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October 13, 2023, 09:56:31 AM
We all know that gambling is a major criminal act in the eyes of society. Moreover, we also know that gambling is not a good sign for a person, but if he gambles, he harms himself and his family. I think if a family has a gambler that is enough to destroy that family. I saw a man in my neighborhood become addicted to gambling by constantly gambling, and I heard many bad remarks against him. Moreover, there are many people who go gambling mainly for entertainment but at some point they become so addicted to gambling that they cannot quit gambling. That is why I think it is best for those gamblers to abstain from gambling, because if they continue to be addicted to gambling like this, they will eventually sell their houses along with their houses. Today gambling is one of the most addictive substances where people bet their money several times and become addicted and their life gradually deteriorates. So everyone should refrain from gambling and bet with caution. Gambling is good for those who have been gambling for a long time but are not addicted.
Gambling again? I swear, if I had a $1 for every G-word mention, I'd be rich! Anyway, more than usual. However, everyone knows a guy who squandered away his life. Your neighborhood has a "gamble-tales" poster child. Hope he's collecting celebrity royalties

As a fun hypothesis, would we have trading cards of prominent gamblers if gambling became a sport? Imagine getting the limited-edition “Neighborhood Gambler Guy” card! Despite the jokes, gambling is serious. Some get a thrill. A decline for others. The trick? Know and follow your limits. Those who can endure without addiction get a high five! Remember to play your cards wisely in life and gambling
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October 13, 2023, 09:48:19 AM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.
When a gambler gets a few wins from gambling he doesn't want to listen to anyone's advice until he loses. He is so confident of winning that he considers gambling as an alternative source of income. Gradually his interest in gambling increased. He gradually became isolated from his family or other circle of friends. On the one hand his  expense increases and on the other hand he gets separated from all kinds of relations. When a person spends a large portion of his income on gambling, his normal life will be disrupted. We always try to keep addiction away from gambling but many are failed.
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October 13, 2023, 08:52:30 AM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.
People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.
I feel like it could be something psychologically wrong with them that needs to be fixed. There is no shame in the mental game, you do not have to be 100% healthy mentally, not anymore at least. Back in the day going to a psychologist had a stigma around it and you have to be crazy to do that, nowadays we literally go do it if we can afford it of course just to feel better.

I can't afford it unfortunately these days, it costs way too much, but I put my last cent to make sure that my wife goes, and she feels a lot better, she is going to have a surgery next week I think, it was postponed one month and we waited a whole month for it to happen, and during that time I spent every ounce of dollar I had to send her to a psychologist, so that she would not be worried about the upcoming surgery. Same goes for gamblers who lose control, you do not have to be feeling shame for going to a psychologist, you should see one, it will definitely make you feel a lot better.
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October 13, 2023, 05:33:29 AM
We all know that gambling is a major criminal act in the eyes of society. Moreover, we also know that gambling is not a good sign for a person, but if he gambles, he harms himself and his family. I think if a family has a gambler that is enough to destroy that family. I saw a man in my neighborhood become addicted to gambling by constantly gambling, and I heard many bad remarks against him. Moreover, there are many people who go gambling mainly for entertainment but at some point they become so addicted to gambling that they cannot quit gambling. That is why I think it is best for those gamblers to abstain from gambling, because if they continue to be addicted to gambling like this, they will eventually sell their houses along with their houses. Today gambling is one of the most addictive substances where people bet their money several times and become addicted and their life gradually deteriorates. So everyone should refrain from gambling and bet with caution. Gambling is good for those who have been gambling for a long time but are not addicted.
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October 13, 2023, 01:59:21 AM
Not really, I think gamblers who have become addicts won't have time to have a partner because they will spend more time gambling so I think it would disrupt the relationship if the gambler was in a relationship with someone but it doesn't seem possible to do that because The average addicted gambler is only busy thinking about gambling rather than making love.

