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legendary
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With what things you are unhappy in your life without sex? Do you have any dreams? And are you self confident or you have communicating problems. Or what problems you have without sex or are unhappy with and would like to change?
newbie
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Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.
Most accurate count I can come up with is around 150. That's not an exaggeration. It may be a low count also.
Ok so you had sex with 150+ women..! thats a huge number and I read your early posts on this thread where you said you are not much cautious about your safety during sex.... I must say " Not a good choice "

I am between 25-35.  I prefer not to name exact age, as I want tostay annon.
Isn't this ask me anything thread , and you claimed you'll answer everything honestly


Surprisingly most would agree to hook up again, regardless of tthem knowing by then that all I wanted was to have sex,
Not so surprised because that exactly what they wanted too Smiley you are not the only sex addict on this planet.

I will answer honestly but I will not reveal info that may reveal who I am.  If you can't handle that, that is your problem.  You may stop reading if thats an issue.






sr. member
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Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.
Most accurate count I can come up with is around 150. That's not an exaggeration. It may be a low count also.
Ok so you had sex with 150+ women..! thats a huge number and I read your early posts on this thread where you said you are not much cautious about your safety during sex.... I must say " Not a good choice "

I am between 25-35.  I prefer not to name exact age, as I want tostay annon.
Isn't this ask me anything thread , and you claimed you'll answer everything honestly


Surprisingly most would agree to hook up again, regardless of tthem knowing by then that all I wanted was to have sex,
Not so surprised because that exactly what they wanted too Smiley you are not the only sex addict on this planet.



newbie
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I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?


are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?

 As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.

Yes, I have a significant other, and a child with her.  She knows I have an issue, but not the full extent.  

I think I agree with the misogyny.  It stems from not being popular in school, and having a hard time making friends.  Now I feel like I can take revenge on women because of it.  I have also sought out people who I did not get along with in school, and seduced their wives/gfs.  


Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

I am sure I want to stop.  200%

I am into sports pretty heavily in life. But sex outweighs all, specifically with random new people.


legendary
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Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?
newbie
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most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours.  

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?

As stated before, I am currently seeing a woman who is a sex addict as well. 

The sex with new women is definitely the thrill.  I have received oral from a man before, as well, although I do not consider myself bi or gay.  To me, it was just another way to get a release.

Wow you surprise me , only 36 hours.. So If you had sex even with a man and enjoyed It, then probably It's all about excitement for you, but If man excited you I would say you could be bi, because straight guys just wouldn't do that probably. And why would you want "another sex addict" I don't think there is any difference between sex addict who is having sex and  normal horny people who wants sex, or you want to have sex addict to be couple with?

I did not enjoy the man part, especially right after.  Was very awkward.

And I didnt seek out another sex addict, she just happened to be one.  I could care less about the person I am sleeping with's status, etc.
eid
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I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship.

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?


are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?

 As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.
legendary
Activity: 938
Merit: 1000
most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours.  

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?

As stated before, I am currently seeing a woman who is a sex addict as well. 

The sex with new women is definitely the thrill.  I have received oral from a man before, as well, although I do not consider myself bi or gay.  To me, it was just another way to get a release.

Wow you surprise me , only 36 hours.. So If you had sex even with a man and enjoyed It, then probably It's all about excitement for you, but If man excited you I would say you could be bi, because straight guys just wouldn't do that probably. And why would you want "another sex addict" I don't think there is any difference between sex addict who is having sex and  normal horny people who wants sex, or you want to have sex addict to be couple with?
newbie
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If you like sex and can't live without It and you also love to meet new girls and have sex with them, you could try being a gigolo (male prostitute), why not..  How would you rate your look out of 10?

It seems to me that perfectly would fit your needs and plus you would even earn a living out of It?

I have done this. I also am able to convince the women I sleep with to do just about anything for me, money wise, etc.  I have stopped using women for money though long ago. 

I would rate myself 6/10.  Most the women I am with though would rate me higher I think, since I dont have a problem really getting most any of them.

So If you liked sex, different women and you even got payed for It, why you stopped doing It?

