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legendary
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MAaaN...!! CUT THAT STUPID SHIT
Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.
Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

In the same manner, rectifying your mistake by committing another mistake will never get you to the right path.

Because in that way, you will still find yourself in a cycle where you cannot get out unless if you had an eye opener to see things clearly and that what you did is actually not okay. You are just thinking that it is okay because you're too accustomed with that habit but there's still some room to improve and learn from those mistakes, and while we're still breathing, we do have the chance make things better.

so as not to make another mistake it is necessary to be careful to step. The more you are alert and aware that mistakes are always made because you are careless enough, then there will be no other mistakes. Improving the situation so that it doesn't get worse would certainly be a good opportunity. Don't always blame others for the mistakes we make ourselves. Defeat in gambling is of course because we are unlucky or even too greedy with the bets that are made. no self-control and good financial management. Do gambling in a reasonable and controlled manner, then defeat will also be controlled.
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Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.
Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

In the same manner, rectifying your mistake by committing another mistake will never get you to the right path.

Because in that way, you will still find yourself in a cycle where you cannot get out unless if you had an eye opener to see things clearly and that what you did is actually not okay. You are just thinking that it is okay because you're too accustomed with that habit but there's still some room to improve and learn from those mistakes, and while we're still breathing, we do have the chance make things better.
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Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.
Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.
legendary
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You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.

Yeah, basically you need to assume that any money you gamble will be gone. That's because that's the most probable outcome, by far.

There is such a tiny probability that a gambler will win large against a casino that people tend to cling to that somehow, but mathematically it makes no sense. It's virtually zero.

In simple words, whatever game or sports you will bet into, your probability will still remain the same and that you have more chances to lose rather than winning. It's already a common knowledge to al gamblers that casino always has the upper hand against us as the bettors, and that will not change because if it will, gambling industry will start to collapse, no doubt. These advantages that are possessed by the casinos are also the main reasons why they keep on popping up in almost all places.
hero member
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You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.

Yeah, basically you need to assume that any money you gamble will be gone. That's because that's the most probable outcome, by far.

There is such a tiny probability that a gambler will win large against a casino that people tend to cling to that somehow, but mathematically it makes no sense. It's virtually zero.
legendary
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You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.
The idea that the outcome of gambling, and life at large, solely rests on an individual's shoulders. This viewpoint might be a bit too...self-centered? Sure, personal responsibility is crucial. But let's not forget the systemic factors that often tilt the scales. Economic hardship, societal pressure, misleading advertising... All these factors, invisible yet omnipresent, can push individuals towards the slippery slope of gambling.

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.
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If we contemplate on this activity, it is only ourself who is to blame on whatever it will bring to ourself.
We can't blame our friend for dragging into this, because at the end of the day, it is ourself who can decide what we do in life.
You can politely decline from your friend, if that's what you really want. They will understand if you decline their offer.
Remember, when you badly need money, it is yourself that will carry the burden of it.
But the problem is not many can contemplate this because they don't see themselves as wrong, but other people are wrong because they have made us lose money, especially in gambling. And if we keep blaming our friends for inviting us to gamble, we won't have any friends because they don't want to be blamed if things don't go how we expect. They are better off with another friend who won't blame them because the other friend is aware of the risks and consequences. While we, who already know the risks and consequences, still follow them to play gambling, in the end, we blame them. I agree that we can politely decline and say we need the money for something else, and I'm sure as good friends, they will understand why.
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You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.
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All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.
So far I have never encountered a problem like this and indeed blaming other people when I lose at gambling seems like a loser. I very often make soccer bets with my friends and sometimes even though we have our own views on which team will win and when the results don't match our respective predictions. So my friend and I could only laugh and make jokes to each other because one of us guessed the wrong bet. Cheesy

So I mean from the story that I have experienced with my friend, even though we have different opinions, we never blame each other. Especially when we blame other people it doesn't make much sense.
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Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.
Exactly. Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.
Someone can give me an invitation but as it is my responsibility to accept or reject it, I cannot in any way blame others for giving this invitation. Moreover, if someone wins at the gambling invitation, will anyone blame the inviter? Of course not. Since no one is responsible for gambling gains and losses, blaming others is nothing but ignorance. I myself take advice from others and review it and never blame them when I lose. Gambling involves luck, so blaming others can only lead to the weakening of the relationship.
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Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.
And it's better for us to refuse than later we will regret that we wasted money on gambling. This often happens because of an invitation from someone our friend, but if we can refuse it smoothly, we won't experience anything bad and just let them experience it. But if we can accept the risks in playing gambling, we can try it but only use the money we can afford so that we won't regret or be disappointed because we gambled. And the most important thing is that we don't blame the people who asked us to gamble because it is our responsibility if we accept their invitation to gamble.

