they earn. So you just have to choose whether you are able to be a responsible gambler or not, if not then obviously as I suggested that it is better not to gamble at all.