Topic: A gambler takes his own life after a loss. (Read 2842 times)

Well, one of the worst mistakes that can be made on a financial level is that money is lent to play and that is something that we must see, I have always been a supporter because if a person asks for borrowed money it is so that they can attend to an emergency request , or because it is urgently required, then because of this, for it to be used for a casino I do not see it as viable , in this order of ideas things can be very different if they go to the level of doing desperate things like these, because I consider that If a person is going to lend to play, it is because they are desperate and are probably on the verge of becoming addicted, but personally, I never recommend these types of things The only thing I recommend about lending money is in case a medical emergency arises or something that deserves it, I may even happen that it was intended to buy bitcoin, which is not bad , but not for the game.

Not all would really be that good on handling out stress and this is why on the time that they are on such tough situation then they would really be that easily break down when they cant really be able to handle the stress too much on which we know that this is something that would really be just that depending and as said every person is different when it comes to such aspect. If you are someone whose really that having that strong self will and control towards your mind and emotion then its unlikely that problems would really be able to make you decide on having some suicide.Which we do know that this is something that would really be a different story into those people who are really that weak on handling stress and this is why they do really end up into this decision on killing up themselves or having suicide on which it is really just that sad.

On the time that you do gambling then make always yourself that wary about on the situations that you are trying to dive in because we do know that when it comes to losing
money then gambling is something which is really that inevitable.

If indeed the perpetrator can overcome the situation from the impact of his own actions that is good, because we should be able to be responsible for what we do including the results of the actions we take. with those who take dangerous actions such as ending their lives because of the large amount of pressure that occurs due to their own actions, perhaps it is because they are unable and unable to overcome the downturn because of their own actions, and of course that is not true, because the right thing is to have the courage to do so you must dare to be responsible.

It's also impossible for other people to often win at the gambling they do, because in my opinion no one can win often, it's the same as having very strong luck. we must be able to have good self-control because then the gambling we do will not be excessive. Those who gamble and end up committing suicide are probably because they have too high hopes for gambling, so that hope traps themselves in a cycle that makes them suffer. . Excessive expectations invite excessive pressure, resulting in cases of gamblers committing suicide. because the gambling they do often only ends in defeat, even though that is not what they want, so they cannot accept the defeat and it makes them stressed because of the pressure of the expectations it creates.

You are right of course it depends on the mentality of a gambler how much stress he can take but in my opinion it is not good to borrow and gamble because it is not good to borrow as much as he can repay the loan. If he borrows in such a way that he cannot pay, then his mental pressure comes and then he takes that kind of decision. But I don't know that one can earn money by gambling by borrowing money, because if I gamble thinking that I will earn money by gambling, then I think I will lose more cash, so the amount of money he borrows will increase and his This type of stress is not right. However, I have seen many gamblers who have lost a lot of cash and have almost become destitute. They even had to sell their houses to borrow money, so this kind of gambling addiction can never be good for anyone.

Those who doesn't wants to tells or shares their problem to other people thinks that they can find the solutions. They thinks that they doesn't wants to makes other people worry with what happen to them so they decides to finds the solutions by themselves. But sometimes that makes other people worry, especially if other people knows about the problems. But if they can shares their problem to others, they will gets more solutions that can works properly with the situations so they doesn't needs to do many things. They do not have ends their lives because of their problems because they still have a chance to seeks for the solutions so they can solve it.

When we have a problems, we must search for the solutions and if we can share the problem to others, they will helps us to gets the right solutions. We will have a chance to solve the problem with the right solutions and doesn't needs too long to fix and solve it. We do not have to worry with the impact because with sharing to the others, we already thinks about the impacts and will knows how to prevents it.

When they playing gambling, they must allocated their money and always avoids to used much money, especially if they have needs for their family. They must not used the money for their family to playing gambling because that can makes their financial gets a trouble and they can't fills their needs. When they can allocate their money to the right place, they can playing gambling without a problem and if they can limits their gambling activity, they can prevents many problems related to gambling so they can playing gambling without worry. They must prevents the addictions because if they gets addicted to gambling, they will difficult to cure and will needs to asks helps from the others because they will not realizes that they already addicted to gambling. Their family needs to reminds and warn them about being carefully to playing gambling so they don't gets addicted to gambling. The family problems needs helps from the family so they can find the right solutions.

