Topic: A Lady Cried After Losing to Sports Bet. Gambling is Not Your Mate. - page 12. (Read 2143 times)

Well.. I hope that she learns from her mistake. These sort of issues arise when people who are new to gambling indulge in it, without learning about the rules and possible consequences. A lot of people start like this. Some of them are scarred with the initial experience and never venture again. Some others learn from their mistakes and become more responsible for their actions. And then there is the last category, who lose their mental balance and start chasing after the losses. And we all know which group will end up in big trouble. 

These person and people like her are sick. They are not right in the head. They think it will solve all of their problems if they win but they won’t stop playing either way. It is because winning or losing don’t matter to them. They just want to keep playing. They need to take professional help for their addiction because it affects their mental health. This woman is a great example. Imagine this woman being your mom. What a shitty luck for the kids. She would spend her kids’ food money on gambling. You may think I am exaggerating it but we all know there are people like that all around us.

all a woman can do when she is disappointed is cry and I think this problem is very normal when she loses a bet and loses her money because if men are considered not to be crybabies maybe when they lose there will be many male gamblers who cry at gambling after seeing their money run out in gambling and in this case this reminds me of a story in another thread when a woman cried when she won big at a slot game but the casino refused to pay out.
In this scenario, it is almost the same as what the OP told, its just a different story, but still women always cry when they are disappointed.
thats why female gamblers have the wrong mindset about how gambling works, even male gamblers also have the same mindset regarding gambling as a place to double their money even though they are often given advice that gamble responsibly using money they can afford to lose and control their emotions when betting. so you dont get disappointed when you lose.
unfortunately, they ignore this problem and can only regret it if they have lost their entire budget.

Why give a damn meaning if she cries on loss? Isn't it a human nature? Isn't it even more comforting if she voiced out that expression rather than keep it to herself? Sooner or later, if she's really eager to be a good sports bettor, those losses will be bearable from now.

Give her time. She will realize what's the best thing to do next.

Gambling is not on us if for more years in gambling, we don't even hit a good win.

She had posted it to the social media. Though it looks funny, it needs to be taken in the right way creating awareness. Many gamblers after losing have the urge of crying likewise, but they keep it within themselves. She had cried and this gives her some relaxation. People who aren't expressive used to have suicidal thoughts. She looks expressive and through this she had reached the people and surely she'll get mental support. Quite often we were able to see more and more similar News coming out of Nigeria. More rehabilitation and awareness is required in the country.

Now a days,many lady get into the gambling after the awareness about the gambling.But the gambler should able to face the loss.If the gambler is boy,they will take this as an lesson and move on.Crying is not the solution for the loss.Either the woman should take this lesson and try to compensate their wiln in the upcoming games.The woman was softest soul in the world,So they won’t control their emotion into the gambling.By this knowing,our anchester had teach the woman gambling as the sin to the family.

I saw cases like these of people who put money into sports betting and lost everything and then started crying a lot on social media, I still remember to this day the woman I saw crying, she didn't even understand what there was a difference between investment sites and investment sites. gambling, this is because according to her, she was watching videos on YouTube when she saw a YouTube channel of a very famous person saying that there was a website where people could put money and it increased a lot in a few minutes. The woman then decided to create an account on that website, she was not aware that she was in front of a casino, after creating an account, submitting documents and making a deposit, she saw a YouTube channel telling how she should bet

but on the YouTube channel they didn't tell her which game she should have bet on, so she assumed that she could just bet on any game that saw 2.00, she didn't even know what 2.00 meant and she bet and lost everything. She had bet $1000 and lost everything, then she saw that the site's account balance no longer had the $1000, so she asked the site's support where the $1000 went and the site's support told her that she had lost the $1000. $ in the game she bet on. The lady asked for her money back, but the support told her that it was impossible to get the money back because she lost the bet she made. So she started recording videos crying and explaining everything that happened to her.

This shows that there are misleading advertisements that can lead people to enter the world of gambling without knowing it. I don't know how real this op lady's story is or not, but the story I told is real and that casino has already been banned from that country for shady practices, paying influencers to deceive and deceive other people into depositing at the casino.

People who cry or are sad because they lost gambling are people who misinterpret what gambling really is, they definitely think that gambling is the best and fastest way to make money, come on.. that is wrong thinking.  If you gamble once or twice and then you lose then you should think again about whether to continue or stop because it could indicate that you are not suitable for gambling.  gambling is not for the weak and mentally unstable, i hope there are many important lessons that this woman has learned.

It's kind of funny though, someone posted her TikTok here so I went to check and she had some videos about "thinking about her future" or something along those lines, then a few videos after here we go. Not really something you'd consider when you're "thinking" of the future. There's also some stuff about suicide I think so really, what she needs here isn't to post to social media crying about losing money to gambling, she needs a therapist. Not exactly the kind of combination you want in your life, gambling + suicidal thoughts.

