Our Father in heaven literally wants us to look at Him like the loving, just, merciful, generous father that He is.
What makes you qualified to tell us what "our father in heaven" wants?
I have read the bible, and the god of Abraham was not a loving, just or merciful god... he was a jealous, vindictive, misogynistic, proslavery, homophobic and genocidal god... he was a god of fear, not a god of love... "The fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom", etc
I cannot believe that an omniscient god would change his entire demeanor over the course of only one thousand years... a god who knew all of time and space, would not change his mind... ever... he would have been perfect from the beginning... which, the god of the bible clearly is not
He never changed his demeanor, I've read the Bible and I get a completely different impression out of it.
He literally asks us to call him Father, so that's how I'm qualified. But you do bring up a fair point about fear: we fear him because he is just. Just like children fear their earthly father when they've done wrong and know that he's not okay with that.
It would take me a long time to completely address the jealous, vindictive, misogynistic, proslavery, homophobic and genocidal god thing, but you aren't getting the whole picture taking verses out of context. Here's a few points:
--> He literally created us so it's not jealous (in the negative sense) to want obedience.
--> Slavery in the bible is more like indentured servitude, and God commanded that slaves be treated well and given the chance to go free periodically unless they wanted to stay. It's nothing like American slavery or modern slavery, which God condemned: “Anyone who kidnaps another and either sells him or still has him when he is caught must be put to death” Exodus 21:16
--> Homosexuality is a sin, but so is greed, gluttony, premarital sex, divorce, lust and turning a blind eye to the poor. God loves gay people just like he loves everyone else, because everyone has sinned. That *obviously* includes me. I've broken a good half of the 10 commandments. Some Christians have hateful biblical views on this topic, but that doesn't reflect the mind of God. He hates sin, but he doesn't hate us. A gay person who turns to Christ is in the same boat as my parents who are divorced, or myself since I've lied, cheated and stolen. But I believe we'll be in heaven.
--> I'll admit, I have a hard time explaining why God would kill off a whole city. But remember that Abraham asked God to preserve the city if even one righteous person remained, and none did. God's justice makes us uncomfortable because we are sinners, but he is merciful which is why he send his son to die on the cross for our sins.
--> He's certainly not misogynistic. I have no clue where you get that idea.
You are correct that God never changes: "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever” and with God “there is no variation, or shifting shadow”
One final thought: The world is a pretty horrible place, and humans, not God are responsible for that. Who are we to judge God when we've screwed up so bad? We have people
starving to death in a world of plenty! In India, more baby girls are murdered than are born in the US every year. Half the world is a warzone full of people defrauding and killing each other. Our marriages fail, our institutions are corrupt and greedy, and millions of people are in prison, some even being tortured. But yeah, let's ignore all that and judge God according to the standard that causes so much suffering on earth.