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Quote from: GigaBit on July 20, 2023, 10:31:05 AM

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Quote from: Weawant on July 19, 2023, 06:49:40 AM

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

As an adult, we also need to know money management. Most gamblers tend to not acknowledge that due to their addiction, they face money management issues. That leads to arguments within the family and then it leads to a blame game. Who is to be blamed for the problem? It is the gambler but they generally take out their frustration on someone near to them. It is easy to say that you need to control emotion but money and the urge of winning makes it hard to control.

Agreed, those who are able to make money management properly will also be able to manage their gambling properly. Some gambler loses repeatedly, there may be some change in themself. They may suffer from depression. If they loses a bet, in some causes they try to blame someone else to reduce their human stress. However, not all gamblers have this nature. But one should never blame others for one's own faults. A gambler must have knowledge about this and should control their emotion.

Foolishness and the inability of someone to accept their fault could be responsible for shifting blame when no one pushes you to gamble. The solution to gambling rightly is to gamble responsibly, and that could be done through discipline and self-determination, nothing else. Fine, one could manage their gambling portfolio, but that's just an approach to gambling rightly, but addicts often abandon all that when they are losing, not even a reasonable calculation or advice can save them at that time.

Since this is a psychological issue that triggers the emotions of the gambler, it takes a psychological approach of being disciplined from within to tackle it.

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Quote from: elevates on July 19, 2023, 07:16:43 AM

Quote from: Weawant on July 19, 2023, 06:49:40 AM

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

As an adult, we also need to know money management. Most gamblers tend to not acknowledge that due to their addiction, they face money management issues. That leads to arguments within the family and then it leads to a blame game. Who is to be blamed for the problem? It is the gambler but they generally take out their frustration on someone near to them. It is easy to say that you need to control emotion but money and the urge of winning makes it hard to control.

Agreed, those who are able to make money management properly will also be able to manage their gambling properly. Some gambler loses repeatedly, there may be some change in themself. They may suffer from depression. If they loses a bet, in some causes they try to blame someone else to reduce their human stress. However, not all gamblers have this nature. But one should never blame others for one's own faults. A gambler must have knowledge about this and should control their emotion.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on July 20, 2023, 03:17:44 AM

We have to eliminate the thought of blaming other people because it's not necessary. After all, every opportunity we get from gambling can change. After all, the gambling game cannot be predicted where it will go. We can only try it and leave the result at the end of the game, whether we will win or lose. And whatever result we get later, it has nothing to do with other people because we have decided to gamble. And even though our decisions are based on suggestions from other people, they are just suggestions and the final decision is still in our hands. We should be wiser in listening to other people's suggestions and weigh all the risks that could occur before we make a decision. If we think the suggestion has a risk, we don't need to use the suggestion either.

This is so on point.

Blaming others shouldn't be in someone's vocabulary if he really knows what exactly he is doing before he make the final decision and then the execution. No matter how enticing others offers or advices to you, you won't bulge especially if you know better. You won't let others affect your decision making because you know you can handle well given the circumstances. This is also to avoid having a bad blood with other people.

Now, if you want to take the risk and try to take others advices, then be sure to do not hold grudges the moment it won't turn out well or the way you expected it to. This is because the final say still lies on your hands. Therefore the consequences of it are also your responsibility.

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Quote from: Josefjix on July 19, 2023, 09:42:38 PM

Quote from: Altryist on July 19, 2023, 02:18:10 PM

I also have a friend with whom we can discuss some events, this applies not only to gambling, we share opinions and forecasts, but each of us understands well that the final decision remains with each of us, because in the end each of us will risk their money. I will say that it is good when you can discuss something with a person you completely trust, this can lead to the right decisions.

As strange as it may appear, gambling doesn't correspond to our intentions; the system was designed to keep us failing and recording liquidated accounts from losses. Gambling is not an easy undertaking; we suffer failure and loses when our forecast games go against our predictions, but some period, we gain massively from the system. It is apparent that we must stand up and eliminate the mindset or thought of blaming others for our gambling losses. Nobody knows what will happen in these games, so we just have a chance of gaining or losing, which I accept.