Except for gamblers who can still control their time gambling, maybe they have more time to have a relationship and have time to date so they won't get emotional easily just because they lost at gambling, usually people who can control their time gambling will also definitely be able to control their emotions both when gambling and playing. with someone he is in a relationship with.
It will disrupt the gambler's relationship with his partner because he cannot communicate well with his partner. And from there, problems of disharmony between him and his partner began to emerge which he could not resolve well because he was busy gambling. He also won't be close to other family members so that will also interfere with his relationship with them.

But if the gambler can still control himself well, he will not experience any problems because he can divide his time between his gambling activities and relationships with other people. That means his gambling is not hurting his relationships with other people.

So the one that disrupt the relationship is not the gambling, but the ability to control emotions. Emotions might changed up and down because of many things (not only gambling), even your job may make unable to control your emotion. The point is, gambling will not affect your relationship unless your partner hates gambling much while you are gambling and you hide it from her.
And that means he has problems controlling his emotions. He must immediately realize this because otherwise he will only cause problems for himself and others. If he can realize the problems that have arisen and solve them immediately, he will not lose control of himself and can still gamble well without any more problems.
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October 12, 2023, 10:16:54 PM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

Yes, although initially they may believe and think that gambling will not affect everything around them including relationships with some of their closest people. but I say that it's just their feelings because they have entered the addiction phase so there they like to justify all means, assume that their mindset is correct when in reality it is very ridiculous. As we know that those who are already addicted bring a very strange mindset, thinking that they will be able to make money from gambling, is it true? have you proven it? I say no, how can you want to make money in a place that only relies on luck to be able to win, it makes no sense. The fact is you keep losing and losing everything you have, there's no doubt you've borrowed from people just to gamble and you're doing it for something that doesn't even give you any guarantees.

It is very clear that the negative impact of gambling is not only you who will feel it but the people around you will also definitely be carried away by the negative flow. Yes for those who are already addicted, as I said above there is no doubt at all to spend money just to gamble, the salary they get from working for a month they will spend just for one or two days gambling, not healthy. Basically, it is quite difficult if they are already addicted, they need help from people around them to justify their wrong mindset.
Wrong assumptions would really be ending up whether a disaster or the right call on which most of the time when it comes to gambling then having those kind of thoughts really do end up negatively.
This is why it would really be that better that you should really be sensible on what are the things that you are doing specially that getting in touch or dealing with gambling on which we do know that it is really that imposing such risks and lots of people do really fail on trying out to control themselves and this is why disasters do really happen in the end of the line. Gambling could really affect with your familys relationship on which it would really be just that so normal that if finances had already that ended up on getting compromised or affected then it would be that normal that
needs and wants are already that been in concern.

No wife will really be happy on seeing that your children is really that suffering when it comes to their needs just because their father is really that too irresponsible when it comes to spending.
Its never been recommendable that you would really be that secretive towards your gambling activity because on the time that you would get caught then for sure it would really might
result into divorce if its not been fixed or been properly be resolved out. We dont know on what would happen because decisions be made will really vary.
There certainly be bad consequences from gambling if it is not done carefully. Undoubtedly, a lot of people have trouble controlling their gambling addiction, and it hurts to watch families negatively impacted by this. Any family that isn't financially stable will inevitably experience friction when that stability is threatened

The importance of being honest and upfront with people, especially those close to you, cannot be overstated. Relationships can suffer from secrets, particularly those pertaining to gambling. Indeed, nobody wishes to witness their family members suffer as a result of careless finances. Being prudent and conscious of the hazards is vital. Assistance should be sought if gambling becomes a problem. Always keep in mind that every choice you make will have an impact on your family, therefore it's critical to put their needs first
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October 12, 2023, 07:43:44 PM
It could do the opposite if you can find a good game to play together like Bridge or something.  I like poker, that could be viable when playing together depends how seriously you want to take it but its only divisive when talking about money imo.

