Topic: Do not gamble with Loan Money~otherwise you will be in danger like me - page 9. (Read 4955 times)

About loans? Thats where I draw my line. Temptation is real, I know. "What if?" How about the big win, turnaround, or glory on the next bet? From someone who's seen the ups and downs, gaming should be enjoyment, not financial recovery. If you can, have fun flipping. Note that your money is at stake. Most important? Gamble for fun, keep your budget in mind, and never stay up late.

The power of responsible enjoyment has always impressed me. Its too brief not to enjoy life's pleasures, including a gamble. Bet your money, not borrowed fantasies. That way, win or lose, you're always safe, keeping the enjoyment alive, and insuring tomorrow's delight and laughter. Maintain levity and appropriately enjoy the good times.

Aside from those addicted gamblers, there are also some who are hoping that they can quickly earn money by gambling just a pair of luck. They will be able to multiply that capital and repay the loan that they took, but most of the time, those gamblers are the one who suffer a lot, not intending to loan or not being plan with their finances. Surely they will be suffering from miss-managing their savings.

Unplanned loans/debt is still needed to repay, and the problem is that if they did not place that in their budget even they are receiving their monthly salaries, it would be tough to balance their expenses.

Many gamblers always feel that gambling loans will be settled quickly after they win and besides, they have another insurance which is their monthly salary, that makes them worry less about the results later but from these small loans, they fall into pressure behind, in addition to living expenses, they shoulder additional expenses from the loan and moreover, the loan does not stop at just one number, it advances exponentially. When it comes to loans and gambling, it is like we will have huge debt levels in the future when these are indecipherable problems.

Many factors will influence it, even though what you have said is true, they are too happy and feel the excitement so they lose control and don't pay attention to the budget used in gambling and in the end they run out of all their money.
Too ambitious in winning so they place more bets with bigger amounts but they always lose and in the end also lose all the gambling budget that has been set, all of this can lead someone to be affected.
In the end they will borrow some money to pursue what they have hoped for, but this is reckless action because when they experience consecutive losses the only good method is to stop and leave instead of borrowing money to continue betting.
Mistakes like this often occur and are taken for granted by them, of course they will receive appropriate consequences from the decision they have taken.

It just that if you think about it logically, all of this has something to do with self-control and of course gamblers with good control will definitely not make mistakes like that.

I don't care about it, but people like him must be able to recover because it's for his own good too, I agree with you, no one can be successful by gambling if they are not a dealer, those who are only player based will not be able to make profits like dealers who always getting big profits is also clear. I'm sure what he's looking for is a big win, but even so, it doesn't guarantee that he can stop if he gets a big win, it could be that by getting that he becomes more confident in gambling, to the point where he still can't stop. unless he himself finds a moment where it can wake him up, but who knows when that moment will come and who knows what it will be like. So I think it will be difficult for him to recover from his addiction, even with support from family or close friends, it will be difficult.

That makes sense, maybe with that he will be given direction and advice by his family, also the other side is like he will be scolded by his family because of his behavior that has gone too far beyond normal limits.  I'm sure with that  he will take a long time to get rid of his addiction, because it's not easy to get rid of the gambling addiction  I myself will not always give him advice if he himself does not have awareness  so I will just silence him until he feels a point that can make him realize by himself.

That's right, our point of view with people who are addicted is different, where we have a point of view that is positive to be able to make people aware of those who do negative things and harm themselves, but for those who are addicted it is a need because they are already addicted so that's what being negative has become a need for themselves therefore people who are addicted tend not to pay attention to advice from other people,  because according to themselves, maybe what they are doing is right, and indeed if they are like this, their addiction is very strong because they cannot accept it. advice from other people as well as his closest family it is also true that this will be difficult to fix.

To overcome this problem in my opinion,  the thing that must be paid attention to is awareness because that will make them see the loss they feel, the large number of losses they feel will make them think that they have lost a lot of money but not made big profits so from That's if I myself focus more on awareness because if he himself is not aware of the risks that occur then it will be difficult for him to be aware of what he is doing.

People who are addicted seem to do things that they think are fun, even though there are big losses, but people who are addicted, in my opinion, won't see that side, because all they think about is winning and winning, so it's possible that they won't see it. side of the losses they experience from gambling. and indeed these two things are very risky, in my opinion this helps each other in a bad way, where when they are addicted to gambling they direct themselves to take out loans, and with these loans they help an addict's desire to gamble, but the loans and gambling do not solve problems that occur.

I'm sure those who take loans to gamble are aware of the big risks that will occur, but on the other hand they don't care about it, because it is still a loss and can still be covered up by their strong desire to gamble, so they don't think about the risks that will occur. with the actions they take.