We have to eliminate the thought of blaming other people because it's not necessary. After all, every opportunity we get from gambling can change. After all, the gambling game cannot be predicted where it will go. We can only try it and leave the result at the end of the game, whether we will win or lose. And whatever result we get later, it has nothing to do with other people because we have decided to gamble. And even though our decisions are based on suggestions from other people, they are just suggestions and the final decision is still in our hands. We should be wiser in listening to other people's suggestions and weigh all the risks that could occur before we make a decision. If we think the suggestion has a risk, we don't need to use the suggestion either.

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Quote from: Josefjix on July 19, 2023, 09:42:38 PM

As strange as it may appear, gambling doesn't correspond to our intentions; the system was designed to keep us failing and recording liquidated accounts from losses. Gambling is not an easy undertaking; we suffer failure and loses when our forecast games go against our predictions, but some period, we gain massively from the system. It is apparent that we must stand up and eliminate the mindset or thought of blaming others for our gambling losses. Nobody knows what will happen in these games, so we just have a chance of gaining or losing, which I accept.

Those who like to blame other people when the results of their gambling are not as expected, show that in fact they are not ready to engage in gambling, because as you said, gambling is not only about earning but also about being prepared to lose because the opportunities for both are the same, sometimes the chances of losing are even greater.
Maybe he can use the reason why he blames other people for feeling disadvantaged in his gambling, such as for following that person's advice even though everything the gambler does, including following other people's suggestions, is his responsibility because of course when he gets a different result his reaction will also be different, and if we have friends like that it would be better not to take him to gambling because he can only accept winning and that is the stupid attitude of a gambler, and it's not a pleasant thing to be around someone like that.

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Quote from: Aikidoka on July 19, 2023, 02:30:15 PM

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Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 19, 2023, 01:20:23 PM

That's the point. No one can really predict correctly in this case so regardless of whatever predictions we make at the end of the day gambling is still gambling because it only goes back to predictions not one hundred per cent will win.
My friend knows that so in this case he is also aware that every choice he makes in the end is based on his own decision not coercion from others (in this case me and my friend).
Even if it was me and my friend who did some predictions but still the final decision is of course on my friend who made a bet so that we lose then it will only be a joke for the three of us because this is really funny.

I also have a friend with whom we can discuss some events, this applies not only to gambling, we share opinions and forecasts, but each of us understands well that the final decision remains with each of us, because in the end each of us will risk their money. I will say that it is good when you can discuss something with a person you completely trust, this can lead to the right decisions.

This is actually pretty good! When you discuss ideas with your friends, whether related to gambling or any other events as you mentioned, it can be helpful for both friends to arrive at the right choice in the end. Additionally, I believe that discussions and sharing opinions about something can help you understand things you didn't know before which in turn help you in making the right decisions.

Like you might want to advise your friend to avoid certain online casinos that have been known to experience withdrawal issues or you could offer hints, tips, and strategies for specific games to improve the chances of winning.

Yes, differences of opinion between us will be a very natural thing, but it's how we respond to it. As you said, discussing about anything is very important, especially it will make us know many things that we did not know before, and we will know what judgments are in the views of others, so that we will never impose our opinion that is the most correct about anything.

I admit that gambling does get a bad image, especially in my neighborhood. I don't want to impose justification here, but that doesn't mean that things that are considered bad, don't have positive messages or positive values in them, it depends on how we look for the positive things. Even things that are widely considered good will become something detrimental if we can't take advantage of them, don't you think?

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Quote from: Altryist on July 19, 2023, 02:18:10 PM

I also have a friend with whom we can discuss some events, this applies not only to gambling, we share opinions and forecasts, but each of us understands well that the final decision remains with each of us, because in the end each of us will risk their money. I will say that it is good when you can discuss something with a person you completely trust, this can lead to the right decisions.

