Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 27.

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Quote from: Josefjix on June 26, 2023, 01:55:30 PM

Quote from: michellee on June 18, 2023, 09:29:10 PM

It's normal to blame others when you lose, especially if you play with your friends. You will do it jokingly because you know that gambling is just fun. But it could be that some friends will be guilty because they invite you to play gambling.

I've been gambling for years, and already use to the whole system, the gigantic profits and huge losses. I'm not a child who blames others for my gambling losses; I'm always honest about my plan and never lie to myself. Gambling was designed for us to generate extra money from the system in our spare time. I don't expect to become addicted to gambling because it's never been my thing, and I always stick to my ideals. Despite peer pressures from tight gamblers, I try hard not to be swayed by their gambling tendencies. We accept responsibility for our setbacks.

It's good to think that way because it will prevent you from becoming addicted to gambling. Only we can release the pressure from our fellow gamblers and we must also have the courage to say no to them if we don't want to gamble.

Before we gamble, we must know that gambling is only for entertainment and nothing more so that we can anticipate big losses. Always sticking to those limits can hold us back from spending more money. We can also enjoy gambling as we should and don't need to blame other people even if they invite us to gamble.

We must be able to be mature by not blaming others. We know that losing is a risk that gamblers will get, so we must be able to accept it.

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Quote from: borovichok on June 27, 2023, 05:00:07 AM

Quote from: molsewid on June 26, 2023, 02:51:12 PM

Sometimes people tend to blame others because they cannot accept that it is their responsibility and it is them who got a wrong thing denial comes after losses they need to process that and deal with it. We need to be accountable in everything that we are doing because that is what we need to do , there are still gamblers who did not do this thing like me, when I lose I will accept it even it hurts and I lose again some money.

Our motivations should be entirely profit-oriented, with certain fundamental principles established by our own thoughts. We accept full responsibility for our actions, particularly when they result in gambling losses. Running away from the reality and blaming it on someone else may make us feel a little better, but it is slowly killing us, one thing I've noticed about the space, we can never run from the truth. Gambling brings more problems, and when we sign up, we know what to expect and are prepared to endure the repercussions whenever it knocks on the door.
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Your awareness of what might be the possible consequences should be considered all the time. It's a tough venue especially
for those who can't resist the call of gambling games.

Like what you mentioned, taking full responsibility in any actions that you take will keep you center everything with what would be the
possible outcome, and how you will embrace it and take it as your call and no one else should be blamed for such actions that you take.

Blaming someone is not appropriate. Before you take your step, you are aware of what can happen once you place your bet.

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Quote from: molsewid on June 26, 2023, 02:51:12 PM

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Yes, I think gamblers like to blame others. And these are of course the players and or teams that are responsible for the gamblers losing their bet. Still, there is only one person you should blame and that is the gambler himself, as he himself made the decision to bet money. If you can't stand losing once, it's better not to bet any money at all, then you can't lose in the end.

Sometimes people tend to blame others because they cannot accept that it is their responsibility and it is them who got a wrong thing denial comes after losses they need to process that and deal with it. We need to be accountable in everything that we are doing because that is what we need to do , there are still gamblers who did not do this thing like me, when I lose I will accept it even it hurts and I lose again some money.

Being a gambler must be ready to accept the consequences and take responsibility for mistakes and losses, blaming players or teams when they lose, that is a big mistake because the fault lies with the gambler. So you have to be able to accept it and correct mistakes that occur to be more careful in choosing players or teams, because sometimes unexpected events occur.
and idle gambling because in my opinion sports betting, especially football betting, is fun and betting with money ready to lose, because apart from being a job to find the best possible information, I can also enjoy the game.

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Quote from: molsewid on June 26, 2023, 02:51:12 PM

Sometimes people tend to blame others because they cannot accept that it is their responsibility and it is them who got a wrong thing denial comes after losses they need to process that and deal with it. We need to be accountable in everything that we are doing because that is what we need to do , there are still gamblers who did not do this thing like me, when I lose I will accept it even it hurts and I lose again some money.