If your partner was ready to play the game along with you, you will be the luckiest person in the world.Since you like the poker,your partner also like the poker means,you both can play the same game with two different slots.So the probability of winning in that game will be higher.Since you and your partner had taken two of two of six slots,So you both can manage the cards of same game.The winner will be you or your partner in the poker for sure. So use the good chances to win in gambling.
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October 12, 2023, 07:27:18 PM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

Yes, although initially they may believe and think that gambling will not affect everything around them including relationships with some of their closest people. but I say that it's just their feelings because they have entered the addiction phase so there they like to justify all means, assume that their mindset is correct when in reality it is very ridiculous. As we know that those who are already addicted bring a very strange mindset, thinking that they will be able to make money from gambling, is it true? have you proven it? I say no, how can you want to make money in a place that only relies on luck to be able to win, it makes no sense. The fact is you keep losing and losing everything you have, there's no doubt you've borrowed from people just to gamble and you're doing it for something that doesn't even give you any guarantees.

It is very clear that the negative impact of gambling is not only you who will feel it but the people around you will also definitely be carried away by the negative flow. Yes for those who are already addicted, as I said above there is no doubt at all to spend money just to gamble, the salary they get from working for a month they will spend just for one or two days gambling, not healthy. Basically, it is quite difficult if they are already addicted, they need help from people around them to justify their wrong mindset.
Wrong assumptions would really be ending up whether a disaster or the right call on which most of the time when it comes to gambling then having those kind of thoughts really do end up negatively.
This is why it would really be that better that you should really be sensible on what are the things that you are doing specially that getting in touch or dealing with gambling on which we do know that it is really that imposing such risks and lots of people do really fail on trying out to control themselves and this is why disasters do really happen in the end of the line. Gambling could really affect with your familys relationship on which it would really be just that so normal that if finances had already that ended up on getting compromised or affected then it would be that normal that
needs and wants are already that been in concern.

No wife will really be happy on seeing that your children is really that suffering when it comes to their needs just because their father is really that too irresponsible when it comes to spending.
Its never been recommendable that you would really be that secretive towards your gambling activity because on the time that you would get caught then for sure it would really might
result into divorce if its not been fixed or been properly be resolved out. We dont know on what would happen because decisions be made will really vary.
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October 12, 2023, 05:52:05 PM
Gambling can affect relationships in both good and bad ways. It depends on what an individual player does in a casino. As long as he is not an addict, we know that a gambling addict has no control over what he does.

And everyone is a gambling addict who can no longer control what he calls self-control and self-discipline. Instead, such a person who is addicted to gambling has damaged his personal personality, and the same affects his family badly because there are others that even lead to the destruction or separation of the couple.
Addicts are the worst set of gamblers, these category are ready to place wager with their last money on them, having no plans for the future. Allowing gambling to interfere with my relation is so out of the picture, because I anticipate in this gambling in discreetly mode, ensuring I've cover my tracks before returning home, that's one of the reasons I do not place wagers online though it seems as the easiest way to gamble but considering my family and also my partner, it wouldn't be a wise idea because they stated clearly that they don't pick interest in gambling.
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October 12, 2023, 05:15:45 PM
It could do the opposite if you can find a good game to play together like Bridge or something.  I like poker, that could be viable when playing together depends how seriously you want to take it but its only divisive when talking about money imo.
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October 12, 2023, 03:52:08 PM
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I think that any addiction, regardless of whether it is a casino crypt or not, will be harmful, it can degenerate any relationship, whether it is a couple alone or the family relationship that is involved, practically when it is the father of the family who is at fault. We tend to generalize things a lot, we can say or intuit that when things are about how to avoid things, it is better not to do them, but others say doing them because there is a tendency not to make it become an addiction. , this depends on the personality of the person, obviously anyone who happens to be one of the best can give a well-defined way of achieving good management within a casino, we cannot only manage to make inconvenient and invented bets, for example. It may work at one point, but then everything goes to waste, and I think that a person like that is addicted to money and loses control and gets carried away by impulses, and this is something that if the person doesn't He has willpower, because if he does nothing, things go out of control and everything is lost.