Kinda confusing as well why she even posted it as a TikTok video. Like why even?

I'll stop you right there.

I don't think it's constructive to call anyone weak minded just because are more vulnerable to addictions. And i tell you why:

It takes guts to admit one has a problem, and as long as it's seen as shameful and weak condition, people rather live in denial and say themselves that they don't have a gambling problem, then see them selves as weak minded. Coming out from the addict closed should be normalized and seen confessions as a thing that honourable people do.

And yes, gambling is not for everyone, but an addiction doesn't make them weak minded.

People like her needs guidance from the professionals. Why? Because with this incident, this can go worse than what was her reaction after losing her money in sports betting.

She for sure didn't anticipated that she's going to lose or if she knows that losing has got higher chance, she's just surprised with the outcome instead that she expected to win a lot.

Next thing is that, she might do more when she continue to gamble and if she understands the risk and the importance of what's in it for her as she gambles, it's scary what she might do next aside from crying and feeling sorry for herself about her losses.

I bet she was smiling before she took that bet because she might have been sure about it if she put a lot of money into that team or whatever she picked.
This is crazy. She didn't know the risk she took in the first place and that is why she cries at the end.
A person will become emotional if he/she uses the money that must be meant for something important, irresponsible gambling. I call this passive begging if she posted her photo on social media crying because she lost. She wants other people to have pity on her and maybe get some funds from them so that she could have something to bet again or just the money being returned.
A good lesson for her. She wouldn't be crying if she hadn't taken the risk, staying away from gambling is better.

It looks like the lady got hooked on sports betting and got addicted eventually.  She got an uncontrolled urge so she bets all her money and lost them.  The thought of her addiction to sports betting were supported by her claim and message that sports betting is addictive.  She cry due to the frustration that she lost a huge sum of money and possibly doesn't know how to recover or re-earn it.

This is the problem with people who think gambling is the easiest way to earn money only to find out that their wealth are sucked out due to their uncontrolled manners when it comes to gambling.

This is another reason why one shouldn't expect  good news all the time in gambling. Gambling is a game of chance and luck the ability of an individual to win doesn't make him the champion and losing in gambling doesn't mean you don't know how to gamble it only means its not your lucky day so I think anyone who's interested in gambling should be ready to accept the good news who may be few and the bad news which is always more then the good news. For the lady in the picture, I don't know the amount might have staked that's making her to cry but she should understand that she must be willing to accept losses if she's interested in gambling because tears alone cannot help here to win.

We've got a detective here, folks!

She looks like she could use a hug right now

There's some things we cannot change, like getting drunk and sleeping with someone we didn't want to. We're people we make mistakes and she made some herself.
She's crying because the realization is setting in. She'll be all right when the wave of emotions goes away.

I never cry like that because I treat the money like it's lost. I think about my situation if I lose the bet and get ready for what's coming. She forgot to do it.

Women are very emotional, so i expect her to cry even more than this regardless of that being her first attempt or not, it is very rare seing women gambling except they received an offer to do so freely without them paying any dime, one of the things women enjoy doing are what comes out of platter of gold for them without any demands, they prefer saving than spending, a woman is not as bold as a man to the extent of them being able to cope with losses with gambling.

I don't get why people need to take a video of themselves crying and posting it on social media afterwards. I get that you're frustrated and sad because of what happened, but isn't that something that you should take ownership because it's a consequence of what you did? If she can't handle the loss, then she shouldn't be gambling in the first place. Why would you pursue something that you aren't ready to face failures with? Pretty sure that money that she used is for something far more important than gambling, that's why her reaction is just like that.

I'd laugh in front of her if I was there.

Indeed, the standard is, when we want to enter the world of gambling or carry out betting activities, we really have to be prepared, both financially, mentally, emotionally and various other things related to our ability to gamble. but unfortunately most people don't realize it or even realize it but ignore it. What they have in mind when they gamble is that they can win and get a lot of money, but unfortunately it won't be that easy.

And so I have to tracked this lady,

https://www.tiktok.com/@just_that_girl_divine/video/7286400477812624645

She mentioned one gambling sites, but I will say that I'm not familiar with it. But in any case, we all know that gambling is all based on luck and so she doesn't have it that day, so eventually she losses. What's scary though is the thought that she wants to commit suicide, so maybe this is her first time to gamble?

Maybe she thought gambling was like a bed of roses and started celebrating early even before her final game was played, whereby maybe she might have been overconfident that her last game was going to play as predicted, but unfortunately, it played the opposite. And this should stand to be a lesson to every other person to ensure from this day forward to only gamble with the amount of money they can always afford to lose, and not put all hope in gambling, as it is like a double edge sword where you are likely to win or lose, and whichever comes your way, you accept it in good faith.