Our motivations should be entirely profit-oriented, with certain fundamental principles established by our own thoughts. We accept full responsibility for our actions, particularly when they result in gambling losses. Running away from the reality and blaming it on someone else may make us feel a little better, but it is slowly killing us, one thing I've noticed about the space, we can never run from the truth. Gambling brings more problems, and when we sign up, we know what to expect and are prepared to endure the repercussions whenever it knocks on the door.
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Quote from: Aikidoka on June 26, 2023, 02:48:47 PM

Quote from: freedomgo on June 26, 2023, 02:32:29 PM

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Yes, I think gamblers like to blame others. And these are of course the players and or teams that are responsible for the gamblers losing their bet. Still, there is only one person you should blame and that is the gambler himself, as he himself made the decision to bet money. If you can't stand losing once, it's better not to bet any money at all, then you can't lose in the end.

Not all mate because I'm more inclined to believe that there are a lot more gamblers who takes and accepts their loss in a calm way and will not go in such ways like blaming others if they lost the bet, including the players or fighters where they bet on because that's the part of the bet. You yourself as a gambler know that even if the team you bet on got a much higher chance, it doesn't mean that they are the ones who will in the end and that's why there's a term upset.

I personally accept my losses without any problem because they are just a part of gambling and there is little you can do about them since it is mostly based on luck. I don't blame anyone not even myself because before placing any bet I consider whether or not I would regret it later. If there's no regrets then I go ahead and place the bet.

To be honest, I only bet for fun and I don't get upset when I lose a bet. Instead I prefer to reflect on what went wrong and focus on enjoying the game. I easily forget about the loss since I primarily bet on sports games and what it matters much to me is to have fun:)

Betting on sports is a very good choice as it's more reasonable and fair to me, yet I wonder how you can be betting on sports for fun when the sport is fun itself. I believe that betting on casino games is the one to be engaged with the view of being fun as you get entertained as required with your favourite games for a token.

Regardless, it's the choice of anyone to bet, they should also be able to embrace the outcome. I like to bet on sports and I bet it with a reasonable amount of money, and even at that, I get to accept the outcome as an adult. But I win more than I lose, which is an encouragement because I only bet on winning or losing.

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No, and will never do that kind of illegal stuff. I curse the site when I lose and I believe I'm not the only one doing it but never to the extent where I will blame others. It's my choice, I'm the one playing, therefore I'm the only one responsible for my losses.

Quote from: GideonGono on June 18, 2023, 06:14:56 PM

Well honestly yes there are times that I would blame others for my loss specially if the game really needs my focus and alertness, for those kind of gambling I would surely blame the one's who would distract me of course not in a harsh way sometimes I would joke about it to make them aware that I need to focus on the game.
But in reality we all know that it is just a game of luck and we played it so we don't really have the right to blame others for it.

I think, it's normal because of frustration, you can blame those who disturb you. I don't want others disturbing me when I'm playing as well. So if ever someone called me out, I'd rather stop and just continue whenever I'm free again. That's why I chose to play at night so no one will disturb me.

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Quote from: BitcoinAccepted on June 18, 2023, 04:14:14 PM

Yes, I think gamblers like to blame others. And these are of course the players and or teams that are responsible for the gamblers losing their bet. Still, there is only one person you should blame and that is the gambler himself, as he himself made the decision to bet money. If you can't stand losing once, it's better not to bet any money at all, then you can't lose in the end.

Sometimes people tend to blame others because they cannot accept that it is their responsibility and it is them who got a wrong thing denial comes after losses they need to process that and deal with it. We need to be accountable in everything that we are doing because that is what we need to do , there are still gamblers who did not do this thing like me, when I lose I will accept it even it hurts and I lose again some money.

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Quote from: freedomgo on June 26, 2023, 02:32:29 PM

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Yes, I think gamblers like to blame others. And these are of course the players and or teams that are responsible for the gamblers losing their bet. Still, there is only one person you should blame and that is the gambler himself, as he himself made the decision to bet money. If you can't stand losing once, it's better not to bet any money at all, then you can't lose in the end.

Not all mate because I'm more inclined to believe that there are a lot more gamblers who takes and accepts their loss in a calm way and will not go in such ways like blaming others if they lost the bet, including the players or fighters where they bet on because that's the part of the bet. You yourself as a gambler know that even if the team you bet on got a much higher chance, it doesn't mean that they are the ones who will in the end and that's why there's a term upset.

