Topic: Your gambling life could affect your relatives lifes. - page 3. (Read 2538 times)

but most likely it would really be that pointless that you would really be making out such argumentations and trying to sue them out basing up on the situation or condition on which when it comes to legal aspect
then we do know that this is something that wont really be having any sense because it would really be obviously that laughable on trying out to sue on things which its really just that totally your mistake
and its true that you arent that being forced on doing so but rather you do force yourself on doing it on your own. Gambling life or simply with the addiction t hat you do have then it would really be affecting out
any people around you specially on the moment that you would really be making some shit decisions just because of too much addiction.

Dont let yourself be ending up on a tough situation just because you do make yourself that delusional. This is why on the moment that you would be finding yourself
that gradually being addicted with gambling then better you should really be trying out to adjust accordingly or even trying to get rid of it while its still early.
Things turns out to be messy once you do make out shit decisions.

Many years ago my relatives faced the same problems, I was the person you describe. I gave all my valuables to a pawn shop and never bought them back. One day, my girlfriend and I came to buy back her gold ring, which I took without asking, and she began to say that I should no longer be allowed to come here and should not be given money here, to which the owner replied that he could not do this if I came and If I have my passport with me, he won’t be able to refuse me. I struggled with addiction for many years, then God gave me freedom. Otherwise, there was no way I could get rid of it.
In answer to your question, I will say that it will not be so easy to sue these establishments; if they do everything according to the law, then there is no reason to accuse them of anything. A person comes to them voluntarily, so it will be difficult to conduct this process. But it depends on the laws of the country in which it happens

Greed is like an inbuilt feature in our mind, and it doesn't affect a gambler ones, it start gradually and if it occupies the mind of a gambler the gamble ends up becoming addicted. Greed starts true emotions, if you lose you think about your lose and it also makes you chase after your losses. There might be an amount of money a gambler will lose and he will not stop thinking of it.

The whole problem of gambling always starts from that first win immediately they win they feel they have found a way for them to make money and they won't care to know if they should manage how they gamble not all they want is to gamble and if they don't win they gamble again and that is one of the mistakes that some of them make they gamble even when they are not supposed to be gambling, now that the economy is hard the number of people that are gambling have increased just because everybody is looking for a way to get cash,  and people are no longer scared of addiction anymore, people want money and what they don't get is that even if you want to make money gambling is not something you should be taking as side hustle because you will just get wrecked that is what gambling do to a lot of people. and their are other ways that they can make money not only from gambling. gambling is fun but only when you are making money from it.

I've had relatives who were addicts, and one of the things I could understand is that they became addicts because of problems they had in life, love problems, financial problems, that's because when they started having problems they didn't seek help, Therefore, they pursued alcohol as a way of forgetting their problems, it turns out that after the person consumes it constantly, the person becomes dependent and addicted. In the case of gambling, it's the same thing, people start to have problems at work, they start to have problems with their relatives, they become isolated because they fear hearing criticism, so when they are isolated at home and when they encounter gambling, becomes the only thing for them to have fun and forget their problems, but unfortunately they develop another serious problem which is addiction.

For people to get out of the addiction, they constantly need to spend all their time doing other things that entertain them and that make them forget about their problems, which is why when gambling addicts are isolated in the hospital, they are cut off from any access to gambling. something that allows them to access the internet and also keeps them away from games, and occupy them all the time with other good things so that little by little they forget about gambling, and that way the addiction can be cured


I've always said that happy people, people who have a lot of good things to do, rarely fall into addiction. because when people are happy, they don't focus on problems and therefore don't get constantly stressed. My advice is that when people feel that they are suffering because of problems then they should not get involved in gambling, no matter how much we keep saying that we have to look at gambling as fun, we still have to be aware that no one likes to lose. , so it's better that people who have a problem look for other things to have fun

What you said is true and also the majority of addicted gamblers in my opinion do not realize that they are in danger due to involvement in gambling in the wrong way, they do not know about the magnitude of the impact of the situation because usually there is nothing else they think about but winning and winning. I would say that addicted gamblers will always end the session with regret and emotion, win or lose it will always be a bad outcome, because usually what I know is that when they manage to win then they always apply the greed aspect in their gambling activities in order to pursue bigger wins which because of this they end up losing again which makes them lose all the money from the previous win.

