I have never seen where a woman stopped someone from drinking alcohol, I have not seen also where a woman stopped someone from smoking. So, I also doubt that girlfriend can stop someone from gambling. What women do is to make the victim to minimise how they gamble or so, or do it without her knowledge. That means a girlfriend will not totally stop a gambler but can make a gambler not to be an addict.
Women who are able to make men's worlds change are indeed very rare to find but if you want to look for them you will definitely find them because basically women want to create a better household and of course do not want to have an irresponsible man, if you Men who understand what I'm saying, after getting married and starting a family, you should be able to gamble less and focus more on building a happy family for a bright future and preparing money for your old age with your family. 
Topic: Will you stop gamble if your girl friend insists ? (Read 4610 times)
And what if your girlfriend is more addicted to you, specially slots? And a scenario such as you introduce your girlfriend to slots and then she suddenly fell in love with it and later you realized that she is more addicted to you? Could be a very difficult situation now as the tide has turn?
Everyone behaves differently without us realizing it, from gambling for entertainment to gambling addiction because he feels the thrill of fun slot games to she is more addicted than us, chances are she gambles secretly without us knowing and my scenario will be visiting gambling places less often with my partner and more outdoor activities and sitting in the park.Quote
Same here, me and my wife gamble together, and we complement each other, I mean if she wins then she will give something to me to continue and vice-versa.
Glad to hear, you and your wife are gambling together and covering each other's losses from betting. To be honest, I've never seen a family gamble together, but I hope you hit the jackpot. 
I have never seen where a woman stopped someone from drinking alcohol, I have not seen also where a woman stopped someone from smoking. So, I also doubt that girlfriend can stop someone from gambling. What women do is to make the victim to minimise how they gamble or so, or do it without her knowledge. That means a girlfriend will not totally stop a gambler but can make a gambler not to be an addict.
The reason I agree with you is that if a gambler chooses gambling as an addiction, they will achieve nothing in life. If he considers gambling as temporary happiness. Then he can do many things in his life. Gambling is an addiction that kills people. From here I think I should avoid gambling as much as possible. So we all try to stay away from this bad addiction all the time.
As long as we can manage our time gambling and always try not to violate our boundaries, it will not make us addicted because we can control ourselves.Control here is very important to avoid addiction because we know that gambling can provide a great temptation that makes us keep playing.
By always trying to avoid addiction, we can enjoy gambling and maybe even luck can come to us.
Addiction can cause harm in our lives and destroy everything we have so let us try not to become addicted to gambling.
If it is something that you enjoy and you like doing without harming yourself, then why would you have to stop gambling? I am sure you wouldn't like it if your girlfriend stops you from something you like doing, right? If it was because she was concerned that you might get addicted to it, then yeah, it is a different story. She probably is trying to stop you from making things go worse. And if it is because your girlfriend doesn't like gambling, then yeah, it is up to you if you want to stop doing something that your girlfriend doesn't like.
The reason I agree with you is that if a gambler chooses gambling as an addiction, they will achieve nothing in life. If he considers gambling as temporary happiness. Then he can do many things in his life. Gambling is an addiction that kills people. From here I think I should avoid gambling as much as possible. So we all try to stay away from this bad addiction all the time.
As long as we can manage our time gambling and always try not to violate our boundaries, it will not make us addicted because we can control ourselves.Control here is very important to avoid addiction because we know that gambling can provide a great temptation that makes us keep playing.
By always trying to avoid addiction, we can enjoy gambling and maybe even luck can come to us.
Addiction can cause harm in our lives and destroy everything we have so let us try not to become addicted to gambling.
Gambling can get over hand and difficult to handle, so whoever does so is actually doing to his/her own peril. A girlfriend has no right to stop her man from gambling, even if she's chiefly responsible for the day to day up keep of the family she should know she has boundaries and stick to them.
Men also should know when to stop gambling, set limit's to alsls of this funds used. And to avoid beef's and quarrels in the relationship one has to stay clear gambling of your partner does tolerates it.
Men also should know when to stop gambling, set limit's to alsls of this funds used. And to avoid beef's and quarrels in the relationship one has to stay clear gambling of your partner does tolerates it.
I would argue that if the situation is so that there's someone close to you that is worried about your behavior then it means that it has probably gone too far and things are not under control any more.
It's basically a red flag that you should pay attention to and assess the situation. Everyone is responsible of their own actions, not other people.
So no matter how much trouble or pressure a gambler is under. Greed drives him to gambling again and again
I this sentence is only go for addicted gamblers . Who don't think about his families and ignore his effort to loose only goes through with their greediness. I think gambling should take as entertainment purpose not this way. Every gambler should have good self control.
And what if your girlfriend is more addicted to you, specially slots? And a scenario such as you introduce your girlfriend to slots and then she suddenly fell in love with it and later you realized that she is more addicted to you? Could be a very difficult situation now as the tide has turn?
Same here, me and my wife gamble together, and we complement each other, I mean if she wins then she will give something to me to continue and vice-versa.
Same here, me and my wife gamble together, and we complement each other, I mean if she wins then she will give something to me to continue and vice-versa.
