Well what I don't like is that, where they use the excuse of borrowing money for other reasons but with different goals, that's annoying isn't it? If you really need money, I, as a friend, will definitely lend it if I have the money and of course it has to be for a clear reason. If it's for gambling, of course I won't lend it because it won't make them aware, instead they borrow money to gamble. it will only cause them trouble later.
well, in my opinion, borrowing money to gamble actually makes relationships worse, because basically gambling will only make them lose and in my opinion those who are addicted to gambling will not be able to pay off their debts even if they have money because when they have money they will only think about the gambling they have to do, not thinking about the debt they have to pay off. and of course this is something bad. there is no responsibility for what has been done by borrowing money but not paying it.
Yes, because people don't need money, they really need that money for their Eurpose, sometimes it doesn't even make sense to tell them why they need it, it's like you say, if one has the ability to help them, then it helps them, it doesn't. there is another , but lying will always be something ugly, not only for you, but for anyone who starts to see things as they are, in this order of ideas I will always think that the best thing in the world will always be to make people play with our own money without expecting things to happen like this because they have to happen, things with casinos the worst decision is first to borrow to play, that is something that should not be admitted, if the person does it they have to know that the irrigation that took place is spontaneous and that from there there is nothing to do, I think about lending money for emergencies as I have stated previously, but if the aperopsna is foolish, there is Nothing to do.
When it comes to friends , a friend who lends oney to another is Because he Always Wants to help him, there is no Other way and that must be Valued , not because of the Fact that when someone is going to pay Back they do it with anger, because that Friend had the Opportunity to spend his money, but he still preferred to lend his money to spending it on what he wanted or wanted to spend, these types of things are what must be Evaluated , not only when they are friends who lend money, but also any person who that he wants to lend money to another just to help , he still Believed that he had much more value than Anyone else , so these types of things are what we should see , a Man will Always spend money, if he continues looking for money to play in an uncontrolled way because I don't think that makes any Sense at all It is something that does not fit nor is it within the normal parameters of a person, and that is why I Follow it because I know that cases like this have Happened.
Yes, it's a bad decision, borrowing money to gamble is not a good decision either. However, if they are already addicted, they will still do it, because maybe that is a way to make money to fulfill their desire to gamble. with the reality and fact that winning at gambling cannot be accurately ascertained, it is likely that the money they borrow will not be able to be returned or repaid. Also, with the fact that defeat always precedes victory, whatever way gambling is done, it is likely that you will only experience defeat.
Well, in my opinion, even though friends are called friends, that doesn't mean we have to always help them, even if it's for something that's detrimental. In fact, in my opinion, friends have to remind each other of the good things, so if you lend them to gamble, that's not a good thing to do. It's true what you said, if they continue to look for money to play in an uncontrolled way then it can be detrimental to themselves, that's why I emphasize gambling using money that we can afford, the aim is to avoid things that don't make sense like this. .