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legendary
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May 07, 2021, 05:39:09 PM
Important Note : If you're jobless don't get into gambling, I'm an example. I don't have a job, and that's the reason I wasn't able to keep me deviated from gambling. Hope this helps someone.

Thank You

Oh man, really good story. One of that kind of stories that I read two times  Smiley
And I can to improve your advice: Do not gamble if you can't hold yourself. It doesn't matter do you have job or not. Because if you're easily addicted, when you will lost your job, family and friends.

your story is a good example of how things going in real life, not in casino promotion ads.
legendary
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May 07, 2021, 12:24:08 PM
My heart beats high, my pressure keeps rising, my mind is restless, my body is shivering. It all means I've lost big. My girl is in deep sleep, once she gets awake I don't know what is gonna happen. I lost big of around $4500. Everyday morning she wakes and first see the wallet, if there is any change in the holdings due to market growth. I don't know what to do, this has been continuing with me. She had forgiven me several times. This time I don't know what is gonna happen.

Truly she is unlucky to have me in her life. She manages well the money, but I spend it completely on gambling. Last time she even said if something happens like this, next time I'll end my life. She said it out of anger and we have big debt. We don't have the source to repay, that's the reason. Gambling is a hell, I'm experiencing it in the world. I don't know whether being in hell will be this painful.
When there is a girl who can manage your finances, this should be utilized properly, meaning that there is someone who can control yourself when you are gambling, now that you have spent the money, of course you will be angry and usually a girl doesn't like her man to play gambling. especially with a huge loss by not being able to return it again, I think you have made the mistake of having spent both money, on the other hand, recovering $4500 now very hard unless you have more luck in the gambling.
Just avoid your habit when you are in need, whatever it should not happen because gambling is a country if it makes it difficult for you to stress and get sick.
hero member
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Nothing lasts forever
May 07, 2021, 11:46:20 AM
Last time she even said if something happens like this, next time I'll end my life. She said it out of anger and we have big debt. We don't have the source to repay, that's the reason. Gambling is a hell, I'm experiencing it in the world. I don't know whether being in hell will be this painful.

This should be enough reason for you not to gamble anymore. Does your girl's life not matter to you ?
Did you not think about her before gambling again ?
Whatever the circumstances are, if it comes to a point where someone's life is at stake then you shouldn't gamble bro.
You are basically gambling with her life. Even though there's a debt on you but it doesn't mean you can gamble and expect to win and repay the debt.
You should have instead used some other way to invest the $4500 and gain more out of it.
I hope you handle things well with your girl and make it up to her and find a stable way to repay the debt.
hero member
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May 06, 2021, 04:06:39 PM
Yeah, listening to emotions is the root of all problems. When we start feeling our responsibilities then we can easily avoid mistakes and then regretting but once get addicted then you cannot plan up anything as you cannot think about anything except gambling.
Yes, that is one of the main issues when it comes to gambling. The pproblem is that you cant control about your emotions. So even if you think you can rationally control gambling, you actually cant. Emotions control our bahviour in the end. Unfortunatelly.
hero member
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May 06, 2021, 03:43:30 PM
Addicted gamblers are always rushing to play back thinking that it's a good day to win decently, some are to recover and some are just to satisfied their lust of playing.
But, I am not seeing any of addicted gamblers got chances to recover their previous losses but they simply lose again and then will keep trying it out of addictions. Getting satisfied for the lust of gambling is also having an end to gambling but addicted gambler never gets any satisfaction and that is the big problem of not being responsible gamblers.

You need to control yourself to avoid regretting your mistakes, always come to think of it and decide clearly. Don't be move by emotions which leads you to a certain addictions.
Yeah, listening to emotions is the root of all problems. When we start feeling our responsibilities then we can easily avoid mistakes and then regretting but once get addicted then you cannot plan up anything as you cannot think about anything except gambling.
hero member
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May 06, 2021, 03:19:04 PM
My heart beats high, my pressure keeps rising, my mind is restless, my body is shivering. It all means I've lost big. My girl is in deep sleep, once she gets awake I don't know what is gonna happen. I lost big of around $4500. Everyday morning she wakes and first see the wallet, if there is any change in the holdings due to market growth. I don't know what to do, this has been continuing with me. She had forgiven me several times. This time I don't know what is gonna happen.