I personally accept my losses without any problem because they are just a part of gambling and there is little you can do about them since it is mostly based on luck. I don't blame anyone not even myself because before placing any bet I consider whether or not I would regret it later. If there's no regrets then I go ahead and place the bet.

To be honest, I only bet for fun and I don't get upset when I lose a bet. Instead I prefer to reflect on what went wrong and focus on enjoying the game. I easily forget about the loss since I primarily bet on sports games and what it matters much to me is to have fun:)

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Quote from: BitcoinAccepted on June 18, 2023, 04:14:14 PM

Yes, I think gamblers like to blame others. And these are of course the players and or teams that are responsible for the gamblers losing their bet. Still, there is only one person you should blame and that is the gambler himself, as he himself made the decision to bet money. If you can't stand losing once, it's better not to bet any money at all, then you can't lose in the end.

Not all mate because I'm more inclined to believe that there are a lot more gamblers who takes and accepts their loss in a calm way and will not go in such ways like blaming others if they lost the bet, including the players or fighters where they bet on because that's the part of the bet. You yourself as a gambler know that even if the team you bet on got a much higher chance, it doesn't mean that they are the ones who will in the end and that's why there's a term upset.

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Quote from: Josefjix on June 26, 2023, 01:55:30 PM

Quote from: michellee on June 18, 2023, 09:29:10 PM

It's normal to blame others when you lose, especially if you play with your friends. You will do it jokingly because you know that gambling is just fun. But it could be that some friends will be guilty because they invite you to play gambling.

I've been gambling for years, and already use to the whole system, the gigantic profits and huge losses. I'm not a child who blames others for my gambling losses; I'm always honest about my plan and never lie to myself. Gambling was designed for us to generate extra money from the system in our spare time. I don't expect to become addicted to gambling because it's never been my thing, and I always stick to my ideals. Despite peer pressures from tight gamblers, I try hard not to be swayed by their gambling tendencies. We accept responsibility for our setbacks.

There are really just some people who do really trying out to make excuses and would really be telling up into their minds that there's something wrong on the time that they cant win or something that we are in huge losses and this is where assumptions and being that suspicious about fairness of the site or even trying out to point fingers and blaming up someone on the time that you do make out losses.

It might really that too impossible to think off about people on having those kind of behavior which is something not really that good to have or sensible act to be done because there's no other than
you could really be blamed on but rather you should be blaming yourself on the act that you have done.
Losing in gambling is really that normal and if you've been dealing with a fair site then you would be thinking that you have lost up fairly but there are really moments that our suspicions
do really come out despite on being fair then you would really be having those kind of thoughts on some moments too.

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Quote from: michellee on June 18, 2023, 09:29:10 PM

It's normal to blame others when you lose, especially if you play with your friends. You will do it jokingly because you know that gambling is just fun. But it could be that some friends will be guilty because they invite you to play gambling.

I've been gambling for years, and already use to the whole system, the gigantic profits and huge losses. I'm not a child who blames others for my gambling losses; I'm always honest about my plan and never lie to myself. Gambling was designed for us to generate extra money from the system in our spare time. I don't expect to become addicted to gambling because it's never been my thing, and I always stick to my ideals. Despite peer pressures from tight gamblers, I try hard not to be swayed by their gambling tendencies. We accept responsibility for our setbacks.

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Quote from: Gozie51 on April 28, 2023, 07:24:46 AM

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

If you ask me they got what they deserved!!!

At first glance they want to claim a refund or chargeback after running out of luck, and I think this is quite common not only with gambling but trading too, were users blow their account and trigger a chargeback with their respective banks.

And as far as I know it's not double standard as the court as a duty to prove they got their guy beyond reasonable doubt before any conviction and this should have happened...just some poor write up by our journalists who might not have included the missing parts of the article.

Quote from: BitcoinAccepted on June 18, 2023, 04:14:14 PM

Yes, I think gamblers like to blame others. And these are of course the players and or teams that are responsible for the gamblers losing their bet.

If gambling is going to be about finger pointing in trying not to take responsibility , then gambling isnt for such a user...but there are times when the bookies dont give the correct data feed and when the user places a bet based on this its definitely not going to seat well with anyone..otherwise gambling is a game of chance and luck.

