Topic: Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting - page 41. (Read 7496 times)

Sometimes it's not easy to give advice to others that's why it's hard to cure an addict or advise someone to avoid addiction, obviously it's very difficult if it's not based on oneself because as far as I know having a friend who is an addict is rather difficult to tell him that gambling must be self-controlled and play not too seriously.

But most people always think the advice of other people is a joke so those who ignore advice will get carried away with gambling too deeply so that they become addicts, talking about losses, the thing we must realize before gambling is that gambling has a high risk of losing money and loss, so it's best to limit the hours and budget for gambling because it's better.

When we can have limits and also control ourselves, it would be better to suggest and provide some tips so that other gamblers can also immediately have limits when gambling.
In my opinion, being able to be useful and also giving good things to others is a joy, especially if what we suggest can actually be achieved by the people we help.
The only way to reduce losses is to stop gambling for a moment when you have experienced a loss so that you don't get out of control and chase that loss.

The important thing is that we can limit ourselves to playing gambling so we don't get too deep into gambling. With the limits we make, it will make us realize that playing gambling has limits and will not give us the results we always want, so we have to know ourselves. And we also have to reduce the number of losses and not use big money bets because that will make us lose money quickly.

We have to be responsible with the money we gamble with and by limiting the amount of money we know that is enough to keep us from losing more money. But it would be even better if we had high discipline so that we don't exceed the limits we can afford. Otherwise, we will only lose even more money. It's better for us to play it safe and gamble with the money we can afford than to regret seeing the loss of big money later.

There are people that may not know when they are going too far into gambling so it is wise if they have someone that will be helping them make a better decisions when they are gambling. Gambling is something that if we are too devoted to it, it can make us keep making the wrong decisions that can make us become an addict by all means. There are people that are passing through difficult time ams to afford a single meal is a problem for them and the only way they could help themselves is to going into gambling fully and earn money to take of there bills and responsibilities.

The thing is a habit is easy to be developed but very hard to quit, and most time people fail to acknowledge their habit even though it's bad so far they're making profit from it, for instance it would be very difficult to talk a friend or relative who makes daily profit of $100 or more from gambling out of it because he or she has already taken it as a stream of earning, sometimes it takes them to make mistakes and learn from it because then they'll realise the harmful effect of their bad habits. but there's no harm in trying to encourage them out of it before they make mistakes especially when you're a very close relative of the person cause a terrible mistake by them might also affect you too.

 There are some other people who figure out there addiction themselves and even know the consequences if they don't take corrections but have refused take accountability of it sometimes due to pride, the requirements demanded of them to desist from such addiction, or even feeling too big to be advise by family members especially when they're the eldest.

 An addiction is not very easy to quit so as a family or friend or relative to an addicted person,you have to tolerate their character also be patient with them till they repent from it, while letting them know the consequences of their addiction, encourage them  to go for counselling or therapy,introduce them to activities that would distract them from gamblimg, like movies, hiking, picnics etc.

With that limit as well you can balance your time aside from the money that you will going to spend, that basic rules of following whatever you set up when you start playing, it's a must do to avoid exceeding and to avoid making a big mistake then regret after. You are the one who's in control, so better to make sure that you will not break that limit.

On that note, you will be safe and you can continue the enjoyment with a lesser chance of losing that much.

Rightly said.
The best appraisal is the one given by oneself. At the point of digress no matter how close someone is to you, they will have to time and moderate their speeches in order not to offend the victim. As you already noted, some humans are bossy in nature and hardly admit their mistakes. These kind of people are difficult to advice and when you insist, it may lead to quarrelling.

The worse thing that can happen to a man is when they are very much insensitive to the matters relating them and secondly, when one is untruthful to themselves.

People shouldn't gamble in casinos that are not provably fair in the first place, and if they do without making sure about that and then lose money either in a fair way or by the casino scamming them, it's totally their own fault. I would never deposit money and gamble with a casino that I know isn't provably fair and doesn't allow me to verify every single bet that I've made because that is shady as hell otherwise they would never be worried about me verifying the bets.

So, anyone willing to gamble on a platform should first check these things and then deposit money, if you trust the casino already and you know it has been around for some time and the whole community believes in it, you can go ahead, but if it's a new platform, your responsibility is to check everything first and then start gambling with them.

That's right and having balance limits when gambling is very important and must be set by most gamblers so that they don't lose large amounts of money faster and can control every game or bet that is made.
Many people have suggested having limits or controls, but unfortunately not all gamblers are aware of this.
That is why until now there are still so many gamblers who have lost big things in their lives.

that is why it is necessary to have a budget that must be limited so that all expenses must be regular even though gambling is too deep as long as the budget can still be limited and consistent, of course it will not make us feel like we are losing, because gambling in a controlled manner and limiting playing time including a budget will not make us addicts . that's the advice I got from a grandfather who was crazy about gambling.

