With what things you are unhappy in your life without sex? Do you have any dreams? And are you self confident or you have communicating problems. Or what problems you have without sex or are unhappy with and would like to change?
I am still struggling with self esteem, but sex fixes that, at least during it. I think knowing that I can still get a woman to sleep with me makes me feel awesome, then after I feel like crap because I know the person I am with I love, and I am destroying my relationship.
Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?
it's not sex he's worrying about. it's with random people. he's obviously the Devil
Obviously
I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.
I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?
are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?
As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading. Face, ass, etc.
This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?
p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.
Yes, I have a significant other, and a child with her. She knows I have an issue, but not the full extent.
I think I agree with the misogyny. It stems from not being popular in school, and having a hard time making friends. Now I feel like I can take revenge on women because of it. I have also sought out people who I did not get along with in school, and seduced their wives/gfs.
Yes I can understand that. Being unpopular in school is very dis-empowering. Probably more so from girls. It also explains why you're unconcerned about lying to them to get what you want. You might even enjoy that aspect? It sounds like to some extent this is all about regaining your power as a person/ego.
I have similar tendencies (misogyny) myself which I've only recently realised the full extent of. It's kind of sad really; to have such a negative relationship to half the human race :/
I do enjoy the aspect of being able to say whatever I need to say to get a woman to get sexual. It's almost a pride thing, that I am able to do this.
Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?
it's not sex he's worrying about. it's with random people. he's obviously the Devil
If talking about random people, I again see big money there. You could make porn videos where you find random person on the street and offer him sex for $5k and he will likely accept It. You put those videos on porn sites and you make very good money, but that's not the point probably.
I have been asked why I didnt get into porn by many partners. Until a few years ago, I thought I was average, since watching porn will get you a misguided image of what average is. I was under the impression that when I was told I was very large, it was just a lie. I now know that I am well above average.
Doing porn for men is not a well paying job, unless you are doing gay porn. I am not willing to go that far, as of yet.