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Quote from: michellee on June 18, 2023, 09:29:10 PM

It's normal to blame others when you lose, especially if you play with your friends. You will do it jokingly because you know that gambling is just fun. But it could be that some friends will be guilty because they invite you to play gambling.

I wouldn’t say it’s normal to blame others when you lose cause it’s actually not normal.
I can understand perfectly that when playing amongst friends, we tend to jokingly blame others for our losses. We can only do this when playing amongst friends cause everyone involved would know it’s a joke and not to take it serious. But when playing and losing against people who aren’t friends, you wouldn’t go all out and blame them for your losses. Unless of course, a gun was pointed to your head and you were being forced to play.
Even though we’re invited to play a game or two and we ended up losing out, the fault is entirely ours and no one else.

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Quote from: Lorence.xD on June 18, 2023, 10:55:26 AM

Bruh I gambling with arcade where you use tokens which you can sell to fiat money if you could earn huge by winning big awards. Whenever I play alone it's like I am peacefully playing and I enjoy it which gives me the comfort and have a good decision making, since you also need to know when to shoot or cash out so you could profit a lot. But since I am playing in arcade public, there's a lot of spectators who comments a lot like they are commanding me what should I do, it distracts me and lose focus since there's too many words around me. It reaches to the point they tap me just to tell their opinion since they saw me with my tokens and trying to be friend and commands a lot just frustrating. Results to I lose my focus and my tokens going home with empty hand

Haha. I know what you mean.

When in my country you could play in land-based casinos and I often spent evenings there with a mug of beer, I also did not like the contingent that gathered there. The bulk of the gamblers going there were losers who were taking the last of their money to the casinos in the hope of changing their lives. It is clear that I did not need their advice, because they are simply useless. The attention of such people really prevents you from concentrating on the game.

Play online games, as there are no unnecessary gawkers.

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Dare to act must be brave to take responsibility, don't blame the other party when the situation is unfavorable or the term most commonly used in this kind of case, After throwing a stone hides his hand. The law still applies fairly to what they have done even though they have denied it. This mother is clearly not the best figure for her child, she has educated her child in the wrong way before her child is an adult. I will accept all risks for everything I have done, blaming other people will not solve the problem, instead new problems will arise when the person who is blamed sues with a defamation case.

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Quote from: Lorence.xD on June 18, 2023, 10:55:26 AM

Bruh I gambling with arcade where you use tokens which you can sell to fiat money if you could earn huge by winning big awards. Whenever I play alone it's like I am peacefully playing and I enjoy it which gives me the comfort and have a good decision making, since you also need to know when to shoot or cash out so you could profit a lot. But since I am playing in arcade public, there's a lot of spectators who comments a lot like they are commanding me what should I do, it distracts me and lose focus since there's too many words around me. It reaches to the point they tap me just to tell their opinion since they saw me with my tokens and trying to be friend and commands a lot just frustrating. Results to I lose my focus and my tokens going home with empty hand

Lol, you are exactly the person who blames others for their losses, and it totally sounds like public places and gambling spaces aren't for you because you panic or lose concentration pretty easily which isn't good for your game, obviously. What kind of games do you play with tokens anyway? I guess if many people and them cheering or giving suggestions distract you and you lose only because of that and not because you are unlucky, you should probably try online casinos instead.

Online gambling platforms are specifically for those people who like to gamble alone with themselves and have no one else around to distract them, they can concentrate only on their gambling so that when they lose, they don't get to blame someone else for that.

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Quote from: GideonGono on June 18, 2023, 06:14:56 PM

Well honestly yes there are times that I would blame others for my loss specially if the game really needs my focus and alertness, for those kind of gambling I would surely blame the one's who would distract me of course not in a harsh way sometimes I would joke about it to make them aware that I need to focus on the game.
But in reality we all know that it is just a game of luck and we played it so we don't really have the right to blame others for it.

Yeah, it's just luck. But we humans are great at connecting completely independent stuff when it happens at the same time.

That's basically the origin of superstition, when something bad happened after a black cat crossed in front of you, it was deemed a bad omen. Also when a beautiful girl is sitting next to you and you win, that's a lucky sign, etc.