Yes the first step is to make a management plan and after that apply a lot of restrictions and also after that put firmness on the restrictions that you have made and then train yourself to stay firm on the precautions that you have made, make sure not to violate the rules that you have made because if you violate then this is the beginning for you to next make the same mistake which in the end you are likely to forget all the plans and restrictions that you have made before.

I understand that there are a lot of temptations that look tempting but this is gambling where most people have a hard time ignoring the temptations they see that eventually lead them to actions that will harm themselves, like you said here that they will find it difficult to impose some boundaries if they are basically too engrossed in gambling which will indirectly lead them to a more impulsive approach to gambling, and the point is that you need to be able to impose a lot of boundaries both in terms of money and time because this is the only action that can prevent you from unwanted things if you want to be involved in gambling in the long run.

It would all matters on you on which there are people who are really that be able to control their mind and emotions on the time that they would really be able to have that kind of encounter about gambling addiction.
Its true that it would really be that so damn hard for you to be able to make yourself to get out and it would really be needing that good control and discipline on which we know that this one would really differ into each person. There would really be that times that stress is something that cant be handled no matter how you would really be making yourself stood strong on which stress and anxiety
would be causing up for you to go down and this is something that you should really be watching out.

We do know that its really that hard to get rid of addiction on which it would really be better that you should really be wary on the actions
that you are making. It is really that impossible that you cant be able to determine on which one is good and which one is bad.

I think it only depends on the intensity of their condition because I also have a low or medium intensity of addiction before but I'm glad that I managed it. Even though the chance is slim, we should not think about it but instead think that we can overcome it and have a colourful life again without or even with gambling again but this time we need to do it in moderation.

You already said that winning is hard in gambling, so don't say as well that addict gamblers can see the same winners around them. We can get lucky but it's not going to happen often on the same people, if not, well that is suspicious and they can be an asset of the casino to try and lure people.

It depends on how a gambler thought. There are some gamblers who get overly concerned over the little words of others. Those gamblers get excited very quickly. At that time they feel human pressure on their own. If a gambler thinks that it is difficult for him to repay the amount he has borrowed naturally, he makes negative decisions to avoid that pressure. Since winning and losing in gambling is a very common occurrence, it should be taken for granted. But disaster strikes when some gamblers begin to think of gambling as a means of earning money and do not have the rules to manage gambling by borrowing money.

In most cases an addicted gambler will never share his addiction with others. Moreover, the addicted gambler never wants to remove from his gambling. It must be difficult to do this especially on your own. I don't think it's common for gamblers to do these things to solve their own addiction. But if it is through a third person then it is credible. But there are gamblers who make no negative comments about their addiction when they are addicted, but when they are out of addiction, they are back to their normal senses.

Your statement is really funny friend, but let me try to get you, so you are saying an addicted gambler should go and report himself to a supposed local betting shop manager that he is an addict and they should not let me play?. Well first I would like to clear that type of action can never, I repeat "can never happen" because in the first place the gambler is addicted and it's just saying someone who is drunks works up to the seller and tell him/her that he is drunk and they should not sell for him.

This is a simple truth, every stake has 2 different things in common, and they are lose or win, if you lose you should be able to console your self and when you win you should not allow the happiness to carry you away. That's the main reasons why one should always gamble with the money that they can not afford to lose, if you use your whole savings to gamble there's no reward in that even if you win the bet you staked with your whole live savings it's just by luck. You could have lost they game but since you are lucky that time you win know the dangers in it.
Even if you used your life savings on bets and you lost them that doesn't permit you to take your own life because there's is more to come, as you have been growing from small to big you will be able to survive even without money. They said one with life has a hope, anybody that's dead is dead and will not come back alive.

