Topic: Be a Responsible Gambler - page 22. (Read 6839 times)

Quote from: romero121 on May 15, 2021, 07:12:13 AM

Mostly addicted people don't wanna spend money aside from gambling. they even keep their food cheaper just for the sake of gambling.

and addicted gamblers become more greedy and selfish .

Thye become good at lying about their finances, they will lie about their income and their savings they don't want people borrowing them and they forgot their loan, they are concentrated on the allocation on their gambling activity, lying and becoming secretive about their finances are just some of the signs that a person is very much into gambling.

I wonder how they will lie about his finances or addiction because they will hide about that from other people.
But no matter how they lie to other people, sooner or later, other people will know about that and guess what, that people will try to ask for more details.
But once again, if they can lie about that thing, they can make another lie instead of telling the truth.
It is hard to become a responsible gambler, but we need to do it if we do not want to become addicted to gambling.

This is true, because most of the time gamblers want the finance to be kept as a secret. Why such a mentality ? If we do gambling known to the people around we will be questioned, what you've earned. If we're in loss we can't share it to the people next to us or the one close to us. They might feel bad and it affects their mind. This is why most of the time gamblers prefer to keep the financial spending secret.

We do not want to get questioned by them because they will ask one by one of the questions and they will not stop before they get what they want.
There will be many questions in some societies that will be asked to us why we choose to gamble to make money instead of searching for the other jobs that can give you money without losing the money.
We can not tell them that we are gambling to make money because maybe they will not accept what we choose.
But no matter what it is, if you still want to play gambling, you need to be a responsible gambler and take care of your money because many gamblers lose their money.

Ultegra134

hero member

Activity: 1680

Merit: 845

Quote from: traderethereum on May 15, 2021, 02:23:35 AM

Quote from: traderethereum on May 15, 2021, 02:23:35 AM

Mostly addicted people don't wanna spend money aside from gambling. they even keep their food cheaper just for the sake of gambling.

and addicted gamblers become more greedy and selfish .

Thye become good at lying about their finances, they will lie about their income and their savings they don't want people borrowing them and they forgot their loan, they are concentrated on the allocation on their gambling activity, lying and becoming secretive about their finances are just some of the signs that a person is very much into gambling.

I wonder how they will lie about his finances or addiction because they will hide about that from other people.
But no matter how they lie to other people, sooner or later, other people will know about that and guess what, that people will try to ask for more details.
But once again, if they can lie about that thing, they can make another lie instead of telling the truth.
It is hard to become a responsible gambler, but we need to do it if we do not want to become addicted to gambling.

This is true, because most of the time gamblers want the finance to be kept as a secret. Why such a mentality ? If we do gambling known to the people around we will be questioned, what you've earned. If we're in loss we can't share it to the people next to us or the one close to us. They might feel bad and it affects their mind. This is why most of the time gamblers prefer to keep the financial spending secret.

I've seen people who are stingy in almost every instance but not in gambling. Those who neglect basic needs in order to set money aside for gambling are addicted and should seek help immediately. I'm only gambling with small amounts, that do not affect my monthly income, thus I have full control of what's going on.

Moreover, most gamblers are seen as addicts, (because the majority of them are) thus, people will question your earnings and point their finger at you if you reveal them that you've lost a X amount of money.

romero121

legendary

Activity: 3234

Merit: 1214

Vave.com - Crypto Casino

Mostly addicted people don't wanna spend money aside from gambling. they even keep their food cheaper just for the sake of gambling.

and addicted gamblers become more greedy and selfish .

Thye become good at lying about their finances, they will lie about their income and their savings they don't want people borrowing them and they forgot their loan, they are concentrated on the allocation on their gambling activity, lying and becoming secretive about their finances are just some of the signs that a person is very much into gambling.

I wonder how they will lie about his finances or addiction because they will hide about that from other people.
But no matter how they lie to other people, sooner or later, other people will know about that and guess what, that people will try to ask for more details.
But once again, if they can lie about that thing, they can make another lie instead of telling the truth.
It is hard to become a responsible gambler, but we need to do it if we do not want to become addicted to gambling.

This is true, because most of the time gamblers want the finance to be kept as a secret. Why such a mentality ? If we do gambling known to the people around we will be questioned, what you've earned. If we're in loss we can't share it to the people next to us or the one close to us. They might feel bad and it affects their mind. This is why most of the time gamblers prefer to keep the financial spending secret.

traderethereum

hero member

Activity: 2870

Merit: 574

Vave.com - Crypto Casino

Quote from: Silberman on May 13, 2021, 04:12:26 PM

Mostly addicted people don't wanna spend money aside from gambling. they even keep their food cheaper just for the sake of gambling.

and addicted gamblers become more greedy and selfish .

Thye become good at lying about their finances, they will lie about their income and their savings they don't want people borrowing them and they forgot their loan, they are concentrated on the allocation on their gambling activity, lying and becoming secretive about their finances are just some of the signs that a person is very much into gambling.

I wonder how they will lie about his finances or addiction because they will hide about that from other people.
But no matter how they lie to other people, sooner or later, other people will know about that and guess what, that people will try to ask for more details.
But once again, if they can lie about that thing, they can make another lie instead of telling the truth.
It is hard to become a responsible gambler, but we need to do it if we do not want to become addicted to gambling.

Lanatsa

hero member

Activity: 2968

Merit: 687

Which is why people should look for help at the first signs that they are not controlling their gambling anymore, and this is relatively easy to know, gambling is supposed to be engaged in for purely entertainment purposes, so if you are not getting any fun anymore and if you are instead suffering then this is a clear sign there is something wrong with your gambling and you need to stop immediately and look for the support of your family before it is too late.

It's difficult for a person to look for the signs that they are addicted because they will be in denial, they need an external influence to intervene. This words that @Silberman says looks easy on paper but it will be another story in application.

It is true that an external party can tell more effectively whether a person is addicted to gambling or anything else as they do not have a clouded vision, but we know that the first step to recover from any kind of addiction is to recognize by yourself that you are addicted, someone that does not do this is never going to recover, which is why people always need to evaluate themselves and their behavior and if they see anything wrong then they need to stop their gambling in order to prevent or revert a gambling addiction, it is not easy but it is in fact the only way to avoid becoming addicted or getting out of it once you are there.

Self awareness is all you need because you can eventually spot out these things easily if you do have this kind of characteristic or behavior on where you are aware on what are the things you've been dealing with.

You are a type of person who does mind on what would be the possible outcome or situation might happen if you do engage too much or in a controlled manner.
You should be mindful about your finances.

Out of control into something which would really result into unfortunate events or consequences which things that you wouldn't want to experience.

Silberman

legendary

Activity: 2534

Merit: 1338

Quote from: AicecreaME on May 13, 2021, 09:52:43 AM

Which is why people should look for help at the first signs that they are not controlling their gambling anymore, and this is relatively easy to know, gambling is supposed to be engaged in for purely entertainment purposes, so if you are not getting any fun anymore and if you are instead suffering then this is a clear sign there is something wrong with your gambling and you need to stop immediately and look for the support of your family before it is too late.

It's difficult for a person to look for the signs that they are addicted because they will be in denial, they need an external influence to intervene. This words that @Silberman says looks easy on paper but it will be another story in application.

It is true that an external party can tell more effectively whether a person is addicted to gambling or anything else as they do not have a clouded vision, but we know that the first step to recover from any kind of addiction is to recognize by yourself that you are addicted, someone that does not do this is never going to recover, which is why people always need to evaluate themselves and their behavior and if they see anything wrong then they need to stop their gambling in order to prevent or revert a gambling addiction, it is not easy but it is in fact the only way to avoid becoming addicted or getting out of it once you are there.