Truly she is unlucky to have me in her life. She manages well the money, but I spend it completely on gambling. Last time she even said if something happens like this, next time I'll end my life. She said it out of anger and we have big debt. We don't have the source to repay, that's the reason. Gambling is a hell, I'm experiencing it in the world. I don't know whether being in hell will be this painful.
Is this a new event that happened on your life or is this a recollection of something that happened to you some time ago? If this is something that just happened then my recommendation is that if your girlfriend or wife forgives you that you give her complete control over the finances of the family and go as far as maybe even canceling the Internet connection in your home, this may seem harsh but you are in an incredibly difficult position and something drastic needs to be done if you want to get out of this situation.
legendary
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May 06, 2021, 12:50:04 PM
A gambler should definitely have control over his emotions and greed to overcome the disadvantages of gambling.
It is easy to say but the others really just can't. They cannot overcome their greed because they're hooked up and the reason of it varies from each gambler.
It's the trouble of people who have trouble in gambling, but in reality, there are only few who have a gambling addiction compared to people who enjoy gambling and consider it as entertainment, that's why it's so important to be responsible while having fun, never dream of making gambling as a source of income if you don't have the capacity.

I think half of the people who gamble are addicted to gambling because most of the gamblers are broke at the end of the day.
But they still gamble the next day which shows their addiction towards gambling.
The rest half gamblers are the ones who play for fun. I am personally a seasonal gambler  Grin
I gamble for a few months and then take a break from gambling for a few months.
This way I save money half of the time and I rain money on gambling sites half of the time  Grin



Most probably that will saves you a lot, if you can continue controlling yourself and not to rush back whenever you are feeling to gamble the very chance that you save your money from losing it.

Addicted gamblers are always rushing to play back thinking that it's a good day to win decently, some are to recover and some are just to satisfied their lust of playing.

You need to control yourself to avoid regretting your mistakes, always come to think of it and decide clearly. Don't be move by emotions which leads you to a certain addictions.
hero member
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Nothing lasts forever
May 06, 2021, 12:34:24 PM
A gambler should definitely have control over his emotions and greed to overcome the disadvantages of gambling.
It is easy to say but the others really just can't. They cannot overcome their greed because they're hooked up and the reason of it varies from each gambler.
It's the trouble of people who have trouble in gambling, but in reality, there are only few who have a gambling addiction compared to people who enjoy gambling and consider it as entertainment, that's why it's so important to be responsible while having fun, never dream of making gambling as a source of income if you don't have the capacity.

I think half of the people who gamble are addicted to gambling because most of the gamblers are broke at the end of the day.
But they still gamble the next day which shows their addiction towards gambling.
The rest half gamblers are the ones who play for fun. I am personally a seasonal gambler  Grin
I gamble for a few months and then take a break from gambling for a few months.
This way I save money half of the time and I rain money on gambling sites half of the time  Grin

legendary
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May 04, 2021, 06:17:40 PM
My heart beats high, my pressure keeps rising, my mind is restless, my body is shivering. It all means I've lost big. My girl is in deep sleep, once she gets awake I don't know what is gonna happen. I lost big of around $4500. Everyday morning she wakes and first see the wallet, if there is any change in the holdings due to market growth. I don't know what to do, this has been continuing with me. She had forgiven me several times. This time I don't know what is gonna happen.