And that is a cycle of involvement in gambling that is at a chronic level which can increase emotions in themselves and it is also very likely that they vent their emotions or resentment to those closest to them, meaning that it is only natural that those closest to them hate them and stay away from them, which in addition to gambling has a bad viewpoint in the eyes of most people, meaning of course as you said that public trust in them will definitely decrease which when trust is lost then it will make it difficult for gamblers to establish relationships or seek help from others.

It's because they are focus on what they're doing and not giving attention to those people around. In this state, the gambler is already addicted or bound to be one. That's why it's really crucial to gamble in moderation and don't let gambling affect you negatively to the point you don't care anymore to what's going on outside gambling. Though it's not right, many gamblers are still becoming addicted despite the reminders since they're motivated to gain huge.

Very unfortunate that gamblers don't see the negative impact of their gambling addiction. These gamblers don't wonder why some of their relatives hate them and have no close friends anymore because of their changing behavior.

It is reputation and trust that are affected the most which makes those people around us will stay away and no longer approachable. I hope new gamblers will never wait for this will come before they take action but rather make a habit of controlling their emotions from the start because it was hard to recover when we are already in a state of addiction.

Those gamblers doesn't wants their relatives see the bad side of them so they hide their gambling activity and only playing gambling when they are alone in their rooms. They are worry if their relatives will saying many bad things about them because the truth is they can take care of themselves while they are playing gambling. They feels better to maintaining the distance from their relatives to avoids from the bad view from many people.

But for those who can't take care of themselves when playing gambling will not telling their gambling activity to other people arounds them. But yes, those gamblers can tells their gambling story to their friends, maybe close friends but not too details. It's normal if someone feels difficult to tells their secrets or problems to their relatives because they don't wants to hear the judging from their relatives about what they did.

That's why the others don't let their parents, relatives, or friends know, because the gamblers themselves are ashamed to let other people know about it. And there are many people who do that until now. Now other gamblers, especially gambling addicts, are becoming more open because of their addiction, so their families know what they are doing in gambling.

And of course, if their family finds out about this, their family will be ashamed of the people who know them. It wouldn't matter if he got a big jackpot because of gambling; somehow it won't be a shame because he won the jackpot in gambling, especially if the winnings can be used correctly.

It's natural that your family, relatives and friends don't approve of this, because apart from having a risk, you can also have an addiction that is difficult to control, so they all don't agree with it. Especially if they clearly don't understand gambling, so the things that lead to gambling will only be your own decision without having to invite or involve them all in it except with their own intention to get involved in gambling. Because gambling, apart from being entertainment for fun, can also have a high level of addiction if we don't control it ourselves.

It is true. The expectations. It usually happens to those who have won a lot of money at the start of their gambling activity. I think the mentality is they might hit the same thing again somewhere in the future and so they keep on betting until all those winnings are gone and that's when they get frustrated.

Then, there's where the question will pop out. What could a frustrated person do once he depleted all the profits he made. He could become easily irritated with simple mistakes and that will affect all the people near him. He is stressed out thinking about the mistake he had made which could also affect others especially if it is happening every day.
It will not be cured if we keep on gambling, it will just add more frustration unless we do something about it.

Worry that always exists is the feeling of fear when there is bad view of us if all family members find out about all the bad things we do, this is the basic reason that makes every gambler completely close down any problems regarding gambling.
Apart from that, I also agree that maintaining distance will be something that relatives or relatives will definitely do when they find out that we are doing some things that they don't like or think are bad, this is reality that always happens.
But if look at several incidents that have happened before, it can be concluded that gambler will be more open with his friends than with his family or relatives because on average friends are people who can be considered capable of accepting every problem they are told.
Sometimes it can feel very difficult if you have to tell every problem to family members and worry about whether they can all accept it or not becomes haunting thing, but this kind of attitude is very normal.

When you have hope that you are going to win from gambling, then even when you are supposed to stop gambling, you won’t. Your hope will keep on pushing you that if you don’t stop gambling, you are going to win. If you are really desperate to win when you are gambling, then you are likely going to get addicted to gambling at y he end. I agree that some people are gambling for the sake of money, they are just pretending they are gambling for fun, but I will tell you that some people do say that they are gambling for fun, and they are really gambling for fun. Because you are gambling for the sake of money doesn’t mean there are not people gambling just because they want to have fun.