BTCLiz

hero member

Activity: 868

Merit: 513

Quote from: uneng on May 07, 2021, 05:49:45 PM

After all even the decision of seeking for others' help is still on the gambler's hand and nobody else can make this decision for him. If the addicted person doesn't accept or ask for help, nothing can be done to overcome the issue, because he is actually reluctant in doing so intimately. Or in other words, he doesn't want to get ride of addiction at all, because he knows once he stops gambling definitely he won't feel that pleasure sensation anymore. So it's a really hard decision to make and one of the main reasons so many gamblers struggle in getting free from these chains, like you mentioned.

Which is why people should look for help at the first signs that they are not controlling their gambling anymore, and this is relatively easy to know, gambling is supposed to be engaged in for purely entertainment purposes, so if you are not getting any fun anymore and if you are instead suffering then this is a clear sign there is something wrong with your gambling and you need to stop immediately and look for the support of your family before it is too late.

Sadly that won't work.

The dopamine they have or they get every time they play gambling is the one who keeps them away on getting professional help or confessing to someone that they need help regarding about their situation in gambling being addicted on it. So the outcome of most gambling addict stories always end up in the worst case scenario, like they lost everything on them before they even realized that they should stop.

Are you able to provide studies that underline your argument? I actuallly dont think that the the outcome of the most "gambling careers" is something you described. Many seeking for help before they loose everything, which is a good thing. But of course there are some gamblers that end in the worst scenario and herethe government need to set some smart regulations to prevent it.

AicecreaME

sr. member

Activity: 2436

Merit: 455

Quote from: uneng on May 07, 2021, 05:49:45 PM

After all even the decision of seeking for others' help is still on the gambler's hand and nobody else can make this decision for him. If the addicted person doesn't accept or ask for help, nothing can be done to overcome the issue, because he is actually reluctant in doing so intimately. Or in other words, he doesn't want to get ride of addiction at all, because he knows once he stops gambling definitely he won't feel that pleasure sensation anymore. So it's a really hard decision to make and one of the main reasons so many gamblers struggle in getting free from these chains, like you mentioned.

Which is why people should look for help at the first signs that they are not controlling their gambling anymore, and this is relatively easy to know, gambling is supposed to be engaged in for purely entertainment purposes, so if you are not getting any fun anymore and if you are instead suffering then this is a clear sign there is something wrong with your gambling and you need to stop immediately and look for the support of your family before it is too late.

Sadly that won't work.

The dopamine they have or they get every time they play gambling is the one who keeps them away on getting professional help or confessing to someone that they need help regarding about their situation in gambling being addicted on it. So the outcome of most gambling addict stories always end up in the worst case scenario, like they lost everything on them before they even realized that they should stop.

Saisher

full member

Activity: 2324

Merit: 175

Mostly addicted people don't wanna spend money aside from gambling. they even keep their food cheaper just for the sake of gambling.

and addicted gamblers become more greedy and selfish .

Thye become good at lying about their finances, they will lie about their income and their savings they don't want people borrowing them and they forgot their loan, they are concentrated on the allocation on their gambling activity, lying and becoming secretive about their finances are just some of the signs that a person is very much into gambling.

michellee

hero member

Activity: 2604

Merit: 816

🐺Spinarium.com🐺 - iGaming casino

Quote from: beerlover on May 11, 2021, 01:21:53 PM

Which is why people should look for help at the first signs that they are not controlling their gambling anymore, and this is relatively easy to know, gambling is supposed to be engaged in for purely entertainment purposes, so if you are not getting any fun anymore and if you are instead suffering then this is a clear sign there is something wrong with your gambling and you need to stop immediately and look for the support of your family before it is too late.

It's difficult for a person to look for the signs that they are addicted because they will be in denial, they need an external influence to intervene. This words that @Silberman says looks easy on paper but it will be another story in application.

People who got addicted will not be easy to find for the signs, but other people can see clearly the sign and if they are closest people to that person, they will advise them not to continue playing gambling in the next days. But if that person can find the excitement of playing gambling, they will not listen to them instead of playing the other gambling games as they want to get the other experience. That is why we need other people who will suggest we stop gambling before it is too late.

Fredomago

legendary

Activity: 2996

Merit: 1054

Leading Crypto Sports Betting & Casino Platform