Oh, if that was the case, I would be the one to suggest to stop gambling, or at least to slow down a bit. I'm happy to read that this is your case too with your wife, it is always better to be well accompanied when gambling. Does she hodl, or is she into trading also?
Money is an important asset. By which a man can be saved. And all activities of people are for the sole purpose of earning money. And the purpose of gambling is to double the money or more . In this world, where have possibility to earn much money, the more risk there is . Gambling is one such . So no matter how much trouble or pressure a gambler is under. Greed drives him to gambling again and again
I used to play with my girlfriend, it was lime a slots machine but a bit different. It was really enjoyable to play together, but I wouldn't repeat it online, it wouldn't be the same.
Most girlfriends prohibit us from gambling activities, but the situation is different when your partner has the same thing to gamble on slot machines, but you still limit gambling only to slot machines and not online gambling. I am sure every boyfriend will not let us get addicted to online gambling and she only allows to enjoy playing gambling for entertainment.Same here, me and my wife gamble together, and we complement each other, I mean if she wins then she will give something to me to continue and vice-versa.
I used to play with my girlfriend, it was lime a slots machine but a bit different. It was really enjoyable to play together, but I wouldn't repeat it online, it wouldn't be the same.
Most girlfriends prohibit us from gambling activities, but the situation is different when your partner has the same thing to gamble on slot machines, but you still limit gambling only to slot machines and not online gambling. I am sure every boyfriend will not let us get addicted to online gambling and she only allows to enjoy playing gambling for entertainment. My girlfriend and I gamble together 
it's like watching a movie or taking a walk for us. We never bet large sums, so there are no disagreements
Ohh! it's good to hear/know that your girlfriend is playing with you. Actually, there are a lot of situations and the reason behind gamblers and yours is good to know because some girlfriends or let's say their reaction if they know that their boyfriend is a gambler they'll make a way to stop in gambling. Because they once their boyfriend is a gambler they feel that gambling can disturb their relationship and that's why they want to stop their Boyfriend to stop gambling. it's like watching a movie or taking a walk for us. We never bet large sums, so there are no disagreementsMy girlfriend and I gamble together it's like watching a movie or taking a walk for us. We never bet large sums, so there are no disagreements
it's like watching a movie or taking a walk for us. We never bet large sums, so there are no disagreementsI used to play with my girlfriend, it was lime a slots machine but a bit different. It was really enjoyable to play together, but I wouldn't repeat it online, it wouldn't be the same.
If my girlfriend asked me to stop gambling, it would be for good reason and I would quit before losing her. It is not the case, fortunately.
My girlfriend and I gamble together it's like watching a movie or taking a walk for us. We never bet large sums, so there are no disagreements
it's like watching a movie or taking a walk for us. We never bet large sums, so there are no disagreements I think it all depends on the degree of seriousness of our relationship. Moreover, I would take into account how bad an impact gambling would have on me. That is, if I realized that she only wants the best for me, then I would definitely listen. to her.
A girlfriend that doesn't care for you will ignore whatever you are doing may it affect you positively or negatively. If they aren't serious they will not spend their precious time advising you to fix things on your end like advising you to stop gambling or stop anything that will affect you negatively. The fact that they are concern about your gambling activity, the girlfriend is pretty much serious about your relationsip.
I can't agree with you completely. You see, her anxiety can be caused by both sincere care and love, as well as a desire to control everything and rejection of hobbies. Agree, there are relationships where one of the partners strives to fully control the other, literally not letting them breathe.
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Very often it happens that a person who has some problems (debts, addiction, etc.) does not want to listen to anyone's advice and recommendations and this applies even to relatives, so they must try very hard to convey to the player the reasons for his problems. It is possible to involve psychologists to this process, but many only hearing about a psychologist begin to deny the existence of any problems.
True, they are hooked on gambling. Even if they wanted to stop, their compulsive gambling behavior makes it difficult for them to stop. No matter how hard their relatives or people who are close to them try to persuade them to stop gambling. This often results in broken relationships.
So no matter how much trouble or pressure a gambler is under. Greed drives him to gambling again and again
I this sentence is only go for addicted gamblers . Who don't think about his families and ignore his effort to loose only goes through with their greediness. I think gambling should take as entertainment purpose not this way. Every gambler should have good self control.
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Very often it happens that a person who has some problems (debts, addiction, etc.) does not want to listen to anyone's advice and recommendations and this applies even to relatives, so they must try very hard to convey to the player the reasons for his problems. It is possible to involve psychologists to this process, but many only hearing about a psychologist begin to deny the existence of any problems.
I think gambling should take as entertainment purpose not this way. Every gambler should have good self control.
Well, thats the right thing to do, but obviously some gamblers cant control themselves resulting to gambling addiction that is hard to get over. Thus, if you know that you're a type of gambler who cant resist the temptation to gamble, then much better to never try it so you wont end up in a stressful situation. Anyway if your girlfriend or loved ones are encouraging you to stop playing, take time to listen because its for your own sake unless if you know to yourself that you never neglected your responsibility as a partner and only playing in moderation. Jump to: