My brothers and sisters for this kajad cabal I greet una and happy new year to all of us. I say make I table this matter for here and if say person don discuss this mata, my apologies as I no see any of such nature before I bring this one up.
Wetin make me dey ask this question nah say after observation, I discover how some newbies wey register here, after them don drop some posts and e happen say one of the posts receive backlash, you go see say gradually, that user go start to dey scarce for here and before you know e go twy before you see them.
So I wan know from us, wetin we feel say be the reason wey dem dey lose interest like that? Abi nah say some no fit stand criticism or here too hard or wetin? Abeg make we discuss.
My brother you really dy on point, to tell you the truth, na road I don pass before, criticism na something wey no be everyone dy take lightly, e get on post I post during the first week wey I open this account, my brother if to say mouth dy kill person, I for don die, initially I been wan respond back with anger but I come reason am say since true true I dy wrong make I leave am, but I no post again, I just lose interest in the forum entirely.
I come dy vex say people go just dy tlk anyhow for post wey I crack my brain arrange, dem no even know wey I go through go create dat post, even wen I been dy school I no crack my brain like dat, but person go just rubbish am without even any consideration.
Of a truth, e take me like 3 or 4 weeks for me to post again,but after den I learn, and wetin even bring me back na the small additional knowledge I dy get from the forum. Secondly e dy very difficult to keep on posting wen you no dy grow for the forum, e go just dy do you as if you dy waste ur time, sometimes we wey be newbie dy post something wey deserve merit but we no dy get am, and you will be forced to ask yourself say make I first dance naked first before dem go know say this or dat post deserve merit?
To me the most discouraging is wen you even make the quality post, but dem no gree merit am, even wen you deserve am, but you go see post wey no better pass your own get merit.