If we contemplate on this activity, it is only ourself who is to blame on whatever it will bring to ourself.
We can't blame our friend for dragging into this, because at the end of the day, it is ourself who can decide what we do in life.
You can politely decline from your friend, if that's what you really want. They will understand if you decline their offer.
Remember, when you badly need money, it is yourself that will carry the burden of it.
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Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.
And it's better for us to refuse than later we will regret that we wasted money on gambling. This often happens because of an invitation from someone our friend, but if we can refuse it smoothly, we won't experience anything bad and just let them experience it. But if we can accept the risks in playing gambling, we can try it but only use the money we can afford so that we won't regret or be disappointed because we gambled. And the most important thing is that we don't blame the people who asked us to gamble because it is our responsibility if we accept their invitation to gamble.
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Taking risks is part of gambling activities; we confront numerous problems in this space, but as we expand their experience, we become more accustomed to them as if they were nothing; these are genuine truths ruling the system. We must accept responsibility for our actions, not the other way around. Every time we blame someone else for our gambling losses, we're one step closer to incurring more losses. We notice the mistakes, but we don't want to be blamed, so we continue to do the same mistake, which inevitably results in our losses.

Yeah, that's fair enough.

You're right, whenever people blame others for their "bad luck", or whatever bad happened to them, there's really no way forward because they don't have anything to change. "It was someone else's fault", so they cannot change themselves to fix the situation.

It's a bad mindset to be honest, and it doesn't provide the people the ability to change and become better.
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All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.
Taking risks is part of gambling activities; we confront numerous problems in this space, but as we expand their experience, we become more accustomed to them as if they were nothing; these are genuine truths ruling the system. We must accept responsibility for our actions, not the other way around. Every time we blame someone else for our gambling losses, we're one step closer to incurring more losses. We notice the mistakes, but we don't want to be blamed, so we continue to do the same mistake, which inevitably results in our losses.
That is the point, every what we do is our responsibility, whether it is detrimental or profitable we must accept because it is part of the risk that from the beginning should have been a commitment when going to do gambling. We can see from other people's experiences, what happened to them and what they felt that we will definitely experience if we are in the same space (when we are both gamblers). Other people win, we will definitely feel the victory even though the chances are small, other people lose in gambling and we will also be the same because something that is certain in gambling is defeat.
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All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.
Taking risks is part of gambling activities; we confront numerous problems in this space, but as we expand their experience, we become more accustomed to them as if they were nothing; these are genuine truths ruling the system. We must accept responsibility for our actions, not the other way around. Every time we blame someone else for our gambling losses, we're one step closer to incurring more losses. We notice the mistakes, but we don't want to be blamed, so we continue to do the same mistake, which inevitably results in our losses.
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Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.
Exactly. Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.
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Gambling should really be for fun and not something on making it as an income source or on making yourself that rich because if these are the things that you do really have in mind, then you would really be definitely be finding yourself into trouble later on on the time that you would be spending like a mad man or ending up on having that huge loss due to bad decisions that you are making. There's no sense on pointing out your fingers into other people and blaming into your losses because they have done nothing in the first place.It is really on your own self will on why you have make out such gambling decision and its your money then your rules to make and on the time that you do lose then there's no other one to be blame but yourself.

This is why its important that you should really gonna make use of the amount which you can afford to lose or something that you do allocate for gambling.
You say gambling should be for fun, not money. This seems smart and safe. Isn't it narrow-minded? Like the stock market, gambling is complicated by risk-return. Overspending can be disastrous. If risk management, odds, and discipline are applied, might it be a legitimate revenue source? It's okay to blame others for mistakes. One gets what one sows - good and bad. Players must accept this to gamble responsibly. Creating a gambling fund is smart. It keeps one grounded and limits harm. Let us not discount its financial benefits to those who approach it with the right mindset and effort.