This decision is mainly made by those who have lost a lot of money through gambling. Maybe when he gambles and loses, what will he answer to his family. Through various tensions, maybe he comes to his own conclusion that if I end my life, then my problem will be solved. But no, this problem will not be solved like this. So everyone should learn from one's life that gambling can never bring happiness and peace to one's life. Of course, many people play gambling for fun at first. Once they become addicted to gambling, when they become addicted, they will not be able to get out of this gambling game. Due to this, they have to face family problems. They think if I end my life then I get away with it but his family has to suffer the consequences. Everyone should be spared from such a gamble.

that's true, including our own thoughts. When gambling is done, especially when we get used to it, it will gradually influence our thinking, which will increasingly want to win, because even though initially we gamble for fun, it can change at any time because gambling itself has a strong attraction, therefore it is clear that gambling can causes negative reactions, there are many gamblers who are greatly affected by gambling so that it changes their lives for the worse. As you say, a person's daily activities gradually begin to break down.

Indeed, an addict can recover or improve everything as long as he has awareness and intention as well as strong determination, after that only support from other people or people closest to him, the fact about someone who loses at gambling and ends his life does exist, because this case happened in my environment, where the perpetrator cannot withstand excessive pressure due to his own actions. It is very unfortunate that they take actions that are not the solution, because it will only make things difficult for their families who have to bear all the responsibilities when gambling, including paying off debts that the perpetrator may have incurred while gambling.

There are indeed people who doesnt really like to share up their problems or simply doesnt really like to seek some help and this is why on the time that stress and anxiety consumes them hard then this is where you would really be finding yourself to have this kind of option on taking up your life because you've been thinking that there's no other solution that you could really be able to think off.
You would really be having that kind of option on taking up your life on solving out everything on which we know that it is really just that  waste of life on having something like this.

We do know that when it comes to problems then it would really be having that corresponding solution on which it would really be just just right that you would really be that
thinking about being positive in the way you do live. Dont easily give up and make tolerate with your emotions because you would really be ending up on something like this.

That's what people do when they face a problem and don't knows where they must search for the answer. They will sharing their problems to other people and asks for helps to solved their problems. But some people doesn't wants to shares their problems to other people because they thinks that they can still gets the ways out and solve their problems. They don't thinks that by sharing their problems, they can gets more solutions from other people so they can adjusts all of the solutions with their situations and find the one that suits their position. But no matter if you shares your problems to other people, if you don't have self controls, you will not get the solutions and you will makes a shorts decision to ends your lives. This is happens to many people who have a big problem in gambling but they can't gets the solutions to ends their problems. They thinks that when they ends their lives, their problems will ends. But that's not right because their family will gets their problem.

I think it's not the problem of losing at gambling, there are many reasons behind it because as a businessman, the psychology of the business person facing bankruptcy is many times, it is impossible to have a weak mentality and falling a little will cause them to commit suicide, hidden corners and negative stories gather together to lead to such results. Although relatively unclear, this will be a lesson for others to know that the effects of gambling are not simple, this shortcut can easily make us move to another world.

so throughout your gambling you should also take the time to practice yourself so that no matter what happens you will not become addicted to it, you should be able to allocate your time and budget to other things and don't get too absorbed in gambling because once that you really get used to it and you do it again and again, it becomes habitual until addiction develops. It is difficult to control because you have to give your full dedication to achieve this thing so that even if you have been gambling for a long time, you can say that gambling has not caused you any harm.

Basically those who are new to gambling usually play gambling for fun but at a time when they become addicted to gambling they have an addiction to how they can earn money through gambling. Whenever it gets into their heads that we will make money by gambling, once they lose the money they become violent to get the money back. Once they become addicted to gambling then they themselves do not understand how they became addicted to gambling. If they become addicted like this their family is very damaged for all of them because gambling can never bring happiness and peace to anyone's life.  

Gambling creates a negative reaction in us gambling affects every aspect of a person's daily activities and gradually begins to disintegrate. Deviation from economic social and other matters. Such organizations should be truly grateful as such financial support is usually provided by very few organizations. An addict can overcome addiction if he wants to but it needs proper counseling and support. A gambler can recover in his life by helping the organizations at the right time.

It's terrible to hear of your gambling dependency, but I'm equally glad you've overcome it and are doing well today. But it's extremely significant to acknowledge the warning signs of addiction and get help if need be, that is seeking for assist from a support authority because certain individuals get into serious financial trouble as a result of gambling, and it can be extremely challenging to get out of it, I mean for the person to pay up his debt on time, in this they are advised to meet organizations who have the capacity to take the accountability on individuals, that is to say, such organizations help individuals to pay off their debts.