When a person is sad, sometimes the signs are obvious, they occur all at once, because they begin to see certain things that are needed, if there is a family, they realize that a need was not covered, when the reason is not sought, well If it begins to intrude because one did not eat this or those, and that is where the problems begin, in the beginning one can survive, with thus failures that are indicative, but with time and if it is not corrected quickly a person is capable of losing your family, because when you are the head of the household you should always be clear about your responsibility, you cannot invent that, we can be irresponsible alone, when there is no family or person in charge of us, but after a responsibility is acquired Socsas cannot be taken lightly, things have to be done very well and fulfill the family, the family comes first, the priority.



Yes, any addiction, especially gambling, can cause a chain of negative effects. These activities typically hurt relationships, right? Gambling, especially in a real or crypto casino, deserves further discussion. When the family breadwinner becomes addicted, the family suffers. Family comes first, but how can we cling to it?

Do you gamble in casinos to recover from financial and emotional losses when your favorite soccer team loses? How often do emotions and personal events obscure judgment and lead to hazardous behavior?

I agree that when we lose, especially as a family, we must stay calm and avoid detrimental coping techniques like gambling. We should combine intelligence and self-control for ourselves and our families.

Taking into consideration that the bears that are present in a casino, among those, if a player falls into addiction and only wonder what could happen to him, I personally would prefer anything to losing family, children, and putting them at risk, and even less playing a game, in a casino, for something that has nothing to do with it, in this aspect things can get ugly, because a game makes it happen anywhere in the world where it is, for that reason we can do other things. things, activities to avoid addiction at all costs, control, not losing money, is a good option, if a person realizes that they are in the casino and that they do not win anything, that they lose all the time, and that they begin to making bets with money that I shouldn't risk, that for me is already an addiction problem, because I can spend it at the moment, but how are I going to get more money? lending money? putting yourself in trouble to comply? These things should not be taken lightly, they should be accepted as what they are, it is a problem, being an addict represents a problem for every relationship, even if it is a dating relationship, where what is basically needed is to be quite clear with things, to come out , walk , share with her, take her to some places, because those things are what you look for, there is no other way.

An addicted player just does things for the sake of doing them, as long as playing is what matters to them, I don't see that there is any other way for the players to see it well, for me a person who is in that problem has to look for the faster solution if you lose your job , family , everything.

Sport for me is the best ally, it always has been, that's why I always recommend it to people who become addicted, because a tired body, they don't feel like playing, it's impossible, because what they give is the desire to rest, see TV , sleep , that is what you are looking for, so that you have no other option than to think about playing in a casino.
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October 12, 2023, 02:40:41 PM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.
Without a doubt betting 75% of your income is a very bad sign, as I doubt the average person puts 75% of their income into anything, so there is a clear imbalance in the way they are spending their money, but at the same time this indicates someone else is taking the slack for them and are helping them economically so they can assign so much money to gambling over a long period like that, otherwise they will be living on the streets regardless of how high their salary could be.
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October 12, 2023, 09:18:46 AM
If you have $500, you can gamble with $25. That is 5% of the money that you have or that you are earning. This has been what is helping me not to get addicted. Some people may have slightly lower percentage or higher percentage, but they must follow the rules and strategies they have on money management. If gambling more than that, it is becoming addiction. If you have a relationship, like girlfriend or wife, gambling can affect if you are not able to meet your financial needs but spending most on gambling.

Gambling can affect relationships in both good and bad ways. It depends on what an individual player does in a casino. As long as he is not an addict, we know that a gambling addict has no control over what he does.