As strange as it may appear, gambling doesn't correspond to our intentions; the system was designed to keep us failing and recording liquidated accounts from losses. Gambling is not an easy undertaking; we suffer failure and loses when our forecast games go against our predictions, but some period, we gain massively from the system. It is apparent that we must stand up and eliminate the mindset or thought of blaming others for our gambling losses. Nobody knows what will happen in these games, so we just have a chance of gaining or losing, which I accept.

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Quote from: Wiwo on July 19, 2023, 09:33:42 AM

The thing is that, no body has the right to blame anyone for the gambling loses this is because predictions are different from the outcome and for that, no one can make an accurate prediction of the results of a match not even the referees or players on the field have that ability because football result are mostly unpredictable and that is why a gambler will have to rely on luck to make a win at whatever point.

There are special cases where a gambler can blame someone for his losses, that is when the system glitch and the gambler failed to make and early quit to his parlay bet and end up losing his supposed to be winnings. This is rare but if this kind of unlucky event hits a gambler, I am sure the gambler will definitely blame the system and we will agree with it since it is really a system error. Though I wonder if the casino will reimburse the gambler if this kind of situation happen.

Quote from: Wiwo on July 19, 2023, 09:33:42 AM

So even though you made the selection of the teams and their scores for your friend and he bet on them and lost, it doesn't have anything to do with you in whatever ways, since for the sake of gambling all risks are to be checked personally, it means you have to bear in mind that you can either lose or win it all depending on the luck of the individual.

That should be the case but I doubt our friend will ask us what to bet again giving the situation that all our suggestions are losses. They won't blame us but I am sure they will avoid asking us about our idea on this kind of sports betting.

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Quote from: Altryist on July 19, 2023, 02:18:10 PM

Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 19, 2023, 01:20:23 PM

That's the point. No one can really predict correctly in this case so regardless of whatever predictions we make at the end of the day gambling is still gambling because it only goes back to predictions not one hundred per cent will win.
My friend knows that so in this case he is also aware that every choice he makes in the end is based on his own decision not coercion from others (in this case me and my friend).
Even if it was me and my friend who did some predictions but still the final decision is of course on my friend who made a bet so that we lose then it will only be a joke for the three of us because this is really funny.

I also have a friend with whom we can discuss some events, this applies not only to gambling, we share opinions and forecasts, but each of us understands well that the final decision remains with each of us, because in the end each of us will risk their money. I will say that it is good when you can discuss something with a person you completely trust, this can lead to the right decisions.

This is actually pretty good! When you discuss ideas with your friends, whether related to gambling or any other events as you mentioned, it can be helpful for both friends to arrive at the right choice in the end. Additionally, I believe that discussions and sharing opinions about something can help you understand things you didn't know before which in turn help you in making the right decisions.

Like you might want to advise your friend to avoid certain online casinos that have been known to experience withdrawal issues or you could offer hints, tips, and strategies for specific games to improve the chances of winning.

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Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 19, 2023, 01:20:23 PM

That's the point. No one can really predict correctly in this case so regardless of whatever predictions we make at the end of the day gambling is still gambling because it only goes back to predictions not one hundred per cent will win.
My friend knows that so in this case he is also aware that every choice he makes in the end is based on his own decision not coercion from others (in this case me and my friend).
Even if it was me and my friend who did some predictions but still the final decision is of course on my friend who made a bet so that we lose then it will only be a joke for the three of us because this is really funny.

I also have a friend with whom we can discuss some events, this applies not only to gambling, we share opinions and forecasts, but each of us understands well that the final decision remains with each of us, because in the end each of us will risk their money. I will say that it is good when you can discuss something with a person you completely trust, this can lead to the right decisions.

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Quote from: Wiwo on July 19, 2023, 09:33:42 AM

Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 19, 2023, 09:10:39 AM

Ah I have experience of this, about the soccer bet that my friend did. I forgot which teams were playing at the time but I remember he would bet on several teams playing at the same time. It wasn't just me at the time but the three of us, and he asked me and my other friend. When we were asked about one match and which team would win, at that time we had different views, I chose team A and my friend chose team B. My friend who made the bet became confused about which team he should bet on, in short he chose the team I chose, and lost. Lol
He didn't blame me for my recommendation, but it became a joke that eventually made the atmosphere full of laughter.