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Gambling should really be for fun and not something on making it as an income source or on making yourself that rich because if these are the things that you do really have in mind, then you would really be definitely be finding yourself into trouble later on on the time that you would be spending like a mad man or ending up on having that huge loss due to bad decisions that you are making. There's no sense on pointing out your fingers into other people and blaming into your losses because they have done nothing in the first place.It is really on your own self will on why you have make out such gambling decision and its your money then your rules to make and on the time that you do lose then there's no other one to be blame but yourself.

This is why its important that you should really gonna make use of the amount which you can afford to lose or something that you do allocate for gambling.
All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.
legendary
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When we decide to gamble, we already know that we can lose money, even a large amount, especially if we can't control ourselves while gambling. And if we gamble because friends invite us, we shouldn't blame them because they only invite us and we can decide to refuse if we don't want to lose money. It is everyone's choice and others cannot force what they say. But that's what happens when we often blame others even though it's our fault because we chose it. We don't want to understand that they are only inviting and the decision to participate in gambling remains in our hands.
It is our own responsibility to control our self in gambling as well as to make good and bad decisions. It is not exceptional for a gambler friend to invite in gambling. But we should analyze that gambling issue carefully. Moreover, since our friend is not the owner of my assets, there is no obligation to rely on that policy. In gambling, some times it is said that it is better to lose with our own strategy. So we definitely consider the advice of others but should give priority to our own decision. Decisions given by others can be accepted but there is no place to blame if we lose.
If you develop financially like don't give your share to anyone it seems you can't blame anyone for your financial loss be it due to gambling or from any other sector. you have to take full responsibility for it yourself. So it is your responsibility to control yourself.  If you jump into a sector on the advice of others or see other people's development without any personal research and if you panic after seeing someone else's profit in gambling and start gambling without any personal research, then you will definitely face big losses and the responsibility is your own. you can't blame anyone for having to take it. this is only truth
Gambling should really be for fun and not something on making it as an income source or on making yourself that rich because if these are the things that you do really have in mind, then you would really be definitely be finding yourself into trouble later on on the time that you would be spending like a mad man or ending up on having that huge loss due to bad decisions that you are making. There's no sense on pointing out your fingers into other people and blaming into your losses because they have done nothing in the first place.It is really on your own self will on why you have make out such gambling decision and its your money then your rules to make and on the time that you do lose then there's no other one to be blame but yourself.

This is why its important that you should really gonna make use of the amount which you can afford to lose or something that you do allocate for gambling.
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There is a state of mind of a person when they play, first they become very positive and think that they will win all the time, the second state is that as long as they have a lot of money they will always think they are going to win big, and yes, they can at the same time become very sensitive Your senses can be sharpened and you can listen and do many things, including letting yourself be carried away by some advice from friends or something like that, but the bad thing is that when something goes wrong and if it was someone's advice, the player will remain in his head that If you had not listened to your friend, what would have happened? would i lose anyway? or would he have won? maybe he would have won, but it is a scenario that we don't know, maybe he would have lost, those things change with respect to our decisions, that's how gambling is.

The person making the wager is the one who ultimately bears the responsibility. Every decision in gambling carries its own repercussion. The influence of others on our decisions emphasizes the multifaceted nature of gambling psychology. Our choices are often a fusion of personal discernment and societal pulls. The mental states you discussed, like overconfidence or optimism, are typical among gamblers, often leading to a higher susceptibility to external forces. But, in the grand scheme, the gambler is the one who should own up to the consequences, regardless of the hand they're dealt.

It is like that, that is why I have always thought that when a person sits down to play in a casino, they are responsible for their actions, firstly because things are not as they are painted, a person who has their money and decides to risk is only responsible for that person no one else, I could receive advice or not, but he is in that person if he does what others tell him, because if they tell me to jump into a ravine, obviously I will not do it, something like that is with this, we cannot let ourselves be carried away by what what others say and also it is not very good to blame someone for a particular piece of advice, in the game we are Responsible for our Actions.

Personally, as we are here in the forum, we have a good advantage, because obviously what we do is give us feedback on this type of case in order to have more experience when playing, or at least more information, if we could have more knowledge it is Better, there are many who enter looking for strategies and ways to make money, it's understandable, but the psychological part is very important, it's the one I give the most importance to because it's from there in our minds that ideas come out to be better as players.
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