And everyone is a gambling addict who can no longer control what he calls self-control and self-discipline. Instead, such a person who is addicted to gambling has damaged his personal personality, and the same affects his family badly because there are others that even lead to the destruction or separation of the couple.
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October 12, 2023, 08:04:40 AM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

Yes, although initially they may believe and think that gambling will not affect everything around them including relationships with some of their closest people. but I say that it's just their feelings because they have entered the addiction phase so there they like to justify all means, assume that their mindset is correct when in reality it is very ridiculous. As we know that those who are already addicted bring a very strange mindset, thinking that they will be able to make money from gambling, is it true? have you proven it? I say no, how can you want to make money in a place that only relies on luck to be able to win, it makes no sense. The fact is you keep losing and losing everything you have, there's no doubt you've borrowed from people just to gamble and you're doing it for something that doesn't even give you any guarantees.

It is very clear that the negative impact of gambling is not only you who will feel it but the people around you will also definitely be carried away by the negative flow. Yes for those who are already addicted, as I said above there is no doubt at all to spend money just to gamble, the salary they get from working for a month they will spend just for one or two days gambling, not healthy. Basically, it is quite difficult if they are already addicted, they need help from people around them to justify their wrong mindset.
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October 12, 2023, 06:02:59 AM
Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.
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October 12, 2023, 05:56:42 AM
Of course the hope of getting rich by gambling is just empty talk. No one can get rich from gambling, even if the amount may be very small (like someone who wins the lottery). Additionally, most people will spend the money they got from the previous day's jackpot. So win or lose, the money will still go to the casino because it can't stop after getting a big win

In fact there are some people who get rich from gambling, most of them are professional poker players, sports bettor and lucky people who won lottery then stop gambling. It is possible to get rich from gambling but the chance is small especially if we are talking about luck based game.

And if you are still gambling while building a relationship with your partner, this might disrupt your relationship with him, especially when experiencing a big loss. Your emotions will increase and if there is something you don't want, you might get angry and that could trigger a fight between you.

So the one that disrupt the relationship is not the gambling, but the ability to control emotions. Emotions might changed up and down because of many things (not only gambling), even your job may make unable to control your emotion. The point is, gambling will not affect your relationship unless your partner hates gambling much while you are gambling and you hide it from her.
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October 12, 2023, 05:35:07 AM
And if you are still gambling while building a relationship with your partner, this might disrupt your relationship with him, especially when experiencing a big loss. Your emotions will increase and if there is something you don't want, you might get angry and that could trigger a fight between you.
Not really, I think gamblers who have become addicts won't have time to have a partner because they will spend more time gambling so I think it would disrupt the relationship if the gambler was in a relationship with someone but it doesn't seem possible to do that because The average addicted gambler is only busy thinking about gambling rather than making love.

Except for gamblers who can still control their time gambling, maybe they have more time to have a relationship and have time to date so they won't get emotional easily just because they lost at gambling, usually people who can control their time gambling will also definitely be able to control their emotions both when gambling and playing. with someone he is in a relationship with.
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October 12, 2023, 01:48:31 AM
A person can become more closed in nature when he has experienced a gambling addiction, one of which is from a financial perspective, everything he can do, such as having a lot of debt after being addicted to gambling, even to those closest to him (his partner).  He doesn't want to open up if he has spent a lot of money on gambling, this is always kept a secret, causing communication with his partner to become disharmonious
That's because no one is willing give a loan for gambling purpose, if I were ask you a loan for gambling, will you give it? 100% nope. But if I were ask you a loan to buy foods or medicine, will you give it? it's not 100% you will accept, but there's a probability you will give.

Why addiction would ruin a relationship? they will ask a loan or force you become a gambler by convince you can make money through gambling.
Allowing oneself to be convinced that he can make money or get rich through gambling is one of the highest forms of stupidity in disguise. Because the conviction will make you ready to do anything to have access to every available money that meets your eye so you can use it for gamble just in the quest to make wealth from it

People like that ends up not having close friends, relatives/family or spouse because they must have been sting financially by your gambling addiction behavior in one way or the other and they just can't keep on enduring your addiction which makes isolation from you their best solution ruining a once loving relationship.