The thing is that, no body has the right to blame anyone for the gambling loses this is because predictions are different from the outcome and for that, no one can make an accurate prediction of the results of a match not even the referees or players on the field have that ability because football result are mostly unpredictable and that is why a gambler will have to rely on luck to make a win at whatever point.

So even though you made the selection of the teams and their scores for your friend and he bet on them and lost, it doesn't have anything to do with you in whatever ways, since for the sake of gambling all risks are to be checked personally, it means you have to bear in mind that you can either lose or win it all depending on the luck of the individual.

That's the point. No one can really predict correctly in this case so regardless of whatever predictions we make at the end of the day gambling is still gambling because it only goes back to predictions not one hundred per cent will win.
My friend knows that so in this case he is also aware that every choice he makes in the end is based on his own decision not coercion from others (in this case me and my friend).
Even if it was me and my friend who did some predictions but still the final decision is of course on my friend who made a bet so that we lose then it will only be a joke for the three of us because this is really funny.

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Quote from: Dunamisx on July 19, 2023, 09:51:51 AM

If you're truly using your money to gamble then the final conclusion and decision should come from you and not from what other people say or influenced about gambling in you, but some gamblers lack that motivation that could give them direct confidence in theirselves and they will have to always depends on others for their gambling decisions especially when among their friends while gambling together.

I have not found that to be a common problem among a few or most gamblers, unless for most newbies who are really not familiar with how the system works. because gamblers that I even know normally show some immediate eagerness to gamble and see what the final results could be. There's really no way one can gamble for an interval of eight months or more without being able to handle their own staking decision. I am not saying you are lying, @Dunamisx, just that I have not really seen more of those cases, if they really exist, then they are probably just from beginners who are still looking to get how the game really works.
I really remember when I started, how Ieven usede to ask friends if they were sure that I could win the game, but they would tell me that it's uncertain. They did assist me in making some decisions, but not now that I have been in the system for a long time and have really known how things work.

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Quote from: elevates on July 19, 2023, 07:16:43 AM

Quote from: Weawant on July 19, 2023, 06:49:40 AM

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

As an adult, we also need to know money management. Most gamblers tend to not acknowledge that due to their addiction, they face money management issues. That leads to arguments within the family and then it leads to a blame game. Who is to be blamed for the problem? It is the gambler but they generally take out their frustration on someone near to them. It is easy to say that you need to control emotion but money and the urge of winning makes it hard to control.

But when faced with a problem, most people can make their emotions rise and will solve the problem with violence or a fight. It is a common thing and happens everywhere. Indeed, it is easiest to blame others when what we do is in trouble or is wrong, but other people also don't want to be blamed, especially if it is called the cause of our defeat. They will reason that they are only giving advice and whatever decision we make, it is our responsibility. And it's true, in this case, we are wrong because we follow their advice when we can reject their advice and follow our hearts. But we don't and end up getting into trouble and blaming them instead.

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Quote from: Weawant on July 19, 2023, 06:49:40 AM

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you're truly using your money to gamble then the final conclusion and decision should come from you and not from what other people say or influenced about gambling in you, but some gamblers lack that motivation that could give them direct confidence in theirselves and they will have to always depends on others for their gambling decisions especially when among their friends while gambling together.

Quote from: Weawant on July 19, 2023, 06:49:40 AM

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

We need to development an individual discipline to help us have a better gambling experience which will be also a take on our own personal self in having fun while gambling, we must not be too involved in things we have no idea or experience about and we must learn to gamble responsibly and with adequate moderacy without any supervision on us.

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Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 06, 2023, 01:01:41 PM

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

So far I have never encountered a problem like this and indeed blaming other people when I lose at gambling seems like a loser. I very often make soccer bets with my friends and sometimes even though we have our own views on which team will win and when the results don't match our respective predictions. So my friend and I could only laugh and make jokes to each other because one of us guessed the wrong bet. Cheesy

So I mean from the story that I have experienced with my friend, even though we have different opinions, we never blame each other. Especially when we blame other people it doesn't make much sense.