In fact, gambling is not bad if we or those out there do it well, but those who respond wrongly can cause all the bad impacts to happen, such as taking out loans, of course this is not recommended by gambling parties, because gambling parties do not will care about what the players do, they just wait for people to come and bring money to gamble, because the goal is profit. However, they respond wrongly to gambling and end up taking inappropriate actions because of themselves. and as many people have said in this thread, we should be able to gamble with limits,  budget limits and time limits.

Moreover,  someone who takes out a loan or applies for a loan is unlikely to have the excuse of borrowing the money to gamble,  because I don't think anyone will give a loan if the reason is like that so in my opinion they also apply for a loan for other, more logical reasons.

Your story sounds somehow funny but I like people that have experienced something before advising others because using oneself as an example really means you don't want others to have same experience as you do so one thing that takes people backwards in life is loans because at a time you are to think ahead of what to do with your money, you will be thinking of repaying a loan which is not advisable to anyone not to talk of taking the loan to play a gamble. Some gamblers are fond of this act because I've actually known someone that me mt me years back for me to borrow him money that he has a sure odd and even promise to bring some of his home appliances including his fridge as collateral I gave him the money but the game failed and he came back crying I just had compassion on him and gave him back his collateral later on he repayed the money. So taking loans to play gamble is a very bad habit that can lead to incessant debts that you may not even be able to pay back.

A person who borrows money and participates in gambling is actually living in a fool's paradise. A person who is really addicted to gambling can never think about these things, because his thoughts only go towards gambling. Once faced with a loss, one can imagine how big the loss will be, the gambler will never be able to pay off the loan without dying, but again, the bank loan. Bank loans are at a stage where money can't be withdrawn without proof, so I forbid gamblers.

For me, this is one of the most silliest decisions to make as far as I'm concerned because this doesn't need any kind of explanation or experience really before you would know that it is a wrong move for you to carry a loan that you acquired to play gambling. Could it be as a result of you thinking that you are sure of what you are gambling about and then you need to get the odds right or you already have the odds right and because of that you now want to play gambling with the money that you loaned. That is a very wrong decision.

Considering the fact that there's no assurance when you gamble, the results that comes out of it, whether positive or negative. Or as 50/50. So because of the high risk, taking a loan in the name of gambling for anyone who is doing that right now, I think it will only be a brotherly advise to inform that person, not to engage in things like that because that will result to acquiring more depth and financial troubles to yourself than you already have.

Yes, we often hear that there are still gamblers who use borrowed money because they have become addicts, because people who are addicted have the wrong mindset and all that exists is the wrong behavior and mindset, namely playing greedily and excessively.
Yes, your opinion may be correct, only rich people gamble, avoid borrowing money, obviously they have a lot of money, but for people with middle to lower financial levels, it is possible to borrow money to gamble. And what is certain is that gambling by borrowing even small amounts of money is a mistake because it is not certain that he will win the gambling bet and be able to return the money.

I don't know what most people use to convince themselves that gambling with money that does not belong to them is a good idea. In a game in which the outcome can be anything, you want to gamble with loan money that can come with interest.
 
The only kind of people I always see who can go as far as gambling with money that's not there are those who are addicted to gambling but won't admit it. Even if you have the money for the main event and you don't have access to it, I can't even advise the person to borrow to gamble. When we are short on cash, we should see it as not an eligible day for us to gamble.

However, there are still gamblers who use loans to gamble because their mindset is dominated by greed and uncontrollable emotional control, so they only have one choice after losing at gambling, namely using borrowed funds to continue gambling. In my opinion, only gamblers who are financially rich can avoid loans but some gamblers with a middle economy still prioritize loans for gambling, although the loan amount varies but generally can be paid on the next winning bet, they do not apply for high loans, but maybe only for some low bets because they have not reached satisfaction when gambling but have experienced losses.

Obviously, if someone uses borrowed money to gamble, it is not a good behavior for him, but he will fall into the abyss of decline in life. Yes, that's right, don't expect too much money from gambling because gambling is not a way to make money but to spend money quickly. For people who are addicted, they clearly cannot control their thoughts and mentality when gambling, it could be that emotional feelings and greed take over them so they cannot use their common sense properly.
Returning to each person's personality, if there is 1 in 100 people who are able to control themselves in gambling then they will not experience anything bad from the effects of the risks of gambling, but I am sure they will not make gambling a form of it. work but only as entertainment for himself.

Activities like gambling shouldn't encourage the use of gambling without strong emotional control. Once a person is safeguarded emotionally, he's stop fighting and enjoy his family. Most people have seen gambling as a way of making more money but forget that such state of mind isn't conducive for the player. Commencing for the first time in gambling, ignorantly, the newbie would make series of unresolvable mistakes. Gambling is a faceless game. lots of gamblers around the world, but players haven't known the person's origin or whereabout. Instead of stressing oneself in gambling, it's better to reconsider our choices as humans. To adapt to the new invented gambling rules. So, if a person finds it difficult resolving his loans, he should work very hard to pay back. No need being a part of this, if you're not capable of gambling often times without getting attached to it at anytime.

spending brrowing money is not pretty good enough but we won't say that all gamblers can do that cause is he is gonna take that money and start playing there's a high chance of lossing and once it will happen then there's a chance that s gambler can't find a way to pay with those money,  cause if he loss today then they have a big chance to loss again nextime. So it better to not hold the money next time cause maybe it will be gone once the gambler will loss.