There is always a chance of getting rid of addiction, but it's unlikely, as you said, it comes down to each individual. Unfortunately, someone who is already addicted tends to find it difficult to get out because strangely, even though they realize what they are doing is harmful, they still do it again, so it becomes an impulsive action. Because with their addiction, the problem is their thinking, and actually when someone is addicted, the impact can affect their relatives. It is true that you say, indeed most of the gamblers who return are those who are not willing to lose their money, while in gambling losing money is something that is certain to happen and is no longer strange, so inevitably you have to let the money go so that there is no rash thinking and action and great risk.

With addiction, they will usually be more courageous to do things that are risky and endanger themselves, such as borrowing money. When they are addicted and run out of money to gamble they can borrow money and this action will be carried out because of the impetus of their strong addiction so that it can have an impact on relatives and even other people who are not relatives. Because as you said, borrowing money for gambling will only be a burden in the future, not to mention being used for gambling which is not clear that it can turn things around completely.

In my opinion, the possibility of getting rid of addiction will always be a possibility in cases like this, this goes back to each individual. Usually, people who come back to play want to catch up on their losses from gambling and are not yet able to give up the money they lost in their gambling game. Indeed, the impact of gambling is very large, in cases like this they can do anything without thinking about the impact on themselves. There is a big possibility that criminal cases will definitely increase and have the biggest impact and more and more people will do it. Yes, don't borrow money from your relatives, in my opinion this is a much better thing, if you borrow, of course this will be a burden for you in the future.

In fact, self-control is one of the main keys if you or anyone does not want to experience the adverse effects of gambling, and obviously something that can make it easy for you to apply self-control in the sense of applying various restrictive measures to your gambling activities, you must first have a correct understanding of how gambling actually is. The main thing that must be considered is the negative side of gambling, namely the possibility of risk, do not just look at the chances of winning, but we must also understand other things as a whole.

Self-control will always be based on the awareness of the dangers of gambling and this awareness will certainly only be able to be possessed by someone who has a correct understanding of what activities they are actually doing. So far it is a fact that gambling addicts only think of something that looks tempting, such as winning, but they do not see the other possibility that can never be separated and will always be a part of gambling which is losing, meaning that maybe 50: 50, you can win a large amount but you can also lose an even larger amount, and this is why we always recommend not to overdo it.

That's right because they don't wants to show their stupidity to other people, even for their relatives. They will try to hide their gambling activity from their relatives but the truth is their gambling activity slowly affect their relatives life. They must realizes about that and asks for helps if they see they gets addicted to gambling so their relatives can search for a way to solve their addiction.

It's difficult to admit that we have a problem in gambling to other people because that can makes us feels bad in front of them. Only a few people can admit and tells to other people, especially their relatives and asks for help. It needs awareness from those who have a problem in gambling that they must search other people to share their problem.

Yes that may be true, the conclusion from what you said I assume that you said that a person must first ask permission from the people around them especially their family including relatives while as we know that the majority of gamblers are those who are involved secretly because they know that gambling is an activity that has a bad perspective in the eyes of society in general.

This means that there is very little chance that family, relatives or even friends will think about staying away from you or limiting their closeness to you because they don't know that you are involved in gambling. For you, maybe you will need to borrow permission from the people closest to you to involved in gambling, but the majority of people prefer to get involved in secret because they know that they will get into trouble if those closest to them find out about their involvement in gambling, meaning that it is still very possible for your family members or closest friends to affected by the impact of your gambling habits

It's obvious because winning most people do gambling the goal is to get a win so jackpots are the most desired thing by many people who do gambling. In addition, when they are addicted to gambling, it will be difficult for them to get out of gambling, even though they have lost a lot of money, it is likely that they will continue to gamble even though they have run out of money they will look for other things so that they can return to gambling, one of which is by borrowing money from family or banks.

And indeed, gambling addiction can affect the lives of our relatives, with addiction will certainly have an unusual impact. Besides being able to worsen one's own situation, it can also worsen the situation around such as with family or relatives, from this act of borrowing money can occur between the addicted party and relatives and of course this is not an act of improving the situation but only worsening the situation. It is not strange that many families are destroyed when one of the family members is addicted to gambling, so as much as possible if there is a family member who gambles it is better to be reminded not to exceed their own limits so that nothing fatal happens.