Ah I have experience of this, about the soccer bet that my friend did. I forgot which teams were playing at the time but I remember he would bet on several teams playing at the same time. It wasn't just me at the time but the three of us, and he asked me and my other friend. When we were asked about one match and which team would win, at that time we had different views, I chose team A and my friend chose team B. My friend who made the bet became confused about which team he should bet on, in short he chose the team I chose, and lost. Lol
He didn't blame me for my recommendation, but it became a joke that eventually made the atmosphere full of laughter.

The thing is that, no body has the right to blame anyone for the gambling loses this is because predictions are different from the outcome and for that, no one can make an accurate prediction of the results of a match not even the referees or players on the field have that ability because football result are mostly unpredictable and that is why a gambler will have to rely on luck to make a win at whatever point.

So even though you made the selection of the teams and their scores for your friend and he bet on them and lost, it doesn't have anything to do with you in whatever ways, since for the sake of gambling all risks are to be checked personally, it means you have to bear in mind that you can either lose or win it all depending on the luck of the individual.

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Quote from: rendravolt on July 09, 2023, 08:51:31 AM

Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 06, 2023, 01:01:41 PM

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

So far I have never encountered a problem like this and indeed blaming other people when I lose at gambling seems like a loser. I very often make soccer bets with my friends and sometimes even though we have our own views on which team will win and when the results don't match our respective predictions. So my friend and I could only laugh and make jokes to each other because one of us guessed the wrong bet. Cheesy

So I mean from the story that I have experienced with my friend, even though we have different opinions, we never blame each other. Especially when we blame other people it doesn't make much sense.

Ah I have experience of this, about the soccer bet that my friend did. I forgot which teams were playing at the time but I remember he would bet on several teams playing at the same time. It wasn't just me at the time but the three of us, and he asked me and my other friend. When we were asked about one match and which team would win, at that time we had different views, I chose team A and my friend chose team B. My friend who made the bet became confused about which team he should bet on, in short he chose the team I chose, and lost. Lol
He didn't blame me for my recommendation, but it became a joke that eventually made the atmosphere full of laughter.

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Quote from: Weawant on July 19, 2023, 06:49:40 AM

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

As an adult, we also need to know money management. Most gamblers tend to not acknowledge that due to their addiction, they face money management issues. That leads to arguments within the family and then it leads to a blame game. Who is to be blamed for the problem? It is the gambler but they generally take out their frustration on someone near to them. It is easy to say that you need to control emotion but money and the urge of winning makes it hard to control.

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Quote from: klidex on July 17, 2023, 02:55:00 PM

Actually, I understand this problem and it usually occurs when you are emotional, losing at gambling and speaking harshly to other people to vent your emotions.
But a trait like that is like a child who can't control his emotions for some reason and I think mature thinking is needed by a gambler.
Blaming others and saying harsh words is a deviant act.

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

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Quote from: slapper on July 10, 2023, 10:50:55 AM

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

In the same manner, rectifying your mistake by committing another mistake will never get you to the right path.

Because in that way, you will still find yourself in a cycle where you cannot get out unless if you had an eye opener to see things clearly and that what you did is actually not okay. You are just thinking that it is okay because you're too accustomed with that habit but there's still some room to improve and learn from those mistakes, and while we're still breathing, we do have the chance make things better.

It's on you and how you take the responsibility. You are right in terms of pointing fingers and when the truth came out, you won't
be able to deny the things that you've done.

Better to accept and face your mistake instead of blaming someone else to escape from the messed you have done, it will not add more
burden to you when you are ready to accept and face the consequences.

You need time to assess and reflect everything to find that willingness to change up and not to make that same mistake again.

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Quote from: Plaguedeath on July 17, 2023, 09:38:14 AM

Quote from: slapper on July 10, 2023, 10:50:55 AM

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

Actually, I understand this problem and it usually occurs when you are emotional, losing at gambling and speaking harshly to other people to vent your emotions.
But a trait like that is like a child who can't control his emotions for some reason and I think mature thinking is needed by a gambler.
Blaming others and saying harsh words is a deviant act.

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