ITS SUICIDE!

If you are playing gambling on making use of LOAN money then its never been advisable and its never been that ideal.If you are really that able to pay up those loans then it wont really be that an issue.
But it is really that reasonable that you would really be making use of loan amount to gamble if its better that you should really be that using it on somewhere else but if you are really that prepared on spending those funds into gambling then there would really be no issue since its your money from the start. It is really just that there are those people who are really that not been able to repay those loans
but still they do continue on doing such act on which they do have those hopes and wishes that they could really be able to make themselves recover on what they have lots or simply trying out to
make those loan amount bigger and could paid it up easily.

Regrets is always at the end and it would really be just that wise that you should really be that knowing on how you would really be that making yourself adjust accordingly
basing up into the situation or condition that you are into.

There is no best nest using borrowed money for gambling. If you expect to double the borrowed money then it is better not to gamble. Most of the people who lost assets in my area (land, house, gold) other valuables were due to gambling. They cannot do capital management, mentally, so they do not have the awareness to stop to increase suffering. But I also believe there are 1 in 100 people who can succeed with borrowed money. But I'm sure they mastered mentality and management. They are not addicted, but they can make gambling a job.

You are right to have narrowed it down to the general advice of not getting addicted because if one is addicted, there is no advice that will enter into his ears again, it will just be a matter of hearsay, and it will never have any meaning or deep root with them. Anyone who is addicted to gambling can do anything, they can lie to get money, they can beg to get the money, they can borrow to play, they can also use friends' money or project money to gamble among many more. This is why it is good to nip it in the bud from the beginning before one tries to heal it. I believe that most people are not starting gambling the right way, they lack preparation as they just dabble into it believing is just that simple without preparing for the psychological part of it.

But this is the most important part that can get the bettor aware from the beginning to preserve the psychology. Gambling is such that will infest your mind and spirit if care is not taken, especially if the person is desperate for the money to be made there. That is the mistake most people make, they often believe that it is gambling that will give them their lifetime prosperity and even pass it to the next generation but they forget to look around them if it is truly possible. Many would have been made rich by now if it was so. Nonetheless, gambling can earn you money, but it is when you apply wisdom by using the right techniques and manage your account well even as you manage yourself also.

What should be is that we all control gambling activities and not gambling that controls us, maybe you understand what I mean because if gambling controls us then that means we are like losing consciousness and just being carried away without a specified time, and of course if it turns out that they are still fine even though they have been involved for a long time in gambling then that means they have unusual management of gambling activities, meaning they have good management that can keep themselves safe from bad possibilities like those experienced by gambling addicts.

Yes, this is always the problem, meaning that the chances of winning are always the main focus of most gamblers, they think that winning is easy to get when in fact it is far from that, in gambling the percentage of losses is much higher than wins and that is the reason why if you are too serious in involvement by doing a lot of experiments then what will happen is that you will experience a dominating defeat and when they run out of money then the main thing that comes to mind is "loans" I am sure that most addicted gamblers always make loans as an alternative to funding their gambling activities so with this then the problem will increase that is most likely they will suffer from debt problems due to excessive gambling. On the other hand, yes it is true that the existence of online loans seems to make it easier for gamblers to act even crazier, when unconsciously this is actually like digging a hole to bury themselves at the end of the journey.

You are right in saying that because if someone cannot control himself when gambling, he will only lose and will think about borrowing money so he can continue his desire to gamble. He has already experienced difficulties from borrowing money to gamble, and he also has the potential to experience a gambling addiction, which will become bigger if he does not realize his mistake as soon as possible.

Gambling is a way to have fun, just like other things we often use. We will only get into trouble if we use gambling to make money, especially if we have to borrow money to gamble. If we lose at gambling, we still have to return the loan money even though all the money has been used up for gambling. And we should refrain from gambling when we don't have money to stay safe from various problems that could arise later.

Your understanding of the balance between financial loss and emotional health is touching. I've seen many gamblers and non-gamblers dance to it without realizing it. As you noted, risk management is key, not avoidance. Gamblers with discipline and a firm awareness of their limits can chase losses without becoming irresponsible. You must control the adrenaline, not let it overwhelm you.

I believe gambling can be fun and even transformative if done properly. Recognising the game as such is key. A place to test one's luck, learn decision-making under pressure, and most importantly, discover oneself. We must protect our financial and mental health as we move through this place, as they are interwoven. Gambling, like any other endeavor, requires balance, self-awareness, and accountability.