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Quote from: LUCKMCFLY on June 18, 2023, 08:45:26 PM

Quote from: abel1337 on June 01, 2023, 12:43:48 PM

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There is a state of mind of a person when they play, first they become very positive and think that they will win all the time, the second state is that as long as they have a lot of money they will always think they are going to win big, and yes, they can at the same time become very sensitive Your senses can be sharpened and you can listen and do many things, including letting yourself be carried away by some advice from friends or something like that, but the bad thing is that when something goes wrong and if it was someone's advice, the player will remain in his head that If you had not listened to your friend, what would have happened? would i lose anyway? or would he have won? maybe he would have won, but it is a scenario that we don't know, maybe he would have lost, those things change with respect to our decisions, that's how gambling is.

The person making the wager is the one who ultimately bears the responsibility. Every decision in gambling carries its own repercussion. The influence of others on our decisions emphasizes the multifaceted nature of gambling psychology. Our choices are often a fusion of personal discernment and societal pulls. The mental states you discussed, like overconfidence or optimism, are typical among gamblers, often leading to a higher susceptibility to external forces. But, in the grand scheme, the gambler is the one who should own up to the consequences, regardless of the hand they're dealt.

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Quote from: lalabotax on June 18, 2023, 04:32:20 PM

But it is undeniable that there are certain people who have a high level of emotion. So whenever they lose, they will blame anything, blame the game, the club, the odds, themselves, other annoying people, or whatever they think caused the loss. because sometimes, people like this, who are already addicted, are unable to think more clearly and logically, so what they think is defeat, emotion, and blaming other people or whatever it is.

The main reason for this situation is that some gamblers simply cannot accept their losses. They hide their mistakes and try to impose them on others. But more problems are those who abide with those gamblers. Because if the gambler loses after giving a little advice, the relationship between the people around him can reduced greatly. Sometimes it is said that a gambler does this for his personal satisfaction. But one thing is clear that those gamblers were not able to acquire proper knowledge in gambling. He should take responsibility for his wins and losses.

When we play, no one force us to do it. Even let's say our friends are attracting us to gamble, still, it's our decision if we want to risk our money in gambling. Common problem is the high expectation that you can win huge if you gamble and much worse if you use the money that is not meant for gambling.

Thus, it's not right to blame others for what happened since it's our decision. So before playing think carefully if you are fine even you lose your money, that's likely to happen when you gamble. Be responsible in our every action because whatever happen no one coerce us to do so.

The gambler should think that, anything that makes us gamble is still not a reason to blame it for the loss we suffer, and the gambler must maturely respond to every lost, otherwise it is as an image that he is not a responsible gambler, even when we plunge into gambling because of an advertisement and without first doing research on the type of game and immediately playing and also losing then it is his own fault.
And if we blame others for the defeat we suffered, what would it be useful? Can we get back the money we lost? Of course not, so accepting a defeat well and evaluating the cause would make us much better than looking for someone else or anything to blame.

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Quote from: GigaBit on June 19, 2023, 12:49:54 AM

Quote from: lalabotax on June 18, 2023, 04:32:20 PM

But it is undeniable that there are certain people who have a high level of emotion. So whenever they lose, they will blame anything, blame the game, the club, the odds, themselves, other annoying people, or whatever they think caused the loss. because sometimes, people like this, who are already addicted, are unable to think more clearly and logically, so what they think is defeat, emotion, and blaming other people or whatever it is.

The main reason for this situation is that some gamblers simply cannot accept their losses. They hide their mistakes and try to impose them on others. But more problems are those who abide with those gamblers. Because if the gambler loses after giving a little advice, the relationship between the people around him can reduced greatly. Sometimes it is said that a gambler does this for his personal satisfaction. But one thing is clear that those gamblers were not able to acquire proper knowledge in gambling. He should take responsibility for his wins and losses.

When we play, no one force us to do it. Even let's say our friends are attracting us to gamble, still, it's our decision if we want to risk our money in gambling. Common problem is the high expectation that you can win huge if you gamble and much worse if you use the money that is not meant for gambling.

Thus, it's not right to blame others for what happened since it's our decision. So before playing think carefully if you are fine even you lose your money, that's likely to happen when you gamble. Be responsible in our every action because whatever happen no one coerce us to do so.

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