Truly she is unlucky to have me in her life. She manages well the money, but I spend it completely on gambling. Last time she even said if something happens like this, next time I'll end my life. She said it out of anger and we have big debt. We don't have the source to repay, that's the reason. Gambling is a hell, I'm experiencing it in the world. I don't know whether being in hell will be this painful.
legendary
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May 04, 2021, 02:45:31 PM
It's been proven that gambling positive accomplishments trigger the very same areas of the brain that get fired when we are happy for something. On the opposite side, when losing those bad events trigger the worst anxious and depressed responses. Given that, be careful when you gamble beyond your limits since you can get lost. 
That's the psychological advantage if you knew the trick that you shouldn't let your emotions get in the way when you gamble, not just in gambling but even on trading and other way to earn money that has risks. It's always good to have nice bankroll management.
This is what causes some people to become addicted to gambling and I have seen it several times with people that I have known that have problems controlling their gambling, they feel such a rush of emotions that nothing else in their lives generates that they will do everything they can to generate those emotions and if that means bankrupting themselves and even destroying their families they will do it, I know that this doesn't really make a lot of sense and very few people go through something like that but unfortunately it happens.
hero member
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May 04, 2021, 11:04:06 AM
We cannot stop the others if they're aiming to think of gambling as a source. They can always do that at their own will and stopping them will only happen if they do realize that they are having hard time doing it for themselves.
The chance is being taken by them but it's harder for them to make it as the usual source because greed is what's running in them. But if they'll remove that and gamble just like the usual guy who wants to have fun, they can have their sense of gambling through enjoyment.
Chances are low to give up on gambling and beat the addiction if the gambler has no such intention, sometimes the urge to deposit more for making revenge bets overweight all alternative feelings and it happens as it supposed to be. Gambling as the main source of income is the worst choice ever, it should be limited to the passive income category that sounds safer.

P.S: I don't support or do any kind of suggestion to chase losses, just shared my personal opinion. Instead of accepting losses, I prefer to chase the daily small losses because at the end of the day it all depends on the total bankroll of gambler and winning chance. During the dead spins, I never increase main bet size and sticking to the main low bet is safer than being sorry.
Passive income? how? by investing into the bankrolls or those casinos that has token that gives dividends? that sounds easy and safer but only a few really works with that strategy.
I think your statement of not supporting chasing losses and what you prefer to do with small losses contradicts. But I get the point that it should only be with those small amounts that you lose if it happens to happen on a daily basis.
hero member
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May 04, 2021, 08:54:04 AM
Although that is hard for people to move on from gambling, they must do that if they do not want to gamble and regret their loss.
It's a must to quit before you lose everything, regret shouldn't be the last thing in mind but a much healthier lifestyle away from gambling.
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But unfortunately, not many of them can do that as they are still thinking about recovering their losses in the next few days.
Indeed! they are keep thinking of best way to recover, it's circling inside their minds to try  winning out from the gambling house.
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They need to have an effort to stop gambling for some time and thinking about how much money they already used and must forget about their losses.
Assessment, it's always important to do this once in a while, gamblers should be more responsible thinking on how to minimize time and money that they are spending from this activities.
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Maybe they need a second chance to start a new life than to just back to gambling so they can have the opportunity to have a better life.
They need to make a stand, choosing a life away from gambling is far better than spending everything that they've got just for this vices..


Although before doing so, determination must be set first. Because without firmed stand they would most likely just go back to their old habits with just mere trigger.
Unfortunately, not many gamblers have a strong firmed stand to defend their new habits because we see that many of them go back to their old habits and gamble more than before. Maybe they do not realize that gambling can ruin their life anytime and if they do not leave from gambling, it will be a matter of time to see they will losing everything in their life. We hope that we do not have to be like them because we have other things that will be more important in our life than just spending our time in gambling games.
full member
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May 03, 2021, 04:46:37 PM
Chances are low to give up on gambling and beat the addiction if the gambler has no such intention, sometimes the urge to deposit more for making revenge bets overweight all alternative feelings and it happens as it supposed to be. Gambling as the main source of income is the worst choice ever, it should be limited to the passive income category that sounds safer.
How long you will be willing to risk your bank balance and do these revenge betting  Cheesy. I used to do that when the price of bitcoin was well below $400 and i would deposit huge amounts to get back the money i lost earlier and i end up loosing again and then you make your decision to stop burning away your coins but with the price so high i will never dare to do anything remotely to regain my lost bets and betting cannot be considered as any form of income as it should be purely for entertainment purpose.
Majority of people would only realize this kind of mistake when they are already on the brink of financial loss or being wreck totally but before that you would really be that eager on
trying to recover all the losses that you had committed which is really a very wrong mindset to have because you wouldnt know on what comes next specially in gambling.
Odds is always be against you in the long run and also revenge betting or trying to recover on what you had lost is never been a good idea because it will really just make the
situation even more worst.So better be aware in towards your action because you would surely be get more stressed if you do let yourself go on what you had in mind.