People who hurt themselves usually tend not to know how they limit their gambling so they focus more on the game and spending the money they have no matter how much they spend as long as they still have a chance to catch up on their losses they will never stop because it will not be controlled.

If it happens to us frequently, we must learn self-control to prevent it from happening again because the pleasure that comes to us can make us forget to control ourselves and stop before things get worse. It is our responsibility as people who play gambling because it is our money and we shouldn't use a lot of money to gamble if we can't see what will happen later.

The limits we set can help us avoid losing more money and besides that, we can stop on time so we can still have some balance left in our gambling account. With these limits, we can protect ourselves when playing gambling to prevent the possibility of gambling addiction.

Some people put their self into trouble whenever the playing gambling, an intelligent gamblers have to know directly that a particular amount of it suppose to betting or staking in gambling every week, some people doesn't know the particular amount they spend in gambling and that is why when a some gamblers lose their tickets they always feel pains but when you stake knowing you may win or lose that is when you lose gambling it will not affect you

In essence one who has got no one to talk them would be stock with the habit?
I don't think so.

I for one, I think everybody gambler who is sound mentally always underands what is been lost in the days or times that they do lose, playing on the house. It's not something extra ordinary, you get the clear picture of what yiu came with and what your left with if your left with anything at all. You know what is left behind at home or in the bank and you realise as well the time it would take you to accumulate.

It's just that simple, your either ready and willing to work on yourself or you just have to keep paying the price when you've got a negative approach towards gambling.

One of the problems many people have is that it is difficult to evaluate ourselves fairly as we have a huge bias towards ourselves, however if we are incapable of doing so then we need to rely on other people to tell us the truth, however this can be a burden for those people as even if they can see you have issues it is going to be difficult for them to express their opinions, and when we add that many people are not going to be willing to admit their mistakes then this makes their job even harder.

Yeah it will continue to develop if you will keep yourself engage on it, even at the beginning your intentions just to kill some time and not really after the money that you will going to win if luck permits you, but eventually if that enjoyment already keeps coming in your mind you will just find yourself keep aiming to play more.

It's better to set your limitation and make sure that whatever happened, you will continue to follow that limits and you will do your best not to exceed to avoid any chance of getting addicted.

The major issue is that the victims don't often realise they are going farther in gambling and betting. It is the friends or relatives around that will keep telling them that they are deviating from norms but they will hardly understand and agree. It is only when it has gotten to extreme that the victim will realise and begin seek for help. At this time it is addiction which may likely be cured or not.
It is best when everyone has that one friend they listen to who can advise them whe  they are going on the wrong lane.

Very well articulated point my friend, "the house always wins" is a mindset that has been registered and stamped in the world of gambling, simply because there was never a protest of any kind in regards to this, everyone, both casinos and gamblers have come to believe this as normal, and you know what?, this has made the work easier for every casinos, as some of the dubious ones now hide under this general believe, use it as a medium to build casinos, implement systems that gradually and maybe most times unnoticeably scamming users , and when any user notices and tries to raise an eye brow, most of the reply is "the house always wins", this also explains why some casinos still cheat customers even on games believed to be provably fair .

And most people will not be aware of continuing to play even when they need more money. It also doesn't make them realize that they have spent much money just to play gambling. Everyone must possess discipline, regardless of whether they gamble or don't gamble but don't have it. And for people who gamble, when they don't have discipline in gambling, it will only make them fall into gambling and from there, a gambling addiction will emerge, eventually worsening.

We realize that we have gone too far in gambling but refuse to admit it and instead keep gambling. And sooner or later, we will become addicted to gambling and if we don't want to realize it and decide to stop, we will become addicted. We really have to care for ourselves when playing gambling and not experience the same thing as other people addicted to gambling.

That's why I never thought that I would beat the house whereas the house will always win against us at any time, be it in the short or long term, so don't fight them but use common sense, play the mindset so you don't fall into an addict where every gambler has a chance to become addict, so everything is in self control

Many people are always tempted by quick cash which is why casinos have always been a place for lazy gamblers looking to make some quick bucks, so that in the end it will be a disappointment too. if only people could play realizing that playing wisely it is certain that in the long run they would not become bad gamblers let alone become addicts as long as playing with responsibility it is the key to success in gambling.

Self control is always be the main issue of people who do really engage on gambling on which on the time that you cant really be able to stop midway on the time that you are aware that you are losing that much then

this is the time that you would really be putting up yourself into such huge trouble later on when it comes to finances and since you cant be able to stop then you would really get wrecked with gambling and this is something that you should have able to avoid if you do have that kind of self awareness in regarding on the actions that you are making. Going bit far with gambling? You shouldn't really make yourself
come into this kind of point because if you do then it would be too late and you would really be having those kind of regrets on which it is something that you should have avoided it on the first place.

This is why on the time that you do engage with gambling then you should really be that sensible on whatever actions that you would be making so that you would be able to avoid yourself
on such situation.