Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. - page 11. (Read 1527 times)

Obviously, they know the risk behind gambling but greed will not let them be, they will make decisions that will hurt them and when it doesn't favour them, they manipulate people around them, greed people are insatiable with this habit. When they have money, they spend recklessly the way they want and when they notice that the money is going zero, they risk it to bet thinking the money can be double and if this don't happen, they cry victim. Almost everybody on earth knows what gambling is about and she knows exactly what she was going into, she is not a baby.


The subject says it's a she and you are consoling her as a he. 
Don't act like you don't know that they know what gambling is/was about, even if she don't know. She could have just try it with a few dollars and see the outcome and if it's not favorable thing to play, she could have stop but from OP explanations, she lost a bet and was looking for sympathy with cry, is that how life works. Next time, she will learn better, life itself is not fair.

A woman who has lost all her money, who has weak nerves, and who cannot bear defeat Another thing is interesting: if she had such a reaction, what was she thinking about when she started playing? What will definitely bring her luck? Here, I agree with the OP; she is either a fool or a sick fool. Just assuming that everyone has to win completely defeats the purpose of the game, but yes, that's how it was for her. She's not ready to lose. However, men can cry too. And that's not the worst thing. It’s scary when a person bets everything on which his life depends. And then, having lost, you simply cannot console yourself with tears.

Seeing someone cry over a loss, public or private, is heartbreaking. Right? We've all been there. Why is it surprising when we lose when we know the odds are against us? Eat spicy cuisine and be surprised it's hot. Digression...

She may have cried to release steam. Coping techniques are universal. Some people gamble without comprehending it, which bothers me. The game requires strategy, control, and comprehension, not luck. Although I've lost bets, I didn't cry in the streets. That's my thing.

Don't forget that casinos are companies, not pals. Money is their goal. Before betting, why not talk to yourself?

Gambling is about gambling in a responsible way and not to use a huge amount of money that you can not afford to lose to gamble. Gambling can be for the weak minded people if they are not using huge amount but small amount to be gambling and having very small gambling budget. Assuming I have $1000, I can gamble with $10 to gamble and be happy even if I am a weak minded person.

This sad story is very interesting and its making me even want to laugh rather than having empathy for her.This is happening to people everyday,and they are not crying or complaining because they are aware that gambling is not something friendly,It is something one needs to be very careful about because the moment you are addicted to it,you won't have any control about yourself again,the little money that comes into your hand,you will definitely use it to gamble.I can't blame her for crying because she is just a woman,and she doesn't know what men are facing in order to make money.
Atleast she would know that being a man is not easy,and won't blame people that are addicted to the game,because she now has experience about it.

It's funny, and very immature of her, why expose herself online after losing her money? Is this move going to return her money to her? Or she did do this so that people could have pity on her and maybe they would refund her money? I found this to be very funny, I am sorry for that.

It's possible that I am right and people like her will still have hope in gambling after losing a lot, she might end up having some money again and still go back to gambling, thinking she can make back the money again.

I do hope she learns a real lesson and either quits gambling or learns how to be a responsible gambler, these are the two choices left to take, some people just get up from their bed one day and decide to start taking risks on something they have no idea about.

Is it true that she cried because she lost a sports bet? because in my opinion, the picture doesn't show anything clear that she can cry because of anything and the picture is only used to make the news look legit.
Gambling must be done with caution and responsibility, never think that gambling is about winning because the chances of losing are just as big even when we bet at odds below 1.10, because unexpected things can still happen.
Maybe the woman used the money for important things and hoped to double it but the opposite happened.
However, it is quite rare for women to express themselves about the gambling they do because it is not a common thing.

How stupid to see someone crying just because they lose in gambling .
and more specially here is that a woman in which I cant see big reason how she needs to gamble when she can have more things to do in life.
because she is greedy enough to trust gambling system to make her instant rich ...

But it seems he will learn from his mistakes, sometimes gambling requires failure and loss to enable him to learn better in the future, I'm sure he will stay away from gambling and really think that it is a game full of risks and he will not touching him again after his defeat, I have felt what he felt since the first time I played gambling and was taught by my friend who encouraged me at that time.

I don't blame my friend at that time for encouraging me to gamble, it was my fault, because I was the one who decided and had the choice to refuse it, but I continued to try to gamble and ended up losing so my money ran out and in the end I could only be silent that I was wrong gambling with the desire to get rich quickly, apparently gambling is not a place that can provide instant wealth, that's clearly a lie, I hope he learns a lot after that because crying is also useless

I don't know whether to feel sorry or laugh, but it's just funny to see people cry after losing from gambling. I know it's really annoying when you lose from gambling and I've felt that too, I was very annoyed and felt like slamming my computer after the loss, but I realized that it was just a game and the risk of losing money was definitely there and like it or not we had to accept that risk. And gamblers should understand this risk because it is normal to lose money on gambling and we have to accept that.

if he knows gambling hurts him why should he follow it. not many people are ruined by gambling. he knows the limits in gambling. He should be an adult at that age and can think about that. but if it's like this, wouldn't it be a good idea to take him to a psychology doctor? I'm sure that can help him.