Most gamblers learned their lessons when they experienced worst in their lives like losing a family, deep debt from someone, threat on their lives, which one way or another is owed to their gambling habits. They will not wake up from reality unless something bad happened to them. So if you feel you are heading in that direction, change your lifestyle and assess your situation if you can afford to lose important persons or things in your life. Don't wait too long because when you are already in deep trouble, would be hard for you to get out of the situation.
legendary
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May 03, 2021, 04:36:52 PM
Chances are low to give up on gambling and beat the addiction if the gambler has no such intention, sometimes the urge to deposit more for making revenge bets overweight all alternative feelings and it happens as it supposed to be. Gambling as the main source of income is the worst choice ever, it should be limited to the passive income category that sounds safer.
How long you will be willing to risk your bank balance and do these revenge betting  Cheesy. I used to do that when the price of bitcoin was well below $400 and i would deposit huge amounts to get back the money i lost earlier and i end up loosing again and then you make your decision to stop burning away your coins but with the price so high i will never dare to do anything remotely to regain my lost bets and betting cannot be considered as any form of income as it should be purely for entertainment purpose.
Majority of people would only realize this kind of mistake when they are already on the brink of financial loss or being wreck totally but before that you would really be that eager on
trying to recover all the losses that you had committed which is really a very wrong mindset to have because you wouldnt know on what comes next specially in gambling.
Odds is always be against you in the long run and also revenge betting or trying to recover on what you had lost is never been a good idea because it will really just make the
situation even more worst.So better be aware in towards your action because you would surely be get more stressed if you do let yourself go on what you had in mind.
hero member
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May 03, 2021, 04:20:37 PM
Chances are low to give up on gambling and beat the addiction if the gambler has no such intention, sometimes the urge to deposit more for making revenge bets overweight all alternative feelings and it happens as it supposed to be. Gambling as the main source of income is the worst choice ever, it should be limited to the passive income category that sounds safer.
How long you will be willing to risk your bank balance and do these revenge betting  Cheesy. I used to do that when the price of bitcoin was well below $400 and i would deposit huge amounts to get back the money i lost earlier and i end up loosing again and then you make your decision to stop burning away your coins but with the price so high i will never dare to do anything remotely to regain my lost bets and betting cannot be considered as any form of income as it should be purely for entertainment purpose.
legendary
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May 03, 2021, 04:06:42 PM
A gambler should definitely have control over his emotions and greed to overcome the disadvantages of gambling.
It is easy to say but the others really just can't. They cannot overcome their greed because they're hooked up and the reason of it varies from each gambler.
It's the trouble of people who have trouble in gambling, but in reality, there are only few who have a gambling addiction compared to people who enjoy gambling and consider it as entertainment, that's why it's so important to be responsible while having fun, never dream of making gambling as a source of income if you don't have the capacity.
We cannot stop the others if they're aiming to think of gambling as a source. They can always do that at their own will and stopping them will only happen if they do realize that they are having hard time doing it for themselves.
The chance is being taken by them but it's harder for them to make it as the usual source because greed is what's running in them. But if they'll remove that and gamble just like the usual guy who wants to have fun, they can have their sense of gambling through enjoyment.
Chances are low to give up on gambling and beat the addiction if the gambler has no such intention, sometimes the urge to deposit more for making revenge bets overweight all alternative feelings and it happens as it supposed to be. Gambling as the main source of income is the worst choice ever, it should be limited to the passive income category that sounds safer.