Of course the hope of getting rich by gambling is just empty talk. No one can get rich from gambling, even if the amount may be very small (like someone who wins the lottery). Additionally, most people will spend the money they got from the previous day's jackpot. So win or lose, the money will still go to the casino because it can't stop after getting a big win

I think if we only have one source of income and no extra money then it is better not to gamble. Gamble if we have excess money so that our lives are not disturbed mentally and socially because of gambling. Never gamble with money from debt, because it will end worse
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October 12, 2023, 01:33:07 AM
This is why on the time that i do have plans on getting married then i would definitely choose up a certain girl which does have those qualities of being not that materialistic and something that have that a good practical view on things around and do really give out importance on how she spend and not really that wasting up money on which it would really be reflecting out when it comes to her qualities on which i could say that it is one of the things i do really look at before tending to tied up myself with married life which we know that having a partner something like this would really be that be a good
characteristic which would really be that building a secured future when it comes to finances.

As his husband then of course you should really be doing your part on which being that responsible on whatever actions you would be making.Yes,you are the provider on which it would really be just that
normal that you would really be having that moderation and control when it comes to spending. Spending money on leisure things arent that bad as long it would really be that in control
and doesnt really compromise things specially when it comes to family financials which we know that it is really that something important.
That is why if someone wants to get married, they must be able to choose a partner who can understand their situation and accept whatever the conditions are. This is important so that he does not experience arguments with his partner and can live happily with his partner. And it is true that by having a partner, our lives can be more organized and we can plan a good future with them and have children who will pass on the goodness that we have taught them and later, they will teach it to their children.

And if we already have a harmonious relationship with our partner, we don't need to spend time gambling. We should use money for daily needs because that will disrupt our family expenses. We must be able to really manage our family finances. That way, we will not experience difficulties in marriage and can enjoy what we get with our family well.

Well that again goes back to the character of the girl you're in a relationship with? You see, some ladies do not care about your source of income or what you do to get those cash. All they are after is the affluent itself. Can you afford to sponsor their bills and make them feel good behind the close doors. That's what some girls are after.

I have encountered ladies, and it's even becoming more increasingly popular, that will show you they love you but you already knew what they love in you. Not your character, your outlook but your resources and generosity. They can go extra miles to show you love but the moment those things disappear, they vanishes too.
You're right to say that. But it won't be like that because there are still girls who will accept their partner as they are and not think too much about someone's wealth. They can help their partner work for their home life, which is difficult to find in this day and age.

And if you are still gambling while building a relationship with your partner, this might disrupt your relationship with him, especially when experiencing a big loss. Your emotions will increase and if there is something you don't want, you might get angry and that could trigger a fight between you.
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October 11, 2023, 08:31:05 AM
A person can become more closed in nature when he has experienced a gambling addiction, one of which is from a financial perspective, everything he can do, such as having a lot of debt after being addicted to gambling, even to those closest to him (his partner).  He doesn't want to open up if he has spent a lot of money on gambling, this is always kept a secret, causing communication with his partner to become disharmonious
That's because no one is willing give a loan for gambling purpose, if I were ask you a loan for gambling, will you give it? 100% nope. But if I were ask you a loan to buy foods or medicine, will you give it? it's not 100% you will accept, but there's a probability you will give.

Why addiction would ruin a relationship? they will ask a loan or force you become a gambler by convince you can make money through gambling.
Allowing oneself to be convinced that he can make money or get rich through gambling is one of the highest forms of stupidity in disguise. Because the conviction will make you ready to do anything to have access to every available money that meets your eye so you can use it for gamble just in the quest to make wealth from it

People like that ends up not having close friends, relatives/family or spouse because they must have been sting financially by your gambling addiction behavior in one way or the other and they just can't keep on enduring your addiction which makes isolation from you their best solution ruining a once loving relationship.
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