The truth is obvious to the gambler's psychology, and the difference is evident when the gambler has experienced the feeling long enough to realize that it is necessary to control emotions before playing games. It certainly isn't everything, so don't let it dictate the opposite. I'm not unfamiliar with gamblers reporting debt and getting stuck, but honestly if they were smart enough from the beginning they could choose. Choose to take less risks in life. And most of these games cause gamblers to fail, not win.

Well.. I hope that she learns from her mistake. These sort of issues arise when people who are new to gambling indulge in it, without learning about the rules and possible consequences. A lot of people start like this. Some of them are scarred with the initial experience and never venture again. Some others learn from their mistakes and become more responsible for their actions. And then there is the last category, who lose their mental balance and start chasing after the losses. And we all know which group will end up in big trouble. 

These person and people like her are sick. They are not right in the head. They think it will solve all of their problems if they win but they won’t stop playing either way. It is because winning or losing don’t matter to them. They just want to keep playing. They need to take professional help for their addiction because it affects their mental health. This woman is a great example. Imagine this woman being your mom. What a shitty luck for the kids. She would spend her kids’ food money on gambling. You may think I am exaggerating it but we all know there are people like that all around us.

all a woman can do when she is disappointed is cry and I think this problem is very normal when she loses a bet and loses her money because if men are considered not to be crybabies maybe when they lose there will be many male gamblers who cry at gambling after seeing their money run out in gambling and in this case this reminds me of a story in another thread when a woman cried when she won big at a slot game but the casino refused to pay out.
In this scenario, it is almost the same as what the OP told, its just a different story, but still women always cry when they are disappointed.
thats why female gamblers have the wrong mindset about how gambling works, even male gamblers also have the same mindset regarding gambling as a place to double their money even though they are often given advice that gamble responsibly using money they can afford to lose and control their emotions when betting. so you dont get disappointed when you lose.
unfortunately, they ignore this problem and can only regret it if they have lost their entire budget.

Why give a damn meaning if she cries on loss? Isn't it a human nature? Isn't it even more comforting if she voiced out that expression rather than keep it to herself? Sooner or later, if she's really eager to be a good sports bettor, those losses will be bearable from now.

Give her time. She will realize what's the best thing to do next.

Gambling is not on us if for more years in gambling, we don't even hit a good win.

She had posted it to the social media. Though it looks funny, it needs to be taken in the right way creating awareness. Many gamblers after losing have the urge of crying likewise, but they keep it within themselves. She had cried and this gives her some relaxation. People who aren't expressive used to have suicidal thoughts. She looks expressive and through this she had reached the people and surely she'll get mental support. Quite often we were able to see more and more similar News coming out of Nigeria. More rehabilitation and awareness is required in the country.

Now a days,many lady get into the gambling after the awareness about the gambling.But the gambler should able to face the loss.If the gambler is boy,they will take this as an lesson and move on.Crying is not the solution for the loss.Either the woman should take this lesson and try to compensate their wiln in the upcoming games.The woman was softest soul in the world,So they won’t control their emotion into the gambling.By this knowing,our anchester had teach the woman gambling as the sin to the family.

I saw cases like these of people who put money into sports betting and lost everything and then started crying a lot on social media, I still remember to this day the woman I saw crying, she didn't even understand what there was a difference between investment sites and investment sites. gambling, this is because according to her, she was watching videos on YouTube when she saw a YouTube channel of a very famous person saying that there was a website where people could put money and it increased a lot in a few minutes. The woman then decided to create an account on that website, she was not aware that she was in front of a casino, after creating an account, submitting documents and making a deposit, she saw a YouTube channel telling how she should bet

but on the YouTube channel they didn't tell her which game she should have bet on, so she assumed that she could just bet on any game that saw 2.00, she didn't even know what 2.00 meant and she bet and lost everything. She had bet $1000 and lost everything, then she saw that the site's account balance no longer had the $1000, so she asked the site's support where the $1000 went and the site's support told her that she had lost the $1000. $ in the game she bet on. The lady asked for her money back, but the support told her that it was impossible to get the money back because she lost the bet she made. So she started recording videos crying and explaining everything that happened to her.

This shows that there are misleading advertisements that can lead people to enter the world of gambling without knowing it. I don't know how real this op lady's story is or not, but the story I told is real and that casino has already been banned from that country for shady practices, paying influencers to deceive and deceive other people into depositing at the casino.

People who cry or are sad because they lost gambling are people who misinterpret what gambling really is, they definitely think that gambling is the best and fastest way to make money, come on.. that is wrong thinking.  If you gamble once or twice and then you lose then you should think again about whether to continue or stop because it could indicate that you are not suitable for gambling.  gambling is not for the weak and mentally unstable, i hope there are many important lessons that this woman has learned.