but my neighbors and some of my family members treat gambling as oppose to what i do . they play because they want to win badly . i feel so bad about it but i dont confront them because i dont want to hurt their feelings .
I guess the neighbors and relatives of yours got no jobs or a more decent means of earning money? I might be wrong but it's true that unemployment is one of the causes of gambling addiction.
Well, it's up to you if you will confront them or not but for me it's much better if you tell them what you noticed. Choose to tell the hurtful truth than tolerating their bad deeds. They need serious help and your simple advice already means a lot.
If I were her, I will tell the bad things because I really love them and I don't want to lose them. No matter if it will hurt them and makes them don't want to know me more, I don't care. As long as I can try to remind them and if necessary, I will help them to leave gambling because I don't want to see they become addicting.
It is fun both ways, not only when you are winning but also when you are losing.
Are you having fun even when losing? I can't understand why.
Maybe it's because she could still play in many times she wants while she still has money. But I hope she will know that sometimes, we need to quit the game as soon as possible especially if we don't make any winning.