P.S: I don't support or do any kind of suggestion to chase losses, just shared my personal opinion. Instead of accepting losses, I prefer to chase the daily small losses because at the end of the day it all depends on the total bankroll of gambler and winning chance. During the dead spins, I never increase main bet size and sticking to the main low bet is safer than being sorry.
hero member
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May 03, 2021, 03:49:36 PM
A gambler should definitely have control over his emotions and greed to overcome the disadvantages of gambling.
It is easy to say but the others really just can't. They cannot overcome their greed because they're hooked up and the reason of it varies from each gambler.
It's the trouble of people who have trouble in gambling, but in reality, there are only few who have a gambling addiction compared to people who enjoy gambling and consider it as entertainment, that's why it's so important to be responsible while having fun, never dream of making gambling as a source of income if you don't have the capacity.
We cannot stop the others if they're aiming to think of gambling as a source. They can always do that at their own will and stopping them will only happen if they do realize that they are having hard time doing it for themselves.
The chance is being taken by them but it's harder for them to make it as the usual source because greed is what's running in them. But if they'll remove that and gamble just like the usual guy who wants to have fun, they can have their sense of gambling through enjoyment.
sr. member
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1xbit.com
May 03, 2021, 12:01:57 PM
Although that is hard for people to move on from gambling, they must do that if they do not want to gamble and regret their loss.
It's a must to quit before you lose everything, regret shouldn't be the last thing in mind but a much healthier lifestyle away from gambling.
Quote

But unfortunately, not many of them can do that as they are still thinking about recovering their losses in the next few days.
Indeed! they are keep thinking of best way to recover, it's circling inside their minds to try  winning out from the gambling house.
Quote
They need to have an effort to stop gambling for some time and thinking about how much money they already used and must forget about their losses.
Assessment, it's always important to do this once in a while, gamblers should be more responsible thinking on how to minimize time and money that they are spending from this activities.
Quote
Maybe they need a second chance to start a new life than to just back to gambling so they can have the opportunity to have a better life.
They need to make a stand, choosing a life away from gambling is far better than spending everything that they've got just for this vices..


Although before doing so, determination must be set first. Because without firmed stand they would most likely just go back to their old habits with just mere trigger.
hero member
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May 03, 2021, 11:44:18 AM
Although that is hard for people to move on from gambling, they must do that if they do not want to gamble and regret their loss.
It's a must to quit before you lose everything, regret shouldn't be the last thing in mind but a much healthier lifestyle away from gambling.
Quote

But unfortunately, not many of them can do that as they are still thinking about recovering their losses in the next few days.
Indeed! they are keep thinking of best way to recover, it's circling inside their minds to try  winning out from the gambling house.
Quote
They need to have an effort to stop gambling for some time and thinking about how much money they already used and must forget about their losses.
Assessment, it's always important to do this once in a while, gamblers should be more responsible thinking on how to minimize time and money that they are spending from this activities.
Quote
Maybe they need a second chance to start a new life than to just back to gambling so they can have the opportunity to have a better life.
They need to make a stand, choosing a life away from gambling is far better than spending everything that they've got just for this vices..
legendary
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May 03, 2021, 09:16:26 AM
~ Seeing how much some high rollers win sometimes, people are saying "You can't win big without taking big risks", but they are missing one important point: in the vast majority of cases the highrollers are putting at risk huge amounts for us, regular folks, but not that huge for them, compared to what they have in total.

That is totally right, it is said that you should not invest or bet what you can´t afford to loose. In my case that is in the range of 10 to 20 USD a year Wink but there are many people out there that really, believe or nbot, do not even know what to do with their dough. I am talking about guys that have enough wealth for 5 generations and don´t care for any bet lower than a million. BTW, it is good learning to loose a large sum... it makes you appreciate the value of money.

If you manage to stay in that range, I can only congratulate you, but for most gamblers, myself included, it's practically impossible. True, I was starting from that range 6-7 years ago, but today it's more like 20-30 USD a month, or even more than that, sometimes. Although I can afford to lose such money, it's never easy, and surely I'm trying by all means to never go above that range.
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