I didn't feel right doing it, and honestly it is hard for a man to find a woman willingly to openly pay for sex/time with a man, regardless of what you see on TV/Movies. 

When I was doing that, 95% of the people who responded were men, the other 3% were fake bots.  Maybe 2% were actual women.
newbie
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most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours.  

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?

As stated before, I am currently seeing a woman who is a sex addict as well. 

The sex with new women is definitely the thrill.  I have received oral from a man before, as well, although I do not consider myself bi or gay.  To me, it was just another way to get a release.
legendary
Activity: 938
Merit: 1000
If you like sex and can't live without It and you also love to meet new girls and have sex with them, you could try being a gigolo (male prostitute), why not..  How would you rate your look out of 10?

It seems to me that perfectly would fit your needs and plus you would even earn a living out of It?

I have done this. I also am able to convince the women I sleep with to do just about anything for me, money wise, etc.  I have stopped using women for money though long ago. 

I would rate myself 6/10.  Most the women I am with though would rate me higher I think, since I dont have a problem really getting most any of them.

So If you liked sex, different women and you even got payed for It, why you stopped doing It?
newbie
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are u trying to have a babby repeatedly without first asking the niehgobrs persmission?


Ha.  I am not interested in having a baby with someone I am not with.  I've been lucky that I dont have kids from a random person (that I know about, a lot of these girls don't even know my name).  As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.
sr. member
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most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours.  

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?

never met a women EVER who wanted it.  it's a sensitive subject for a sensitive ego, like yours.
legendary
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amarha
most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours.  

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?
newbie
Activity: 42
Merit: 0
If you like sex and can't live without It and you also love to meet new girls and have sex with them, you could try being a gigolo (male prostitute), why not..  How would you rate your look out of 10?

It seems to me that perfectly would fit your needs and plus you would even earn a living out of It?

I have done this. I also am able to convince the women I sleep with to do just about anything for me, money wise, etc.  I have stopped using women for money though long ago. 

I would rate myself 6/10.  Most the women I am with though would rate me higher I think, since I dont have a problem really getting most any of them.
newbie
Activity: 42
Merit: 0
most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours. 
legendary
Activity: 938
Merit: 1000
Do you want to change or are you happy with it?

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship. I need professional help, but cannot afford it at this time. I am not happy with it at all, but it's like a drug addition, I can't control it. The funny thing is, drugs are not addicting in any way to me. I've tried them all, and don't like any of them. Sex is literally my drug of choice.

Also sorry guys for the show responses. I am limited to posting every six minutes, and don't know how to multi quote. If some one wants to pm me how to multiple that would be welcomed.


Oh sorry If you have family than you should decide if you want to get ride of your addiction or you want to stay with your family because It's really bad to fool yourself just listen to your heart what do you want in your life. Addiction like these are almost impossible to lose. If you like It at early age that means no one influence you do have so much sex , maybe It's just genetic. You just have to live with It or pull up your self and just don't do any mroe sex even If It will feel really bad and see how It goes , maybe after several months you will not need It anymore? Just masturbate and dont do anything more and after masturbation you should lose the want of sex.
newbie
Activity: 42
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Do you want to change or are you happy with it?

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship. I need professional help, but cannot afford it at this time. I am not happy with it at all, but it's like a drug addition, I can't control it. The funny thing is, drugs are not addicting in any way to me. I've tried them all, and don't like any of them. Sex is literally my drug of choice.

Also sorry guys for the show responses. I am limited to posting every six minutes, and don't know how to multi quote. If some one wants to pm me how to multiple that would be welcomed.
legendary
Activity: 938
Merit: 1000
If you like sex and can't live without It and you also love to meet new girls and have sex with them, you could try being a gigolo (male prostitute), why not..  How would you rate your look out of 10?

It seems to me that perfectly would fit your needs and plus you would even earn a living out of It?
newbie
Activity: 42
Merit: 0
Are you a sex addict from having too much sex? or just masturbation.

Both, but my problem is more that I will become obsessed with finding a new wwoman every night to sleep with. It controls how I plan my days.  
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