From self evaluation and the evaluation of a few gamblers around me, i have observed that over time due to gambling activity, some characters worthy of emulation have been unconsciously developed by some.
Some of the characters that i have observed from the life of a few core gamblers around me and myself are;
-Development of Risk taking ability; to win big in life, you must be willing to try, and gamblers have so developed their risk taking ability.
-Development of the ability to quickly let go of things and move on; Dwelling on the past and the possibility of "what could have been" is really not healthy and it can weigh you down and distract you from "what can be". Though not so easy, gamblers have developed this ability to easily look ahead from the "near win" of yesterday, to try again today.
-Positive mentality (that is always believing that everyday we gamble, it may just be our lucky day for the big win).
- Consistency/ Not quiting attitude; Always trying regardless of previous results.
If you see yourself as a gambler, i implore you to put yourself in perspective and please share any positive trait that has been developed in your life as a result of gambling.
PS: The purpose of this discussion is not in any way to encourage you to gamble more, but a pointer to show that amidst the dark clouds, there is still a silver lining.
Maybe you got lucky and found the 1 out of a hundred gamblers who are able to stay relatively stable. There are also different levels of gamblers and that can make a huge difference to these personality traits - there are some who are completely addicted and the next bet will be on their mind as soon as they wake up, along with where to scrape the money together for it. There are others who will think of gambling as a fun side hobby, who might place a bet on the weekend to make watching the games a bit more exciting but could take it or leave it. I think if you've got control of your life and could stop at any time, then these traits can be good.